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justawench

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CHRISTMAS WISHES AND HOLIDAY CHEER AT ERNIE'S 12-19-09 Posted: 11/20/2009 5:57:29 PM
I talked to a few people at the last party about it.. you get to talk to every person who walks in the door and if you are shy it forces you to be a little more outgoing.. its the same thing with being a photographer or even helping out with the games. you might not be brave enough to participate in speedmeeting but if you help out you will still meet everyone just less pressure.

justawench

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girl i`m seeing-need help in figuring things out Posted: 11/17/2009 11:27:29 AM
how classy of you to tell us how far you got with her. btw that really has nothing to do with your long term potential. 4 dates is way to quick to introduce to friends and family.

justawench

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Pictures from Party at Ernie's 11-14-09 Posted: 11/16/2009 7:23:32 AM
cant wait till the next one....and best of all it was drama free lol

justawench

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Eastside Get Together at Ernie's 11/14/09 Posted: 11/14/2009 5:03:15 AM
well gals my girlfriend from work cant make it so.. looks like I will be helping for sure at the greeters table and hope to find myself a dining partner too :-) .. a coupon buddy if you will lol

justawench

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Eastside Get Together at Ernie's 11/14/09 Posted: 11/10/2009 12:12:41 PM
woohoo almost at 100!! I wouls suggest if you are thinking of dinner and dont have a dinner buddy yet print the coupon and we can always ask around after you get there.. shouldnt be too hard lots of people wanna save a couple bucks.

justawench

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Eastside Get Together at Ernie's 11/14/09 Posted: 11/9/2009 6:09:56 PM
you know.. I dont want to be a hunters widow anyway so this is a good thing I think :-)

justawench

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Still friends? Should they be? Posted: 10/31/2009 6:36:45 PM
I have to say you can not still be friends if you never were.. friendship includes honesty and there wasnt any. plus thats pretty much just a way of putting her on the backburner in case things dont work out with pregnant girl.

justawench

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Eastside Get Together at Ernie's 11/14/09 Posted: 10/31/2009 12:30:40 AM
goodness....notes? I thought the nightmare had ended and we had all been released to live our lives again. lol but then again you may just want to replace fiction with fact

justawench

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Eastside Get Together at Ernie's 11/14/09 Posted: 10/30/2009 4:24:47 PM
cant wait for this event... am so in need of a night out! Linda love the outfit :-)

justawench

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What do you consider too much skin? Posted: 10/28/2009 12:48:42 PM
well at the renfest there was a 3 finger rule.. the wenches had to cover 3 fingers above the nips to keep it family friendly. I do think the more a person drinks the more they are willing to show and those pics are from the end of the evening but this site is for adults as is the bar so.. who cares

justawench

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Do you know that you carry HPV ? Posted: 10/9/2009 5:18:47 PM
I work in cancer research.. they run hpv tests on all of the cases of oral cancer too btw so its not just the ladies who suffer from it. men can get penile cancer from hpv, anyone can get oral cancer and women can get cervical cancer.

justawench

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Who or what do you think of when you get in that mood and you are alone Posted: 10/3/2009 5:52:29 PM
anyone not real.. then I am not likely to think 0f reasons they have disapointed me in the past.

justawench

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Giving your grown female friend a bath. Posted: 9/29/2009 3:38:51 PM
you know I read that as feline....of course I think I like baths about as much as my cat does so a big no thank you from this gal but for one who LIKES baths go for it.

justawench

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A question about Oral sex Posted: 8/16/2009 10:41:03 AM
I have been with guys who dont care for receiving .. for the most part that means they dont give either. for me that takes away from the experience.. I am sorry but there is more than one kind of O and if you limit it then things are just so so .

justawench

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what does open minded mean to you Posted: 8/13/2009 6:23:20 PM
in non pof land yes there is a real meaning for open minded.. on here it usually means they are looking for someone to accept that they are married and willing to be a play thing.

justawench

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Question about bi sexual men Posted: 8/6/2009 3:08:59 PM
I think you stop being curious when you do the deed. once I was curious about indian food, I ate some.. realized I liked it. I am no longer curious I now choose to eat it on occasion.

