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mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

Msg: 5 (view)

Ready to Throw in the towel!! Posted: 10/13/2005 1:14:50 PM
You have children, and may want more. That is a turn off for any guy who does not want children...which is most guys under the age of 35.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Can't Find A Man and don't know why? Posted: 10/13/2005 12:58:50 PM
You want children. Many men do not. That means you will have a longer search than some. What is wrong with guys who are 19, or 20, or 50, or 60...if they want what you want, and like you as you are? The pickier you are-about age, etc-the fewer choices you will have.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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What if a guy is not interested in sex. Posted: 10/13/2005 12:06:36 PM
I don't know if you are alone...but you should be.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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How do you know if your partners STD free? Posted: 10/13/2005 11:45:53 AM
You labor under a delusion...thinking that condoms will protect you from STDs. They may block something as big as a syph spyrochete, but nothing can block an Aids virus...which is 1/500,000th the size of a sperm cell. Intact condoms have been known to let some sperm cells leak out. An Aids virus can swim in, and out, or an intact condom as easily as a gnat can fly under, over, or around, an 18 wheeler parked across a highway trying to roadblock it. Then, too, what makes you think that a woman you have been " well into a relationship" with wouldn't cheat on you even once in a lifetime...and that the person she cheats on you with won't have an STD? I know one person who got several STDs from one sex session with a spouse of 18 years. All sex is Russian Roulette. Believing that condoms will protect you from STDs is playing Polish Roulette.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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How do you know if your partners STD free? Posted: 10/13/2005 11:45:35 AM
You labor under a delusion...thinking that condoms will protect you from STDs. They may block something as big as a syph spyrochete, but nothing can block an Aids virus...which is 1/500,000th the size of a sperm cell. Intact condoms have been known to let some sperm cells leak out. An Aids virus can swim in, and out, or an intact condom as easily as a gnat can fly under, over, or around, an 18 wheeler parked across a highway trying to roadblock it. Then, too, what makes you think that a woman you have been " well into a relationship" with wouldn't cheat on you even once in a lifetime...and that the person she cheats on you with won't have an STD? I know one person who got several STDs from one sex session with a spouse of 18 years. All sex is Russian Roulette. Believing that condoms will protect you from STDs is playing Polish Roulette.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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How do you know if your partners STD free? Posted: 10/13/2005 11:37:11 AM
The only way to know is to: go with him/her to get tested, go elsewhere for more tests-to elliminate the chances of false positives/false negatives-stay with him/her every moment until all the test results are in, and then you will know about their condition as of the moment you read all the test results. Even then, as soon as you turn your back, he/she may go out and get an STD. If you are concerned, ask. PC-ness does not come into it. Donating blood is a polite, slow, way to get tested...as the blood will be tested before being added to the supply. If you test positive, the Red Cross will notify you. No notification means that you are STD free...or that you have an STD, but the notification got lost in the mail. Life is a gamble. By The way...Cold Sores are an STD;a variety of Herpes. If you have ever had Cold Sores, you are not STD free.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Never had an orgasm...any suggestions? Posted: 10/13/2005 11:15:45 AM
Spend a night with me. I've never failed to satisfy anyone yet...because I know what I'm doing, and I take the time to make the effort to please. Ladies cum first is my motto.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Women & Porn - Whats Your Preference Posted: 10/13/2005 11:13:59 AM
Between women, and porn, I'll take women. As for watching it, or not, I can take it or leave it. Good porn can have educational/inspirational value for the less experienced people. Once you have enough experience, porn offers no new ideas. If your partner wants to watch porn with you, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. It seems that embarrassment would arise from one party wanting to view it with a partner who did not want to view it. Communicate your desires honestly, to avoid problems.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Why do stunning women go for geeks Posted: 10/13/2005 11:09:24 AM
Geeks have money. Look at Bill Gates. While non-geeks with money blow it all on drugs, and cars, geeks invest their money in: mansions, stocks, bonds, gold, gems, real estate, etc. Gates has one home worth $500,000,000.00. Imagine getting that in a divorce.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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When can a guy say he's hung? Posted: 10/13/2005 11:01:12 AM
If you have to say it, you aren't.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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How True Is This? Posted: 10/13/2005 10:59:04 AM
What with makeup, plastic surgery, etc, looks are so deceptive as to be not worth looking at. For me, personality attracts, and holds.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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What Exactly Are The Rules Of Dating Posted: 10/13/2005 10:52:08 AM
Everyone writes his/her own rules for dating, and then tries to find someone else who can live within those rules. if your rules are different than those of the person you date, trouble arises. This is why open, honest, conversation is so important in a relationship. Tell those you date what you want, and expect, and listen while they tell you their wants, and expectations. You are too old fashioned for some folks, but not for other folks.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Is it OK to be friends with your ex? Posted: 10/13/2005 10:47:24 AM
Ex is ex. Trying to remain friends with an ex is a way of trying to get back together with that ex. Anyone who wants that is not ready for a relationship with anyone but the ex.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Time to give up? Posted: 10/13/2005 10:44:34 AM
I'd give up if I were you. He voices his feelings, you talk so much together, and you have no idea what he is thinking? That is a bad sign. It sounds like you scared him off. Either that, or he is too rude, and inconsiderate, to realize that he should acknowledge the gift you sent him. Forget him, and move on.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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What is the craziest thing you did to get noticed? Posted: 10/11/2005 1:15:44 PM
Licked my eyebrows.

mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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What if......? Posted: 10/11/2005 1:14:59 PM
The human race would be extinct within a decade.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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opposites Posted: 10/11/2005 11:07:05 AM
Opposites almost always attract...but almost never bond. For short term relationships, opposites can work. For long term relatiosnhips opposites almost always fizzle out.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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need input on interracial dating Posted: 10/11/2005 11:01:02 AM
Arabs/Albanians, etc, are nationalities, not races. Even blacks, whites, etc, are not seperate races...just different sub-species...like poodles and schnausers, are both of the canine race. To date another race would be to date a horse, or Martian, or such. All humans are of the human race. Religion, and politics, cause most divisions. The Christian vs Muslim, or Nazi vs Commie, things create most of the strife.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Why Is It No Answer??????? Posted: 10/11/2005 10:56:24 AM
Forget him, and try someone else.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Cats and Men .... Posted: 10/11/2005 10:54:43 AM
Cats are viscious, amoral, creatures with no sense of loyalty. I know one woman who owned a cat for 15 years, and treated it like a queen. One day, for no reason, the cat scratched the woman, deeply, and the resulting infection killed the woman. Murdered by her beloved, non-abused, pet...just like Roy got crippled by his favorite cat...for no reason. That does not happen with dogs.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Whats the best panty dropper of a cologne a guy can wear Posted: 10/11/2005 10:49:12 AM
Forget cologne. Use $100.00 bills as kleenex...blow your nose in them, and throw them in the trash. Having that sort of wealth attracts any woman.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Should prostitution be legal? Posted: 10/11/2005 10:46:42 AM
In some places it is legal. In those places, prostitutes are licensed, and need regular checkups to keep their license...so there is less STD occurrance. Move to such a place-Reno Nevada, USA...Melbourne, Australia, etc, if you want it that bad.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Why do guys shy away? Posted: 10/11/2005 10:43:01 AM
Most probably think that if you are still a virgin now, you will remain one after meeting them...meaning you won't give them any sex...so why should they meet you, when what most want is the sex you won't give?

