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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 2/11/2009 6:56:48 AM
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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/17/2008 8:16:14 AM
The posts just keep getting more and more intelligent. Now if we could just get rid of this Klopper kook, this whole thread might make some sense!

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Funny pick up lines Posted: 9/15/2008 6:59:29 PM
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Funny pick up lines Posted: 9/15/2008 6:59:07 PM
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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/15/2008 6:25:47 PM
I am glad everything is so nice right now. But 5+ years is a long time to be addicted and you do not become unaddicted in a day. There is a long road ahead and it is not going to be smooth. He is at the beginning of his sobriety so he is on a "fluffy pink cloud" so to speak. That could change tomorrow even though he has every intention of staying clean and sober. For your childs sanity and safety you need to understand that and not cause a bug ruckus and involve her when it happens. Because it will. Trust me. I think it is a good idea to have a professional supervisor in place, just in case! You are obviously a very intelligent woman, so do things the right way and this transition will be smooth as silk for your child. It may drive YOU nuts (and it would make me a little crazy too) but it doesn't have to be that way for the kid.

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/15/2008 11:21:32 AM
He stopped the visitiation because that is what addicts do. It sucks, but that is the way it is. Also, the child will not be taken away by two stangers, visitation usually takes place in your home or a public setting, like a park or McDonalds, it only needs to be for an hour or two at a time, and you can sit across the street with binoculars if you want!

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/15/2008 10:37:12 AM
Well Klopper, again you have shown your lack of mental capacity. Don't forget this thread started with pepsi claiming that after a long absence and problems with addiction, her childs father wanted to regain visitation with his child. Pepsi stated that she believes her child deserves both parents, she WANTS them to have a relationship, believes he has changed, is sober now and regrets the past. She NEVER states that he is a monster of any kind who has abused or molested the child in the past. So what was stopping the visitation from happening? She didn't like that he sent his brother over to resume the initial contact, she didn't like what the brother said years ago, she thought they were cowards, etc, etc, etc. That is called Parental Alienation and the courts see it all the time and have no patience whatsoever for it. Whether it is done by the mom or dad! The only real concern here is that he is an addict and only recently sober. And because of this the visits should be supervised because there will most likely be at least one relapse to come, that is part of recovery, and if it is not handled properly, the child WILL be put through crap. Also the visits should not be supervised by pepsi because of all of the obvious tension between herself and the father on matters that do not regard the child. Take that and shove it in your pie hole! And klopper, I never called you a moron or an a- hole, you have me confused with one of your other POS enemies, hahaha. I called you a BTH. I was right wasn't I? You are a gay male are you not??

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/13/2008 9:23:43 PM
And that is another good reason for supervised visits. They will not let him make any promises to the child so she will not be put through any crap. And if you allowed your children to go through all those years of garbage that says something about you.

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/13/2008 6:29:36 PM
Isn't coming "back and forth" the same as coming to see your child? This is why the family courts are full to capacity because of angry women like you who are still mad at the ex!

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/13/2008 4:36:14 PM
Well good for you if that is true. But get over the "my rights, his rights, I have the upper hand" stuff because that is not showing concern for your child. I can guarantee you that these are not HER concerns so why are they yours? Do you even know what her concerns are?? Maybe you should ask her.

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/13/2008 11:42:58 AM
Or is it a he? Sounds like a **** to me!!!

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/13/2008 11:39:48 AM
Klopper does not sound too intelligent does she?

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How do I get my ex to stop having my daughter meet so many of his girlfriends. Posted: 9/12/2008 11:44:31 PM
He's a selfish **stard. The only thing you can do is try to make him understand how he is hurting your child emotionally. You may have to get creative to make him "get it" but once he does things may change.

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Advice Violent Stepfather Posted: 9/12/2008 11:35:18 PM
You can and should do what you can to protect your son. Maybe child welfare should be called.

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/12/2008 10:13:38 PM
Klopper you suck

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/12/2008 10:06:30 PM
If my ex showed up I would petition the courts for supervised visits given his history, period. I would not try to decide whether i would "let him see his child" because he did this wronge or that wronge.

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/12/2008 9:49:42 PM
But none of that crap matters. All that matters is that your child must know that her dad cares about her for her emotional well being. And if you guys end up in court, that is exactly what a judge will think too. The judge will not care about you, your ex, what anyone did wronge, what anyone's brother did wronge, etc. He will also order a reconciliation to take place right away with a professional supervisor- which is what is best for your child given his history. And he will have to pay for it - not you. The supervisor is the one qualified to determine if he should have unsupervisied visits, not you. That is your child's father period. And he has every right to see her and you have no right to make the decision of whether or not you will "let him."

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I was informed yesterday......... Posted: 9/12/2008 1:27:27 PM
You are not showing concern for your daughter in my opinion, you are showing that you are unreasonable. It does not matter who showed up at your house or if they went about things the right way or wronge way, he took the first step and that is all that matters. Your child needs to know her father loves her for her own mental and emotional well being. It does not matter what YOU think or what YOU like. All that matters is your child. Supervised visitiaton that is phased in is not unreasonable given his history. But it should not be with you. That is absolutely unnecessary. Your child does not need to witness what is obviously unreasonable and alienating behavior. Why does your child think her daddy doesn't love her or want to see her? Obviously you are encouraging this belief in her or she would not have it. And this is not healthy for her. I have seven year old daughter who's father really HAS abandoned her. He has never made any contact since she was three. YOUR childs father loves her and wants to be in her life, stop punishing him because he became sick- and addiction is a disease just like cancer, and stop emotionally abusing your daughter because you are angry with him.

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