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Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 45 (view)

Who has used dental dams for oral sex? Posted: 10/31/2009 7:38:58 AM
I am in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. We've been together for over a year and a half. We waited 7 months to have sex. I was a virgin and his second sexual partner. We have never used anything for oral, but we do use condoms for intercourse (I'm also on the pill). The only reason we use condoms for sex is because we both feel that we have so many plans ahead of us and we don't want to have children before we are ready, so why not use two methods of protection? Everyone in his family has had an unplanned pregnancy and he will be the first and only to have a planned pregnancy, planned marriage ect.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

What is sexy about FAT??? Posted: 10/31/2009 7:34:56 AM
I think everyone has their own personal preferences and what they find attractive. My boyfriend it kinda in the middle about it. He doesn't like super skinny girls, but also doesn't want really obese. I'm kinda in the middle, you'd never call me skinny, but you wouldn't call me fat either.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 234 (view)

No sex before marriage Posted: 10/25/2009 3:26:18 PM
My mom always told me that sex is an important part of a relationship. I waited until I was 25 years old and with my boyfriend for 7 months before having sex with him. I don't regret waiting.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

sexually frustrated Posted: 10/25/2009 3:25:17 PM
My boyfriend it depends. A few weeks ago we went 3 times in one night (after not seeing each other the whole 3-day weekend). On the other hand, we've gone over a week without sex.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 91 (view)

Sex during your period? Posted: 10/25/2009 3:23:50 PM
I'm sorry, but when I'm on my period, the last thing I'm thinking about is sex. Right after, I'm all about it, but while I'm in the middle of my period, you aren't coming near me.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 85 (view)

When should the woman offer to pay? Posted: 10/25/2009 3:22:44 PM
Split it the first few dates and then take turns. I've always gone by that rule. It's worked so far.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 57 (view)

Should People in a Comitted Relationship Share there things with each other Posted: 10/14/2009 5:21:23 PM
Well obviously he's not in this relationship as a couple and he's only looking out for #1.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 69 (view)

Do you touch your partner's head as he/she performs oral? Posted: 10/12/2009 6:07:54 AM
At the beginning of the relationship I didn't touch my boyfriend at all while. Now we are both into running our hands through each other's hair and touching his/my head.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Hickeys? What do you think? Posted: 10/12/2009 6:02:27 AM
My students (HS) are going overboard on the hickeys. It's trashy and just in poor taste. My boyfriend jokes that he'll give me one, but would never. It's just trash trash trash.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 89 (view)

Sex with the lights off? Posted: 10/11/2009 6:29:21 PM
When I first started dating my boyfriend I didn't want to do anything physical with my boyfriend, but now.....a year and a half later. I don't care. He loves me for me and if he didn't like my body he wouldn't be with me. It's a part of who I am and if he doesn't like it then he doesn't really love me.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

Prioritizing your boyfriends/girlfriends over your family Posted: 10/11/2009 6:25:53 PM
When I was living with my mom it was different with my boyfriend. Now that I'm living with my boyfriend as my mom says, "You are your own family now." meaning my boyfriend and I are a real unit, we come as a set, not as just the boyfriend or just the girlfriend. My boyfriend is a part of my family regardless of whether I have his last name yet.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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How long to keep it in My Pants? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:49:34 PM
I'm sorry, but if it's love, size isn't that important. My boyfriend is average, a little below average, but there are no complaints in our sex life. We love each other and we established an emotional relationship for 7 months before we had sex.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 149 (view)

Dancing With Another Man Besides Your Boyfriend/Spouse Posted: 10/10/2009 1:47:18 PM
I'm going away this weekend with some HS friends. We plan on going out and down to the bars. My boyfriend and I have a mutual understanding that nothing will happen. He isn't going to worry and I'm not going to put myself into that situation. Period. I am his.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

Why is Wife Superiority (Superior Wife Syndrome) so bad for a marriage? Posted: 10/10/2009 1:44:48 PM
Since moving in with my boyfriend I had this idea that I needed to take care of him and our home, but I have since learned, and he has continued to tell me, It's not all me. This is a partnership. I've gotten better about it, but I feel like the home is a reflection on me and not him.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

