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cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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DATING ADVICE TO WOMEN Posted: 2/21/2006 2:31:55 PM
Dating and relationships are hard enough. Do yourselves a favor ladies: if the guy you like is gone a lot due to being in the military, sports, music or selling vacuum cleaners around the country - leave him be. At the end of the day, you're just asking and begging for heartache. A man away is a man who strays. Heck, we have a tough enough time being faithful when we ARE at home! Just ask the babysitter, or the next door neighbor, or our secretary or your sister! Do yourselves the favor. I keep reading these posts about heartache and it makes me wonder: "Do people actually USE their brains anymore?"

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 61 (view)

Should I tell her....... Posted: 2/21/2006 2:14:53 PM
Your "about me" section simply has this: then you tell us this story of sex and cheating and how you want to tell on him. What type of responses did you expect from people? And I'm partial to Canadian women..most of you are hotter than all get out without the American attitude but you...sound like a youngin'

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 60 (view)

Should I tell her....... Posted: 2/21/2006 2:10:56 PM
Your profile says you're 28...you sure you're not 18? Why you would spend time with someone who cheated on you is..well...masochistic. Didn't respect you then..doesn't respect you or the girl he cheated on now. Congrats to all 3 of you :)

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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8 Types Of Guys Women Avoid Posted: 2/21/2006 2:06:59 PM
Women don't truly avoid any type of guy do they? When you have that much power, who can resist trying out every flavor imaginable :) I don't blame women for making poor choices in guys because guys choose women poorly as well. However, I have no sympathy for someone who keeps making the same mistakes. DEFINITION OF INSANITY: Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 73 (view)

do you look like your pictures? Posted: 2/21/2006 2:03:27 PM
My pictures are part of who I am. Most of the time I like myself..every now and then I curse myself out. Some goes with my pictures :)

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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lost n confused Posted: 2/21/2006 1:56:53 PM
I think the key to being happy is loving yourself, warts and all, and having the right people in your life. Do you like you? Are you surrounded by people who love you and vice versa? If you can answer yes to both those questions, you've got more going for you than most married people. Enjoy your life...it doesn't last as long as we think :)

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 224 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/9/2005 9:57:33 PM
Another Update: Last night I hung out with the girl I met AFTER the girl that originally caused me to start this post. Showed up at her place with Thai food and we actually talked about why our phone conversations - sucked. Long story short, as usual, it was all a misunderstanding..or should I say, poor communication between two people who don't yet know each other. It was GREAT to talk and say how I felt and vice versa. We had a great evening, I was invited to stay the night and I declined because I didn't plan on it and it was a "school night." We both thought it would be best to wait on going any further physically, than we already have until we're sure we really like each other. Until then, I like getting to know her and there are many more things two people can do to make each other happy without having sex. You can use your imagination if you're not clear on what I mean ;) So far so go. Nice girl..smart girl and she TALKS. I still think about the first girl but then again, I'm learning to deal with people who want my company and not chase after those who "aren't sure" or just act like they want to.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 104 (view)

How many times a day can you handle havin sex??!!! Posted: 11/7/2005 12:09:49 PM
[quote)I've been with a few men and sad to say but none last longer than about 5 min!!! PinkPowdr...You haven't been with ANY men if they only last 5 minutes!!! You've been messing with BOYS...and there is such a thing as a 30 year old boy. to answer the forum question, if I really like or even love who I'm with, I can go as many times possible. That sore, swollen excuse for stopping can be worked around...ladies, you know what I'm talking about ;)

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 218 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/7/2005 11:55:32 AM
Bike Man....I think there is some truth to your first and second date thought processes as it relates to women..then again, WHO KNOWS with them! I've learned to thank God for not allowing me to get what I want sometimes. She could have been terrible for me..or not. I do know that there were a couple of things about her that made me think twice, particularly after our first date. There's a thing called class....and I think the classy thing to do would have been to just be straight up, one way or another, regarding when we were going to go out again. The easy way was simply not to call yet say that she wanted to go out again. As you can see, I'm not one to wait for life to deal hands to me. I like to THINK that I can be proactive in creating my own fate you know? Either way, I kissed one on the first date and didn't get a second. I DIDN'T kiss the second one on the first date, and we've had a great time ever since...and did get the chance to make up for not kissing on the first date :) It was interesting to see peoples' takes on what I should have done with the first one. It APPEARS that I have met someone who is interested in me as a person and enjoys laughing with AND at me. Heck we even talk on the phone...I haven't done that in so long I've forgotten how to! Thanks for your advice and opinions. You sound like a solid guy yourself.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 215 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/6/2005 9:23:32 PM
UPDATE! Just to let enquiering minds that want to know.......the girl who I oringally wanted advice on never called last week to let me know when she wanted to go out again. I assumed that she isn't interested so....onward and upward. I met a girl through another dating site that actually mandated that we ask each other two questions, through their service. Long story short...we went out for Thai on Wednesday of last week and had a BLAST laughing at each other (in a good way). We also went to opening night for our local hockey team's home opener last night. Beforehand, she came over to my place for some home made Puerto Rican food and wine. We had a GREAT time at the game (she's a great sports fan..louder than most!) and got cozy at my place after the game. We plan on taking things slow, getting to know each other and seeing where things go. And yes..we took things slow while getting cozy at my place last night Surfers say that a bigger, better wave is usually right behind the killer one they thought they had just missed. There just may be some truth to that in my case

