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 Author Thread: 28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/19/2009 2:04:43 PM
Sheila.....you should come with or without a friend, I peeked at your profile....you'll fit right in with us all, there are a couple of regular ladies that come from York and I may be able to put them in touch with you....but if you come on your own we will meet you at the door or one of the York ladies will..

Lolly...not you as well with this BB lark.....oh...it was me that offered the free drink for anyone who guessed what BB stands for!!!!.....so only one person has guessed it right...by chance as it happens....but Bridget Bardo, in disguise.....damn you spotted my secret Lolly... ...

Lynne...I'll keep you informed via the site or I'll text you, we sometimes have a night round Rotherham so I'll let you know about those too, usually just a few of us, Pat, Sandra, me, and couple of others.

Sooooo.........the counter really needs a good kick....seems to be stuck...come on folks pass the word about the party night around on the 28th...and get signed up....we do need to know approx numbers so it does help...

Sees yer later......Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
I think I've scared him big time, how to resolve this?
Posted: 11/19/2009 1:50:43 PM
From a guys perspective.....next time you are near him and there is a smile engage him in conversation and keep looking him in the eye...even say...ohh we keep passing like ships in the night, and we will have to stop meeting like this....yeah corny...but it still gets a smile..if he smiles or laughs/responds...ask if he would like to have coffee with you sometime...if he accepts you are on your way...coffee talk and...it may lead to a date away from work.
Butttttt....never, never tell a cleaner anything....total gossips they are....and they like a bit of excitement being involved
Failing that just ask him outright if he wants to meet up for a drink on evening...

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 65 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/18/2009 3:54:47 PM
Hiya Lynne...you know you're invited....but you don't need an invite...no one does...its open to anyone to join in...just let us know if you're coming...then we can share transport and look out for each other on arrival.
Disappointed you're not coming to the meet on 28th....will you change your mind if I offer you both a lift with me or Pat?

See you soon and take care Lynne (maybe I might join you at the cinema one day, how do you sit through tree films!!!!)

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/16/2009 1:46:24 PM
Hi kookycaz.....you're all signed up my dear....when you click on the link to sign up it puts your profile photo in the list, or if you don't have a photo you get a question mark with your profile name underneath.....and when it goes back to the main page you will see yourself there.

We look forward to having the pleasure of your company amongst us all on the 28th Kookycaz...enjoy and make new friends...and come and say Hi to us...

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
being honest with yourself?
Posted: 11/15/2009 1:18:39 PM
exceptionalgirl.....read your post...looked at your profile...laughed...and how true and refreshing...I couldn't have put it better....brilliant.
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 50 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/13/2009 2:33:24 PM
Hi Jane.....nice one....perfect post...couldn't have put it better.....but..................I have to say....those of you who have not given it a chance and desserted the event in favour of a non exclusive PoF event on the same night........shame on you.....please understand the difficulties we had on the last event and mis-information...but on the 28th we have exclusive use of the main room......and don't forget...the move to a new venue was forced upon us by the last place going into administration....give us break and at least understand and give it a chance.......we will still have a good night and enjoy ourselves.....

Come on everyone....get signed up.....and any queries just message Jane or myself...

I'll kick the counter in the absence of Rose......owww me foot.....get the b.....y thing oiled...

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/12/2009 2:17:29 PM
Jane my little sweety.....congratulations....drinks on you then on Saturday at the Shed????

Oooooo Baille will miss you...get used to getting up in the mornings again.....but seriously great news....go girl go....

Oh Jane..... change the font colour and remove the underline on the intro page....its email address blue and the underline makes it a link to your profile

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/11/2009 4:42:42 PM
Sorry Pat....nope...try again mate.....

As for Yvonne...how many guesses were there!!!...well I can now tell you that.........It's non of them ...tehe....try again young lady.....nobody is going to guess it I reckon...but.....a clue...you got the first word in two of your suggested answers Yvonne....
I'm getting you back for all your riddles and brain teaser questions you keep setting.....can you beat me????? are we getting competitive here....are you a good loser????? lol

Don't forget free drink on me for whoever gets the answer.....

Bye for now gang.....

