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apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Patch up your UXtheme.dll file Posted: 12/10/2006 11:25:31 PM
Here is one for those Vista themers who don't want Vista! Download: Vista Transformation Pack 5.0 http://www.jcxp.net/forums/index.php?showtopic=9580

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Getting lied to....You've been there. Posted: 8/4/2006 9:17:37 PM
Every get that gut feeling that you've been a fool and are being taken for a ride and you're being lied to because of the way a person acts and says things? Is that just paranioa? I keep having this sinking feeling in your gut that no matter what I do to convince myself otherwise because of the actions of someone I will not name, that I'm being completely lied to and I just do not like it. Is it that once bitten twice shy thingy? Maybe I'm just being paraniod.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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uninstalling programs Posted: 8/2/2006 8:35:43 PM
Browser has been hijacked - Spyware/Adware still remains

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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uninstalling programs Posted: 8/1/2006 7:59:23 PM
It wont allow you to because (a) it wants to you be connected to the net and (b) it has spyware software in it. The best way to remove it is to have a program (clean) the program from your system. Use a spyware scanner a good one (like Trends' online scanner) to remove all the nasty crap that was placed on your system.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Piracy vs Privacy Posted: 7/31/2006 9:21:12 PM
Why is it ok to use a radio and tape to record and play music in the privacy of your own home, but it's not ok to use a computer and a blank dvd to watch or record a movie? What's the difference? The difference, as defined by law, is distribution. It's really that simple. If you download it from another source, you're distrbuting it. If you upload it to someone, you're distrbuting it. This could be confusing for people in regards to applications/games since they are freely (demos) available on the internet to download. If you are confused about this issue, than you should grasp the difference between Retail vs Demo products. It's perfectly legal to record TV shows, and they even have Digital cable box recorders for that, because you're aren't going to distribute the material. Once the material is distributed to someone else, you're comitting the illegal act. If you record TV, Music, Movies, anything basically copywritten, and distribute it, you are commiting piracy/ Whether or not you sell for profit and we all have the NET Act that Bill CLinton signed into law in 1995 to thank for that... BTW, it was kind of ironic that Maven put that in their release. ::

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Dumped by email ! Posted: 6/11/2006 12:16:48 PM
Yes, dumping by email is bad, even worse dumping by MSN... but to be dumped without a word.. that is the worst.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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What to do... Posted: 6/10/2006 12:40:56 PM
RE: paulymac Yup, it certainly does suck at that. Kind of taints future relationships. If you knew this person, because she used to be on these forums as a kind hearted, loving, and caring person - which a lot of people knew her as you would never have guessed she would have done _anything_ like this. Good thing I don't have to move to Saskatchewan now....

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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What to do... Posted: 6/10/2006 12:08:20 PM
A few months ago I met a fantastic person on here. We started out as friends. It started to progress into a mutual attraction. We confided everything in each other and when one of us had fallen and needed some help the other was there to help them pick up the pieces. She expressed her feelings were the same as mine. The only downfall was the distance between us. We were equals in every sense that mattered, but we were not in complete agreement on a lot of issues. I doubt many people are. We talked almost nightly - either online or via landline for hours upon hours.. A few weeks ago I was informed that she was going camping with her parents and would be gone for about a week. I thought nothing of it and couldn't wait for her to return. My every waking second, and even some dreams, were of nothing but her. Two weeks go by and nothing, no word, no email, no phone calls. - I begin to get worried, so I call to see if she is alright. Nothing but the answering machine. Now, Three weeks go by and nothing - so I place another call, wondering if she has fallen again. I get nothing but the answering machine, and once again I leave I message. Four weeks go by and still nothing...... Puzzled, and fearing something awful, I check my MSN privacy settings and notice that she has deleted me from _her_ contact list without even as so much as a whisper. So, folks, how would you handle this type of situation?

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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adaware Posted: 4/19/2006 3:27:46 PM
i did'nt try to run it in safe mode Your problem appears to be conflicts with the software. While adaware is good - it is far from the best in removing spyware. I would personally suggest you download Windows Defender from Microsoft _and_ in conjuction with Windows defender (previously known as MS Antispyware) use Trend Micro's Online free scanner to remove any spyware that is hard to get off.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Instant Communicator Posted: 4/19/2006 3:25:08 PM
My instant communicator doesn't work! The window doesn't even appear, just goes to more profiles on a different page. Any ideas? You could be having problems with your broswer not allowing the popup. Could you give a little more specs for any others to help you out?

