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kindapicky

Joined: 8/28/2005

Msg: 138 (view)

10 yrs and 50 pounds Posted: 6/23/2009 1:58:14 PM
Why don't we start a new trend, be honest!

kindapicky

Joined: 8/28/2005

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Easy access to weapons? Posted: 8/7/2008 7:12:02 PM
The thinking of some people here is just crazy. Guns are tools just like anything else. How many people are killed every year by a runaway driver?? Correctional Officer Killed on the Job Posted: June 22, 2008 01:48 AM Correctional Officer Killed at a North Valley Prison Federal Bureau of Prisons By: Dani Carlson and Kyra Jenkins Officer Jose Rivera had been a federal correctional officer for less than a year, starting just last August. He was killed by two inmates Friday afternoon while working at Atwater Federal Penitentiary, according to prison officials. Extra security was posted outside the prison gates and all was quiet on Saturday afternoon, the only reminder to visitors that a correctional officer was killed there on Friday. "It's kind of close to home, you get a little worried and are aware to lock your doors a little more than usual," said Tim Baker. Baker lives just across the road from the entrance to Atwater Federal Penitentiary. He said his family's thoughts and prayers are with the family of the young, fallen officer. According to prison officials, around 3:30 Friday afternoon, 22-year-old Correctional Officer Jose Rivera of Chowchilla was stabbed to death by two inmates in a housing part of the prison. The jail's public information officer, Jesse Gonzalez, has issued a written statement: "We extend our deepest sympathy to Officer Rivera's family and friends and are committed to providing any assistance to ensure the perpetrators of this horrific crime are prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law." According to the Bureau of Prison officials, Rivera is the 24th federal corrections officer killed in the line of duty in more than one hundred years, and the first murdered at Atwater. For those who work at the prison and live near it, his death is one too many. "I just feel the ones that have done this should pay for what they've done," said Baker. Prison officials have not yet released any motive for the crime, or the identities of the two prisoners they said are responsible. AddThis Social Bookmark Button People are going to kill or hurt people if they want to, at lease we can stop them from entering our home if we have a means to do so with, heard of the new term " home invasions". Does not sound to bad until you read the reports and see what the criminal did to the home owner.

kindapicky

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Dating your father Posted: 8/3/2008 5:01:19 AM
Several ladies I know have had relationship problems because of the relationship with their dads. Take care of yourself. Do not let anyone mistreat you. Marriage is a lot of commitment. Both parters have to step up the the plate.

kindapicky

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Easy access to weapons? Posted: 7/27/2008 10:24:58 AM
Guns are a tool, just as a hammer or screwdriver. Both can kill. A good trigger lock and problem solved. Teaching or kids to be responsible is the most important way to control problems.

kindapicky

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OK, what about the World Court and its opinion on the Child Rapist/Murderer on Death Row Posted: 7/18/2008 3:58:27 PM
If they go ahead and cook him, he will not do it again.

kindapicky

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The Question Everyone Should Ask Themselves Posted: 7/11/2008 2:23:28 PM
Real estate always goes up and down. The ONLY people how are having a problem paying their morgage is the ones who borrowed too much or the lender should not have loaned them the money because of bad credit. As always, no body wants to take responsibility for there own actions.... So why are we having to bail them out and the gov stealing more money from us?

kindapicky

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Im taking a good look at myself! Posted: 7/5/2008 9:01:50 AM
Hi OP and the rest of the ladies posting. PLEASE listen, it is like a test, a man will try you just to see how far he can get. The true man that cares about YOU will respect you, don't mean he want try but he will still keep dating you and will want to be part of your family when the time is right. STICK TO YOU GUNS.

kindapicky

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Does our partner have the right to know? Posted: 7/5/2008 8:53:29 AM
Hey dawg, something in my old age I have learned. A persons pass can be a look into their future. We all have so "growing" years. Take a good look at a person, who they have a friends, what their and friends values are, families are like. And you can kinda guess their future. You can love someone, but not like the kind of person they are. Depends on the amount of drama you want in your life. My mother used to tell me " Show me your friends and I'll tell you who you are". Rings true. For me to devote my life to someone, I should expect the same.

kindapicky

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Our Christian walk. Posted: 7/3/2008 4:55:41 PM
Sorry about that romanticoptimist. It's funny how we try to talk amoung ourselves and bam, we are jumped by a bunch of angry people... Howevery, in your area, is there a lot of activies for Christian Singles and do they participate.