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 214 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/6/2005 9:17:45 PM
maybe it's time to consider moving to another state where you feel you can have a life with someone with shared values. Funny you should suggest that belledejour because I am actually working toward having an apartment in Guadalajara where I can live several months out of the year. I have to get my business to the point where I can do that, but I'm looking forward to it!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 212 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/3/2005 9:02:52 PM
Bell...what are you talking about???!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 211 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/3/2005 9:02:12 PM
I tend to feel like everytime someone is single they feel this way for a period of time no matter where we are in history. It only appears like we look around and "all the good ones are taken" or like our one true match is never going to come The only difference with me Sexy is that I feel the same way about guys, it's not just because I'm single. I have very few guy friends because: they cheat, they lie, do hard drugs, don't treat people the way they should. I don't have a girlfriend for the same reasons. Things are pretty different here in Southern California. This is the land of fake boobs, piercings, 7 days a week at the gym and 0 days per week trying to improve yourself from the inside out. This takes place with girls as well as guys so, that's where I differ. My statement wasn't a "woe is me, I can't find a good girl" type of thing. The people in general here where I live are pretty indesireable from a relationship standpoint. You wanna have lots and lots of casual sex and 6 week relationships? This is the place to be for that. I'm misplaced...I stopped doing that in the early 90's.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 208 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/1/2005 8:29:48 PM
So these very same men would have an equal chance at getting women if they were just themselves and actually talked to them, AND in fact they would meet better quality women without the games. I completely agree with being yourself but times have changed - they really have. If you scroll up a bit on this page, you'll see what I wrote and what I mean by that. The amount of quality PEOPLE have gone down in my opinion..not just guys. It's hard to find a true/blue good person period. Although I think that may have always been the case to a certain extent, I think it is moreso the case in 2005..and I don't see it getting any better. Moral of the story? Love the one you're with. If you find a good/great one, consider yourself lucky and do your part to be a good mate. Agreed?

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 204 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/1/2005 7:33:53 AM
(picturing Cubano sauntering in his.... boxers???) No boxers...just sauntering...no need for clothes while one is awake AND asleep is there???

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 202 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/1/2005 4:07:23 AM
I sleep! I woke up to go to the bathroom, heard an email come in and sauntered over to the computer! Back to sleep now