How did you lose your first love? Posted: 9/27/2009 5:26:56 PM
I haven't lost my first love. We've been together for a year and a half and it's for keeps.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 43 (view)

The 'I LOVE YOU' Bomb... Posted: 9/27/2009 5:26:07 PM
My boyfriend slipped and said I love you 6 weeks into our relationship. I had a feeling it was coming, but he actually said it, I freaked out. I didn't say it back until 3 months. We've been together for a year and a half now and live together. We work on our own time frame and it felt right for us and that's all the matters.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 254 (view)

Men living with their parents: A social taboo? Posted: 9/27/2009 5:23:34 PM
My boyfriend was living with his mom when I first met him. I didn't have issue with it. It was actually good for me to get to know his mom and his younger brother better. We now live together a year and a half later.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 149 (view)

Do Big Trucks turn on the Ladies??? Posted: 9/23/2009 5:30:26 PM
My boyfriend has a Silverado. He got it about a year into our relationship. He doesn't turn me on any more because he drives a big truck than he already does, him just being him.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

I Wonder....If we put too much emphasis on sex in a relationship. Posted: 9/4/2009 3:57:54 PM
Sex is important in a relationship, however, it isn't the most important part of it. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half and some may say that our sex life is lacking as we typically have sex once or twice a week. We didn't have sex until 7 months into our relationship. We had established an emotional connection/relationship before the physical stuff ever became a part of it. A relationship can not last on the physical alone.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 363 (view)

What is a Real Man? Posted: 9/4/2009 5:36:26 AM
He is honest, not into playing games, he has morals and is respectful and respectable. Money doesn't make a man. A man is a man by his character.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

Whats up with all these Virgins Posted: 9/4/2009 5:27:30 AM
I waited until I was 25 years old and in a serious relationship. I made a promise to myself that I wasn't going to have sex just to have sex. We waited for 7 months to make love. I don't regret waiting 25 months. We don't regret waiting 7 months into our relationship, and we don't regret making love. With us, sex isn't just sex. It's emotional and mental, it's never JUST physical.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Military men. Are you one dating a civilian girl? Girls, would you date one? Posted: 9/2/2009 6:39:25 AM
My boyfriend is Honorably Discharged from the US Army. When I first met him I was hesitant to get involved with him. While he had been discharged for a few years, he stated that he had thought about re-enlisting. I'm not an Army girlfriend or wife and I told him flat out. I don't want to raise my children and have to explain to our children that daddy is halfway around the world and won't be back for a year. I've told him that if he was still in, we wouldn't have gone further than a first date. However, at this point, if he were to re-enlist I couldn't walk away even if I wanted to. He has no intention now of re-enlisting. He wouldn't do that to me. His mom told me about a year ago, that right before he met me, he was very close to re-enlisting.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Where do I start? Posted: 9/2/2009 6:25:26 AM
A guy that I dated a few years ago had Aspergers. He would get so focused on one subject (which often didn't interest me) and ignore my end of the conversation. As a teacher, I recognized the characteristics of Aspergers, but never said anything. I figured he'd tell me when he was ready. It took him a few months. We didn't work out (went our separate ways after 2 dates), but we are really good friends now and he has a girlfriend (He actually met her on this site). When he realized that we weren't going to work, he turned to me for advice on girls and dating. I would give him pep talks before a date and then he would come back after the date and we'd debrief (for lack of a better term). He said it helped him a lot and he was able to understand woman more.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 39 (view)

Sex and Dating Posted: 9/2/2009 6:13:21 AM
There are men out there that aren't after JUST sex. My boyfriend waited 7 months before we had sex. He never once pressured me or made me feel bad about wanting to wait.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Age and Children Posted: 9/1/2009 3:24:05 PM
I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 30. We've been together for a year and half, are living together, and looking at engagement rings. We don't plan on having children until I'm into my 30's.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 169 (view)

How did your parents find out that you were having sex? Posted: 9/1/2009 3:20:02 PM
I was 25 and in a serious relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. She figured, but I just kinda casually confirmed what she already knew.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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The Spark Posted: 9/1/2009 3:17:35 PM
The feeling I got with my boyfriend was different. It was a sense of calm. I knew walking away from our first date that he'd be around for a while. I didn't realize then, just how long he'd be around.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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The real problem with relationships today. Posted: 8/28/2009 8:43:09 AM
I think the real problem in relationships/marriages is that people don't hold marriage to the high standard it used to. People don't want to fight and work at their relationship. No relationship is perfect and they take work. Period.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