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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how do I play avi files? Posted: 4/19/2006 12:07:16 PM
cant play avi's on media player. You're simply missing the codec required to play them. I suggest dumping WMP and using another which will place all your music and movie files called VLC Media player. www.videolan.org/vlc

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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1 printer and 2 pc's Posted: 4/19/2006 12:04:47 PM
yep the host is on share in properties..the other doesnt see the printer..hmmmm Check to see the two computers are using the same Networking name. REF: My Network Places/Microsoft Windows Network/ Both should be "MS HOME" / or "Workgroup" If they are not.. they wont see each other.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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How to run 2 computers from 1 cable modem? Posted: 4/18/2006 11:04:24 PM
It's a better idea to buy a router to run a private network and share internet. While a crossover cable is good for networking it does not give you the advantages a router does. Even today the prices of routers are cheap and buying a wireless router is an excellent option. Be sure to check your Cable policies about sharing connections.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Computer issue...HELP! Posted: 4/17/2006 9:27:10 AM
@op information sent to your inbox as requested. I had the same problems installed drivers (video) from Microsofts update site. It's a conflict issue with the downloadable drivers from Windows Update site which Nvidea has fixed.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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can anyone give me a step, by step guide, to making copies of my dvd's ? Posted: 4/16/2006 12:10:54 AM
@op If you want step by step instructions the best method is to go to a place which gives step by step instructions. Thus far you have heard from a lot of people suggesting programs to use.. and while I don't disagree with the programs they have suggested _no one_ has given you information on step by step instructions. Hit up Google and type in 'DVDHELP' it should display a link to the website with the exact same name. VideoHelp is also a good site to use.. it has everything you're going to need. Cya!

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Have you ever been 'Date-casted'? Posted: 3/31/2006 2:39:00 PM
Get it a lot, why do you think that is? If I knew.. I would be doing something to break it ... hence my question

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Have you ever been 'Date-casted'? Posted: 3/31/2006 2:30:10 PM
I dunno if this is a new word..but this is what I refer to as being stuck in the same 'Date' mold. Perhaps date is not even the correct word and maybe someone can help me find the correct word. Similar to type-casting with actors.. you can't ever seen them playing anything but a certain role. Love interests... You get the same interests from people but you're inable to break into new territory. ..So have you ever felt yourself having the same type of person, no matter what you've tried to do to keep from getting the 'casting', you don't want to be dating messaging you?

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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What A Ride! Posted: 3/9/2006 12:11:09 PM
I will most likely be back, but it's break time for now. Hurry back to the forums.. your input will be missed. ... as for me.. I'll just reach out and touch ya.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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smart v stupid...make or break a date? Posted: 3/5/2006 6:57:45 PM
@Op I think everyone views intelligence in various ways. I doubt you're both going to be discussing quantum physics, or biochemistry over a date...but you'll both want to be able to talk & relate to topics that will keep each other interested. I heard an interview today with the singer "Pink" as she dicussed her current husband to be. She admitted that she is great in English and he is great in Math... so they make a great match for each other. I think that's what we all should look for in a person. Someone who can in some respects, complete us, a person who offsets our own self. I'm not a woman so I can't answer your second question.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Could you love without a shred of doubt. Posted: 3/4/2006 7:15:43 PM
@JohnsonTm Yeah, I understand what you're saying.... which is why I asked the question. Most of us here have been in one relationship that has gone wrong... which of course makes us guarded. BTW, love your pus[s]y...(I mean that in a nice way)

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Could you love without a shred of doubt. Posted: 3/4/2006 7:13:49 PM
@fr_david Would you ever have doubt ..say like (a) You weren't good enough? (mentally, intellectually, physically) (b) You didn't measure up? (to some image the other person has in their head) (c) Someone better might come along to sweep her/him off her feet? (c) The lust you feel wont last?