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/10/2009 12:50:47 PM
Hahaha...Sandra.....no....not Bossy boots....or Best Buddy Pat.....try again folks

Lynne...we were all there...but some had drifted into the other room, I think the fancy dress altered peoples appearance...I had to look close or twice to recognise who they were as the outfits were very good...didn't recognise Jill at all at first.....we will all be there on the 28th..

The sign up problem is that all the text that is in blue and underlined. This is a way of putting a link to a web page so that if you click on it the link will will go to the associated page, which happens to be Jane's profile. I'll have a little chat with Jane to see if she can alter it.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 28 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/9/2009 1:11:43 PM
Commando...you're signed up and listed, when you click on the button it puts your profile picture up and name and re-loads the first page...

Welcome to the best PoF party atmosphere in the North....all you need to do is turn up on the night, see the person on the door, get your wristband and an optional name badge (profile name or real name) and then mingle...find or ask to meet a Ponte/Normanton regular and one of us will introduce you to others and make sure you don't just sit or stand on your own.....you may be dragged onto the dance floor by one of the regular ladies to dance with the rest of us.

We are all very sociable and remember our first time...as for me I've been attending since the first time I went...lots of good friends have been made......

Anyone else thinking of coming on thier own...just let us know....someone will be allocated to meet and greet you at the door and escort you in....schimples....

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/9/2009 1:02:51 PM
Pat and Yvonne.....nope not Big Brother.....someone must surely get it...

Yvonne...now would I steal your thunder and riddles!!! bet you can't solve my question....I also have a bone to pick with you.....you implied I cheated on your riddle by copying Pat's answer...I'll have you know young lady that Pat and I have a similar level of intelligence and got the answer on my own merit...Pat just got his answer in before me cos I was at work...so there Ms .........oops nearly put your surname...not appropriate on here...lol...

So...Linda (niceyorkiegirl) refers to me as B B .....why...what does BB stand for....no cheating now....

Now where's my friend Jane....she gone quiet.....I'll give the counter a good hard kick... ....

Come on peeps...get yourself signed up for the party....Sandra...come on get yer name down...

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
Photos & Comments: SHEFFIELD SINGLES PARTY: 2nd Oct '09
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:20:39 PM
A lot in their 30's, 40's, 50's, and 60's Sam.....it's usual for an event...the age group is middle and mature ages, predominantly mid late 40's and early 50's...its common across all events.

We get the same at Pontefract, Bradford, and Batley.....why not visit one of them one day...next Pontefract/Normanton one is 28th November.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 12 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/8/2009 1:15:39 PM
Nope Jill......not Big Bopper...although it does fit...lol

Guess again...some of you could get it...think about it......maybe a clue later if there's enough guesses.....worth a free drink at the event on the 28th November....but you have to be there to get the drink...

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/8/2009 11:56:51 AM
It seems I have new name or nick name.. .BB is it Linda... .....that'll get them guessing....a drink for anyone who can guess why BB and what it stands for.....don't tell them or give any clues out Linda....

See ya'll soon...

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
28TH NOVEMBER..PONTE CREW IN NORMANTON....PARTY TIME
Posted: 11/8/2009 11:06:38 AM
Well that's me signed up Jane....SO WHERE'S THE REST OF YERS.......get signed up gang....come on...

Whoppeeee.....Linda's signed up....hiya chuck....might make engine shed on Saturday...

Steve

 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 49 (view)
 
Sheffield POF party at Sheffield Utd Conferencing Suite on 6th November 2009
Posted: 11/5/2009 2:17:00 PM
As a seasoned event attendee....I can assure you all that you don't need to be nervous...there are others on their own going, and some that are regulars who come on their own.

Ladies...If you see another female on her own go up and ask to stand with her and chat, or if their is a small group of ladies then ask to join them, virtually all will accept you...same go's for the guys.

There will be three ladies who are first timers that I will introduce to others so that they are not left out or on their own, regular event people always welcome new people and help them.

Oh....and the events are not what some think , particularly those who never go to one think different to what it is...it is not a knocking shop evening, or a meat market, or a pick up place for one night stands....sorry any guys who were if you were hoping it was.....you'll be disappointed . The majority of ladies (and guys) are self respecting people, everyone should be treated with respect and courtesy.

