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Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is it hard to let go? Posted: 3/14/2007 7:01:06 PM
What do you mean you're parents wouldn't let you sleep with her? If I was 22 and my parents told me I couldn't sleep with someone, I'd laugh at them. Autism or not, you're an adult and they have no control over you. Many people with autism are unable to get any women, I even know a few neurotypicals like that. The fact that you can get a woman says something positive about your game. You'll find someone else man. Just read some of David DeAngelo's materials, take up a hobby you enjoy, and maybe start working out and become a tank. Women will find you irresitable. Good luck bro.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Chavez worse than Colombian Dictator Alvaro Uribe? Posted: 3/14/2007 6:50:48 PM
Uribe will get his soon, scandal is going to break out. It will likely be whitewashed by the US media though.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Chavez worse than Colombian Dictator Alvaro Uribe? Posted: 3/3/2007 11:11:35 AM
If you call getting less votes then your opponent and winning legal, then yes Bush legally one. Although why does America even bother to have elections if they already know who will win in advance.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Left wing bias Posted: 3/3/2007 8:16:39 AM
Did you ever stop to think that maybe you have a right wing bias. The media in the United States has a bias alright, but it isn't left wing trust me. People are just so indoctrinated with right wing propaganda that they think anything to the left of Fred Phelps is liberal.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Chavez worse than Colombian Dictator Alvaro Uribe? Posted: 3/3/2007 7:33:16 AM
I"m not saying Chavez is perfect but he is trying to help poor people, was democratically elected, and as far as I know, doesn't send death squads around Venezuela to kill political opponents. Uribe may have been elected (how democratically we don't know for sure) but Colombia is not a free country.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Left wing bias Posted: 3/3/2007 7:24:17 AM
"I think the most dismaying thing of all is how so many people say "conservative" and "liberal" when they really mean "Republican party" and "Democratic party". The majority of people who self-identify as conservatives and liberals have little or no power to influence the national agenda and little or nothing in common with those who do, while the two big parties in Washington are promoting an agenda that is arguably more kleptocratic than either "conservative" or "liberal", and have much more in common with each other than with anybody outside the Beltway." Exactly both parties in the States are right wing, the Repubicans are just slightly worse but not much. Both parties are pro neoliberal globalization, anti healthcare, and anti gay marriage (except a minority in the Democrat party). Most American Liberals are actually moderate conservatives or centrists.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Chavez worse than Colombian Dictator Alvaro Uribe? Posted: 3/3/2007 7:17:38 AM
Yeah but its not "Democracy" according to the Bush regime, "Democracy" is to Bush is doing what you're told and Chavez isn't playing by the "rules".

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Support Our Troops! Posted: 3/1/2007 1:25:53 PM
Someone on the second page said "I won't get into this bush bashing nonsense". He's absolutely right, criticizing the Bush regime for lying about the reasons for going to war, ignoring the human rights abuses of other countries, saying that Saddam has al queda connections and weapons of mass destruction, and misplacing funds is totally out of line. How dare anyone criticize the divine authority of the President. Anyone who speaks out against the war should be charged with treason and thrown in jail forever.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Political Apartheid in America Posted: 3/1/2007 12:39:51 PM
I agree with the OP, something has to be done to give more people access to run for public office. Right now America is a one party dictatorship, the Republicrats. Rather than debate issues, most elections focus on fear tactics and exploiting minor slip ups that politicians make. "I voted for it before I voted against it" and the botched Iraq joke are examples of this. I think the regime really underestimates the intelligence of its citizens and patronizes them.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Chavez worse than Colombian Dictator Alvaro Uribe? Posted: 3/1/2007 12:36:15 PM
Why is the democratically elected "dictator" of Venezuela, Hugo Chavez painted as this authoritarian, totalitarian dictator while Uribe of Colombia is painted as a democrat. Doesn't anyone in America realize that Uribe has been implicated in paramilitary scandals that have cost many Colombian civilians their lives. Uribe is also Bush's biggest ally in Latin America. Why isn't it ok to criticize Uribe but it is ok to criticize Chavez. Here's a link to Amnesty International about Colombian Human Rights Abuses. http://web.amnesty.org/report2005/col-summary-eng