justawench

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Things you find in a fridge.....A-Z Posted: 8/4/2009 3:06:18 PM
m milk miracle whip mushrooms meat

justawench

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sex questions... a somewhat awkward situation... Posted: 7/2/2009 5:50:23 PM
she wants you to take charge.. she wants to know you want her.. if you wake up horny do something about it.. kiss her hold her more.. tell her I need you now follow through. she has told you to take initiative give her what she wants and she may become more agressive too. is she really one and done or did she get hers and is just done?

justawench

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ed and masturbation Posted: 7/2/2009 12:15:48 PM
yup sounds like either guilt or you just are not into your wife.. do her a favor and set her free so she can find someone better!!

justawench

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Past, Present, Future... Posted: 6/22/2009 4:59:22 PM
I guess it would depend on the act.. if a guy put an empty container back in the fridge like an ex not a deal breaker. if he started telling me what to wear and reminding me of a control freak ex then I might run more quickly.

justawench

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Does this make me racist? Posted: 6/22/2009 3:17:38 PM
its ok to feel uncomfortable stepping outside your comfort zone.. thats the whole point in expanding your horizons. its a date you are not heading out to marry him or even have sex.. enjoy the date, ask him to teach you some things about his culture and that because this is new to you take it slow. you are young. if you were a racist you would have said no and never given a second thought to it and been mad he had the nerve to ask you. you said yes so there is your answer. have fun get out of the box and live a little!

justawench

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How can BOB replace a man? Posted: 6/21/2009 11:28:58 AM
not a toy person myself but these days finding a steady man is damn near impossible and who wants to be one of many?

justawench

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gettin him up Posted: 6/20/2009 5:54:47 AM
if doing a fwb the sex has to be mind blowing.. I would never suffer through semi hard semi satisfying sex unless the relationship was so incredible that it was worth waiting to solve his problem in the bedroom.

justawench

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Whom you masturbate on (your woman or out sider)? Posted: 6/19/2009 4:18:35 PM
not a guy but curious.. do you mean who they picture in their head?

justawench

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Do women prefer a lubed finger in ass when they receive oral Posted: 6/19/2009 4:17:01 PM
I am with gigglemepink.. nothing is a bigger mood killer than a guy who goes there. and one who doesnt listen deserves that broken nose followed by a cold shower as I leave.

justawench

Joined: 6/10/2008

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Made in Michigan? Posted: 6/16/2009 5:40:02 PM
I go to the farmers market and buy vegis, fruit, bread, cheese..there is always chicken and buffalo meat, sausage, salsa all local.

justawench

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Does Anyone Discuss The Possibility of Pregnancy Before Sex? Posted: 6/15/2009 2:12:36 PM
yeah I have heard oops giggle giggle from women before when talking about their kids .. heck my mom got preggers on an IUD. have to remember people lie to suit their best interests so if you want to be sure, take care of it yourself.

justawench

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Rain, rain, don't go away....(a sexual question) Posted: 6/13/2009 5:20:14 PM
I love the rain, the smell of a grand thunderstorm is wonderful.. in Kansas though I learned to not go stand in it.. we rarely had thunderstorms without hail and lots of tree branches coming down... now back in michigan I love to listen to them

justawench

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RETURNING THE FAVOR Posted: 6/13/2009 4:21:40 PM
I think it is more a complaint that the lover is a selfish prick than anything else. for example my ex husband was not very interested in sex.. once a month and he was good if I gave him oral that was it he was done and I got nothing till he was horny again. so after a while he asked for it and I told him no cause you wont return the favor. of course its been years since I was with anyone who enjoyed it and I would rather go without than think he is just phoning it in.

justawench

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Rules Posted: 5/24/2009 6:32:31 PM
I cant be with a smoker I actually got bronchitis this year agrivated by going to a smoky bar once a week.. my allergies couldnt take it so how could I date someone who smoked.. other than that no carved in stone rules

justawench

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Is it wrong to keep in touch with ex-boyfriends/ex-girlfriends? Posted: 5/24/2009 10:31:56 AM
I think that once you have crossed the friendship line and slept with someone it would be wrong to see them and hang out with them if you are with someone else. its too easy to go back and remember the old times. just my opinion.. I wouldnt do it

justawench

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HPV Posted: 5/15/2009 5:38:21 PM
18 months isnt long enough for hpv to gestate.. takes 2 years before it shows on a pap and there is no test at all for guys.. and before you say guys cant get cervical cancer so so what.. there are strains that cause oral cancer and penis cancer .. just food for thought

justawench

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Been on POF 4 years and nothing is happening. Why? Posted: 5/9/2009 6:46:23 PM
a filly is a horse and touchy feely is a bad thing.. I think of beeing groped in a bar or the crazy lady who runs up and hugs people in the mall. AFFECTIONATE is a good word try that.. any profile that has god, jesus, church is one I wont answer so you might try finding profiles that are closer to what you are looking for. just a couple things I saw right away.. maybe get a profile review?