So...lets have a good night and enjoy ourselves amongst friends old and new...party on..

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 25 (view)
 
HALLOWEEN PICS .....VILLAGE PEOPLE EVENT AT NORMANTON
Posted: 11/4/2009 3:10:31 PM
Ahhhh alas Yvonne I cannot take the credit for the photo, it's on Jills Facebook photo's, however I must get mine into my PC...can't find the bloody usb lead tho....as for the ideal!!! .....yep I'm still right Yvonne...cos I'm Mr Right....lol

As for the venue and night...nope...saying nowt...WHY....cos it's already been said and I'm too lazy tonight to write too much....I said it before...it's the people that make it good...I get to know more and more people every time, and they me.....I really enjoy all your company..so diverse.

I brought two ladies up with me from Sheffield, thier first time and wondering just exactly what these events were like...so now they know and they both really enjoyed it...if fact I think Ann posted a comment to that effect...and they are both coming to Sheffield now and likely to be at future Normanton nutters events......

Ann Marie...jadey....well you were jadey that night....unusual for you to be that sozzled....you and Maureen are two very lovely ladies.

Well that's me for tonight....Sheffield Meet this Friday if anyone's up for it...get in touch

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 160 (view)
 
PONTE CREW HALLOWEEN PARTY AT THE VILLAGE MOTEL 31ST OCTOBER
Posted: 10/31/2009 10:19:47 AM
Partying...partying....yep five of us started partying last night..Sandra (her usual fun zany self)...Pat on good form....Julie (Not been to Ponte but going to sheffield next week) also on fine form...Geoff...and me...we rocked and livened up a few bars in Rotherham...I even got my Bum pinched and propositioned......by a man!!!!!!!

So....just shows its the people that make the night.....just join in and don't be afraid to approach us all and join us.

Jill...if you're feeling a bit off I presume you and Kazza had a good night in Huddersfield...

Jane...sorry chuck...no fancy dress form tonight had too many pressing things to deal with...at least I have a house sorted now for when I move out on completion date...and YES...there probably will be a moving out party/get together and house warming....so watch this space....

See you all soon

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 133 (view)
 
PONTE CREW HALLOWEEN PARTY AT THE VILLAGE MOTEL 31ST OCTOBER
Posted: 10/27/2009 2:57:21 PM
Hi gang...Some the Ponte South Yorkshire crew are getting together Friday night for trip round the lively Rotherham bars...anyone want to join us????

Message me or Pat, thats...pjkpat...if you want to join us and for the details...

otherwise I'll see you all on Saturday....oh bringing a friend so the numbers are plus one..

I'm gona give the counter a kick...you oiled it Jane?

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 132 (view)
 
A little bit worried
Posted: 10/27/2009 2:52:47 PM
Bob, Sure people will help you I'm sure and I will assist when needed. Thanks for the information about the software. I have a brother in law on the ex wife's side who is visually Impaired and uses Jaws, he often complains about it, I find it annoying as well when I help him. I will pass on to him the details you kindly supplied and he may get in touch with you. My Brother in law is also concerned about Hazel, his guide dog, it will be the first bonfire night for him with Hazel and he is not sure how she will react. See you Saturday.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 123 (view)
 
PONTE CREW HALLOWEEN PARTY AT THE VILLAGE IN NORMANTON 31ST OCTOBER
Posted: 10/25/2009 5:45:35 PM
This is for Bob and Gus, do you know which railway station you are arriving at and at what time? I think one of us regulars could arrange to meet you at the station and get you to the venue. Have you arranged assistance on the trains and at the stations?
Do you use jaws bob?

Steve (profile name is ayoungmindguy)
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 118 (view)
 
PONTE CREW HALLOWEEN PARTY AT THE VILLAGE IN NORMANTON 31ST OCTOBER
Posted: 10/25/2009 6:23:21 AM
Jane....course you're invited....and my other ponte friends....not forgetting Sandra...how can you forget Sandra....lol.....but don't get too excited yet...cos don't know date yet for moving....just realised I've just packed all my glasses...oh well it's plastic cups or bring your own glass....and booze...lol

Yvonne uk....we still have not had that dance you promised me....we keep missing each other....hope you will make it and still come...chill out after work...do you good..