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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A Dilemma! Posted: 10/11/2005 10:37:38 AM
He has cyber cheated on you...which is one step short of actually cheating on you. If he has not already actually cheated on you, he probably will do so soon. Dump him now...before he gives you Aids, or something.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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I need some advice! Posted: 10/11/2005 10:35:22 AM
It sounds as if he is a dawg, who is seeing other women, who are pressuring him to dump you, and he is falling back on excuse # 2A to break up with you. Perhaps he is not ready to commit,and is worried that you/your family are expecting him to marry you, so he is using a phony excuse to dump you. Either way, he is not mature enough for the sort of relationship you want, so be glad to be rid of him.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Ever had an odd queston? Posted: 10/11/2005 10:30:14 AM
What pressure? Say" I'll do my best, when given the chance", and then do do your best. If one thing fails, try another.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Whats the best way to ask your g/f for a blowjob Posted: 10/7/2005 2:10:18 PM
Some women don't like the idea of it. Let her know that you would greatly appreciate it if she could bring herself to give you head, but let her know that you don't expect, or demand, it, and you will understand if she just doesn't want to. If you keep it nicely washed, and treat her well in other ways, chances are that she will eventually give you a BJ...as a way of saying how much she loves you, and appreciates your attitude. One woman I started dating swore she would never do THAT!..No WAY! I said I understood, and I said that was OK. I told her I would love it if she ever could bring herself to do it, but I could live without it, too. After 3 months...of treating her like a queen, and not mentioning BJs again, she broke down, and gave me the best head I'd ever had. She needed an emotional commitment before she could feel she was doing it for love. Ultimately, as she gained confidence in her skills, she began to enjoy the control it gave her. She could get me off quickly, or drag it out...starting, stopping, etc, for as long as she wanted. Respect your woman...and her preferrences.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Stupid things for lust Posted: 10/7/2005 2:00:51 PM
If you do it, it isn't out of character for you. Being beyond your normal repetoire is not out of character. You just need more of an excuse to give yourself, or others: " I did it for love of him", " I was drunk ", or whatever. Out of character is Hitler marrying a Jewess; Lenny Decrapio being a talented actor; The Village People making love to women; anyone in Hollywood going a month without a drug fix, etc. You probably have a beautiful p***y, and now that you are in the habit of showing it, you may like to make some money as a glamour model. have at it, if you like.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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I don't get this? HELP PLEASE!!! Posted: 10/7/2005 11:39:09 AM
Women are brainwashed from infancy up...by: parents, babysitters, teachers, Disney movies, soap operas, etc, to believe in the "Beauty & The Beast" fairy tale as if it were fact. The idea is that it is noble, and romantic, to take an unloveable beast, and reform him. When beastie refuses to change, it angers the woman, and spoils her fantasy.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Does the Size of the Diamond Matter? Posted: 9/29/2005 10:59:06 AM
The size of the rock does matter...to gold-diggers. Actually, Diamonds are tres passe'. Diamonds are the 4th most valuable stone. All else being equal-same size, cut, etc-Emeralds, then Rubies, then Sapphires, are all more valuable than Diamonds. In the orient, they use Jade. Much of Europe uses Rubies for Wedding rings. I would never marry a woman who cared so much about the type, or size, of stone I gave her. The last time I was engaged, I gave my fiancee a half carat Emerald (5mm round) with two 3mm Ruby accent stones which each weighed 0.14 carats. The B cheated on me, so the wedding never happened. By The Way...Diamonds are supposed to all be cursed, which is interesting when you consider how many engagements never end in marriage, and how many marriages do end in divorce...all with Diamond rings involved.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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I Need Advice, Is it better to... Posted: 9/28/2005 10:48:03 AM
No. Doing so is dishonest, and stupid...especially if you want more than just a one night stand. The truth will come out, eventually, and cause trouble if widely different from what was presented earlier. Manipulators, such as yourself, are one night stand types, and probably defective in other ways as well.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Bedroom communications Posted: 9/28/2005 10:45:36 AM
If you like dirty talk, and she doesn't, you cannot express it where she can hear it. Either get a new bedmate-who also enjoys dirty talk-or think ( rather than speak ) dirty talk to yourself.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Jealousy! A good emotion or bad? Posted: 9/28/2005 10:42:07 AM
Jealousy is a sign of self love...not love of another. if I had a woman, and she wanted someone else, I would be hurt...but not jealous ( angry, retaliatory). I would want her to be happy, even if that meant she was happier with someone else rather than me. True love puts the loved one ahead of self, and jealousy is all about self...your anger, your thirst for revenge, etc. Jealousy, and real love, do not go together.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Q: If a person has a terminal illness, shouldn`t they be up front about it? Posted: 9/28/2005 10:39:14 AM
Hiding something like that is a very dishonest thing to do. It's grounds for a breakup in my book...not because of the illness, but because of the dishonesty concerning it.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Can Someone Tell Me What's Wrong ???? Posted: 9/26/2005 12:13:17 PM
The only thing I can see wrong with your profile is that you want children...which many guys your age do not.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Bad Blow-Jobs Posted: 9/26/2005 11:35:25 AM
If a woman is not doing quite what you want, quite the way you want, be willing to make some suggestions for how she can improve. Likewise, if you aren't quite pleasing her, she should be willing to give you some instruction, and you should be willing to follow those instructions. Communication, and willingness to please are what matter most.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Posted: 9/24/2005 12:54:48 PM
Basic Compatibility is the key to a good marriage. Love can grow before, or after, the marriage. In a good relationship, compatibility leads to likeing, which grows into love, and the love continues growing as the relationship expands.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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why? Posted: 9/24/2005 12:51:53 PM
Men are not afraid of committment. Boys are. Boys fear a loss of power, a lack of fun, and a loss of respect from their male pals, if they tie themselves down to one woman. Emotionally adult males-men-actually seek committment.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Have you ever Cheated? Posted: 9/24/2005 12:47:35 PM
No. I never have cheated, and I never will. It's too much bother. I've seen other guys try to: wrangle time for several women, try to remember which lies he told whom, etc. I prefer to break up with Lady A before bothering with Lady B. It's much less bothersome, and stressful.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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So much for my happy ending Posted: 9/24/2005 12:44:35 PM
He is a jerk, and it's too bad you got worked over this way. Still...it's better that it happened before you married him than afterwards. Count yourself lucky, and move on to a nicer guy.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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question about guys Posted: 9/24/2005 12:42:37 PM
Being a guy, I do not find guys attractive...marginally, or otherwise. I would tell the guy he's not my type, and to buzz off. If he approached me again, I'd neuter him on the spot, and then sue the bar for sexual harrassment.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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When is a good time to tell someone about your children? Posted: 9/24/2005 12:31:41 PM
If the one you are telling is just a chat buddy, whom you will never meet, never tell him. If it is someone you may meet, and try to date, etc, then tell him on the first email. If he can't handle it, you are better off not wasting time on him.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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how to detect liars.........??? Posted: 9/24/2005 12:26:41 PM
Listen closely to all he says, every time he speaks, and remember it. If he lies often enough, he will slip up. You can, then, detect the differences between what he says on one occasion and what he says on the same subject on another occasion. It takes time, but always works...in the long run. Once you catch him in a lie, dump him.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Threat or Hot Air...... Posted: 9/24/2005 12:22:46 PM
He can't do you in if you do him in first. Call the cops, or whatever...but take all threats seriously.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Here is a question to all Posted: 9/22/2005 12:25:18 PM
My advice: " grow up, get a life, become a better person, and associate with better people."

