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helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

I Must Be Strange... Posted: 5/13/2009 11:18:00 PM
You are not strange, but rather old fashioned. I am spiritual and somewhat religious, but I do not believe that there should be no sex before marriage. There must be strong chemistry and sexual compatibility for a relationship to be successful or you may as well just be friends. You could be attracted to someone for other reasons, such as you have something to learn from them or they have something to learn from you. I would never want to marry someone, then find that sexually he sucks after the fact. You must use common sense and try to prevent making further mistakes,like divorce or being unhappy for the rest of your life. The bible was written many years ago and teaches us good morals but I believe that you should have sex with someone and even cohabitate with someone to make sure it is true love before committing yourself to marriage. If you love someone let them free if they come back they are yours, if not hunt them down and kill them!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Brainiacs Better in Bed-- what say you? Posted: 5/13/2009 11:09:34 PM
Of course it is **ing true! Bimbo's are obviously dead **s due to their lack of thought. I have an above average IQ I as told and I enjoy sex to no end as I have high energy and express my enthusiasm in any way possible. You must be able to focus n what you and your partner are feeling and make the most of the experience. This includes both verbal and physical communication. The more detail and thought involved the better!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 5/13/2009 11:05:15 PM
I changed my mind. I would rather date someone my age or younger as they look better, have higher energy, and just might be able to keep up with me sexually. I love men my age and older however due to their minds, intelligence and they do treat you like a goddess!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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I think I am a kissing addict Posted: 7/31/2007 9:52:38 PM
I am a kissing addict too. They best foreplay, before, during and after and every chance I get and definitely ok to kiss goodbye on the first date! You gotta know if you are wasting your time or not, cause so many guys cant kiss! It is a crying shame!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Can't orgasam while receiving oral sex. Need advice. Posted: 7/31/2007 9:50:39 PM
It is rare. Maybe they are not doing it long enough. They should nibble a little bit. Think 0f it as ****ing their hot wet mouth. Tell them what you like, what feels the best. What about 69?

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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How do you ask for sex? Posted: 7/31/2007 9:47:58 PM
You should never ask for sex! Just kiss & fondle her until she is begging for it.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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WHY R OLDER GUYS SO SEXY???????? Posted: 7/31/2007 9:46:25 PM
I would rather be an older man's princess, than a younger man's slave. Older guys simply treat you better..........but can they keep up in bed?

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Brampton Raxx Monthly Party Sept. 9/06 Posted: 8/27/2006 4:42:48 PM
I wouldnt mind meeting hot toddie, but how do you get to Brampton from the 401? I am coming from Keswick for God's sake!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Well hello Posted: 8/27/2006 1:26:35 AM
OMG! What was I thinking? Yes, I would see my ex again. I do not meet guys I am attracted to often or that are any good in bed.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Nymphomania. Posted: 8/27/2006 12:53:06 AM
I am never tired of it! However, I am not Nymphomania as in the true definition, as a true Nymphomania wants sex all the time because they can never reach orgasm. If a guy can go hard & fast for 5 min, I can reach orgasm.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Well hello Posted: 2/19/2006 6:36:41 PM
All the time, with one guy off and on since I was 19. He has always been my favourite and I fantisize about him when we are not together. Now I think it is true love and I may be ready to attach strings, or tie a knot.................lol!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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How do you know he is in to meeting? Posted: 1/30/2006 9:24:00 PM
bucsgirl? I dont get the questions, generally he is in to meeting when he asks you. When he regularly responds to your emails, but does not ask, he may be shy or busy. You of course could ask him. My son tells me it is now common for women to ask men out and he prefers it that way. Follow your intuition. Good luck!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga: The Day After... Posted: 1/30/2006 9:18:47 PM
Jay the leaf fan: You didnt upset me.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga: The Day After... Posted: 1/30/2006 8:36:23 PM
jay the leaf fan: OMFG! You are under my age restrictions! Whotook: Maybe if I share a cheech and chong joint with you, you will calm down and forgive me. Forgiveness is the key to happiness. I forgive myself..............LOL! Can we have a peace treaty?