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 199 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 11/1/2005 3:34:21 AM
I think you men should start going with where your heart leads. That is what will get the attention of a woman. Just wondering who made up these rules. I just think society has changed for the worst here in the States anyway. There was a time when you met someone, went out, had a great time and ended the date by saying, "What are you doing tomorrow? Wanna go _____________?"(fill in the blank) 15 years ago that would have been fine, but with the internet, and the easy access to porn etc., society has produced a lot more sexually frustrated men and, I'll just say it, stalkers. People seem to be way more jaded due to a bad past relationship these days and are deathly afraid to get hurt again. Even though people were cheating and getting hurt 20 years ago as well, how it is handled now, particularly by people in their early 20's, has changed dramatically. It seems to me as if people have become way more cold and emotionally unavailable just because so-and-so hurt your feelings and you lost 15 pounds in a 2 weeks. Get over it people! So with saying all that, somewhere along the line this waiting 3-4 days before asking for another date came about to not give the impression of desperation or demonstrating stalker-like tendencies. I don't agree with it, but at the same time, I know some women that have been stalked by a guy they only went out with once or twice. Heck, in the early 90's, I used to meet women and wind up going out with them THAT DAY! Why wait?! I'm attracted to you, you're attracted to me....are you free later on??!! Even if you are sitting home and doing nothing that night, somewhere along the line women decided that it wasn't cool to look like they had nothing to do so they'd make you wait several days before their "schedule was free." And guys decided that it wasn't cool to look like they had nothing to do so they'd wait to ask you out after several days. I think it sucks...I blame it on Paris, and Justin, and MTV and fake boobs, and P-Diddy, and bling-bling, and spinning rims, and reality tv, and lipstick lesbians who make out on the dance floor in public just to get a rise out of the little boys who hoot and holler over it. Society has become about your outward appearance and nothing more. People spend all their time at the gym, the plastic surgeon, the tattoo and piercings parlor, and the strip club instead of in front of the mirror trying to IMPROVE themselves from the INSIDE-out. It's all pretty much garbage. I mean, does anyone even THINK about going to CHURCH anymore?! I used to hate to go but my mother made me. Now I go at least once a week on my own. Not saying that it's for everyone but going and listening to how I SHOULD be living at least makes my conscience more active. Just a theory..but I believe all of what I just said to be at least partially true.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 194 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:58:32 PM
WooHoo!!! Now he's quoting me!! I SURE AM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 192 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:57:19 PM
I did it!!! You're the best...I'm a quite learner huh? ;) I do know how to follow instructions..VERY attentive listner Thanks!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 191 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:56:13 PM
I'm going to give this a shot....and no, I'm not ashamed to ask for directions LOL. We can learn something from everyone can'w we? Let's see here... Silly Man... at least you're asking for directions! Another plus.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 189 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:39:28 PM
HA HA....You got me smiling over here. There's nothing Canadian about me either except that I'd like to think I'm as nice as the people I've from Canada that I've talked to on here...the women anyway. I know where the quote instructions box is but....don't get it :) Here...I'll try it: [Don't put spaces in the brackets]

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 187 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:27:45 PM
Sorry about that Ananda...I thought YOU were Canadian!! LOL Say..how do you make the quote box?

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:19:42 PM
You got me Cowman...you win! So go away!! What more do you want? You won..I'm a player.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 185 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:18:31 PM
BikeMan....I got tired of reading all of Chemist's entries..there were a TON of them huh?! I don't get into waiting 10 days, or 5 or call waiting, etc. When I'm interested in someone..I mean truly interested, why on earth would I want to WAIT that long to talk to her?! You are SO right when you talk about just sending a quick shout out to let you know she received your message, etc. That's classy and shows she's interested as well. I'm with you..I started to think she MAY not be worth my time when she didn't call me back last Monday night, but waited till Tuesday. Hey, I know myself..I'm busy enough...if a girl I'm interested in, calls me and leaves a message, I'm calling her back that day...unless I'm "too busy" with someone else that is. What other reason could there be to not give a quick call or text and say got your message but can't talk? I've done that before and know it can be done....so...maybe my doubting her aligning with your thoughts have merrit. Thanks for the kind words. Very cool of you to share your experience.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 184 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:12:16 PM
You're back addictable??!! Good to see you...that made me smile!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:11:05 PM
Thanks Ms. Bekka....you might want to share your thoughts with the guy with the Cow cartoon as his profile picture. He seems to think I'm an evil man because I haven't sat and waited by the phone for my date to call like she said she would

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:08:09 PM
You're right, I'm a Player Melbuck. So now what? You want to think of something else to accuse me of? Am I a skinhead because I shave my head? A nudist because my shirt is off in my picture? You win, I'm a player. You got me. So does this mean you'll go harrass someone else in another forum topic? I hope so because I never asked for a male's advice anyway, but you decided to grace us all with your infinite wisdom. Thanks man - we all needed to hear from a TRUE genius. NO woman has accused me of being a player and no man has either...so you must be smarter than ALL the women AND all the men who weighed in. I gotta visit your planet..that's where all the smart, insightful people must be.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 181 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 9:02:43 PM
[gotta find out if you get the girl!!] You really are funny Ananda! Thanks for the compliments. We'll have to get you some tarp for your keyboard ;) We'll see if I get the girl...she seems nice enough but not calling isn't cool, but seems to be pretty en vogue here in the State. I always return calls because I want people to return mine..you know, do unto others as you'd have the do unto you?? No one seems to remember that Golden Rule!! I'll say it again: Canadian women ROCK!!!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 21 (view)

Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 8:58:07 PM
Everyone's a child and infantile to you Cowman...We have currency denominations that match your age!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 8:56:55 PM
I understand where you're coming from BikeMan. No offense taken at all. I appreciated your advice. My comments about men giving advice when a female's was asked for, was not directed at you. The Cow guy has a burr up his butt for me for some reason - I don't even know the guy. Cyberfreaks...they come in all different shapes, sizes and colors. I know what you mean about NOT following your instincts and having it work out. It seems that the more disinterested a person behaves, the other person wants them more. It's sad but too often, true. I haven't called her since last Thursday, mostly because the ball is in her court. I asked her out again, she said yes and is supposed to be getting back to me and letting me know what day is best for her. Haven't heard from her. In the meantime, I've worked, hung out with friends and met new people. If I dont' hear from her, it wasn't meant to be. There are a couple of people that have shown interest in me that I've met through work or online so....I just may explore those options. I've found that the trick to leading a happy life is to go where you're welcome, not where you're unwelcome...know what I mean?