22, Never had a girlfriend Posted: 8/28/2009 8:40:50 AM
You are only 22. If you were a 40+ year old virgin, then I'd be "worried". I was 25 the first time I had sex. I was with my boyfriend for 7 months before we did. He waited until he was out of the Army and was 25 as well (he's 4 years older than me). There is nothing wrong with you. It just hasn't happened for you. I had it inmy mind that I was going to be alone for the rest of my life and then he happened. He was totally unplanned and unexpected.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 103 (view)

Why does the guy always have to initiate the date and relationship? or at least most of the time? Posted: 8/26/2009 8:35:08 AM
My boyfriend pursued me. He initated the conversations, asking me for a date, asking for a second and third. He was also the first to say ILY, ect. I have never gone after a guy. My theory is that if a relationship is going to work, the man needs to love more than the woman. It's sounds stupid and rediculous, but I really think it's true. He needs to love more.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 267 (view)

Living together before marriage a bad idea? Posted: 8/20/2009 6:20:38 AM
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We just recently moved in together. When we first started dating we said that we wouldn't move in together before a year AND that we would live together before we got married. I wanted to know what I was getting. If we could make it work being together. I don't regret moving in together. I wouldn't even consider the possibility of getting engaged until we lived together. Now that we know we can do this, I'm excited about the possibility of getting engaged. We are very much in love and want to build a life together.

Blonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Reason Im A Virgin, And Questions For Girls Posted: 8/17/2009 7:15:58 AM
I was 25 the first time I had sex. My boyfriend, was 26 his first time. His first girlfriend was when he was 26 and lasted 9 months. We've been together for a year and a half and just moved in together at the beginning of the summer. He was initially worried about telling me he had only ever been with one woman because in previous dating experiences, women have made fun of him for it. To be honest, there are women out there (like me) who like that a man doesn't have a list of women that he's been with.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 173 (view)

Men with Trust Issues Posted: 8/15/2009 6:36:27 AM
As someone with trust issues, I think it's important to be patient with them. My trust issues stem from my relationship with my father. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now and we just moved in together at the beginning of the summer. It is an elephant in the room with us, that I don't trust him 100%. I still hold back a little piece of myself. I worry that I'll never get to that point where I trust him 100% with my life and he'll get impatient with me. He has said time and time again, he's in this for the long haul and he's not going to leave me. He has also said, "I'm not him." and I know that, I just don't know what's stopping me.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 170 (view)

Long vs short hair Posted: 8/14/2009 5:08:55 AM
Men like longer hair. Not sure why, but they do. Even though my boyfriend says it's my hair and I can do what I want with regards to cutting it and such, he likes my hair long and asked me not to cut my hair too short. I'm growing it longer for other reasons that he doesn't know.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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moving in together Posted: 8/14/2009 5:07:16 AM
No relationship is perfect. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and a half. We just recently moved in together and we were lucky that it was a smooth transition. We anticipated arguements and whatnot, but we haven't really had them much. Yes, we have our issues and disagreements, but we are both laid back people. We choose not to yell and scream and fight. We have disagreements and we deal with them in a responsible, adult manner. As for sex, we still only have sex once or twice a week, which is fine. We both work and are very busy during the week. However, we make time for each other, not sexually, but just to spend some time together every day, even if it's laying on the couch or going fishing or a walk or something and we always have a sit down dinner together. We haven't had any dates since we've lived together, but we make it a point to do things together, even if it's going to the grocery store.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

When sleeping in the same bed is a problem? Posted: 8/14/2009 5:02:33 AM
I'm a light sleeper and my boyfriend snores like it's his full time job. It's horrible. I usually go to bed 20 minutes before he does, so that I get a head start, unless we are having sex that night and I'm usually exhausted after, so I fall asleep quickly. When we first moved in together, it took some time for us to get used to sleeping with someone next each other. Any time we've had our nieces or nephew over, we just leave the door closed and they know not to walk in.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Decoding the Female Language Posted: 8/14/2009 4:59:39 AM
If I woman touches her hair or her face or leg ect, it's self-soothing. She's nervous and trying to subconciously calm herself. Putting on lipstick is a sexual suggestion, whether it's purposely done or not. My boyfriend knew that I liked him when we were on our 3rd date and I linked arms with him while walking in the mall to the movies. I didn't do it on purpose, but he picked up on that. He's usually very good at reading me, sometimes too good.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 136 (view)

