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 Author Thread: Please review my profile changes
 Lifey4sum
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Please review my profile changes
Posted: 3/30/2009 8:45:08 PM
Thanks for the input. On the pictures, I'm the photographer and mirror pics don't look so great either.
 Lifey4sum
Joined: 6/3/2008
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Please review my profile changes
Posted: 3/29/2009 1:52:11 PM
I've added to my profile under the cancer marker for my step-father who passed away from lung cancer. A profile is not suppose to be a college term paper written for a professor/doctorate. If I'm correct in saying my thoughts as I would share with anyone and everyone, please tell me so and address why no responses come of their own.
 Lifey4sum
Joined: 6/3/2008
Msg: 232 (view)
 
Online Dating Guide for Men: Part Deux
Posted: 3/21/2009 8:28:18 AM
I remember the adage "Be honest and practice what you preach." There is no gender implied. Over this site or any site, all we have is words. Good ol' Woody have 'Prefer not to say' in his profile meaning something changed. It is a good thing to write objectively in a critique of a person or persons like a technical writer, but that premise of precision does not work when it comes to the humanity of people. We are changing in subtle ways of every day, and "denial is the most predictable" (Matrix: Reloaded) action/reaction.

From me to the reader, I present the question "Are you a serial monogamist or not?" If we were truly content with being alone, "independent", or whatever word you choose, there would be no dating sites to be had because no one would be using them. There are many aspects of loneliness that is harmful and damaging be it spiritual or physical. With that said, look at the matters of cancer. So many variations, cancer is a "withering disease", an atrophy of some part or organ of the body from lack or absence of use. A number of them can be tied to not being in a caring relationship, whether intellectual, physical, or sexual. However, each must choose for themselves from those who express an interest or not.

You have all prior to this message commented on the given 'suggestions', but never appearing to have considered the opening adage as to whether it is being honest to yourself first then expressing yourself honestly to all that may be interested, or telling those you wish interest from what they want to hear. For me, I have my own personal goals and as such, express an interest in a woman as I choose because my goals are a private matter being shared at a later time. Until she sees my profile to decide if she can accept me as I am now, what I want to know is in the message which I sent. Choosing not to answer my message for my message and ask her questions stemming from seeing my profile is her choice and mistake not to do so. (Failure of WYSIWYG mentalities) For which, I do not reply unless their reply is an insult or other derogatory response. Presuming as adults that we do not subscribe to the claim, "Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by the age of eighteen," I think as much thought given to the message should be given in the response in the perspective "Could and would I enjoy that with him," and reply accordingly to see what their intention was.

I part reminding, "Life is short" because it takes but a single accident, and the person you are is no more be it death or not.
 Lifey4sum
Joined: 6/3/2008
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Altamonte Springs 11/7 - Ale House Happy Hour
Posted: 11/3/2008 2:46:35 PM
Well, I'm 50/50 for this Friday, but barring problems, I'll be by to chitchat and snack a bit. Ciao
 
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