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Left wing bias Posted: 2/28/2007 8:00:13 PM
Reality has a left wing bias.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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The Dangerous ACLU Posted: 2/28/2007 6:06:10 AM
You're absolutely right OP, we should abolish the ACLU, they are a dangerous leftist organization, hell bent on destroying America. Imagine, defending Free Speech, what country do they think they are in, Canada. I think we should go farther than abolishing the ACLU though, we should arrest anyone who speaks out against the government, critisizes the president, has sex outside of marriage, doesn't practice Christianity, engages in homosexual acts, or masturbates. The only way to defend freedom is to take it away.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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How do girls know if your taken or Single? Posted: 2/28/2007 5:57:24 AM
I think its just because you notice if they aren't interested when you're not in a relationship. You tend not to care when you are in one.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Posted: 2/17/2007 6:42:49 AM
oops wrong thread

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Lost the feeling Posted: 2/17/2007 6:33:50 AM
I dont' mean that a relationship couldn't happen, what I meant is if my gf of 12 years dumped me, I think I'd go nuts. My brain wouldn't be able to handle losing someone who has been with me for so long. I felt bad when i had to break up with my girlfriend of 8 months, i couldn't imagine breaking up with someone after 12 years.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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The Mind Boggling Male Posted: 2/17/2007 6:30:53 AM
Nothing mind boggling about guys, if you are frustrated they don't approach you, why don't you approach them. Yeah I agree with previous posters, most men have low self esteem and fragile egos. If a guy is rejected his ego will be shattered.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Lost the feeling Posted: 2/17/2007 6:19:04 AM
I'd say it was the 12 years more than anything else, thats a really long time. If I had a 12 year relationship that ended, I don't think I'd be able to handle it. Thats over half my lifetime lol.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Ex wants to stay friends and do everything as before, what is she saying? Posted: 2/17/2007 6:13:07 AM
Sounds like she is using you, she wants to keep you around in case she can't find anyone else. I'd distance myself from this one if I were you, just my advice though. I don't understand why she'd want to hang out if she doesn't have sexual attraction for you but she isn't dating you anymore so it's clear that she doesn't anymore. "Well put thank you very much, she has shown some emotion but it's like pulling teeth when i get her to talk how she truly feels. She strives to show and exhibit to everyone how strong and independant she is, at times being rude and sarcastic to prove that she is. I know she's not the one, but the last 6 months 90% of my time was with her, hard to find something to fill that time.....it's been a month and it's getting better and 98% ready to move on...." Why would she need to prove she's strong and independent, thats not necessary to attract guys. People who have to show off to others usually have mental health issues.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Close to 7 yrs without love in my life... What to do. Posted: 2/16/2007 5:25:26 AM
"I have to disagree with you there. If a man has slim/slender on his profile I won't even look at it and as for muscular, well they tend to spend too much time working on their bodies to be any fun. I prefer a guy with some meat on his bones. And as for Smjle, I looked at your profile, you are 5'11" and only 165 pounds. God man put on some weight!! You should be at least 20 pounds heavier, 30 would be even better. But that wouldn't even help you, you'd still have the same personality! To the OP, don't worry it'll happen. There's someone out there for everyone. You're young, go out more, spend less time behind the computer. Good luck!" Hey come on now its not nice to be making fun of skinny people, some people can't help it. As far as men prefering small petite girls I don't necessarily think thats true. What men really like are hot sexy girls with long hair, a cute face, nice big tits, a nice ass, lots of curves, and an intermediate weight. Not too thin or too fat. Height isn't really that important as long as the girl isn't a giant or a midget.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Dating the male your friend likes Posted: 2/15/2007 1:21:04 PM
"I have had this happen and the one thing that my friends and I always have, is an 'unwritten rule/respect'. If my friend likes someone, no matter if that person likes her and is more interested in me, its HANDS OFF. I can't date that person or be interested. To be its just a mutual respect. You can be friends with him, but to me, it really is a matter of respect for your friend. You may lose a friend for a guy that may not work out." It doesn't work like that, now if Brad liked Amy and the OP tried to break them up so she could date Brad that would be wrong. But if B doesn't like A anyways then the OP and B should be free to date. A doesn't own B, thats the silliest thing I've ever heard. If A is really your friend she'll get over it.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Ladies, What Turns You On? Posted: 5/17/2006 12:58:10 PM
That's a good question. Women complain if you don't tell them that they are hot but if you do tell them they are hot they say you are objectifying them.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Proud to be conservative Posted: 4/20/2006 5:47:15 AM
because liberal is a dirty word in america.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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What exactly is Dating Material in everyones opinion? Posted: 4/15/2006 2:58:38 PM
No, men don't like drama. This one doesn't anyways.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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AFTER ABOUT A YEAR HERE, I STILL HAVE NO PROSPECTS Posted: 4/13/2006 8:13:51 AM
Dude, you need some help. I suggest talking to a shrink and getting a prescription for Prozac.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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How to tell a man that you are not interested after meeting. Posted: 4/13/2006 7:54:01 AM
The woman should just say "I don't think you are a bad guy but you just aren't triggering my innate attraction mechanism. It's the way my brain is wired, I can't help it. It's not personal". Maybe then the women could tell him what he could do to trigger the attraction mechanism of women and then wish him well. You should be honest but not an A S S about it.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Im 18 and I really need your help! Posted: 4/6/2006 8:25:48 AM
"she's 18, she is been hurt a lot by guys but keeps going only for players (bet ya it's looks and height). Whose fault is it? Which player number is this?. She already claims that she does not like the good guys, so let her keep learning and hurting.... Sorry if I am very blunt, but you deserve this if you are only going for these kinds of guys." It's not her fault she can't choose who she feels attraction for. OP, sometimes attraction works against your best interests. I think you should let this guy go, I'm sure some other guy who isn't a creep will trigger your attraction mechanisms. You can do better.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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What Do Men Prefer????? Posted: 4/5/2006 7:38:09 AM
It doesn't matter. Women of all hair colours can be sexy.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why are there so many Bible Thumpers in America Posted: 4/1/2006 7:27:10 AM
Canada and most European countries are free as well. Freedom doesn't stop at the American border.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 6:30:12 PM
Je nes pas american. Je suis canadiene.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 5:57:49 PM
Je ne pas comprende les francais. Tu sont chaud.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 5:45:46 PM
Not that you would know what that was like