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Could you love without a shred of doubt. Posted: 3/4/2006 7:00:58 PM
I was thinking today about how skeptical we all have become in dating, and relationships.. and I bugged me. Doubt.. it's all around us in every thing we do. The question isn't "Do you think it is possible to love without any doubt" The question is: "Can you (as in the person reading this) love without any doubt"

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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new component advice... Posted: 3/1/2006 2:04:18 PM
@OP First you have to look at this from a cost point-of-view. Is it worth upgrading with all these new components if you can purchase a newer computer with these components intact. Secondly, most new games you can play with just 512 of DDR ram and they work really well but you require a graphics card with pixel Shader 2.0+. So something like a nVIDIA Geforce 6600GT AGP 8X 128MB GDDR3 400 MHz will suffice and keep you gaming for a while. Also you're going to need a good enough speed on your hard drive , which I haven't seen even mentioned. A fast hard drive is just as important as enough Ram. The nVIDIA Geforce 6600GT will run you around 200.00 US.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Irony... Posted: 2/28/2006 8:40:57 PM
Is this not a look at me thread, hmmmmmmm. Actually the question is, have you ever had one of those where, similar to a song "Met the man of your dreams and then meet his beautiful wife"... I hope that explains it better

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Irony... Posted: 2/28/2006 8:36:12 PM
Did you ever have a situation where you had put you heart out there and it was accepted by another...and a killer twist cancelled it? Let me try to explain this. I was feeling pretty crappy about my dating situtation and where my life was going in general when I joined this site. I felt like all I was ever meeting were people I didn't want to be with. I felt like my life was going no where. I wanted to stop doing the same thing and I wanted to have a family. Now, I am not very religious..in fact I've lost my faith in my own God.. but one day while contemplating death (because really, I was seriously depressed and I was thinking of ways I could just end it all but was worried about my family) I looked up out into the sky and asked for some help while driving. Anything.. something that would make me see there is hope. In my eyes I was sent an angel. She is sweet, understanding, a real "deer"... She is great. She is kind, helpful, sweet (said that twice), caring and to top it off she is as bright (intellect) as million suns. Oh and she is pretty damn good looking also. Yet God (fate, higher-power, whatever you believe) is not without a sense of humor. While I believe this person is my complete match (and I think she feels the same) she lives a great distance away and is dating someone else. Ever have one of these types of things?

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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meeting someone for hooking-up(diff. than otr thread) Posted: 2/28/2006 7:47:52 PM
@OP I have.. but I didn't meet her on this site. She was also 10 years older then I. While hooking up worked out and we had sex a few times..problems arose. She began to have feelings and wanted to start dating even tho we talked before hand that this was going to be purely sexual and no relationship. While I don't condem it.. I haven't seen one that didn't end in failure.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Holding your head high while having a good sex life Posted: 2/28/2006 6:21:33 PM
@OP Actually I believe he feels it demoralizes him. In this way, that may be his belief that this has happened to him from the norm which he believes is socially acceptable and ethical, and yours (as I read it) seems to not be the same. So it's differing values. No, I don't think he is "hung up". What you may think is healthy for him he may find it to be gross. Each of us has differing opinions of what we think.. ...to force our values on another because we think it is the right is wrong. As we must accept his and your opinion of this life-style. We don't have to like it and we don't have to dislike it... but we have to learn to accept it. You have to learn to accept that he may not like it. he has to learn to accept that you may think he is a prude... Acceptance is the key to learning to live with each other.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Girlfriends names.... lol Posted: 2/27/2006 8:06:09 PM
@OP Here are a few I've learned in my travels. Wendy - Likes to give oral sex. Shelly - Likes sex on the beach.

apostle

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Older women are like fine wine... Posted: 2/27/2006 7:54:13 PM
Thems fighting words LOL Not another old lady who wants to take on a scrapper (smiles) No doubt women are very highly intelligent, this I do not doubt... I even know some on my MSN list, and some who have emailed me here, who without any doubt can run circles around a lot of the men I've met, gone to school with, and the boyz on this site including me. ..... they always say so very little and it means so very much. Than again.. there are some women.. who say alot and mean nothing. Some women who value their own ego and pride over what a person would classify as intelligence. Just to hear the sound of the voice.. You're very insightful... you're one of dem good ones me thinks! Cheers!

