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deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Here is my theory on why I am the ONLY one he has ever been faithful to Posted: 10/19/2009 12:41:14 PM
Just wondering !!! Why divorced if he wasn't unfaithful ?? Or felt so secure..?? HMMM !! Doesn't sound right to me. Something went wrong somewhere !!.

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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What do I do? Posted: 10/15/2009 12:35:30 PM
I think you know the answer.. If he yells at you now , and your just dating ?? Just try living with him 24/7...Hard to let go ?? Yes i think so.. But is best and i think you already know that !! Your not ready for this kind of life. And i think that he should have suggest you get something together , like one of the other posters said.. Quick decision , on his part... Wonder !! Does he work ??

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Men & woman of a certain size??? Posted: 10/8/2009 1:39:03 PM
DIVISION77 I don't think you would date any woman ! No matter what her size. I think you like men.. That pose does nothing for u .. Rude to you ! Because you were to this poster. Plenty of men that are not losers , or desperate !! Like BBW.. Each his own thankfully. I do think people that have a weight problem are view different !! As you say ..the men are deemed as teddy Bears. Woman as lazy.. You know !! These young ones will find out later in life , that things happen that can change your weight. Some you can not control. I know there are lazy people on boths sides . But most just have a hard time keeping weight off !! So in passing !! I will say keep looking OP.. there are men that do respect you as a woman. Good Luck !!

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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new g/f cant handle her alcohol Posted: 10/5/2009 12:43:34 PM
If i had a child in that daycare ? i sure would get them out quick ! if she gets that drunk to fast ? Maybe she is drinking while children are in her care. This worries me a bit. As far as you ? your an adult and can just walk away. I wish all you good luck

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Do I have grounds to hate my dad's wife? Posted: 10/5/2009 11:02:30 AM
I can see another side from what most posters are saying on here .. My mother had lost my step-dad and i was ok with her finding someone.. But !! This guy just seemed a little to eager to get something from my mom. Mom was battling cancer for the last time. He knew she was ill. He was saying he would re-build her roof. well That was a --cked up job. And he took me to the side and said !! If your mom dies before she pays me ?? I expect you to pay me.. That set off red alarms for sure. I did the background check too. and found his former owners daughter. wrote to her and their mom died of cancer too. So what I did was save my mom and her place.. Anyway !! This lady changing things has gome to far. But dad went along with it. Sometimes losing someone has some lasting affects. But !! Dad may find out this woman trying to get her hands on the place (home).. Just try to stay calm with her.. And Listen when dad is come down from grieving for your mom..And see he made a mistake.. Be there for him >> I hope your dad has no illness ?? She just may be trying to take advantage of him. Good luck !!

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Sexless marriages/relationships.....go figure? Posted: 8/20/2009 3:47:57 PM
If there is no affection ?? Sex is nothing. If you can't get a hug without giving him sex ? It is nothing.. and in his case (my husband) . sex was something I had to do for every little thing he might have to buy me. Thats not Love , just sex for his own needs. If just sex could keep a marriage alive ?? I think more would make it. we need the holding, a kiss when they get home, a swat on the butt, or just a tight hug.. NOT !.... here baby ! I have something for you. Sex ended many years ago (married 41 years) I just didn't care anymore if i ever had sex again. Both were young an inexperienced when we married. And although he watched a lot of porn ?/ He never wanted anything more than quick on , off. So who would want that ?? But for reasons he and i know !! We are still together ..

deweylips

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Do women cook anymore?? Posted: 8/7/2009 9:21:10 AM
Yes ! we cook right after we wash and fold your underwear, iron your work shirts vacume the floor and mop and wax others. And can't forget cleaning that toilet you men can't seem to hit. And picking up things you laid around. and change your child and bath them, or help with homework . And thats after a long day at work. Just being a bit of a smart aZZ sorry.. But i look back all these years later and its so true. Oh musn't forget i helped mow the grass , pull weeds in the garden, held or cleaned a many car parts while he cussed at me the whole time. And i cooked every night except twice a month we got some fast food. Things have changed a lot with this younger generation. Both partners work still. But i think woman do less at home cooking. So much easier to just get something already to eat. I did teach my daughter to cook . (she will be 40) But she married a Texan .. and he can cook some mighty good food. I see nothing wrong in sharing what needs to be done at home. Never know when YOU may need to know how to do a few things. Things can happen health wise and you may find yourself having to do it all. Good Luck

deweylips

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Why do women use me for sex??? Posted: 7/22/2009 3:13:47 PM
Wonder how old these woman are ? Maybe changing the age group would help. I as an older lady, like more than sex. Maybe that would work for you. Good luck in whatever u decide