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 5:41:19 PM
Ladies, what would you do if you rejected a guy and then he just laughed it off and walked away with his head up high like it didn't even bother him. I wish I had the balls to walk up to any woman and not care if I got rejected or not, even laugh if I did. Damn inhibitory mechanism in my brain, Damn you evolution!

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 1:51:04 PM
This is good information stand up guy where do you get it from?

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 1:48:18 PM
My mistake, I thought you meant start confrontations with people. I agree you should stand up for your rights. It's kind of sad if adults still bully people but humans are animals after all and those who are sexually and/or emotionally unsatisfied as well as unintelligent will try to display their primal dominance.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 11:52:28 AM
Great post stand up guy, juggernaut I believe what you say about the alpha male stuff but you shouldn't get all up in people's faces and start shit. I do agree though stand your ground. Most real alphas don't start shit anyways because they are secure in themselves. It's only people who aspire to be alphas who aren't that do. They pick on small guys just to make women more attracted to them. Stand up for yourself though, women are attracted to it. Never tolerate disrespect to yourself or your property.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/19/2006 9:02:32 AM
I agree with Havana Joe. Our natural drives that evolved over millions of years are responsible for many of our behaviours. Thats why men like women with big breasts and curves and women like ripped guys who don't care about anything. It's all evolution.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/18/2006 6:15:39 PM
"there is nothing worse than false confidence yuck" Hate being tricked by an "insecure loser" don't you. I used to be insecure so I'm not against faking confidence until you get some. We all go through a lack of confidence stage. We just don't talk about it.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/18/2006 1:14:35 PM
It's not a catch phrase of the decade. More like the last one million years.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Why is Confidence so Important? Posted: 3/18/2006 1:05:43 PM
The reason confidence is so important is because it is wired into their brain. It is part of what triggers their innate attraction mechanism. I know you've learnt a bit about that from another thread. Confidence and humour are the two keys into a woman's heart (and her snatch too). Just don't badmouth yourself ever again, get some hobbies (as you've been doing), and listen to the advice on your other forum. Some of it is bad but you know who I'm talking about lol.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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best video game of all time Posted: 3/8/2006 6:09:27 PM
Civilization was a good game.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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best video game of all time Posted: 3/7/2006 5:16:20 PM
Final Fantasy 2 (IV) and Final Fantasy 3 (VI) were probably the two best RPGs for the Super Nintendo. Ogre Battle and Secret of Mana were also great games.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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astrological signs and how you dream Posted: 3/2/2006 9:52:48 AM
What about someone born October 26th.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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memorial service for police horse Posted: 3/1/2006 6:22:36 PM
Why do you think humans are so special. Also do the extinct members of the genus Homo count as human.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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memorial service for police horse Posted: 3/1/2006 6:18:12 PM
"The basic test for self awareness is does the individual recognize themselves in a mirror. Most animals do not pass this test. Try it with your own pet." Humans are just another type of animal. Various animals have passed this test. They include Corvids (Crows, Ravens, and Jays), Apes (Gorillas, Chimps, Orangatangs, Humans),and Cetaceans (Whales, Dolphins, and Porpoises). Humans aren't the only animals with a monopoly on intelligence. When did humans get that divine spark. 10,000 years ago, 500,000 years, 1 million, 2 million. When did we become humans?