There's a Sheffield event the week after the 'Normanton Ponte crew' event on Friday the 6th November if anyone's interested, message me or have a look on my profile for the details....

Positive the fun will just be the same...shouldn't make any difference now it's at a different venue...cos it's the people who make it work and enjoyable...everyone is made welcome and no one is left out left out....unless they want to be...

Jill, Pat and I had a cracking night at the Gasworks last night....can't beat a live band...the whole place shuddered and vibrated to 'Don't Stop Believing' (it should be the POF theme tune)...they must have heard it in Leeds...the lead singer didn't need to sing...the audience did it for him....we rocked...good job we put the clock back....didn't get in till 4:30...well 3:30 with the extra hour..

See you all soon........Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 107 (view)
 
PONTE CREW HALLOWEEN PARTY AT THE VILLAGE IN NORMANTON 31ST OCTOBER
Posted: 10/22/2009 2:14:21 PM
there we have it...Jane wants to see me in a Village People outfit!!!! and the rest of the regular guys.....knew she was a bit kinky.....lol you must be the only one Jane...and which outfit???

Right.....cheers Jane and not forgetting Ray....venue sorted and the famous Ponte parties lives on.....as for a new name........nope not an inkling of one...yet...

Sorry guys for not posting much....been a tad busy...sold me house....looking and finding a new one....busy at work....so ready for the 31st and time to party. There may even be a little house leaving party at my end!!!!!!!!!

See you all soon.....

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 17 (view)
 
Sheffield Meet 2nd Oct comments and photo's
Posted: 10/8/2009 2:38:24 PM
Welcome to the forums Janet, you can post in the events threads now and sign up for the events..see you soon

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
PONTEFRACT HALLOWEEN PARTY AT THE PARKSIE HOTEL 31ST OCTOBER
Posted: 10/4/2009 3:02:13 PM
I might just come along to the engine shed...

hey Lynn do you want a lift as I'm coming from Rotherham and up the A1 to Wetherby, Friday at the Sheffield party night...was hoot wasn't it...glad you enjoyed it

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Sheffield Meet 2nd Oct comments and photo's
Posted: 10/3/2009 2:05:24 PM
Permissions sorted and Michael will be shortly uploading them, but he has some editing to do and file size reductions......so watch this space.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Sheffield Meet 2nd Oct comments and photo's
Posted: 10/3/2009 1:58:31 AM
If you click on an individual photo it will open in a new window to view better.

If anyone wishes to have their photo taken off, then please message me and I will remove it.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 10/2/2009 7:06:14 PM
Hi all and well done Sam.

An after party event thread is now there, if you cant see it just go to UK forums and then click on the word Images next to the event posts wording.

The link is
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13210075.aspx

You can also post you comments and any suggestions on the post and view the photo's when I work out how to transfer them off my new camera and into my PC.

What a good night and have to say a big thank you to Sandra (a Pontefract regular) for coming down and helping out make people feel at ease, and to Mick for being out photographer.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
Sheffield Meet 2nd Oct comments and photo's
Posted: 10/2/2009 6:59:08 PM
Hi all

Well what a night.
Aoplogies to all those that had a problem getting in, the truth of the matter was that the management at SUFC messed up and decided to put us in the small room when Sam had already talked to them about numbers and they agreed to us having one of the bigger rooms. This will not happen again, they will believe us when we tell them we have 140 plus coming.
However we did manage to sort it out and move into the large room rather than struggle with the small room. Next time there will be tables and seating, a proper dance floor down, and an even better atmosphere.

Thank you to all those that attended and hope to see you at the next one which hopefully will be in about 4 or 5 weeks.

Watch the threads for notification of the next one and for signing up, photo's will be on soon.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 91 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 10/2/2009 9:46:19 AM
So are we all ready to have a good time and party....yes we are...spoke to Sam earlier and she was already in the party mood.....

Now what to wear...hmm....smart black jeans and shirt...sorted....unlike you ladies
Did you all start looking and thinking three days ago?...and still not decided... oops...better run... lol

See you all later and enjoy..