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Older women are like fine wine... Posted: 2/27/2006 7:07:21 PM
@ apostle just a "quote" I found online... Some men are like a fine wine too They start out like grapes, and it's our job to stomp on them and keep them in the dark until they mature into something you'd like to have dinner with. Hey thanks.._Strutter_. Here are some I found... Women Are Like ...the stock market They're irrational and can bankrupt you if you're not careful. ...computers They take too long to warm up and a better model always comes along once you've already got one. ...Saran Wrap Useful but clingy. ...horses Fun to pet and ride but a pain to feed and clean up after. ...parking meters If you don't feed them with enough money you face serious consequences. ...fax machines Useful for one very specific purpose but otherwise just high-maintenance paperweights. ...political campaign contributors If you let them talk about themselves long enough you wind up in bed with them. ...refrigerators They're always cold and never seem to have a beer when you need one. ...blue jeans They look good for a while but eventually they fade and have to be replaced. ...country western songs They're annoying, they all sound alike, but if you really listen to them you'll get depressed and drink a lot. but my favorite... Why are women like snow flakes?? They are all beautiful. They are all different. They can all be cold as ice. But they'll all melt when they land on your face......

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Just cuz i loved once, doesnt mean ill never love again, does it? Posted: 2/27/2006 7:02:42 PM
@OP There is a story around somewhere about exactly what you're referring to. It deals with our "one true love"... and the ability to love many. Let me quote you a bit of the text on the subject.... Pure love happens to some people many times, to others only once, and to still others not at all. The ability to experience pure love depends upon the strength of your idealism. You are more likely to feel it if you are a fourteen year-old girl who believes in fairies, and less likely if you are a forty year-old investment banker who rejoices when the Federal Reserve lowers interest rates. However, no matter how old you are, you can experience pure love if you suspend your adult feelings for a while and allow yourself to be completely vulnerable. So to answer your question.. No, it does not mean you'll never love again. and to end this reply.. a famous quote. "You know you are in love when the only person who can make you stop crying is the one who made you cry in the first place." -Anonymous

apostle

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Older women are like fine wine... Posted: 2/27/2006 6:10:51 PM
@OP Oh I so agree with you.... I have met some nice 40 year olds.. even had the pleasure of a 52 year old who was not only gracious but sweet as candy... then you meet the most vile and disgusting ones. Arrogant, pompous windbags who are so high on themselves that's all they can see the tip of their noses. Thank goodness the nice ones outnumber the yucky ones..

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Unattractive professions... Posted: 2/27/2006 5:53:03 PM
@op When I was married, my wife's cousin worked in a funeral home. She was the hottiest thing...and men would hit on her at funeral's. Go figure.. they never saw anything wrong with her job. While you job may be creepy to some.. certainly shouldn't be a factor. BTW, I think being a porno actor might be the worst job for a dating guy.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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how far would you go? Posted: 2/27/2006 5:17:24 PM
@OP Anything that doesn't involve pain... is ok with me.

