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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: Domestic Violence  distantfriend Joined: 6/19/2008 Msg: 400 (view)   Domestic Violence Posted: 10/14/2008 6:43:22 AM I posted on this site several weeks back for reasons such as the fact that i grew up in a violent household and the concern for my mum's welfare. I identified with many of your stories. I would like to hear how llynass is coping now that she has been through court and is no longer posting. Is she continuing to receive support etc or does she want this man back in her life?. My mum has not found the courage to leave and she is just a shell. She says she will leave when the time is right for her but i wonder how much a body can take. Any advice would be welcome .  Distantfriend Joined: 6/19/2008 Msg: 367 (view)   Domestic Violence Posted: 8/31/2008 5:03:03 PM I posted on this thread a while back as i was concerned about my mum. I received some very positive feedback. I left this thread 'accidently on her computer screen' and found her crying secretly. She has at least opened up to me now and i am so glad that i stumbled upon this thread. It may just have saved her life. God bless all of you. Distantfriend.  distantfriend Joined: 6/19/2008 Msg: 298 (view)   Domestic Violence Posted: 7/6/2008 5:16:23 AM Thanks for the good advice given from two of you ladies. I will always worry about my mum and will be there for her.. but i do have to get on with my life., though it will be difficult. To the lady who began this topic..., please don't think bad of your kids.. they too have seen a lot of stuff which will have affected them. Give them some space as well., maybe they need someone to talk things through with. I identified so much reading through this entire thread from all of you.. thankyou.. llynass..., be strong.., don't back down this time . You are getting there.. and whatever happens in court.. it's all on record.. The probability of him getting away with this awful crime again will be greatly reduced. Remember that. Your distant friend.  distantfriend Joined: 6/19/2008 Msg: 276 (view)   Domestic Violence Posted: 7/2/2008 2:43:57 PM I grew up in a domestic violence household. I phoned the police so many times i've lost count and i've visited my mother in hospital so many times i've lost count. Iv'e also lost count of the amount of times that she said that she wasn't having him back. She always takes him back. I've moved out ..she is on her own now. Why does she do this? I can't deal with worrying about finding her dead. What do I do? I'm beside myself with worry.   Show ALL Forums