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga: The Day After... Posted: 1/30/2006 7:44:57 PM
Jay the leaf fan: Thank you for your sweet compliments! You are my biggest fan! I'll get you my pretty!...........he, he, he..........and your little dog too! (Whotook)

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga: The Day After... Posted: 1/29/2006 8:11:00 PM
whotookmyname: ...was getting alot of service from enig and actively pursuing intimate encounters from anyone with a heartbeat! Angeleyes: run for your life, you are one in a million and whotook is as selective as a dog in heat! Shall we post the pictures from last night? I had alot of fun dancing, singing and playing pool. It was great to meet everyone!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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OMG what the hell is wrong with people? Posted: 1/29/2006 12:13:54 PM
Sweet Angel: Alot of sleezy guys on here for sure. I had a guy tell me after dating a friend on here he did not like her, as he was selective. Then I see him last night at the pof party in Mississauga come onto about 10 different women in one evening!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga party/gathering Posted: 1/28/2006 12:09:43 PM
Woo hoo! The party is tonight! I am hoping to get there at 7pm, if the bar is not full by then!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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~ POF Dating Etiquette ~ Posted: 1/25/2006 8:54:20 PM
arri: I have even seen people disappear and come back! After they couldnt find anything better I guess...LMAO! I think that is what I did to you didn't I? .........and didnt you give me shit, but we are still talking. Sometimes, if you talk to a person long enough, you can actually make friends.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Conservatives win canada after lucky 13 Posted: 1/24/2006 8:01:26 PM
Yes! Finally we can get control of government spending, work on showing this multi-cultural country who Canadians are, and legalize marijuana creating a huge form of tax, rather than our salaries, homes etc. So what if it is only a minority, it is a start, minority governments are best as it keeps them on their toes. We do not want a dictatorship!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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~ POF Dating Etiquette ~ Posted: 1/21/2006 9:13:04 PM
grneyedlady01: Don't worry. You would hate to think your man was with you just because he couldnt find anyone better! Many people have met people on this site and left their profiles up. Perhaps due to the friends they met hear or maybe they just enjoy the forums and people rating their picture. If it is meant to be, it is meant to be. If you love something set it free, if it comes back its yours, if it doesnt, it never was. Good luck!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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God does have a bearing on your life Posted: 1/21/2006 9:05:29 PM
sterling68: When you are single, you have alot of time for yourself and are able to achieve great personal growth. I begin new creative adventures, have more time to excercise, read and explore the spiritual realms. You may also consider a carreer change at this time. God luck, to be free of your wife is truly a blessing and you must work on making yourself a better person, so you may attract a better person next time.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Purpose of life in different religions Posted: 1/21/2006 9:01:10 PM
rapture1: To evolve and create heaven on earth, both new age and catholic. You create your own reality.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Must like food ... Posted: 1/21/2006 8:51:13 AM
arri: I eat very well! I moderate chocolate, avoid fat, except for the occasional crisp bacon. I eat small portions of meat, mostly white meat. My favourite foods are Lobster, Rainbow Trout and Oysters. I love trying new and exotic foods and currie chicken. I have sugar free blueberry jam on grain bread with flax seed oil instead of butter. I eat tons of salads and fruit and lots of homemade soups with garlic in the winter. I have very little alcohol, maybe 1 or 2 glasses wine, 3 to 4 times per week, dont drink pop and drink lots of water.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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~ POF Dating Etiquette ~ Posted: 1/20/2006 6:53:52 PM
Carissma: Generally, if you do not meet with the person within 2 to 4 weeks, deep down either you are not that interested or have been terribly busy or the other way around. You cannot put people off for more than 2 weeks sometimes, or they feel you are playing games or wasting their time. Others I find show interest but state they are "shy" and need more time. I do not give out my phone number unless I have met and liked someone. If they want me to call and confirm the date, I call them and block my number. Always meet in a public place on a 1st date, let people know where you are going and who with in case anything happens. People are not always what they say or appear to be. Conartists and Psycho's are especially good at appearing nice....until their true colors come out. It is good to make alot of girl and guy friends on site and attend the parties.........safety in numbers! Good luck, it is a fun site!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/20/2006 6:43:04 PM
catwoman417: I met a guy today that had gorgeous pictures, expensive car etc. and claims to be a professional hockey player. He gave me his msn/messenger address. I invite him to the pof party Jan 28th in Mississauga, not to go with me, as I am already going with a girlfriend Northy2, and he says he does not go to those things. So I stupidly ask why, not thinking he if "famous". He says, "Do you know who you are talking to?" I said, No, you havent even given me your 1st name!" He says, "Why dont you come over to my house?" I say, "I would prefer to meet in public". He then tells me I am bothering him and that I am too fat anyway, along with numerous other abusive comments. I had to blck/delete him! My point? Even if a guy is gorgeous, rich or famous, who wants to meet them if they are controlling or abusive? Good thing I had a chat with him 1st, before meeting. How do we know peoples pictures are real and they are who they say they are?