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 79 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:48:59 PM
Good point Sam.....it's all about being welcoming, sociable, and everyone treated the same, as for funky moves....hmmm we'll see.

So..Ladies...if you want to get on the dance floor and dance...but not on you own...come and grab me and I'll dance with any of you....

Chris...can you remember what we have learnt so far at the Jive class???? Cos I can't yoyo, man slide, basket, mamba, basic, reverse mamba.....

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
why do men go to prostitutes and women dont??
Posted: 10/1/2009 12:10:38 PM
whats that phrase..."every woman is sat on gold mine"!!!!!

I want to make love, not have a quick fumble and wham bam thank you mam with a drugged up female that only wants your money, this here guy will go without rather than pay for it.

Women can always find a man for sex, therefore they don't have to pay for it...statics show that STD's are rapidly increasing in the 40's and 50's age group because women are more liberated now and go out with the intention of finding a one night stand.

If they can afford it they will go with a male escort, but isn't that where they have a meal and the booking is for the full evening or afternoon?
or are they on here looking for a date and to be taken for a meal on the first date...we men pay and then back to hers....isn't that another form of prostitution????

As for sexual fetishes, why can't people discuss it with their partners and have an open discussion? communication and compromise are two elements of a successful relationship...and it could be something their partner has wanted to try but dare not say because of social conditioning and the partner being judgemental.

Wish I was the Guy that invented the rabbit...
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 10/1/2009 11:43:59 AM
Oh Sam....thanks for calling me a nice hunky man.... you must be referring to me cos I'm meeting Chris (CT) at the door....who else can it be!!!!! lol
If I can remember the Jive dance moves CT and I might do a jive round the dance floor.....you up for that Chris?

Get the music on and get in the mood.....don't burn the food Sam...lol
Happy fishing
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 23 (view)
 
PONTEFRACT.....THE PARKSIDE 26TH SEPTEMBER.....PICS AND COMMENTS
Posted: 9/30/2009 5:06:07 PM
Wot no photo's yet, what's happened to them...

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/30/2009 5:02:56 PM
Hi Musique, many come to meet someone they have been talking to at these events because it's safe, and if you are now in a relationship but not married, then you could still come, and bring your partner as well. It is about meeting and making new friends, not purely for finding a date

SUFC is near town and not far from the train & bus station, it's on Shoreham Street, Sheffield Wednesday's ground is the one far from town.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 66 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/30/2009 10:30:53 AM
Jade...I may have a 2 spare seats to give you a lift, picking another lady up as well from Rotherham so can offer a lift there and back. I'm picking up near Brecks and Treeton so far.

Message me with your location/area of Rotherham and we can arrange where to pick you up from, please don't post any reference to your address in the thread.

Looks like I will have a car full

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 61 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/29/2009 11:28:25 AM
Hi oneforthehaters, and all you mid 20's guys and gals.....GOOD NEWS...I've just done a count up of male and female on the attendees list, and those who have posted and say they are bringing friends on this thread; the good news my friends is that in your age bracket its about even.
My daughter has attended these events with me in the past and complained there are no men in their 20's....she is missing this one and there are guys in her age bracket...so she's missing out...hang on I'm her father...should I be encouraging her!!!

It's looking even in all age brackets, a good mix of people to mingle with, dance, chat, and make new friends whatever the age and have a really good evening, there will be a number seasoned Pof event people there to make sure we have a good night.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/28/2009 3:06:06 PM
I second Shelly's comment.......nothing wrong with us older ones...

Hey Shelly are you bringing Rachael with you? be fun for us seasoned Poffers to show the new ones how social and fun we all are....and as for the granddad comment from a guy's post.....some may be older but we can sure dance the night away.

Sam...from experience of other events 95 so far signed up is a good number plus those who have said they are bringing a friend, probably get around 130 + ish on the night maybe up to 150....and yes it possibly will be evenly matched.
I am coming with three other guys, two are from this area and attend the Ponte events, so got them to come to this one, but they have not signed up yet, that does happen a number of people turn up but don't sign up

But....guys.....if you are thinking everyone who goes is hoping to 'pull', or the women are after a 'one night stand'...forget it...the majority of the LADIES that generally attend want a fun pleasant evening and maybe to meet someone to get to know them, lets have some respect for both sexes here.