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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When is flirting cheating? Posted: 7/22/2009 9:33:05 AM
It does hurt. My husband and I went to marriage counseling over it. He was at their homes while i worked. Or on the phone . Caught him telling her he Loved her. (and thats after counseling ) After that ? I just stay because of financial reasons.. I'm done trying after 41 years. Can't trust a man even after he swears he does nothing wrong. Guess he sees it as innocent.. But it certainly hurts, and stays with a woman a very long time So depends on who you ask. Men that think its ok ? Or Ladies saying been their ..Done ! I am with some others on here. If your happy with whom your with ?? Why the need to flirt ? Or on a site like this ?

deweylips

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Big Labia Lips On Women Posted: 5/16/2009 9:14:14 AM
You better hope she doesn't read this if u ever want to get anywhere near here again. I would certainly take it that you thought she was dirty, untidy, big lips ! And you even saying because maybe it was because she was proniscuous would be enough to throw you out on your head.. No ! Not your big one. The one between your legs.

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Am I expecting too much? Posted: 5/14/2009 1:23:19 PM
If it bothers you now ? It doesn't get better hon ! It gets worse . So what you see is what you get. possible less as time goes by. He doesn't seem to motivated to me. He needs a nap ? And a couple beers ?? How about you ? Something stinks here. I think your fish is ready to be thrown back... I would move without him.

deweylips

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Would being with some one who cant sleep be a issue ? Posted: 5/14/2009 1:15:51 PM
Your young. maybe you need a check-up to see what may be behind the not able to sleep issue. The older we get it seem's we sleep less. Sometimes doc can do a sleep apnea test to rule out some things. I think you need that done. Not enough sleep can create health problems. It would be a big distraction someone getting up all hours of the night. When i was younger i heard every noise. And that could cause problems . Get checked ! Your best bet. Good luck to you.

deweylips

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I am Sooo Confused Posted: 5/13/2009 5:33:45 PM
You were old enough to make your own decision about giving that baby up. Now you get knocked up again ? No one at your age can make u give it up. I have adopted a child with a mother like you. just keep popping them out .. Not even thought these little babies need care. Get some help. It's free to most of you. I can't stand to see kids being born to parents that do not make a home for these little ones.

deweylips

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Would you date someone sick? Posted: 5/13/2009 1:49:49 PM
I think it best to end it while you can if it bothers you before marriage Marriage is hard enough both being healthy. So in some ways i see his reasoning. Its sad to see it happen. But i would not want to bring kids into this world if we knew ahead of time that they could possibly have illness to deal with. That would just put more pressure on both partners. And just because someone has a bit of a health problem does not mean they need to be alone the rest of their life. It takes a special person to deal with someone ill. But there is someone out there who does care. Good luck to all of you

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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what would you do? Posted: 5/13/2009 9:51:11 AM
Trichomoniasis is another one that men don't know they have. Men don't usually show signs of it. Guess it depends on how long the couple were together , before they found out ? Maybe he had it before they got together. Sorry it happened. But maybe both need all std/hiv testing done and move on.

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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On updating the marriage vows Posted: 4/24/2009 3:50:45 PM
Your right shabbikid I was only 17 when i made those vows. So maybe i was thinking only of my own situation. Because i hardly knew what the future would hold. I was never bored. But rather, lonesome, and bitter after things that can happen in long marriages .. No one every really knows what will happen. But would hope it would make the two of you stronger , to face anything ahead. What i see happening so much is the younger generation getting married older than i was. But can i say they did any better than I did ? I see many being divorced several times before they are 40. So i guess i agree that maybe many don't take their vows seriously. Hope you find what your looking for.. And I think you have a right mindset to make it work.