apostle

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Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 4:54:28 PM
People who are in love should see each other all the time. A week is like an eternity if your not with that special someone. If I found someone as special as you dide Apotle I would want to see them every day because I love them Thanks sweetandshy69. I don't know if we are in love but we certainly like each other ... and both wanted to spend more time together. I don't know why people have a hard time understanding this stuff.. but you got it on the first try. Thanks for your reply.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 4:46:05 PM
omg...pot calling the kettle black -- every single insult you have thrown out there needs to be thrown right back at you....because they ALL apply to you! Sorry, Jenn.. but I'm not like you and your other fellows prolly got tired of you acting like you are 12.... Is that what you're acting like now, Jenn? Sure looks like it.. Good luck on here bud!! Thanks.. but as I live and breathe it "those that matter wont mind and those who mind don't matter".... You are going to need it!! I've had numerous emails from people thanking me for not bowing to you and your other childish antics. Some even my idealogy of not tolerating your "my playground" mentality...So I don't believe I will. Anyone who thinks like you.. is not worth my time.. but like I said jenn, at least you have some look.. but don't worry .. those will fade and then what will you be left with. No need to respond, I am done talking to a complusive liar Yet you failed to show where I lied.. just easier to make a false claim and not back it up, huh. Easier to run away with your tail tucked then to actually have to answer for your libelous claims. You lying cowards are all the same. You make a mistake and refuse to admit you've done it. Figures.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 4:34:06 PM
Apostle, how old is your girlfriend? We aren't dating anymore.. we are just friends. She is 24.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 4:33:08 PM
GET OVER IT and GROW THE FUKK UP!! How do I know she'll make up a life.. because like you.. she also seems to have troubles reading so she also makes up stuff as she goes along. I don't find it surprising the least bit that you haven't admitted your mistake yet.. however you insist I am lying because in one post I said that she was not working and in another commenting on a few weeks ago.. she was working. Why don't you follow your own advice. I know it's hard for a hypocrite.. but try.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 4:25:35 PM
Let me get this straight. You're complaining that you don't see her enough and yet you chose to spend the time she was over on the computer..on POF..typing in a forum where you were airing your problems about her, and flaming other members with opinions that were different than what you wanted to hear,.... instead of logging off and spending quality time with the person you're complaining to all of us doesn't spend enough time with you!! Either your priorities are totally messed up, or you're so addicted to the story lines you create on here and the feedback they bring! Since you so intent on begging for my attention.. you'll gain some right now. Pay attention cause this might go fast for you. She lives 20 minutes away... I work and she does not (anymore). I typically get home from work after 5 pm. Which means during the week I don't get to spend very much time with her because she isn't permitted (living with her mother) to be out with her son. Her mother doesn't want to babysit and since she only volunteered she doesn't have the money for a babysitter. Now.. She was in today to have her taxes done... which I didn't know about until she called me. Yes, she was here today.. she dropped off money, which I thought I had stated to another member, tobuy her smokes... If I hadn't, sorry.. No, she didn't come in and stay awhile.. and yes while I was typing to another member when she dropped by and we talked outside.. She had her mothers car.. so her time is limited. Airing my problems about her? That';s what these forums are for, remember? To talk about your dating, sex and relationships. To ask peoples opinions without having to defend yourself against know-it-all never-weres. I'm sure a lot of people would like you to just drop it. I'm sure they would like me to just drop it. I'm sure theyw ould like this to go to email where you can chew me out all you want.. but you're incapable of doing that because you're an attention queen. Have you ever managed to get a single thing right in any response you have made to me? The answer is no. You've managed to rant and rave like a spoiled little girl with too much time on her hands. .. looking back you seem to believe you're the know-it-all and anyone else who disagrees with your fantasy world you've created is simply lying. Newflash.. ya aint reality.. so get off your medications and snap out of it. I find it even more ironic.. as you sit here and condem me for posting nasty comments that you, yourself, have been and continue to do as you post hate-filled messages. It seems to be a double-standard with you people. it's perfectly alright for you to hurl flames and insults at people but they better not say anything or you go crying to an admin trying to netkkkop that person. I can hear the sound of the hypocrisy meters around the world shattering as you make your long-winded off the mark speechs. You're so full of yourself and your own bullcrap you even blelieve the spew you do on a dialy basis. This portion you should try and read.. put on your bi-focals if you need to, granny. My entire complaint was I was not spending enough time with her. I remarked about the sexual aspect, as I told another member, as a reference that you would think that since we aren't seeing one another that there would be more. Understand it? Most likely not.. but I tried. Really.. has you been following along or just blindly picking and choosing what you're going to read based on if the flame is good enough? No,i'm curious..... Try shutting off the computer or throwing it out the window next time. That would have worked today, along with saving POF space for those who are looking for real advice! I'm sure a lot of members who posted here would have been much happier not posting replies to defend themselves to your disrespectful comments too. So you see, everyone would have been happier and benefited had you stayed off the computer today! This coming from the person doing exactly what you're telling me not to do? Do you hear it.. do you hear it? Wasn't it you who commented that I just was not worth it? You must have "Pot->Kettle->Black" tattoed on your forehead. Here you are.. once again flaming me with another rant of yours.. I'm wagering you are so full of yourself that you just like to see yourself up on the pretty screen, right? BTW, I'm sorry that I don't spend countless hours on here making friends.. I have a thing called life that takes up my time not an escape into a world where you seem to think you're the queen of the forums. Perhaps if I devoted all my waking hours to kissing peoples butts.. I could possibly be as popular as you seem to think you are.. or maybe if I was just a woman who flirted with guys.. they would all add me to their favorites list like you do.. who knows. Have a nice life.. I know you'll make one up if you have to.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 3:10:48 PM
Be grateful you're getting any sex at all. I have no problems getting sex. Which is exactly why i put in my profile I'm not looking for a sex partner to keep those kind of people away. Thanks for your post, really insightful.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 3:08:41 PM
FYI -- same thread...same day....very interesting how she quit her job in a matter of an hour? I can't believe you could be like this.. I want to say "stupid" but I am trying my hardest to be kind to you. Really, lets go through this as slowly as we can for you so you might perhaps get a clue. Msg: 10 "since she does not work" In that same post did I say she was working? Answer, No. Msg: 22 "A few weeks ago, I made a thread about this very girl I was seeing messenging me while she was at work because she was bored." I don't know how exactly you got in a few hours she quit her job.. but I think you really need to pay more attention to what you're reading...... It tells people that you can't possibly concieve of any person quiting their job in a four week span. Must be all the free time you have, huh? I haven't told a single.. itty..bitty.. little lie. Not one! You failed to understand the words you're reading.. as proven by my evidence provided. You have distorted the facts and made your assumtions based on those incorrect facts. You have the problem...it's called reading comprehension... deal with it. Actually.. the "read here" applied to even people _who_ did not agree with me but really now .. you certainly wont let a little thing like the truth get in the way of trying to flame.. would you. Next time.. really.. try to be accurate if you're going to try and hurl flames at me.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