So....it's going to be a good night....if you are a female on your own and want to come but feel reluctant at walking in your own, then message myself or Sam and we can arrange to meet you at the door and take you in and introduce you to other female regular event poffers who you can chat to.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 44 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/27/2009 3:10:14 PM
Hi Jumpster...it's possible you may be in luck...there are two lovely ladies from Glossop that may be coming, they attend the Pontefract events and they are seriously considering coming over to Sheffield, but they may stay over. If they are coming and travelling back I'll put you all in touch with each other.
Oh an Canada sounds good to me, shame I'm two years out....lol

Sam...no problem I'll continue recruiting, anyone unsure who wants the real picture of these events just send me a message.....they are fun, relaxed, evenings, they are NOT...pick up evenings, one night stand gatherings or cattle markets....just thought I'd make that clear as someone thought that's what they were and have now changed their mind after going to the Pontefract event.

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 13 (view)
 
PONTEFRACT.....THE PARKSIDE 26TH SEPTEMBER.....PICS AND COMMENTS
Posted: 9/27/2009 2:54:33 PM
Ah my friend Jane....taking the 'p' again.....look it up...it means nervousness, apprehension, unease, fear, misgivings, and concern......but you knew that lol

Hey Marie, it was good to see you back and that you have finally reached your goal an found what you were looking for....did you mange to prise yourself away from the attachment....lol....I thought you were stuck there at the picnic table all night...lol...

As for the phrase 'Cattle Market'...that was the comment by the women I talked to who were there for the first time at an event...their description...but all of them said it was nothing like that at all...

Ann Marie....lost again tut...what shall we do with you...hey one of your friends wants to come to the parties (the one from Nottingham).....put her in touch with me if she wants to come to the Sheffield one that she mentions...have you read her comment on F.B.?

Pat....do we have to get together with Sandra for the outfits for the next one??...lol ...has Sandra still got the same idea...the one I'm not sure that will work...how will we spend a penny??? (That'll get em wondering... )

Steve

PS...hey I got some food this time....nice spread....it didn't all go before I got there...nice snacks Jane...what happened to Lolly...she didn't come?
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 36 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/27/2009 4:23:17 AM
Steve Mexbro.......that's a bit negative....20 ladies so far signed up....in my experience there are roughly equal male and female at the events, so I would not base judgement on how sign up, a lot don't sign up but still turn up. In fact last night at the Pontefract event the men were out numbered by the ladies....yes for the first time it was approx 1 man to 2 ladies!!!!! a lot of them were first timers to these events...I never stopped dancing and talking to someone all night and into the early hours...yes I am suffering from lack of sleep from talking in the bar until 4:30 this morning but made some new friends. Its about socialising and enjoying single's fellowship...not a cattle market....yes you may meet someone special but at least you will have met some new friends both male and female.

So Steve Mexbro..come along and see.

Smoochyone....nice to see you coming, not seen you at an event for a while (Bradford and Ponte) it will be strange for you not organising it this time, you did some cracking parties in Sheffield until you stopped.

Sam...recruited about 6/7 people who were at Pontefract last night to come to Sheffield, maybe more, some are from South York's, some further away and some are regulars so they can help spread the message....

Right time for the Singapore Grand Prix.....see ya later

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 5 (view)
 
PONTEFRACT.....THE PARKSIDE 26TH SEPTEMBER.....PICS AND COMMENTS
Posted: 9/27/2009 4:21:34 AM
Afternoon all

Another fab evening with lots of friends, who I have met and become friends with through these social events, and it's ever increasing. To all the new people that came last night that I talked to and danced with I hope to see you all again at the next one in October.

It was good to talk to new members and get their view, many came with trepidation in that they thought or had been told it was a cattle market etc...only to find it was definitely not like that at all and everyone at the end of the evening and again this morning with those who stayed over said they had a fantastic night and would be coming back.

Sandi...glad we could make your birthday a good one, did Martina get back ok? you know what I mean!! You are lovely pair of ladies and I enjoyed your company apart from keeping me up till 4;30 am!!!! lol.....only joking.