deweylips

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On updating the marriage vows Posted: 4/24/2009 11:20:37 AM
When your in love and say those vows~~You are thinking of the present and can't possibly see what lies down the road. 10,20,30,40 years from now. Health can change and make life harder . Are you really ready to say i will /can do this ? Kids bring on a whole new set of joy/problems. We can not see this before marriage. How are we to know if that partner started drinking heavy or worse later in life what the reasons were ? Would we still want to be married ? I think for the most part ! We all intend to obey those rules. But things can and do happen through marriage. So i think it's a 50/50 gamble. Marriage does take two to make it work. sometimes one doesn't want too.

deweylips

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Why do some women back away from fingers? Posted: 4/15/2009 2:11:49 PM
That GIRL~~~~~ said it all. fingernails not smooth can kill the moment. Be gentle.

deweylips

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Inexperienced old people Posted: 4/15/2009 8:11:47 AM
Being married to the same person 41 years and had never had another partner ``left me knowing very little. He liked one way and no foreplay. Get on and off and nothing more. He didn't care to learn. Yet he watched lots of porn. But didn't want to try anything. Never talked dirty or ask what each wanted done. So even telling a guy how to please me was not something i could say.. Four years ago i decided i did want to learn more (since we hadn't had sex in few years) So i found a guy willing to take his time and teach me what he liked. And Taught me things that could please me. So it depends on the person. If they don't mind having a woman learn his way . How he likes to be pleased. Did get turned down by one man because he wanted me to swallow. Shoot ! I didn;'t even ever have oral sex and he wanted me to do what ?? Ha !!

deweylips

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STD Testing - if you want to know about the process as of todya Posted: 4/11/2009 11:38:37 AM
Good thing to have posted. You never know who may be spreading disease. I am married yes ! I admit.. but i had long time affair with a single man, Then he finds a live in g/f ... e-mails me to say we are done. In two weeks i get a call and he wants to see me. I was stupid and did. For 4 months i had been having UTI and then messed up pap and yeast infection i could not get rid of. Finally more testing found i had trichomonas. I then got all testing done. He has now spread it to his g/f although most men do not show symptoms. He needs to be tested and get medication. It was easy to heal once it was discovered. He is always on sights for singles. Just a warning.. BTW ! All my tests including HIV are negative and i now have the proof in my hands

deweylips

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Could he still be looking for somebody better to come along? Posted: 4/8/2009 9:29:08 AM
i would be very hurt if my new love was getting pictures from other woman. that means he has some interest in them. unless it is family ? OOP"S !!

deweylips

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False Teeth ........ Posted: 4/8/2009 9:25:03 AM
I can certainly understand how it must gross you out. If that bothers you now ? It would only get worse as time goes by. Best to just say bye while it is fairly new. People ! Not all of us has insurance to pay for expensive implants. And I would think you needed strong bone to be able to do that. I have had bone loss in my early 40's or before. Losing a tooth at a time. I have partials and i keep them in. Thankful mine fit well and i had insurance to help cover the cost.. I think false is better than missing or black teeth. But they need to fit . Sorry he choose not to wear them for your sake. Think the thrill of him is gone now , and maybe its best you move on. I hate dealing with false teeth , and now i have to help my father in law put his in and out. was really nasty at first..

deweylips

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Choosing Between Parents and a Woman ? Posted: 4/8/2009 8:06:48 AM
As a mom who went through my daughter marrying someone i did not want her too.. It isn't who he was. Or what nationality. But was because he was abusive and she finally had enough when he blacked both eyes and broke her nose. Sorry some parents stick to old beliefs. I feel any one is the same as the next ., But ! I think when you get mixed in a totally different race/religion thats where problems can come from. And your parents are trying to protect you. But it is your life and they should except whatever you choose to do. As one poster said ! Your parents won't always be around. And all that is important is what makes you happy. They don't need to know who you have sex with. Yikes ! I feel for you. African/American is really going to get your parents going. I hope someday they can look past color/religion for your sake.

deweylips

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What do you think of this? Should I stay? Posted: 4/7/2009 8:01:40 AM
She is an ex ! Remember they are an ex for a reason. But for a man or woman to keep talking about an ex is not a good sign. You are asking if you should stay around ? I think you have an idea already that you might not trust him. Maybe look in another pond and find some one that doesn't need to talk about his ex so fondly. Good Luck.