kindapicky

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Our Christian walk. Posted: 7/2/2008 7:58:18 PM
Well said Graci, I was attempting to have a a little conversation with some fellow Christians. There are some people who just can not stand for us to talk and encourage each other. And we are the intolerant ones?? I don't even remember being disrespectful to any of them? But before we were so rudely interupted. I find it in my area most singles are always looking for something to happen execpt group activities. It is like they are waiting for the phone to ring at the last minute. They will commit to very few things. These are one involved in a Single Adult Ministry? Is this true in other parts of the country?

kindapicky

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Our Christian walk. Posted: 6/27/2008 1:45:25 PM
Southernlass is correct about what I am referring to, I am not comfortable at a party when some one is getting drunk. No it has nothing to do with me, but that is when bad things start to happen. What about our Christian friends, and one decides to start an affair, do you not say any thing to them, or continue to act as nothing is going on. What about someone stealing at work. Are we not to help each other with our accountability?? I fall as much or more as the next. I am encouraged when my christian friends are an encouragement to me. It is time we stop straying, stop playing games, and ENCOURAGE each other.

kindapicky

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Our Christian walk. Posted: 6/25/2008 2:49:20 PM
I guess what I am saying. I fail a lot, but it just seems as another post stated, things are getting worst. We as Christians should stick together. We should not let the other people of this world drag us down.

kindapicky

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Our Christian walk. Posted: 6/24/2008 2:23:29 PM
Msg, 9, 10, and 11, I agree. I tell my female friends, a man can not see your heart walking down a hall. He sees you smile, body, and etc. That is what gets his attention. The way we each dress, talk, where we go and the people we hang out with. If a woman acts a little trampy, that's it for me I'm gone. And I think the ladies should demand we men treat them with respect. If we push the sex issue, I tell my friends to tell the men you will not have sex until married, then watch the men. I have read some posts on here from a few women that claimed to be Christian but were posting all kinds of statements about the kinds of sex they liked??? I am thinking, is she a wh***. I would not tell that to almost no one.. I guess the bottom line, I am so tired as a Christian, trying to live a Christian life and see the evil of this world.

kindapicky

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Our Christian walk. Posted: 6/23/2008 2:02:13 PM
Does any other Christians feel this way? I have many female friends that complain about the way men treat them. And have seen "Christian" men playing the ladies. When are we going to start being an encouragement for others and not just out for our selfish wants? Back on subject: As a Christian, I think we should be an encouragement for others. I have seen christian men and women with almost no morals. The men just laugh and the women complain it's double standards. I usually stand back and watch and listen and decide if I want that person to be a part of my life. Why would I want an irresponsible spouse or friend?

kindapicky

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Our Christian walk. Posted: 6/22/2008 7:34:58 PM
I consider myself a Christian, so therefore I will not date a person who does not believe in Jesus. I am more of a personal relationship with God instead of a Baptist, Methodist, Church of God and so on. Even though I attend a Baptist church. I can not walk the walk I want but I see many on dating sites and in life calling themselves "christian" but some of the Posts an remarks are just unbelieveable. Does any other Christians feel this way? I have many female friends that complain about the way men treat them. And have seen "Christian" men playing the ladies. When are we going to start being an encouragement for others and not just out for our selfish wants?

kindapicky

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Is it really rude to ask a woman her age? Posted: 6/5/2008 2:07:06 PM
Kudos to the ladies here who do not care. As long as I am attracted to her, and her to me, why should I care. I have worked hard all my adult life and look several years older. She may be in the same boat. What if we got together and later she says you know, I would like to get ride of some of these wrinkles. I will get to enjoy the benefits from that also. She may even want my mug helped along a little.

kindapicky

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Having sex too early... Posted: 6/3/2008 8:14:33 AM
amen to that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! the only thing i can say is you hit the nail rigth on the head, what is it nowadays?? men just dont have respect for women no matter if you give it to them or not. I think men really dont know what they want out of life so they have to act like they are still in high school. GROW UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The fact is, most of us are mature now days to be picky. Why would I want a wife that has been with half of the town? Sex to me in MHO, is for a committed relationship. Sex is something SPECIAL, not just for anyone you pass by. And as someone posted, STD's and children. You really want to share these with someone for the rest of your life??