Not going to mention all the names because there are too many to list now, bit like Sandra's comment and post. Bur have to mention Jane because she organises it all and puts the hard work in, we all support her in some way...thanks again Jane.

Hope Jane doesn't mind....but there is another party this Friday at Sheffield, so if you fancy another good night out come and join the South York's crowd this Friday, details via the following link...don't forget to still come to Ponte though...and Ponte will be advertised on the Sheffield threads.

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13110543.aspx

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/26/2009 5:15:41 AM
Well looking forward to the first Sheffield meet in a long time....well done Sam...sorry I've not been intouch...work issues...but ring/text/email me with anything you need help with and advice.....who's on the door...have you got other co hosts/helpers yet.



Oh and Hey...Chris (Chestnut Tree)....we going to practise our jive moves for Friday??? anyone else Jive??

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 109 (view)
 
PARTY AT THE PARKSIDE 26TH SEPTEMBER
Posted: 9/26/2009 4:38:57 AM
Hmmmm well yes....MSO...or was it SMO.....whichever.......look it up on the internet ladies.....oh all right I'll do it for you......

oh dear....one site says.... ½ oz Vodka; ½ oz Amaretto; ½ oz Kahlua; ½ oz Baileys Fill a shaker with ice. Add all the ingredients and shake well. Strain into a tumbler.

another site says...To make a twelve ounce glass of Screaming Multiple Orgasm you need half an ounce of Vodka, half an ounce of Tia Maria or Kaluha, half an ounce of Baileys, some chocolate sauce, a little chocolate milkshake mix, some whipped cream and some milk and cream (half and half).

You're going to want a clean twelve ounce Collins****ail glass. A little bit of chocolate sauce around the sides of the glass, and then fill with clean fresh ice.

To mix your****ail, you want a sixteen ounce Manhattan****ail shaker and in it, you're going to put a half ounce of Vodka. Follow up with a half ounce of coffee liquor, and a half ounce of Baileys.

You want about six ounces of milk and cream and a little splash of chocolate milk shake mix. A little ice in the tin for mixing, and then shake it hard to blend all the ingredients together.

And use your mixing glass, separate the ice and the mixture, on top of that a little whipped cream, and decorate with some more chocolate sauce. A couple of straws and you've got your Screaming Multiple Orgasm.

So...there you have it ladies.....a real SMO would be simpler.....
Think I'll settle for a straight bottle of ale or a pint of best bitter ...simples...lol

See you all later...and I've just taken the last room with a shower...a double at that...big bed all to myself...lol
Steve.....
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
How often do you purchase new underwear?
Posted: 9/19/2009 12:32:57 PM
{For reasons way too disgusting to go into I believe mens knickers should not be available in white. Ok they may look good but certain things may occur during the wearing and its just not pleasant. Stick to black. Eww.}

Errr sorry but I have to disagree here, all men are not the same, I wear white and they are changed not only daily, but also before I go out for the evening...and I do not leave the certain things you refer to in them, would that be skid marks you are referring to? nope not me, I'm particular about hygiene and cleanliness, However skid marks are not just a male phenomenon, my ex used to leave them now and again, god knows why she couldn't just put them in the laundry basket rather than the floor when she took them off.
As for funny or fancy ones, I'd rather let the lady I'm seeing choose and buy them, then wear them for her pleasure...lol
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 86 (view)
 
***26TH SEPTEMBER** PARTY AT THE PARKSIDE HOTEL, PONTEFRACT***
Posted: 9/17/2009 11:39:30 AM
It seems there is a party organised in Sheffield...anyone fancy coming to it and getting the first one in Sheffield for a while of the ground....copy an paste the link into your bowser...but don't forget Ponte cos it's the best.

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13110543.aspx

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 77 (view)
 
***26TH SEPTEMBER** PARTY AT THE PARKSIDE HOTEL, PONTEFRACT***
Posted: 9/16/2009 3:48:36 PM
Ohh this Ceroc and Jive is getting serious....will we be all Jiving and doing Ceroc before long....well confession time...I have been going to Jive classes down here...so look out you ladies who are doing Ceroc/Jive...I may grab you onto the dance floor.