deweylips

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Internet Sexual Affair With Married Woman Posted: 4/7/2009 7:52:26 AM
You weren't there holding a gun to his head , and say ! Here do it to her ! No One can MAKE you do it. It is just his way of doing it and somehow making it your fault. That way he looks innocent.. My situation i had told my husband that this man kept coming on to me. And no matter how much i told this guy no ! He kept bothering me. So since my hubby would go sit in the resturant before work (I was the waitress) i thought he would talk to this guy. He did ! But made friends with this man and we went to their home every week end for 5 years.. So i thought the same way as your partner. That he made me do it. But ! It was me and i can't blame anyone except myself. But he sure didn't help the situation. So hope you don't dis-trust him so much that you accuse him. Sometimes that drives a person to do it.

deweylips

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has anyone tried using poprock candies while giving a bj Posted: 4/4/2009 9:58:02 AM
Did use them after reading about them on another forum. But it felt like sand paper to me. I was afraid it was not comfortable for him...He didn't complain , nor say he wanted it again. Kinda sticky too. I am with the ice ! I think that one is more liked than poprocks..

deweylips

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My Friend, Girlfriend was borne with a Mr. Winkler! Posted: 4/2/2009 12:37:32 PM
For a long lasting relationship and her not even thinking maybe there could be a problem with getting pregnant...Does not sound right. I am sure she has at one point been told that it would be a problem. Why would she withhold it from him ? Embarrassed maybe ? But ! Too me it is lying ...if you don't tell a person if you knew why. Sorry it happened that way. Maybe they should have went into her doctor and let him explain what happened all those years ago. At least maybe they could be together instead of him feeling hurt. So sorry this happened .. Life is really unfair at times. And people are not always understanding of people being different.. Good luck to both.

deweylips

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cubital tunnel syndrome. Pinching of the Ulnar Nerve. Posted: 3/24/2009 4:09:58 PM
I had the numbness in last 3 fingers. At first i thought if i wore my brace i might be ok. But the pain started. And it got worse. It Was that nerve . I did have surgery and it took the pain. but i still have numbness and loss of strength in my hand. But i also have Fibrmyalgia. So just how much is the nerve ? I really don't know. They told me they were going to put that nerve into the front of my arm so i could not trap it again. But they just scraped what they called scar tissue off and left it there. I can't leave my elbow on the table or arm chair anymore. It hurts too much.. Good Luck to you. Ohhh just to say mine was not carpal tunnel. it was the nerve right at the elbow..i had surgery in that area . not my hand/wrist

deweylips

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Do you try Anal with a Woman or do you ask first? Posted: 3/4/2009 12:56:52 PM
What you do to her ``may come back and affect your own ass. She just might have a dildo waiting with ur name on it ! Just waiting to ram it in. Wouldn't that feel good ? Be Gentle with her . All women deserve that. .My hubby rammed it in a couple times. And talk about a quick way to end any sex is to do that to her.. .. Talk to her for sure. Tell her you will respect any wishes she has .. Slow and easy , and will stop at any time she wants..May want to take it out vaginal and just rub it there a second to see her reaction.. I say !! Just take it easy and have lube for sure. Let her do the moving at first . till she is comfortable with it.. Then !! Just enjoy

deweylips

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Terrible headache made me unable to get an erection Posted: 3/4/2009 12:32:50 PM
guess she is a selfish young lady.. If your sick ? She might catch what you have... As for you ? There will be days like that ..Just move on and enjoy someone else when you feel well. Her loss !

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Hurt but still in love Posted: 3/3/2009 1:52:50 PM
Marrying him is the worse thing you could do.. If he doesn't care about you or your family ? It won't get better by marrying him. Why put yourself through that ? It is a type of control thing , you having to bribe him.. You didn't say ! But i bet it's sex ..am i right ? Soon you would have to have sex if he does buy you anything.. And believe me ! That gets old very quickly. Kinda loses the appeal for sex for me. ..Get away from him. Do yourself a favor . Go on with your life.

deweylips

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Waking your partner for sex! Posted: 2/24/2009 3:18:28 PM
I am with FunkMessiah on this .. most of you woman would complain once you have kids and work. I think it is easy to say Oh yes I like to be woke up for sex when your out looking for a man.. But i think at least 50% would not be the same after any length of time... Sleep is important too. But in many of your cases ~~your young and a sleepover would be fun to have any hour sex. but marry these ladies and after 10 years ..see if they still like being woke up. I doubt it very much. I think men never get over wanting to have sex any hour of the night ! even in a long term marriage. Then it comes down to respect. In my case ! Don't touch him while sleeping. He is violent ..