kindapicky

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Would you consider it an invasion into your personal space if someone looked at your email header? Posted: 5/15/2008 2:31:32 PM
OP, you did the right thing. Sounds like you caught a dog acting like a man.

kindapicky

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The Global Poverty Act & Obama Posted: 5/11/2008 5:47:46 AM
Just my 2 cents: I'm damn tired of being taxed so the "government" can decide who to give the money to. It's not the governments responsibility to force me to give money to anyone. Does anyone know just how much money is given to who? North Korea? Africa? or anywhere else. Let me keep my money and give it to who I want. Why do we have people homeless and starving here but Obama, Bush, or anyone else thinks it's Ok to steal my money and give to who they want. WE THE PEOPLE, should know how every penney is spent.

kindapicky

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How do I learn to enjoy being alone? Posted: 5/10/2008 9:26:19 PM
Many times in a marriage we forget what "we" wanted in life and compromised for the family. Slow down and take one day at a time. Get your self financially stable, get close to God, seek good moral friends, and plan for YOUR future without anyone involved, if you find someone, icing on the cake. I have zero stress at home now and it will always stay that way.

kindapicky

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$4 a gallon gas? WTF? What do you think? Posted: 5/10/2008 6:00:16 AM
It's call "supply and demand". As soon as WE the customer stop buying there gas, they "the oil companies" will come down on prices. A lot of people dispute this fact. EVERY business watches sells and competion.

kindapicky

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Proper ladies don`t go out alone! Posted: 4/7/2008 2:58:47 PM
When a woman comes into a bar alone, men think she is on the hunt. and looking to go to bed with someone. It's the environment. And believe me when you leave with some one, everyone knows it. And they will remember seeing you drunk in there 10 years ago, be a "lady" and keep the dogs away. Then us decent guys will pay you a lot of attention.

kindapicky

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5-year-old boy handcuffed in school Posted: 4/3/2008 3:25:09 PM
I have an idea... CAll this little brats family and tell them you feel so bad for them and their child you want them to move to YOUR neighborhood and enroll him in school with YOUR kids. <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0> They you can pat him on the back and tell him everything is ok....

kindapicky

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April 1 trucker strike Posted: 3/31/2008 4:17:24 PM
Have not heard this, but I spent many years in retail and wholesale. ANYTIME sales are down people from top to bottom are nervious.

kindapicky

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5-year-old boy handcuffed in school Posted: 3/25/2008 7:17:43 AM
First of all it is about time we put teachers back in charge of the class room. Breaking things and hitting others should have been corrected at home. They did not say how the rest of the kids acted later or the next day. I'll bet they did not act out.. Correct the problem now or after they assault or kill someone you can put them in prison and the victims can suffer. We have all heard of the stories, after the fact, he had "problems" all through school. Damn when are we going to wake up.

kindapicky

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My friend is cheating on her bf Posted: 2/25/2008 2:06:51 PM
Why would you have that kind of person as a friend. What happens when you get married and she is still around??

kindapicky

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stateside problems and Iraq consequences Posted: 2/11/2008 2:33:06 PM
Hey OP, sorry for the crap. You are better off now to find out she could not wait than after 2.5 kids, house, car, etc. Just keep looking, go slowly, trust with verification. It took me 22 yrs to found out the real truth. Just keep hanging in there. And, THANK YOU for what you do. GOD BLESS.

kindapicky

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ENOUGH ENOUGH!! Exxon Mobil Profit Sets Record Again Posted: 2/1/2008 2:55:16 PM
Same old story. Supply and demand. Until WE stop buying gas, ie one one month we do not buy Exxon, the next month do not buy Shell, the next month do not buy BP. By the second month, you can damn bet prices would be coming down a LOT. As long as we are stupid enough to buy it, they don't give a damn about our ****ing.

kindapicky

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What Would You Do?! Posted: 2/1/2008 5:41:27 AM
1. You say there is some distance between you, how many miles?? 2. You say he is working nights. Have you ever tried to do that???? 3. He is working extra hours to pay off bills. That sounds responsible to me. You sound selfish to me. Have you told him you would drive over and cook breakfast for him when he gets off work???

kindapicky

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Attention GUYS: Some dating advice from a woman. First Impressions are Lasting Impressions! Posted: 2/1/2008 5:30:36 AM
The problem is most of this can go BOTH ways. She's 40 and wants to date a 30 yr old. If you are a lady I'll treat you that way. A lot of women forget, you don't have the market cornered on anything. For every one saying no ten more say yes. Best advice, be yourself. The milf's can live/run with the dogs and the true ladies and gentlemen can meet.

