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nude beaches Posted: 3/19/2009 6:25:54 PM
I enjoy being naked myself. However I am not make anyone watch a fortyfive year old fat man chunky dunk. I like midnight swims, the darkness hides a multitude of sins.

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beautiful people, ugly genitals... Posted: 8/27/2008 10:48:22 AM
From my male piont of view my penis is enthusiastic and functional. The pu$$ies I've seen in my opinion have been marvels of nature, how can one compare them they are like sunsets or snow flakes. Some may be less spectacular than others, but all are spectacular. A clean healty woman and I cold spend all day at the "Y".

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Be Good and Stay out of trouble Posted: 8/26/2008 3:43:00 PM
I have used both as well. I think they fall into the; I have enjoyed our conversation I'd like to do it again catagory. A more humorous version would be; Don't do anything you can't spell.

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Is the bad economy crimping your dating style? Posted: 8/26/2008 3:25:39 PM
I have to feed the Suburban to get to work. So my dating has been curtailed to a degree. However if you like being with someone and they like being with you. they will understand the paychecks dont go up as fast as costs do. You just have to turn up the romantic side and do things for your sweetie that require more thought and hands on effort on your part. For example make a picnic at a beautiful spot you can buy stuff but if you make it with your own hands it has a bigger impact. Even if you can't cook anything fancy, simple sandwhichs are great, but take the time to get the blanket, basket, nice plates, glassware, candles, and flowers. Guys remember women like to feel special. It takes thought and expression of how you truly feel to make that happen. If your faking it they will know. ( That damned female intuition.) Be real, be honest, and she will love what you do for her to make anytime with her special.

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Red heads... Posted: 8/26/2008 1:34:50 PM
Redheads are hot however hot comes in every color hair, and I understand that anyone can be a redhead, or any other color these days. I like it when the carpet matches the drapes whatever color hair she has. Maybe thats why so many ladies shave completely so your not able to tell if its their true color or not. What gets me is I like freckles, they are sexy to me, no matter what the hair color. They are not a requirement just an extra goodie to enjoy. I noticed on one red head I dated that I could feel a lot of the freckles as I stroked her skin. I could even feel the realy pale ones that never saw the light of day and were near impossible to see. I took great joy in being the Great hunggry freckle hunter, kissing and licking all I could find. I could even find them in the dark. She said I was lying that I couldn't feel them, she tested me blindfolded and I proved it. I could even find some of the small ones, I never did finish kissing every one of them. There are a number of redheads here that are smokin hot.

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SAGGING PANTS, crotch at the knees ... Do genitals really go down that far? Posted: 8/26/2008 11:02:07 AM
I saw a news segment that explored the baggy pants fashion phenomena. It did in fact stat with the clothing issued in the American prison system. Evidently the prison system only has a limited number of size choices, i guess its a one or two sizes fits all philosophy to save money. The resulting sag was then carried over into the streets and then into the pop/hip-hop music industry. The wearing of the pants waist below the buttocks, was a way that the homosexual inmates let the other inmates know they were open for sex. I wonder if the wanna be cool young idiots wearing their pants like that, knew where that style came from, if they would still wear them that way. I know a 15 year old that just discovered that when he wore properly fitting jeans girls liked and commented on his ass. So this year the pants fit right. The shirts are shorter and more girls are noticing him. And I don't have to threaten to use a staple gun or hot glue to keep his pants up.

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guys who don't like blowjobs Posted: 8/26/2008 10:16:32 AM
I don't know why some guys dont' like blow jobs. I just want a woman that wants to do one to completion once in a while, rather than saying I want you in me. I'll be happy to do that as well just finish the job, a tounge feels fantastic.

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Kissing & Hickeys Posted: 8/26/2008 9:18:04 AM
I don't normaly leave hickeys. How ever in the heat of passion. I like to nibble and suck on any part of the female anatomy I can get my mouth on. That said years ago (damn I just made myself feel old) I had a lover that liked to bite the more turned on she got, I ended up with a string of hickeys from one elbow up my arm, along my coller bone, around both sides of my neck, on my chest, and down the other arm. I remember only getting the last one on my upper arm. At that point I had to grab her by the hair to keep her from doing more damage. (like drawing blood) I wonder where she is now?

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Tit for tat..... Posted: 8/21/2008 12:37:08 PM
I do things for my lover because I absoluely love to make them cum. My goal is to make them lose their ability to speak in complete sentences. If a word or two escape between moans, gasps, and oh my God's, I'm doing the job corectly. The next complete sentence I want to here is "God, I've got to have you in me now." That is all the reciprocation I need. However a good unexpected blow job is totaly welcome.