Do you all realise that it's good to post even if it's only one line....because.....it keeps th Ponte Party at the top of the list of events in the forum section...no posts and it drops down, and down, and down...and then ends up on the second page etc.....sso come on WHERE IS EVERYBODY....ROSE...SANDRA...DEE...PAT...ANN MARIE....even Fiona's disappeared.....so what's up gang.......

Well it seems I have a new recruit for the 26th, bringing her with me.....and she is my dance partner at the Jive classes...hmmm wonder if any of the other single ladies at the class would like to come. If there's any single guys (or ladies) reading this from Rotherham or Sheffield who want to learn to jive, then send me a message and I'll give you the details of where and when, the class is a bit short of men.

10 more sleeps (at the time of writing this) to go.......

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/14/2009 4:06:28 PM
Ok Sam, I have altered my demographics so you can message me now

Steve
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 71 (view)
 
***26TH SEPTEMBER** PARTY AT THE PARKSIDE HOTEL, PONTEFRACT***
Posted: 9/14/2009 1:23:25 PM
Heyup all.....
Now then Yvonne...why the shock at changing my photo??? It's not that bad is it...!!!

Jane...yep we had a good night a Birdwell Venue...Sandra was on form, Jill, Pat an I did our air guitar trio...again, and generally bounced around to the music, they were very good ,and they are playing in Bradford in October if anyone wants to see them, Jill, Pat, and I will probably be going so message us if anyone fancy's see 'A Foreigners Journey' at Bradford.

NOW....to the rest of you lot reading this...look lively...get signed up and posting...... I feel it would be beneficial to give an example of what Jane and the Ponte parties achieve...

Friday...Me, not doing anything, gets a text from one of my Ponte friends, do I want to join them for a night out round Doncaster, yep...I went...had a real fun night...oh the young guy that got the wedgie on the dance floor...Ooooooooo was he in pain, he should not have been bothering those young ladies, they really made him suffer...Sandra and Rose were on form and their two mates...no stopping her (this was all in Flares after visiting a few bars first).

Saturday...again Ponte mates...7 of us went to The Barnsley Venue to watch a live band mentioned above...a cracking night..

Sunday....met up with a POF friend and helped her out with a few things re moving house, and now I'm helping her move into her new house next weekend, I'm doing all the DIY stuff on the Sunday...curtain poles, mirrors up, all the things that need a drill etc..

So that was my weekend...spent with friends that I would not have met if I had not ventured to the Pontefract social meet/event...it makes difference to your life to have friends...good friends that you can talk to, meet up with, go out on the town with, anything really...engine shed, bowling, and just general get together's in-between the parties.

So before you say...'Jezz dun't he go on a bit' the point is....PONTE PARTIES are about FREINDSHIP, FELLOWSHIP, and enjoy life where you can. I have met some nice friends both male and female.....and to all I chat to, message with, dance with, etc..... thanks for being a friend.....NOW GET POSTING AND SIGNED UP AND PUT A SMILE ON JANE'S FACE (not that she needs it).

OK I'm done...Steve x
 ayoungmindguy
Joined: 6/16/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Event at Sheffield Tunnel Bar - 8pm on 2nd of October 2009!
Posted: 9/14/2009 12:57:43 PM
Hi there Sam

I have experience of events and meets, I go to Bradford and Pontefract more or less to every event. If I can offer some advise then it would be advantageous to have a look at other the posts of other party hosts and their layout.

I am/was in the process of also organising an event in South Yorkshire, and have three venues in mind that would accommodate the numbers.

I may be willing to help you out, you need to have co hosts as well as yourself on the main page so that people can message hosts with any questions.

I'm surprised you cannot mail out yet until you get 20 people, how else can you get at least 20 people signed up.

Pontefract is very successful and gets around 150 there every month, and has established a very good atmosphere and friendly people, it now has approx 12 co hosts that help on the door and meet and greet new people to the social part of POF.

Message me back if you want talk anything over or where you think I could help, I may be able to get some of the Pontefract regulars to come down and the South York's ones that travel to pontefract.

Bye for now...good luck

Steve
 
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