Waiting for Marriage for SEX... Posted: 8/14/2009 4:56:54 AM
I never said that I'd wait for marriage. However, I made a promise to myself that I'd wait until I was in love, in a committed trusting relationship. I was 25 the first time I had sex. We are in love and very serious (talking about marriage in the near future). Sex isn't the biggest part of a relationship, but it is important that you are sexually compatible. I don't regret waiting for love or making love with my boyfriend.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Why do guys in their 20's seem to want it super fast? Posted: 8/14/2009 4:52:15 AM
I don't know what to tell you. My boyfriend is 30. I met him when he was 28 and it's always been about making love and not just sex with us.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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How much is TOO much in a relationship? Posted: 8/14/2009 4:50:14 AM
Up until we moved in together, my boyfriend and I talked every night and saw each other basically every other night after work. While we wanted to see each other more, it was enough for us to not be resentful. A girl he dated before me.....he saw everyday for 3 weeks straight and it kinda fizzled until she contacted him a few weeks after we started dating, but by that time we were already together.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Does anyone wait until marriage before having sex? Posted: 8/14/2009 4:46:43 AM
We did not wait to have sex before marriage. However, we did wait 7 months into our relationship. I don't regret waiting until I was 25 and we don't regret waiting 7 month or deciding to make love.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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A question about Oral sex Posted: 8/14/2009 4:44:59 AM
My boyfriend wasn't impressed with receiving oral, until I came alone. He had never finished from it, so he could take it or leave it.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 66 (view)

women want to see their man cum every time Posted: 8/12/2009 7:20:55 AM
It took my boyfriend and I a couple of months to figure each other out. Now it's pretty much every time we both finish, but if it doesn't happen, it doesn't happen. We accept that. Yes, we are disappointed, but it's just nature.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 159 (view)

How many is too many? Posted: 8/11/2009 11:38:27 AM
That number only matters between you and your SO. However, I like the fact that my boyfriend had only been with one other girl before me and that he was my first. We like the pasts we have and that's all the matters.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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How young is too young? Posted: 8/11/2009 7:32:09 AM
I'm 26 years old. My boyfriend is 30. My limits have would be 24-32

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 48 (view)

Long nails Posted: 8/11/2009 7:25:14 AM
My boyfriend actually complained that my nails scratched him, so I cut them shorter.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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How is Having Unprotected Sex NOT Trying to Get Pregnant? Posted: 8/11/2009 7:21:30 AM
I just think that some people are educated enough about birth control and pregnancy prevention. I'm on the pill AND we use condoms. If I were to miss a pill or we didn't have condoms, no sex, period. We are in a position to finanically, emotionally, and relationship-wise have a child/support a child, but we aren't ready we have so many things that we want to do before we have children, (Wedding, House, Married for a year or two)

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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why does this happen? Posted: 8/7/2009 7:02:04 AM
If it truely is a NSA sex buddy then why are you asking if you should "give up on the guy or be patient"? What are you being patient for? Sex? I, personally, am so against NSA sex and FWB. I'll never understand it and I'll never even try to understand it, but to each his/her own.

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

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Regards this whole out of your league thing Posted: 8/6/2009 12:40:16 PM
My boyfriend and I met online (not on this site, but another one) and he told me after we started dating that he almost didn't message me b/c he thought I was out of his league, that I never would give him the time of day. I don't understand why he thinks that, but he did. I on the other hand thought that he wouldn't think twice about me. He is 4 years older and had been in the military for almost 5 years. I assumed I wasn't his type, but we both took a chance on each other and guess what? We met "the one".

BLonde324

Joined: 6/17/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

How far should you go once it gets to the bedroom? Posted: 8/6/2009 6:36:34 AM
My boyfriend and I had a very open sense of communication about anything physcial in our relationship. We both knew each other's expectations and "lines not to cross" before anything happened.

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