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boobs Posted: 8/4/2008 3:13:54 PM
I looked at your profile. You don't have a thing to worry about. Your a gorgous young woman. If you havent found someone that loves everthing about you give it time. They will find you. Until then dont alter what god gave you, he made you beautiful.

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All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer Posted: 8/4/2008 12:29:51 PM
Some people cant see the humor in anything.

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To talk or not to talk,That is the question. Posted: 7/31/2008 10:58:12 AM
Thanks for the response. I only asked this question to ease my mind that it wasn't anything I did to cause my last relationship to end. After reading the posts in response to mine, that it was nothing I did or didn't do to cause the demise of my last relationship. I never said anything about what we did in the bedroom. (Always loved sex with her. God we fit so well together.) And after I got the "I've been atracted to other people for the last nine months." speech, and the "Its not you its me." speech, and the "I love you, I'm just not in love with you." speech. When people asked me what's wrong? I would just say that she dumped me and the cliché resons she gave me. And said that it hurts as bad as falling in love with her felt good. And how ticked off I was about the way I felt I have been treated. By the way how do you get rid of someone that dumped you and wont move out?

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when is a man in love? Posted: 7/30/2008 3:14:32 PM
Boy thyere are some cynical women answering. If the woman feel like shes being loved this question is redundent. I like to do little thoughtful thing for the woman I loved. Like making sure she always had her cigarettes even though I don't smoke. Noticing things she needs and listening to the things she mentions in passing that she likes. I found that i felt best when she was around. Ladies, trust me. If a man loves you the way he should their will be no question in your mind that he loves you and only you. I'm not saying that there are no players or scammers out there. If it doesn't feel right it isn't, trust your feelings.

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Feeling a little hopeless Posted: 7/30/2008 2:56:09 PM
Unfortuatly welcome to the club. I recently have gone through a similar type of break up. Its time to move on. I still have to remind myself often but the need to remind myself is reducing. I'm positive that the hurt you and I both still feel will eventualy fade. I recomend that you find somthing to keep your self busy. I have a job that lets me get as much overtime as I can stand. Keep strong and when its time to let go recognise the fact pick up the pieces of your broken heart and move on. I have two quotes: "This to shall pass." and "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Best of luck.

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To talk or not to talk,That is the question. Posted: 7/30/2008 2:35:59 PM
I would also like to know why someone would vote to delete this thread? It's a honest question. It is not a nonsense post. And I belive I'm typing in English.

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To talk or not to talk,That is the question. Posted: 7/30/2008 1:58:02 PM
I read this question and it made me think. “Under what circumstances do you think it is okay for someone to discuss details of his/her relationship with family or friends?” I think that if a person is feeling frutrated and anxious, they should be able to talk to their other half. However if your significant other doesn't want to talk about how your feeling, and lies about where she is and makes reasons not to be with you but still relys on you for every thing she needs. Whats the limit of what can or can't be discussed with family or close friend? I ask because I have no problem telling the world I'm in love with someone. Or talking about how wonderful aspets of a relationship are. I dont think I ever crossed any line but after thinking about the above question. What would be the line not to cross for y'all?

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Funny, but real names... Posted: 7/29/2008 2:18:41 PM
Dentist near my grandparents : Dr. I. M. Payne Chiropractor name on sign: "Let Dr. Poppem treat you right." And I knew a Man named Smokey Stover. He repaired appliances in RVs

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30 and never married? Posted: 7/29/2008 11:58:06 AM
I'm almost 45 and have never been married. I have gone through my life with the philosophy that one day the "One" would cross my path. About 5 years ago I met this incredible woman. She lit up my world. From the first converstation when I felt that click and could not let her leave without setting up another meeting. To make a long story short, she decided to end it saying it's not you it's me your such a great guy, I still love you, I'm just not in love with you. In my heart I know where I wanted the relationship to lead and that was marraige. I am now aware of what I was missing in my life before I met her. It wasn't just the feeling of being loved, it was the depth of the love I felt for her and her children. I came from a long line of love, parents still married after 54 years, grandparents 39 and 42 years. But I've seen friends go through hell with divorce. And having to fight ex's to see their children. And perhaps thats why I didn't find love sooner. I now I know what I was missing and I still want it, A woman thats there for me as much as I'm there for them. A woman that can be my source of peace when my day just sucks or life just seems to beat me down. A woman that runs to me when her emotional batteries are needing a recharge. I could say more. but I've gone off thread enough. I hope we all get what we're looking for.