justawench

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stay the same? Posted: 5/8/2009 5:37:25 PM
I have to say the poster above me is right we have a type we are attracted too as well.. I have a friend who just loves short bald men with a beer belly and she is super cute but thats what she thinks is hot. for me confidence is sexy.. I would never make the first move, I want the guy who will go out on a limb because he likes me.

justawench

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Revealing dealbreakers early or late in dating Posted: 4/30/2009 4:18:40 PM
an addict of any kind is not going to admit it.. a recovering addict will if they know you well enough so asking 20 questions is not going to cut it get to know them and decide if anything is a fatal flaw as I call it. my ex took me to a pretty low place financially and now I have qualified to get a home loan so do you plan on asking why they are in bad shape financialy or why they slept with alot of guys when they were a teenager. cant imagin wanting to go on a next date with anyone who got that far into my past right away.

justawench

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So when do you tell someone that you're no good in bed? Posted: 4/27/2009 6:33:51 PM
I have to say the correct statement is you are scared of sex.. your ex did what he did because he enjoyed the control.. sex with someone who is sleeping or scared to death is more of a fetish on his part.. might even be a rape fantasy. maybe you were great in bed and he just could not stand a person enjoying the experience. you might even join a rape survivors group due to the trauma he caused.

justawench

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Ladies..Please Describe A Great First Kiss... Posted: 4/26/2009 2:47:45 PM
I am afraid that a great kiss is in the eyes of the beholder.. I for one can not stand a guy who is slobbery or rough on a first kiss.

justawench

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Revealing dealbreakers early or late in dating Posted: 4/26/2009 2:19:17 PM
bad credit/financial difficulties drug use history of alcoholism had an abortion high number of past sexual partners history of depression some of these things would come up in the course of dating and getting to know someone.. some are only the business of someone I was considering living with or marrying.. and some are no ones damn business unless I decide it is. my past made me who I am today and if the person likes or loves who that is then he isnt going to nitpick on the details and rigidness is one of my dealbreakers anyway..

justawench

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What's the deal with toes and feet!? Posted: 4/26/2009 1:55:27 PM
everyone finds something they like.. if he liked you for a cute smile, great eyes, nice azz or something would that make it different. I say bring on the guy with the foot fetish.. I might get some nice shoe out of the deal and a pedicure or two lol

justawench

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Honesty in the sexual issues forums... Posted: 4/18/2009 2:44:15 PM
I dont really share things that I would not tell someone in person if they asked so I feel anyone who is turned off by what I have to say is better off leaving.

justawench

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Being able to read men Posted: 4/15/2009 6:41:04 PM
we might be dissapointed if we knew too much I think

justawench

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What's in your car or truck?? A - Z Posted: 4/15/2009 5:08:37 PM
sorry...was watching tv and reading..

justawench

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What's in your car or truck?? A - Z Posted: 4/15/2009 4:31:57 PM
zipper on the jacket in the trunk

justawench

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What's on the holiday? A - Z Posted: 4/12/2009 6:24:15 PM
vittles...lots and lots of them :-)

justawench

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What's on the holiday? A - Z Posted: 4/8/2009 1:03:23 PM
orange juice for the ham glaze mmmm

justawench

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Whats on a Human Body! A - Z Posted: 4/5/2009 12:18:25 PM
nose.. all stuffed up at the moment

justawench

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dating within the workplace Posted: 4/4/2009 2:42:08 PM
its best to go slow friends first.. things get strange after breakups and you need to make sure its a good fit before crossing the line.

justawench

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Whats on a Human Body! A - Z Posted: 4/4/2009 2:39:01 PM
elbow connected to the ....

justawench

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Whats In your yard... A thru Z Posted: 3/30/2009 12:43:30 PM
Maid holly bushes

justawench

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Whats In your basement... A thru Z Posted: 3/29/2009 7:15:47 AM
time to pick another place.. I choose yard Apples from the neighbors tree in fall

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