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 Author Thread: Does My Profile Say... 'LOOK but Don't Touch'??
 theysawred
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
Does My Profile Say... 'LOOK but Don't Touch'??
Posted: 6/30/2009 6:44:41 AM
His profile pictures make me as a woman suspicious. He takes the same photo and re-crops it and labels it 'brand new.' Perhaps it is, but doesn't feel right. The profile itself is on the ambiguous side. If he wants women to beat down his cyber-door, he needs to put a little more effort into it. I wouldn't even respond to an email from this guy.
 theysawred
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 159 (view)
 
Yet another damn reason why i hate dating
Posted: 12/6/2008 8:17:50 AM
LMAO... well, now you know you don't want to be friends with her either!
 theysawred
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Text and the Single Girl
Posted: 12/6/2008 8:02:12 AM
Alright guys, what are the rules on texting and emailing? In the 50s, this wasn't an issue for obvious reasons. Phone calls weren't even a big issue because they paid for local calls.
Nowadays, we have a huge treasure trove of communication tools at our fingertips, making it easy to convey our feelings to others within milliseconds. NOT always a good thing for those who have a tough time controlling their mouths (or in this case, electronic telepathy)

So what do some of the men here suggest about the following:
1. No matter how 'into you' the guy seems, and how often he responds or the fact that he initiated contact, how much texting or emailing should the female do in a given day before ending an ongoing conversation/banter/flirtation? (should we let him cut us off, or should we snip the thread ourselves?)

2. What really is the rule for dating intervals? You see a guy on Monday - what day is he really supposed to be calling you on to set it up again, and should the woman at any time, text or email him to inquire about this (only when he's already established that yes, he WILL be coming to visit again, etc)

3. What would you say is appropriate texting banter for those just starting out of the dating gate?

4. And last but not least, what kind of texting, emailing behavior makes the WOMAN appear desperate or aggressive?

I do know the answers to most. I'm a little guilty of some of the behaviors in a few of my past experiences, but I've been cured of most of them I'm simply curious what the guys are thinking
 theysawred
Joined: 6/4/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
This girl is confusing me..should I pursue it or ??
Posted: 12/6/2008 7:13:36 AM
I wish my dates bought all of my friends drinks. They'd be running me over in the parking lot and climbing over my dead body to get to a guy that generous

I know it's been said about 87 times on here now, but I know from experience, the more a guy texts/emails/ calls....the more desperate he appears and it does scare us. If she's not reciprocating at the same level, then either she's not into you enough, she has someone else she's developing on the side, or you've plum scared her. The dead uncle and happy Myspace blogs suggest a a fabrication to avoid hurting your feelings or....a desire to string it along as she develops other things that may not pan out. Best to let it go and find someone who is excited to be in your company and texts YOU so much you want to blow up your phone
 
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