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga party/gathering Posted: 1/20/2006 6:29:17 PM
Would someone confirm what kind of music will be playing? Rock and Roll? AC/DC, as per most Karaokee?

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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~Threesomes...a double standard???~ Posted: 1/19/2006 10:38:39 PM
Nurbs: You remind me of my son Bill. He does not know how to get a girls attention other than teasing her. Why dont you try compliments or asking her out? Find some common interests. Talk about music you like.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 10:33:24 PM
Matt1978: Thanks for the best 2 cents on this thread! What a sweetie you are! You are right, I guess you should not make them wait more than a week or two. If you dont feel like meeting them by then, it probably wont get any better in person. I do like a little conversation 1st.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 9:15:37 PM
molonel: Yes, this is a dating site, but some people also have a life! I prefer to meet a guy who also has a life other than this dating site. I am more than willing to share my life with someone 7 days a week, til death do us part (and have sex possibly more often), but that would only be after we meet, discover the chemistry and fall hopelessly in unconditional love! I dont care if my man has part time interests several times a week, along as we have great fun, communication and sex when we are together! Would you break up with someone cause they had to go on a 10 day business trip? I am a free spirit and prefer a man who is my equal and I enjoy talking to.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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ASSumptions .... Posted: 1/19/2006 8:37:39 PM
Yes, it is best not to be to quick to judge people in any situation. Alot of people do not read the whole story, and post inappropriately. The author, should then repeat the key information they are missing! Things can often be taken wrong in writing, without body language or emotion, other than............... I am sure none of us are perfect and occasionally make spelling mistakes, which should be overlooked. i.e. Munch: Northy2 said, mistakes should be overlooked unless they happen repeatedly! I doubt she was referring to spelling mistakes................LOL! I am happy and enjoy life being single and simply avoid the people who bring me down or zap my energy. I prefer to date someone who has a life and is fun to be with.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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~Threesomes...a double standard???~ Posted: 1/19/2006 8:19:15 PM
If a couple feels the need to experiment with something like this, their relationship is probably shallow or over! Couples swapping, two guys/two girls would be the only solution, but definately not for me. I prefer to be with a man who is satisfied just with me. I prefer a man who has already sowed his oats and is experienced enough to prefer making love to one woman.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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~Threesomes...a double standard???~ Posted: 1/19/2006 8:17:31 PM
If a couple feels the need to experiment with something like this, their relationship is probably shallow or over! Couples swapping, two guys/two girls would be the only solution, but definately not for me. I prefer to be with a man who is satisfied just with me.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 7:07:25 PM
molnel: Would you really want a girl that would date anyone? How special is that? She will no doubt probably replace you easily when she finds someone better. I guess easy guys, date the easy girls. As I have said many times, I have been on several dates, but do like to talk for at least 2 to 4 weeks before meeting. I dont care, if you are Brad Pitt or Dark Tranquility! If you cannot be nice by email, you probably wont be any better in person! Anyone that uses the expression, your playing games, I think are ****ed! It's called, building a relationship. Getting to know each other.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 6:59:50 PM
Hottiescotty: I am not afraid to meet in public. I have met several guys from this site and will be attending my 2nd party Jan 28th. It could be more of a waste of time/money meeting in public depending how far you have to drive to meet them. Some are willing to come to my town, which is great, but others I have driven an hour or two away to meet. There is nothing wrong with being selective and wanting to know someone before meeting. It is also being cautious. I always meet in a public place on a 1st date and sometimes inform people about the person date, in case anything happens. If people cant talk nice online to your 1st, I doubt they would be any better in person.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 6:43:25 PM
Zenlizard: I did invite him to the party, he said no. I am going with a girlfriend and we planned to go weeks ago. I did explain everything u mentioned thoroughly to him. I even agreed to call him the day after the party to set up a meeting. I do not like to plan things too far in advance, usually a week at the most and confirm a day or two before. I am very spontaneous, but also have planned events in my life. His aggressive, impatient, attitude begins to put me off meeting period. You say let's meet, she says I will call u 10 days from now, I am busy and then he gets mad? I usually talk to guys, as friends for 3 weeks to a month. By then any angry, controlling traits like this surface, which puts off the meeting. I ignore people that give me their msn address on the 1st or 2nd email. How many people can u effectively talk to on msn at one time? It will become as bad as IM on plenty of fish, if I add everyone to my msn that I would like to get to know better. If you have 10 people IM you at once on plenty of fish, you cannot effectively talk to anyone!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Boxers, briefs, or commanda - what is it guys / girls what do you prefer? Posted: 1/19/2006 12:40:50 PM
Fruit of the Loom briefs = Mommy's boy Tight speedo type leopard print or G string= Rock Star Boxers = Jock commando = Kinky/uninhibited