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 8:49:59 PM
So this is fun to you....talking to ME, a person you don't know but claim to? That picture is a Joke? Good one..we all got it. Thanks for the advice my man..you've got us all figured out.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 8:19:44 PM
You're starting to become funny. I've never heard a GUY talk about players as much as you. Are you envious of guys who are because you've never actually had more than one woman interested in you simultaneously? You upset because your one shot at marriage ended with you being stuck with "this case of bud, my dog and this lousy t-shirt??" C'mon man? Are you on POF to actually meet a woman are you on here to make off-base assessments of MEN? Several people. Why is it that everyone who uses a cartoon or an object as their profile picture are such weirdos?

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 179 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 8:12:58 PM
I've got a forum topic on Canadian Women...if you find it, you'll know I have NO problem with Canada!!!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 178 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 8:10:29 PM
I lived in the Midwest for 4 years...when it wasn't cold, it was swelteringly HOT!! :) :) I liked my time there..met some good guys and good girls. I lived in Ohio and Kansas. Coached at Ohio State and Kansas State. Still talk to several people in each state BUT, am not in a rush to visit Kansas again....what a boring, FLAT state!! You're too funny Ananda!!! The midwest is fine..particularly Chicago, I'm just glad I live where it's warm, sunny and there's an ocean 2 minutes away

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 177 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 8:06:52 PM
Ready, Set GO?! I like that :) Pay no mind to the guy with the cow for his profile picture. He's in his own world obviously. I agree with you, dating should be about having FUN which is what the two of us had when we went out. Hopefully it will happen again if not, there are POF in the sea right?!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 7:50:32 PM
Tell her how I feel, don't tell her how I feel, read blurbs from some crazy old coot that thinks he knows me...what's a guy to do?! Interesting how guys add their two cents to a forum that asks LADIES for their advice. I appreciate those that honestly want to weigh in, but those that jump into a forum to read about other peoples' "problems" and attack the poster just to feel better about their own listless lives...is sad. Take inventory in the mirror or keep "dating" the lovely ladies on that porn site you always go to..it's your choice! If and when I do hear back from her, I'll let you all know how I handled it. Should be interesting huh?

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 6:23:08 PM
Does that mean that I DID anything with any of the people I've met? What do you care anyway? Has some GUY not gotten back to you when you asked HIM out? You sound like someone who got played and still has yet to get the taste out of his mouth. You also sound like someone who feeds off of internet drama. GET A DATE so we can hear about it!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 170 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 6:19:47 PM
At this point you're talking to yourself my man. Think what you want, write what you want. Enjoy the solitary life you live and stop hating on people you don't know. It's no one's fault that you're an underachiever in life except your own. If you think I'm a player, you've obviously missed something in your 49 years of existing.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/31/2005 5:58:26 PM
What did I expose myself as cowman? I haven't hooked up with anyone or dated anyone since my date that caused this thread to be written? So what are you talking about?

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 166 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 5:54:22 PM
Smitten, I would love to do all the things you suggested but a call back is in order on her part. Last week, I asked her if she wanted to go out again, she said yes and that this week would be good for her. When I asked her what day would be good for her, I never heard back from her and still have yet to. Should she call, I'll let everyone know. In the meantime, a rolling stone gathers no moss...I won't be sitting around waiting to hear back from her. That's the best thing about life: Options :) If she calls, I'll definitely want to go out with her again, if not, I feel like I've done my part. I'll pursue, but I won't chase

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 165 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 5:49:55 PM
Just saw your profile: You're 49 years old, divorced, live in cold-assed Canada and have a COW as your profile picture. Get a date outside of that dog in your lap...I can now see why you sound so salty!

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 164 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/31/2005 5:46:09 PM
Mel, if you think I need to get attention from women in: Canada and other far off places in relation to where I live, you're even more bitter than you sound. Read all 7 pages and you'll see who I talked to and what I said. If anyone wants a pseudo-psycho-analyst, we'll give you a call. You from the midwest or somethin? Always cold where you're at? Lighten up, smile sometime. No one's groveling or complaining on here except you.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

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Met a GREAT girl Online - LADIES ADVICE NEEDED! Posted: 10/30/2005 10:24:55 PM
You tell a guy "how you feel" after going out with him ONCE??