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I love girly girls Posted: 7/25/2008 11:31:36 AM
"I'm into four wheeling" = "I love to sit in your jeep while you do the Rubicon. That plus the back of your big truck is perfect for carrying home things from garage sales." "I'm into fishing" = "I love it when you go fishing cuz I can go along and lay in the sun all day and get a tan....and then when you come back at night we get to eat fresh fish and have marshmallows later and then have mind blowing sex by the light of the moon." "I love camping" = "I love the way you look with your muscles all ripply when you chop the wood for the fire, and I really like the way my voice reverberates in the total silence of the mountain when I "see god". But don't forget to remember to bring the blow up queen sized bed AND the down comforter and pillows AND that shower thingy that hangs in the tree and heats up by solar heating AND the portipotty...oh, and if you can just bring the RV, that would be the best." I think I love you. I know of a few women that I would call girly girls, that are very feminine. And like to do the guy things as well, even if its just to be around their men. (Lucky guys) I hope to find one of my own one day soon.

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thong tan lines on a guy.....Is it Ok Posted: 7/25/2008 11:23:11 AM
I shudder to think of myself in a thong. Thongs like spandex are a privilege not a right. Some people should not wear either. If I were t wear a thong it would be like putting a rubber band around the bottom of a bartlett pear. Not a good image.

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Gender-based condiments? Posted: 7/25/2008 11:16:39 AM
I have in my kitchen right now. Ketchup, 4 mustards, 1 amayo (I usually make my own),2 relish, sweet pickles, dill pickles, pickled vegies, jalapeneos, 4 bbq sauce, jamacian jerk sauce, 2 chutney, garlic powder, 2 cinnamon, nutmeg, dill, cilantro, red pepper flakes, lemon pepper, greek seasoning, italian seasoning, paprika, sweet and sour, and assorted dry rubs, and marinades. And if you mean condiments on the opposite gender. whip cream, hot fudge, caramel, and assorted fruits and jams. Yes, I like to cook and know how to use the above. I even don't mind doing the dishes.

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Why would a great guy stick around after a year of ups and downs and no SEX? Posted: 7/23/2008 3:34:48 PM
I waited for 1 year, 10 months and 4 days. until I had sex with my last GF. I liked her from the start, and knew that her past relationships were abusive. I fell for her hook line and sinker in about 6 months. I was more than willing to wait for her to feel right about consumating or relationship. And for those that don't think a man can do without sex for a year. I didn't date anyone else either. I'm no longer with her (not my choice, but necessary) and we are still great friends.

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How big is it? Posted: 7/23/2008 12:37:39 PM
Isn't there a myth about Big hands Big feet. I guess being able to palm a basketball, and having size 18 feet is a plus.

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Date women with or without kids Posted: 7/22/2008 10:35:06 AM
I had told myself when I was about 35 that it was getting less likely that I would find a woman close to my age that did not have a child or children. I told myself that I would go with the flow and if I met someone with kids I just hope that they are young enough to be a positive influence on. Low and behold 5 years later I found my most recent love, and for the last 5 years I have truely loved her and her two kids. They were 6 and 10 respectively and I fell in love with them as I fell for their mother. When you fall in love with a mother you have to accept that they will come first. As a new adult in their lives you have to over come and tolerate the childs jelousy of you wanting to be with their Mom. God knows how these two boys felt towards me at the begining. I just showed patience, and respect towards their mother and eventualy they came around. And I feel I have been blessed to be able to develope a relationship with her two boys for a half and third of their lives respectively. However sometimes people do grow apart and she has recently given me the, "It's not you its me." speech. And the, "I love you, I'm just not in love with you." speech. Yada, yada, yada. Now to the point. If you decide to date a woman with children remember that you affect the children by how you react to their mother. If she hurts you dont lash out at her in front of the kids. If you must argue take a drive somewhere, park and argue there. If the kids ask why your so sad or asks whats wrong, be as honest as you can with out beratring their Mom. Say something like somtimes I can't figure out your mom, some times she makes me nuts. Their kids they understand their mother making them nuts. A teenage boy will understand the statment, "Sometimes I still cant understand woman, sometimes they make you crazy" They will know who your talking about. Remember also that if you fall for mom odds are you'll fall for the kids as well. If there is a break up, the pain of seperation is not just between the two of you, their are more than just two hearts involved. Take care to avoid damaging the innocent hearts, by letting them know that they are welcome to visit or call anytime they want. Eliminating dating women with kids means that you miss out on some incredible women that some jerks let get away. Thats my 2 cents. OK 4 cents.