kindapicky

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Am I to conservative? Posted: 1/18/2008 4:34:29 PM
Hey evnstevn, you are right.... My typing skills stink.... BWT, I can only be me. Not fit someone else's mold. And we must learn to laugh at our own mistakes.

kindapicky

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Am I to conservative? Posted: 1/16/2008 3:42:03 PM
Hey deacon, you complain about me but check this out I am independent, self sufficient, financially secure, and athletic. I seek to find someone that is similar to me and my desires, as I try to be to theirs. Looks will get my attention, and brains will keep me close to you. I believe that I offer what I am looking for and I will not settle for less. I am a single father of one son who is my life and will remain first in my domestic domain until he leaves home for college. Talk to me if you are educated, sophisticated, active and decent looking......and I will talk to you and let you decide if I meet your criteria. Please do not contact me if you are not sharing your picture as I am.....Thank you. Update number two......I appreciate all those that contact me and would like to know me better, but please help me out here if you would. I would prefer to meet and date another that fits in the BMI tables on a similar scale to what I am. This for me means 21 to 24, which I am at and would enjoy the one I am getting to know to be somewhere in that mix as well. If you do not know what I am talking about, please take the time to research it some in order for the both of us to be on the same page when meeting.

kindapicky

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Am I to conservative? Posted: 1/16/2008 3:38:02 PM
Well a LOT of criticism. What I am saying, why would I put up with any one else's problems. I am responsible and expect the same. So why would you marry a drunk, a man/woman 80 pounds over weight, or someone just bringing a lot of drama to the relationship. As one post stated, I am straight up. I'm bsing you or lying. Problem is some cannot handle honesty..

kindapicky

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Would you be willing to shorten your life, if it meant finding the love of your life? Posted: 1/16/2008 3:13:49 PM
Sure, why not if you are very happy.

kindapicky

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Do you think there should be laws against people who trick you into sexual encounters! Posted: 1/15/2008 2:40:18 PM
This is just crazy... PLEASE read Discofied msg 17. 1. It is NOT ANY OF THE GOVERNMENTS BUSINESS what I do in the privacy of my on home with other adults. 2. I am responsible for what I do, so are you. If you drop your pants to some one you do not know very well, guess what. It's your damn fault.....

kindapicky

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Am I to conservative? Posted: 1/14/2008 3:45:06 PM
Hi rosebud, It is perfectly OK...in fact pretty darn smart....not to want to invite a person into your life that is unstable, and drinking too much, drugs, and not being able to handle your finances can be considered not the most stable traits a mate could posess. BUT, insisting that a woman dress in a manner that you see suitable, as well as wearing appropriate make-up/hair that suits your definition of a lady is most certainly a person who might have control issues. The way I see it, why should I put up with someone else's self created drama. I enjoy life, live comfortable, can help my kids. As far as dress goes, many, many, many times I have seen women dressed in something very inappropriate.... ie. Not long ago I was in a shop paying for work on my truck, woman behind the counter has on T-Shirt, bends over to write the receipt, has on no bra, I see both boobs, very clearly, and most of her stomach, I looked to my left and another lady standing there looked at the girl behind the counter looked back at me and just shook her head... Another example, many times at work I have seen a womans bra because she keeps wearing tops to low cut or has the top three buttons undone??? I don't under stand, we look and ask for what you are showing us and you get pissed off. If you hang it out in front of us, we are going to want it... If you don't want it to be seen by everyone, cover it up.

kindapicky

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is gentlemanly behavior and chivalry still important? Posted: 1/14/2008 3:16:03 PM
I am always happy to hold the door for the elderly or very young. It's not just about chivalry, but respect also.

kindapicky

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is gentlemanly behavior and chivalry still important? Posted: 1/12/2008 4:23:57 PM
I replied, "No m'aam, I opened that door because "I" am a gentleman" Hey cowboy, I like that response. I have actually been pushed through a door after opening it for a woman. She got pissed off and pushed me ahead of her.....