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Vibrating Condom Ring Posted: 2/27/2006 2:30:48 PM
I am just copying my post about those vibrating rings, from your other thread i posted on apostle. you know the one, to buy or not to buy a dildo. and by the way you never came back and told us if you bought one or not. now about this vibrating cck ring. dont know if i have seen the exact one your talking about, but i have seen similar variations of it. im sure it is good for the guy, lol, but unless his dck stays in all the time[and he doesnt pump in and out] so the vibe can rest on the clit. its not going to be very effective. so is this codom ring, like a c*ck ring? Truly sorry, Becky. As soon as a thread goes past a few numbers (as in older) I don't even bother reading the thread anymore. Did I buy one for her.. no I did not. The place was closed and I wanted her to pick it out with me. Not me just pick out something I think she would like. The one I have is actually a condom with a virbrator at the bottem (or that's what it looks likeon the package I haven't opened it). I don't know if it is like any others but I htink that's what the purpose of it is for. So the woman can sit or have the fully inserted penis inside while he works. Something similar to a frech tickler, No?

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 75 (view)

Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 2:16:54 PM
Have you asked her if she is worth still dating? Actually I told her directly that if she was living closer I would like to try again but this one night a week isn't working for me.. she not only understood but was feeling the same way. She gave me money to purchase her smokes at the reserve tomorrow and we're remaining friends. She was at my place today, while I was typing this to you earlier because she had her taxes done in town.... We both agreed if something changes that we can spend more time with each other again we would both like to start again. She is a very nice girl and beside that text'ing me cause she was bored there is nothing about her I dislike.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 72 (view)

Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 2:07:02 PM
Don't want others opinions, don't ask. Why would I be trying to draw the attention away... that would imply that I somehow made the mistake when it was _you_ who in fact made the mistake in reading and interpreting. Come on now... Go back over what I said in the first post.. and If you want to discuss this further I would be happy to discuss it over email

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 70 (view)

Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 1:50:47 PM
Did I once call you a name? Yes.. unless "hypocrite" isn't a name in your dictionary. Did I once refer to you as a monkey? I didn't call anyone a monkey.. I made an analogy as to his wit. Please understand the difference. Did I ever flame you? Yes... First post you made to me calling me a hypocrite for wanting to spend time with the person I am dating. Did I call you a BUTT? NO! No, you called my a hypocrite. I called him that because he is that and acting like one. He has problems. Emotional problems and letting things go. The guy is petty and childish and he had made numerous posts to other threads of mine acting the same way. I never called you a LIAR... hardly offending you. You implied I was being one when you commented to him on Msg: 19. Or maybe you were not in fact talking to him but were in fact talking to me. I can't be all that sure.. you really didn't specify. Wanna talk about nitpicking.... how about going through each and every person on here calling out their name and flaming each and every one of them individually, I didn't go through every single person and flame them individually nor in my post commenting to those people who did flame me, did I mention you once. I left you completely out. Didn't notice that, did you. Please do not distort the facts. or how about going every single post of mine and adding your lil commentary I was asking if you followed your own advice... which as an example I showed exactly what I was talking about. And I'm playing the victim?!?!? hahaha. Puhlease... Whateva..