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Oral sex and the taste of ejaculate Posted: 7/22/2008 9:37:51 AM
Heck I've said it before, if a woman is willing to have my babybatter in their mouth then I damn well better be willing to have it in mine. While I have not tried it " straight from the tap" I have enjoyed cleaing up the mess we just made. I can tell from eating a woman if shes a smoker or not, dont ask me how but its just a slightly different taste and aroma. I try to injest as many tropical fruits as possible; fresh, dried, or in juice change the flavor. Almonds change the flavor as well. Avoid some strong flavored items such as asparagus (< is that spelled right) and some beers. They can change the flavor and not in a good way.

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How Long to guys HONESTLY last in bed Posted: 7/21/2008 3:40:14 PM
I like lots of foreplay. I consider it a privilage to turn a woman on as much as possible before I even think about penetration. Oral and using my hands to give a woman pleasure untill I hear those magic words " I HAVE TO have YOU in me, NOW." My last lover loved climbing on top and rubbing the head of my **** on her clit. She called it dueling, some times she got so into it she could cum that way. I would have to concentrate and will myself not to cum from the intense sensations. I must admit I at times I lost it before she slid down on me and others I could last for at least two of her orgasms before I blasted off, giving her another. My second always longer than the first. Give me about 20 - 30 minutes to recharge I can go again. Quicker If I get some help.

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 7/17/2008 3:01:47 PM
Absolutly, I love the taste of a fresh clean natural woman. Its a a major turn on. The more I can dine at the Y the more turned on I get feeling the reactions of the woman I'm with. Two rules: If it smells like afish don't make it a dish. If it smells like cologne leave it alone.

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need help on an interesting relationship Posted: 7/15/2008 10:15:23 AM
Waiting is never a mistake. take your time if its meant to be it will happen. Go check out the "how long should I wait" thread. Good luck

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how long should I wait? Posted: 7/15/2008 9:22:50 AM
How long... If your serious about a LTR, and you feel shes the one. Then the answer is as long as it takes. Do the foundation work while you wait. End that seperation with a divorce, and show her the way you feel by clearing the road blocks to a healthy relationsip. To those here that think that a man only gives a massage to get in a womans pants, your wrong. I waited a year and ten months before I had sex with the last woman I was interested in. I used to give her clothed massages as a means to satisfy my needs for physical intamacy. Giving foot massages to each other while having long in depth conversations were eye opening to things that happened in her life that made her fear intimacy at any level. Trust me on this waiting may be a trial, (jack-off or take lots of cold showers) but when show her that you understand her eventualy that emotional wall comes down and she submits to your advances as a partner thats willing and not feeling forced. You will be in heaven and in a position to show her heaven as well. Be patient with her and your rewards will be great. Remember that cold water helps reduce sweeling and stiffness. LOL Good luck

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Dating a Smoker Posted: 7/11/2008 12:37:03 PM
I don't smoke but have been in love with a woman that started smoking again after having quit. I can tell you one thing I noticed, oral sex tasted different, not bad but different. I like giving oral too much to think it tasted bad.

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 7/11/2008 12:13:21 PM
I'm in Georgetown a little north of Austin. I am 44 y.o. and 6'9"and single. Just letting every one here know I'm here.

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NUCKING FUTS!! Posted: 7/11/2008 11:17:35 AM
When I lived in Houston, there was a homeless man that was all scruffy and dirty with long scraggly hair. He wore one of those yellow rain suits, rain or shine. You know the type that the classic fishermen would wear, right down to the hat. On hot days he'd wear the pants and an old t-shirt. I would see him walking all over the place, waving his hands muttering to himself. One day I was sitting in a store parking lot eating lunch. He walks up to the pay phone right by my car and checks the coin return for change, no luck. He smacks his hand on the top of the phone in a drum like cadence, and change falls into the coin return. He pulled out the coins and went into the store got a drink and came back out. Standing there he starts muttering and gesturing. I was listening to him when I realized, He was doing complex mathamatical figuring, writing in the air with his fingers and talking through calculus and physics problems. I have no idea if they where correct, but it made me think, and made him memorable.

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oral afterwards Posted: 7/11/2008 9:53:05 AM
I have absolutly no problem with it. If I expect to have my baby batter fill her mouth, and go down her throat, I have can have it in mine. The one woman I have done this with I went down on and cleaned up the juicy mess we just made, licking and sucking her clean. By the time I made her come two more times I was hard again. I have found that once I can get a woman to have a big cum it's easier to give her more. Watching a woman cumming is so frigging hot!!!