Hill_Valley_Hick

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astrological signs and how you dream Posted: 3/1/2006 2:29:25 PM
Libra sounds more like me. My birthday is October 26th.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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The problem with Sagittarian men Posted: 3/1/2006 2:16:03 PM
I agree with the Green **stard. I just think its wrong to judge someone on their astrological sign. There is so much more to a person then the date they vacated their mothers' uterus and where the stars where in relation to the earth.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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astrological signs and how you dream Posted: 3/1/2006 2:14:01 PM
"Scorpio You dream of becoming the next Einstein. Those who don't have sexual dreams for Scorpio is the most sexual sign. No problem or challenge is too difficult for you. The more challenging the more attention you give to accomplish a solution. You have an uncanny drive for success. Your fantasy is to invent something you will be remembered for." Wrong. I never dream about inventing stuff. I don't even dream about sex very much.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Should I Tell Her I'm a Virgin? Posted: 2/25/2006 8:10:34 AM
I'd say if you first meet her you shouldn't tell her. It's your privacy and it is your choice whether or not you want to share it. Now if you've been seeing a girl for awhile and she wants to be intimate with you, you should probably tell her if she asks, she'll be able to tell anyways. When you do tell her though, do it matter-of-fact. Don't act insecure or apologetic because of it. That's where I think the confusion lies with virgins. I've said in the past that women don't want virgins but I've been doing a lot of thinking about it and I now think its not the virginity that turns them off as much as the apologetic, insecure behaviour that comes along with it. The fact that you haven't slept with 423 people and aren't crawling with diseases will probably be a turn on for her. Just don't act apologetic about it and only tell that special girl. Just my opinion.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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being played? Posted: 2/23/2006 7:30:59 AM
Just start making out with her and see what happens. If she rejects you, never talk to her again.

Hill_Valley_Hick

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Is It Wrong To Misrepresent Yourself In Order To Get Laid? Posted: 2/23/2006 3:47:56 AM
You are very sexy previous poster. What do you think of that. "What nonsense. Do you believe that gargage or do you have other motives for saying it? Other thing being equal, I would rather have a virgin. Less chance for disease is just one reason. And I'm not worred about his/our lack of experience. It doesn't take long to learn. However, more important is how desirable the guy is. Anytime, I would take a desirable experience guy over an undesirable loser." You may believe that but unfortnately most women don't. They want a man who has at least been with a few girls or even just one. They want a man with experience. It doesn't matter for me cause I'm not a virgin anyways but I think it would be cool if girls loved virgins. I'd just have to lie and say I'm one . Anyways that may be the way you feel but most women don't think that way. You like skinnydipping eh, haha. That's pretty hot. I wouldn't mind getting a hold of you. Too bad you live in a foreign country.

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