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 157 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/30/2005 5:59:42 PM
Hey Sexy....I didn't text her to ask for a date. I text her to find regarding the football game she watched :) I did text her to find out what day she wanted to get together this upcoming week, which went unreturned. She had JUST gotten the previous text I had sent hear earlier that day because she responded to it. No biggie. Don't know if she is or ever was a "dream" girl, but I sure did had a good time with her! Thanks for the compliments. I think you're pretty sexy and cool yourself. As I mentioned, I meet a lot of people, that's not the issue. It would just be nice to meet someone, be interested, have her be interested, and see where the current takes us you know? In the meantime, there's too much fun to be had. I live in San Diego for gosh sakes, if I can't have a good time here, I'm either dead or socially innept ;)

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 31 (view)

For guys- ball cupping Posted: 10/30/2005 9:11:18 AM
I like them tickled...you know, as if you were giving me chills on my back? Give me chills, gently, with your fingertips...I'd better stop writing about this....its my FAVORITE thing to have done down there and just the thought is, well, distracting :)

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

What Is Going On With Him? Posted: 10/30/2005 9:06:46 AM
I JUST saw that the poster is 19 years old......HONEY! This type of crap happens when you're 19 years old!! LOL Sorry but there really are no rules when it comes to guys around this age. They're just boys....it's not an excuse for them but you can't expect very much in the way of faithfulness from a 15-22 year old guy. They're penises do 98% of their thinking for them hun. Sorry about that..it sucks, but it's true. And you know what? As guys get older, depending upon the guy, that percentage doesn't drop too much lower..

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 21 (view)

What Is Going On With Him? Posted: 10/30/2005 9:03:11 AM
Blu_Eyed, I disagree with YOU! Anyone that toys with other peoples' emotions just to make their private parts happy is a loser. There are many types of losers my dear. He could be making 200K per year and be a great dad, he's still a loser for treating people the way he's treating this girl. It's just an expression. She can do much, much better. Unfortunately, she's just as sex driven as he is and has a lack of self respect. Why would you let anyone treat you like that if you TRULY respected yourself? He has no reason to act any differently?? How about being an adult? How about treating others as he would like to be treated? Those are two pretty good reasons for acting differently? Would he like it if she was sleeping with his friend on the side? The next time someone cheats on you Blu-Eyed, follow your own advice and say, "something I've been doing is causing him to act this way." You'd be wrong, but you'd be following your own thought pattern.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 152 (view)

Met a GREAT girl online - LADIES, I NEED YOUR ADVICE!! Posted: 10/30/2005 8:49:35 AM
OK.....Let me make it clear that I did NOT wait 5 days to call her :) We went out last Friday night, we actualy exchanged a text on Saturday night. I knew she was watching her WSU Cougars play football and I text her and told her, "They had better cover the spread!" She text me back and asked me what the spread was....I text her back and told her. I then called her Monday to see how the rest of her weekend was - I left a voicemail message. She called me back on Tuesday. The truth is that since last Friday, I've met so many girls that she's starting to be a speck in MY rearview mirror :) I'm not saying that I don't think about her and would like to see her again, but hey, life is short, and I do meet a lot of people when I go out. I don't wind up clicking with 99% of them, but the smiles and compliments are nice to get nonetheless. What is it with women going crazy over a guy dressed up as a chick??!! I dressed up as a cheerleader for Halloween and you would have thought I was a male stripper! Gropping, kissing, money being thown at me to lift up my skirt, it was crazy!! But I liked it for the most part ;) Did I think about my great date from a week again last night? No....not for a second And for the record, I won't be calling her again. I think I've done enough. She still never answered me and let me know when she wanted to get together this upcoming week which I think is a little rude. Chemist, I wouldn't set any rules about seeing someone other than me if she does call...that's a bit psychotic for lack of a better word. We had one date, and now I'm setting rules for her? Not my style...she can do whatever she wants, rude or not.

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

LADIES ADVICE NEEDED!! Posted: 10/28/2005 11:34:47 PM
Thanks for weighing in Shokirra :) It's nice to see that there is one thoughtful woman out there

cubano

Joined: 8/29/2005

Msg: 30 (view)

Have I completely blown it??? Posted: 10/28/2005 7:31:26 PM
You LIKE him? How do you treat people that you DON'T like? Just tell people all you want is sex, since that's you're M.O. right now. When you decide you want more out of a person and think more of YOURSELF, then you won't be blowing things.

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