kindapicky

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Am I to conservative? Posted: 1/12/2008 4:10:38 PM
No one can make anyone else change. Anything. Not even their underwear..let alone their mind..goals..habits..body shapes..finances..and so on. That has to be something that comes from within the person. Everybody is different..and everybody is worthwhile. They may not be meant for LTR/dating for one person..but they may be to someone else. JMO Hey redarcangel, that is exactly why I not longer tolerate people with these problems. I have been in married and relationships with people like this and it always causes a LOT of drama. So now I refuse to allow selfish, irresponsible, and childish people create a lot of problems for me. Why would you marry a guy who drinks too much and claims the mixer was bad, , spends more money than he makes, , lets his kids run wild. Causing all the time. NOT my idea of a good mate.

kindapicky

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Am I to conservative? Posted: 1/11/2008 2:33:05 PM
I was looking for some thing and found this again... Listen to the "ladies" women bitc** about being independent, doing anything they want and then they are over in the relationship section crying because he fuc* her and left her. I still say ladies, if you want to be treated like a lady act that way and demand the men treat you that way.

kindapicky

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is gentlemanly behavior and chivalry still important? Posted: 1/11/2008 2:05:40 PM
IF she is to independent (arrogant) to let me open doors for her and spoil her. I will leave her for someone else.

kindapicky

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make time for r'ships! Posted: 1/11/2008 1:59:33 PM
"So, our "relationship" consists of friendship, a couple of [mutually satisfying] sexual encounters, and one "real" date [also mutually satisfying]. The "real" date was our trying to start a "real" relationship in October/November. After that initial date, it was my turn to pay so I emailed him to ask him out. He said he was too busy--going to parties to which we were BOTH invited. He made no attempt to ask me to meet him AT the parties to which we were BOTH invited" Ok, you are friends, and he got what he wanted. He is probably setting up the next two or three ladies.

kindapicky

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Right to work Vs. Unions Posted: 1/4/2008 5:50:15 AM
I have worked for non union companies. Basically treated like crap. Even told to hire women and pay them less than a man, give them a raise in jan and and cut their hours, ect. I now work for a union. Have more job security, make good living, good benefits, ect. And no one is forced to join the union. As with anything, the leaders of any group or union can cause problems. Union members should keep watch the local pres and vice pres, and ALL should keep watch on national leaders. And by the way, I can not go on strike, but can file grievances if mistreated.<img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0>

kindapicky

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Msg: 128 (view)

body hair Posted: 1/2/2008 2:18:10 PM
Why not just shave each other..

kindapicky

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Drive of discouragment-Have you been hurt too much you can not feel love anymore? Posted: 12/1/2007 7:29:03 AM
Hey loves, they way I look at is me being "burned" has made me even more grounded. Allowed me to get closer to God. So now I am just taking things slowly, enjoying myself, and refusing to allow anyone to creat a lot of drama for me.

kindapicky

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I think I wish I was fat Posted: 10/28/2007 1:15:44 PM
The bottom line, take care of yourself for you. Take care of yourself to have the best quality of life for as long as possible. If you meet someone or not, you are still taking care of yourself. If you do meet someone, you will be in good shape to enjoy that relationship for as long as possible.

kindapicky

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A new idealogy - selfishness Posted: 10/9/2007 4:30:57 AM
As with any commitment to some one else, the best for both, should be more important than the best for one. I have come to a point in my life, more mature now, that life can be better with a partner ONLY if they have a lot of the same values, morals, and goals. That saves more time for fun than DRAMA.

kindapicky

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School Suspends Boy For Sketching...WTF??? Posted: 10/6/2007 7:27:52 AM
This is what happens when you take common sense out of the class room. One picture drawn in one school system can have a totally different meaning to another system. Parents HAVE to be involved. There should be state and fed minimums for educational levels, but parents should have a LOT of control over the local systems and their operations. Someone posted get a psychologist/counselor, they are part of the problem...... a few interview skills would have answered the question as to what the drawing meant.

kindapicky

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6.1 million for strip search victim at McDonalds Posted: 10/6/2007 7:16:57 AM
Because there are stupid people in this world, read some of the post here, , I did teach my children to respect authority, but also have street smarts also.

kindapicky

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Msg: 143 (view)

Why do men copy/paste Posted: 10/6/2007 7:00:48 AM
I don't think I have ever done this. But I usually say more in my actions than words. As far as introductory emails, it's like being in the grocery story, see a nice looking lady say hi trying to start a conversation and she blows you off. So why waist "my" time with a stuck up that will not read my profile. It works both ways. Lot of singles are a dime a dozen, the true ladies and gentlemen are a rare find.

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