Hi BJD. seriously hard core, I,d be shaking in my boots. Reminds me of that old 10 cc,, song.

I'm not in love
So don't forget it
It's just a silly phase i'm going through
And just because
I call you up
Don't get me wrong, don't think you've got it made
I'm not in love, no no, it's because..
I like to see you
But then again
That doesn't mean you mean that much to me
So if i call you
Don't make a fuss
Don't tell your friends about the two of us
I'm not in love, no no, it's because..
I keep your picture
Upon the wall
It hides a nasty stain that's lying there
So don't you ask me
To give it back
I know you know it doesn't mean that much to me
I'm not in love, no no, it's because..
Ooh you'll wait a long time for me
Ooh you'll wait a long time
Ooh you'll wait a long time for me
Ooh you'll wait a long time
very apt


I have never encountered this,but I would certainly welcome it ,as a new development in dating.Blessed peace for days at a time.The thing is, you, d forget you had a b/f and pick up a new one.I have not heard from Fred for a few days, guess he is gone.Hmm David at the club looks nice.Seems I am single again, must call him up.Easy come,we hope, easy go.
This distancing thing can be confusing, I think it might be best to be upfront, adult and honest, communicate and tell a girl you need some space.We are not mind readers ya know.I for one would welcome the time to myself and I hate phones, so happy days.

EEk that would be needy and clingy though,fvk it we cant win, like sticking to your man like a tic on a scabby cat.

Thats the thing , the theory is womens attraction is based on looks, but in a now supposedly, equal society should not be.We argue here about who pays etc and how women are now equal, but yet we are not equal, because we have an outdated, false notion, that womens sole attraction is their looks.

Does not intelligence count, loyalty, faithfulness, humour,kindness, a loving heart

Women have experience, education and the means to be wealthy, does not this not also add to their attractiveness.Of course it does.We women do have that luxury. When ones value is based on a finite thing like beauty, this leaves ones human value debased.Mens beauty fades and womens beauty fades.Youth is fleeting.This is life, but their spirit and character grows and expands past the mere physical.We grow from green shoots to full grown trees.A wonderful thing.

I was walking past a University today and seen all the young students pile out, laughing and chatting.Full of joy - de- vive.All around 18/19, starting their life, learning, growing still.Girls of 18 to 20 need to be getting an education, playing the field, enjoying life not shacked up with someone twice their age.This is their time, to grow with their peers,be young and carefree, it will soon be gone.Youth cannot be reclaimed.

Of course men of all ages, will look admiringly at these young beauties in their bloom.Its normal and male to do so.I would expect nothing else, it healthy .A relationship may develop between different ages, but with such a large age gap, the girl may find herself a young widow with kids.Kids may lose a much loved father.It not always practical or sensible.
A fling can do no harm, and may even prove educational.But 18 and 48, hmm big age gap.What would you have in common., when the sex gets boring and she wants to go clubbing.

I meant someone loved and trusted not a Stranger obviously.A hug from a stranger would be meaningless.Depression is so isolating, one can feel cut of, in a dark place.
It is a chemical imbalance and also a imbalance in thinking, perception and attitude.

Everything is seen from a joyless, hopeless point of view.Perception is everything.Cognitive therapy can address, unbalanced thinking, correct meds help chemical imbalance and hugs , love and support from relevant people in ones life, help on the journey.
If a depressed person could just snap out of it, they would.They cant!.Support and appropriate help is need from various professionals and loved ones.

Re BDJ those questions are hard core, rubber or bareback .I was feeling crap and you have me laugh so much.ahmm
Yes
No
Both,
Sometimes.
very
No
cowgirl
yes
no
on
haha
both.
No kinky mails please for the usual suspects.I have taken a pledge of celibacy..Thanks for the laugh.

Like thats gonna happen, gross exaggeration is poetic license at its worst.

Yes, I read about these multi orgasmic women and think WTF.I would love to know the secret of multiple orgasms.

The very fact, they are on a show exposing their private life says it all.Train wreck Tv for train wreck people.
When I am with child, it will be for a well loved and respected husband or not at all.If he mentioned DNA, he would see his kid as is his right, but I would have no further truck with him.The relationship would end immediately and forthwith.
Other women may tolerate it, but not me.I respect myself too much to tolerate disrespect.JMO

Love is also a need, as vital as food or air.So is human touch and simple hugs.They actually boost the immune system.
If a small baby lacks love or touch it will not thrive or even die.
Connection is also a need and interaction.Yes we need to secure in ourselves and able to be alone, we also need to be able to connect and be intimate.A balance really of both.

Could it be that we resent filling others needs, we resent having to make an effort, be unselfish.Have we become cold and lovers only of ourselves.Have you ever seen a happy hermit.

OT: Another thing you can do is grab his hand before he gets to his mouth and suck his fingers clean... moan a bit and say "Thanks for feeding me my juice baby... now down you go...." and climb up and ride his face like a bareback bronc rider!
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I have to try that,it sounds fun, lmao
Imagine catching some guy sniffing his fingers and hurriedly trying to hide it and you saying , are you saying I smell, well fvk off then.LMAO

The thing is tights and tight jeans are very unhealthy for the genitalia, causing it to be confined, sweat and have no air circulating.Its best to wear a long skirt sometimes and no underwear and let that air in.I never wear tights, always stockings.I always go commando at home too.
A bidet is good to use after the toilet and good daily hygiene.If a woman smells that bad, how could she not know.Sometimes peoples chemistry dont match and they smell bad to each other, despite good hygiene.Smell is very important to arousal and attraction.Try using your own personal scent ladies behind your ears and on your wrists, it works.
This thread is funny and cringe worthy at the same time.Do any women do the sniff test on men and if so how is it done.