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Riding Cowgirl...Ladies? Posted: 7/11/2008 8:42:57 AM
I have to say ya'll are all as horney as I am. I love it in both cowgirl positions. I really get into it rocking my pelvis driving myself up into her. Pushing up off the bed to lift her off her feet or knees. She always said that I could hit her g-spot just the way she liked it, and she could position herself where she could feel my cum hit her g-spot when I came. Damn now that I'm single again I need a cold shower. No I need a bathtub full of ice.

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How do I make the hurt stop? Posted: 7/10/2008 8:19:56 AM
Thanks to all that have responded. It is obvious that the people in this forum are very intelligent, and have great compassion. Ya’ll are, for the most part, in agreement with what my friends say. To clarify some details. I’ve known these kids since they were 5 and 10 years old. They are now 10 and 15 years old, so I’ve known them a significant part of their lives. I have already given her documents to vacate, so she can take the to human services or what ever. I have been keeping sane by being able to write and vent. This forum has been one of those venting arenas, and I thank you all for the sympathy for my position. I have already taken steps to follow the advice given here and elsewhere so I guess ya’ll have been preaching to the choir. Three phrases have been keeping me sane these days. “This two shall pass.” “That which does not kill us makes us stronger” (I hate this one I use it a lot) And “Remember where the help comes from” Once again thanks for confirming my own thoughts.

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How do I make the hurt stop? Posted: 7/9/2008 4:41:43 PM
This is a little long sorry A little about me, I’m 44 years old, overweight, and I go through life trying to string as many moments of joy together as possible. About five years ago I fell in love with an incredible woman. I had been in what I thought was love but this time it was like comparing a candle to the sun. I never expected love to feel that way. It felt like I was flying, and felt like I could do any thing. I knew she had bad relationships before I took it slow. She gave herself to me a year and ten months later. It was incredible. I have been blessed by having grown up with a fine example of how love is supposed to go with my parents. I saw my father show his love and respect for my mother (Married 54 years), both in verbal and nonverbal ways. In other words I come from a long line of love, in a family where love was shown and felt. I have lived with my aging parents (both 74) to help take care of their needs, and help with the up keep of the house, in addition I work 40 to 50 hours a week more or less. And work very hard at making it a loving environment. About a year and nine months ago, my girlfriend was being evicted and I said come and live with me. And she and her two boys moved in. I had fallen in love not only with her but her sons as well. Years ago before I met her I told God that if I were to meet and fall for a woman with kids let them be young enough for me to have a positive influence on. After I met her I prayed for God to make me the man she and her boys needed me to be. And that I would treat her with the love and respect she deserved. In other words, I viewed her as my wife and her boys as my sons. Now I know she had never been treated the way a woman should be treated. I loved being around her; she recharged my emotional batteries just by being by my side. I could go on say how much I love her but that’s pointless. Recently (3 weeks ago) my girlfriend dropped the bomb on our relationship of five years. Actually a series of bombs, first she hit me with “I love you I’m just not in love with you.” Followed quickly with the, “Your such a great guy its nothing you did. Its not you its me” speech. Ending with the knife in the heart of, “About eight or nine months ago I started being attracted to other people” I was and am still devastated. She can’t or won’t tell me what went wrong. I loved her the best way I knew how, and my best wasn’t good enough. The whole experience has torn me up and is still doing so. You see I always thought that when a woman broke up with you she went away or moved. Well that’s not how it’s gone for me. She’s still living in my house because she has no place to go, she’s unemployed, and I love the kids even if they are not mine. WTF I see her and my heart still jumps I still love her, but she doesn’t love me at least not romantically. She says I love you like a friend, She even said a friend with benefits, and I tried that awhile but it wasn’t the same and I had to stop it because it didn’t feel right. I feel like an addict with my drug at the other end of the house. I don’t sleep much and I don’t eat like normal. I have lost weight but this diet sucks. There is no refuge from a broken heart, especially when the cause of it re-breaks it everyday. Thats it with a lot of details glossed over.Please offer some advice to keep me sane and ease my weary mind.

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One for the girls.... Oral sex after intercourse Posted: 7/4/2008 12:46:22 PM
I totaly enjoy making a woman cum, the more turned on I can get her the better it is for me be cause I cum harder as a result. I enjoy with every fiber of my being eating at the Y. That being said I find it in credibly hot making out after goimg down on her. While she rubs the head of my****on her clit. I have found that once a woman has achieved orgasm licking and sucking out my own cum is an incredible turn on for her bringing her to more orgasms that almost suffocate me and get me hard again mintes after cumming in her the first time.

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