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Girlfriend Is Hesitant About Oral Posted: 2/19/2009 12:44:20 PM
Trind~~~ She may not be comfortable about giving nor receiving. As one person said maybe a religious background is in her mind. It was mine for many years too. I was very shy at first and was not sure about my own body . so didn't want a man down there ..i had lots to learn and needed a patient man to teach me that it was ok to let out sounds (moans ) and that i would get really wet.. and that he is down there trying to please ,me. But please ! Make sure you don't do the same thing over and over. It just gets boring and she will get nothing out of it.. Not putting you down here .. Do tell her how u like it done. and how it feels so she knows she is doing it right. By no means...don't cum in her mouth. That takes patience and blowing a load would make her to not want to do it again. I was 56 before i learned to give or receive. So be patient.. Please be clean and trimmed. That helps a lot. Good luck. hope it works for you.

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Please don't feel obligated to give me a Valentines...... Posted: 2/12/2009 1:08:53 PM
Hope you get something from him. No matter if it's a card or flowers..I think woman enjoy it so much if it is from HIS heart. Money may be tight too. But could be fun even if he surprised you with a hand made card. Put it away forever. Bring smiles to you years from now. Wish you luck..

deweylips

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Is it o.k. to hint on flowers for St. Valentine? Posted: 2/12/2009 12:38:01 PM
Flowers or any other gift means nothing , unless that person does it on his/her own. My husband had flowers sent (last minute) to where i have my nails done. Of course he was there to get all the glory for being such a great hubby. After 41 years .It meant nothing. It was for His benefit..not mine.. Don't hint. He knows it can be done if he chooses to do so. Let it come natural. Ohh ! and God Bless him for serving our country. Did u send him anything ?

deweylips

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Why do women have sex and then complain about it? Posted: 1/31/2009 8:33:30 AM
As an exercsie: exchange cell phones... literally give him you cell phone...while you have his for at least 3 days.... just to see who calls... Ha ha ! Don't you know their are cell phones that are pay as you go and he may just hand you one like that instead of the real deal. ...I don't see it as proving love. It shows you have no trust in him and are willing to snoop through his private affairs.

deweylips

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Major Picture Issues Posted: 1/31/2009 8:25:17 AM
I chat with an investigator and he says it's not good to post a picture anywhere on the net. So maybe he is a cop , public official, investigator , under cover cop , Important business man , just divorced and protecting his children from finding out as yet ?? Could be lots of reasons. ..What goes on the internet ! Stays on the internet even if u delete it.

deweylips

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How do you deal with a loud talker???? Posted: 1/16/2009 3:22:50 PM
Ohh the first part of talking loud struck me..I talk loud because my spouse can not hear well. Its been 41 years of talking to someone that can't hear.. I at times embarrass myself because someone might say something about it.. But ! I don't make racist comments like that in public. Thats not acceptable.. If this was just first date and she was so racist ? can you imagine what it will be like down the road when she is comfortable with you ? Might want to re-think asking that one out again. Good luck

deweylips

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Does being/becoming overweight influence relationships? Posted: 12/28/2008 4:42:23 PM
Same could be said for a man right ? His beer belly as he opens bottle after bottle of beer and guzzles it down. His head goes bald. Starts losing his teeth. Wears nothing but sweats all day on Sat and sun... Laying on the couch with remote in his hand. Screaming for her to get him another beer ? And do you think we should be in skinny little dresses with high heels on while we clean the mess you make ?

deweylips

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HOW DO U KNOW WHEN YOUR MAN IS CHEATING? Posted: 12/28/2008 4:15:04 PM
When you have a dinner date with a woman ( hubby works with ) and her husband that evening. And on the way you find a pair of cowgirl boots on the road. You pick them up and wow ! They are her's. Hmmmm

deweylips

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why will some women accept a chat read the profile then close out the chat? Posted: 12/18/2008 9:00:46 AM
The woman are right ! Too many contact and right away with what you wearing ? Or are you Honrny ? Lame guys. Most on here want way more than having someone (many at once) all wanting the same thing. not talk. Just sex to get them off. Too bad you guys could not see a woman online and see for yourself how many men she will get at once. All asking the same darn questions. Gets very annoying for sure. You can't even write a letter when they are on that chat. Keeps interfering .