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

Vibrating Condom Ring Posted: 2/27/2006 1:32:51 PM
wow where do I find this I picked some up today at the drug store I work at. Try there "Drug Store".

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 68 (view)

Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 1:15:59 PM
Ok, so you wanted to 'dicsuss' your situation, we gave you our opinions and found some faults and now you take to berating almost everyone who dissected your previous posts just to get down to the truth. I saw a lot of people who picked out some faults..and I accepted them but you started off by attacking me because you didn't understand "being with someone" and "being with someone every single second of the day". That was your first message to me... saying I am a hypocrite. The rest of your messeges were simply attacks on me for picking on your buTTie who shot his mouth off making untrue statements and got corrected for them.... The truth was in the first post.. but no one cared to read it. Instead you chose to nitpick on a single issue and flame me for that claiming I am a liar, and making things up. Now you play the victim. Jeez. I can accept people pointing out faults..what I can't accept is the behavior you and those others mentioned displayed for your own mistakes in reading comprehension. Here is exactly what was written in the first post before my questions.... "Ok, I've been dating this girl for about five weeks. We've only seen each other five times. Out of the five meetings we have only had sex twice." If I made a post two weeks ago (the 11th to be exact), as Chuck claimed, after my second date.. would that not mean that I have seen her another three times in those two weeks till the time I made my post? Would that also not mean that is very close to only seeing a person only one time a week? Would that not put the questions into perpective of only seeing a person once a week? Here's a saying that I think should suit you well..."Speak without offending... Listen without defending" Do you follow your own advice? I only ask becuase if you look at your messages such as these: Msg: 9 You're claiming my profile screamed hypocrisy for wanting to spend more then one night a week with the person I am dating. Msg:16 You claimed once again I was being hypocritical...for making the mistake of sleeping with her on the second date. Msg: 19 You're claiming that the person I am dating is a figment of imagination. Msg: 40 You've and another member came to some conclusion that because she was working on one thread some weeks ago, and now she is not working, that I must be in fact lying some how. Msg: 55 You're again claiming that I am lying because the posts don't add up. If you read my first post.. I stated we had been dating for about five weeks and we had only seen each other five times. My question was would you date a person only seeing them once a week. You've misinterpreted a lot of the information.. ....so, again, do you follow your own advice?

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 64 (view)

Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 12:37:22 PM
Did someone mention CSI??? I knew if I said it.. you'd come a running.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 12:33:05 PM
Apostle... please remember from now on, take your day timer, a handy dandy pen, write every moment of what occurs, then come back to us with specific details, please and thanks.... Thanks sbs13.. I didn't know this was going to be CSI-POF or I would have.

apostle

Joined: 8/26/2005

Msg: 59 (view)

Yet, another what would you do... Posted: 2/27/2006 12:30:08 PM
If you accidently made errors in your posts then you should not be so defensive on those that found the errors, or what look like errors before you ask if they can be more specific. This is where disrepecting others opinions can come into play. I understand what you're saying but if someone is going to disrespect me I am not going to show him any. An accidental error was not cause for me to be jumped on by half of the people in this thread. Your origional reply to me was based on what you thought you had posted not respecting what was read by the responder. Sometimes it is better to relax a bit about people's opinions until you are sure of what they have understood in your posts. Some people don't bother to take the time to ask questions.. they simply flame. like the person who claimed I was making this stuff up. You took the time to bother and find out more information.. unlike a few others who felt it was better to hurl insults and jabs. Now can you understand where people have seen your posts the way they have, and maybe didn't deserve the response that you have given. And maybe some did deserve exactly what they got. \ I didn't flame you.. i tried to help clear up your confusion...and I did not flame a lot of other people who made comments which I could consider rude and unhelpful. Some others, however, got exactly what they dished out and then some. Rightfully so. You started the thread and reqested opinions but did not give accurate information. Or so it seems to me. Being off by one week shouldn't have been a major issue. Sure, if the information was inaccurate it should not have been cause to call me a liar who makes things up, or flame because they didn't understand she left the job, or that it was five dates in four weeks and not five dates in five weeks. I asked peoples opinions on would you stay dating someone if you weren't seeing them that often.. and gave an example of our dating (with a 1% error margin) to help people understand it. Some were nice enough to help me make a decision others were just here to stroke their own egos.

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