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 12:11:28 PM
DarkTranquility: This is true to an extent, but I do not believe in love at 1st sight. Lust at 1st sight is possible but very rare for me and what a strong emotion that can be! Although, I have yet to experience overly strong lust emotions from a picture! Usually, it is a person's personality, which also makes them attractive, so you may only determine if there is chemistry in person. What if I also add, that I totalled my car yesterday and was injured and have to get it fixed. I only told this guy that I would prefer to meet or talk to him after the 28th of January, which is only 10 days away, not a month or two.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 7:20:03 AM
scottymac: Thanks for your reply! Notice the changes on my profile.......serial dater temporarity not in service..............lol! Unless they want to meet me at the pof party in Mississauga Jan 28th! I usually do prefer to meet a guy after we have had a few good chats.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 6:58:59 AM
scottymac: I dont usually work weekend, I am just helping a friend on a construction site this weekend and it is hard work, I get up early and I am tired at night. Also, it is not every day, that my son is coming to live with me and I have to rearrange my house! I am not always this busy and have actually had 3 dates from pof in one week in the past!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 5:48:40 AM
paradoxdreamer: Yes, months is a long time. I like one special fish, I have been talking to for months. He came onto me 1st, then hardly ever replies to my emails and is very brief. I almost gave up on him, until I finally got talking with him on msn a few times, and apparently he is very shy! I will be more patient, but I dont know how much longer I can wait! I guess if you dont find anyone else you like, why not wait? Sometimes it does take years to find the person you love, even on the internet. I do prefer a man who is patient and does not anger or give up easily.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/19/2006 5:29:44 AM
Zenlizard: I live a busy life, as a single mom, with two boys. I have dance lessons Monday, basketball Tues & Thurs and am working this sat and sunday. My 15 year old son is moving in next wednesday and we have to rearrange two bedrooms, i.e. move funiture, pictures etc. and I am going to a plenty of fish party Jan 28th. I usually meet guys within a month of talking to them, but I am very busy for the next 2 weeks and would rather not meet anyone until after the party. This guy said, we could at least talk on the phone, but I do not like to give out my phone number and generally only call someone when I am ready to meet as I am often busy on the phone with people I already know. Also, I was very tired and sore last night when he asked me as I got in a car accident yesterday and it was 1:00am when we were talking online, I wanted to go to bed!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Why is it, that so many guys want to meet you or call Posted: 1/18/2006 10:08:53 PM
you right away or forget it? Why are women accused of playing games when being cautious and wanting to know someone better 1st?

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga party/gathering Posted: 1/18/2006 8:31:15 PM
newfiebudgirl: Is there still room for us all?...........LOL! It will be my 2nd party too and I am looking forward to seeing everyone.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Whats an instant turn on for you Posted: 1/18/2006 8:04:31 PM
Masseurr: .....come hither you man-animal! I like a man who kisses you really nice all over! Turn offs: Men who "prefer" it in the morning.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga party/gathering Posted: 1/16/2006 7:47:05 PM
Dr. Malcom: I cant see the pages in between 71 and 82! LOL! How about, "May we all find the Magic Match in Mississauga"

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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Mississauga party/gathering Posted: 1/15/2006 8:56:38 AM
Dud: Is that why you are here? Nice body, shame about the face? I will be wearing, jeans, a t shirt and my dancing shoes!

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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It's Friday the 13th! Posted: 1/15/2006 8:38:01 AM
chlorene88: Where is that cave on your profile? It looks very beautiful.

helen of troy

Joined: 9/5/2005

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It's Friday the 13th! Posted: 1/14/2006 10:05:31 PM
Thanks North2!

helen of troy

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Childhood Fears that Still Haunt Ya ... Posted: 1/14/2006 9:50:03 PM
I will eat brussel sprouts, only if they are fresh, not frozen. I will occasionally eat liver and onions, I will even eat oysters on toast. What I hated as a child was milk and my parents made me sit at the table until I drank it. I would be there for hours refusing! I got over that and now drink milk. Also, the cod liver oil wasnt so hot, my mother gave us a teaspoon as day! My biggest fear as a child was my Dad when he was mad, I would run right out of the house!

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