deweylips

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why am i still arguing with my father 4 years after we buried him ? Posted: 12/12/2008 8:39:47 AM
Sorry for your loss first of all. Death can bring about different emotions. There are different stages of grief. So don't feel bad about maybe being angry at him for dying. As you must feel you should have resolved things with him before he died. Did he ask for you before he died ? Sometimes that puts quilt on a person. Don't go to his grave unless you feel you want to. Don't worry about what people will think. Its all about getting things resolved in your heart with your dad. Sometimes too much hurt keeps a person from healing after a death. Good luck in whatever you decide. Just be a better father to your own children. Show your dad that you became a better person than he ever was.

deweylips

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why does my boyfriend go soft during intmacy Posted: 12/6/2008 7:22:33 PM
Nola chick has lots of good answers for you Hope you check them out . I know a friend of mine works with returning military and seem's lots are put on depression meds. And that could be a cause for sure. Good luck to you both.

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

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Are guys more whipped? Posted: 11/25/2008 7:56:32 AM
Not married yet ? Well don't ever let it get started for one side only. Mine is opposite of what your saying here. I went to his demanding family all those years. And my parents died at fairly young ages. I missed out on my family and i resent my husband for that. I now have a married daughter of my own. I trade days to make her hubby's family happy. Not fair to me . but i shut up and just delay the holiday one day. Don't get it started in your life. It isn't worth it !

deweylips

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Where will you be on Turkey Day? Posted: 11/23/2008 5:29:10 PM
Will be here at home in Delhi and daughter and family coming here. But will go visit father-in-law in his assisted living home too. Always way to much food. What counts is being near family. Enjoy wherever you are . Be thankful for all we do have. . Those of you in Military.. I am wishing you a safe and blessed return home. We will take a moment to reflect on those of you that keep us safe. We can never say thanks enough.

deweylips

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This is weird, but anyone here into ENEMAS? Posted: 11/22/2008 9:03:15 PM
Just when we thought sucking toes was a little weird ! Here comes the nastiest of all. Too Me anyway. To each his/her own way. But no thanks...

deweylips

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Dead F*ck? Excuse my french. Posted: 11/20/2008 3:07:37 PM
I have fibromyalgia and rheumatoid arthritis and at times it is painful to move certain joints. and a good lover will understand that and do other ways. I am 58 today and had fibromyalgia 11 years . I love and want sex more than ever. But there are days maybe you are in too much pain to have sex. But thats not everyday. you learn to live with some of the pain. Good Luck to you ..

deweylips

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Random Acts of Kindness - Insert your story here Posted: 11/20/2008 2:53:16 PM
several times i have given money to those begging. One guy it just struck me to give to him why ? Something in his eyes looked caring and sincere. But have given to others and they head off for a fix or bottle. So don't do it often now. I told my husband if they were near a place to eat ? I will buy the meal. but no money. We have adopted a child (relative) that both parents are addicted to Meth. These little kids stood out in grocery store parking lots begging for money ! I never saw them or i would have turned her/him in so fast. But my son was taken from them and i have adopted him. Lots of years difference in his age and our two birth kids...But this child no longer has to be begging for food because his parents wanted the money for drugs. He ate off a daily bread truck once a day. went through dumpsters for food. I made a quilt and donated it this truck to raffle off to feed the homeless. Just wanted to give back to those that feed my dear son.

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

Msg: 88 (view)

The Joys of Being a Woman Posted: 11/20/2008 8:16:24 AM
Look at all i missed by have a hysterectomy at age 32. ..I never had to deal with all that . but don't let it fool you ! now in my late 50, i am willing and ready for good sex than many years in the past.

deweylips

Joined: 6/25/2008

Msg: 75 (view)

Im 20 shes 16. Posted: 10/28/2008 2:30:13 PM
As long as your state is ok with it age wise , go for it ! Kinda young . Me and my husband were the same age exactly. My mom had to sign for me to get married.(NO i wasn't pregnant)...Do i wish i had waited ? Yes many times. But all couples have problems. so do as your heart and the law says !! Good luck to you both

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