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Pre-Nups before Marriage --- good or bad ? Posted: 9/22/2005 12:23:24 PM
Pre-nups are just another way of saying: " I don't trust you!" That is not a good way to start a marriage. If you are worried about being taken to the cleaners, for all you own, in a divorce, the solution is to own nothing. Set up a small corporation-in a state which allows Bearer Shares. Sell everything you have-house, car, coins, etc-to the corporation. Issue some Bearer Shares, wrap them up, stick them in a bank box owned by some distant third party...an alzheimers afflicted aunt, or such...for whom you are guardian. Technically, Auntie owns the corporation, as she holds the Bearer Shares, but you can access it's assets...for her benefit. When divorce time comes, you actually own nothing, so wifey-poo can get nothing. Corporations are legally seperate people from anyone involved with them.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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strange: Guys only care about how youthful female is Posted: 9/22/2005 12:17:12 PM
Not all guys want young women. Two types of men do...the superficial young males, who do not want their male friends to think them weird for being with older women, and superficial older males who want a young woman to make them-the men-feel young again. Some men are deeper, and more adult, than that, but many middle age to senior women will not look at them...feeling that all men are the same, so why bother with any of them. Seek and ye shall find.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Dating After Divorce Posted: 9/22/2005 12:12:19 PM
Why are some people afraid to date after a divorce? Does it matter? If they are, they are. Most likely it is because they do not want to admit the finality of the break up, and would like to hold onto some hope that they can get back together with their ex. It is not worth dating such fence sitters. Wait until the person you want to date is fully over the breakup, is my advice.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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What is the true key to a women's heart??? Posted: 9/21/2005 2:29:20 PM
The key is in being able to lick your eyebrows. Figure it out.

Mamiyaguy

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Astrology:Would you like to know your Virtues and Vices(Good and bad) Posted: 9/21/2005 2:28:22 PM
Thanks for the offer, but I have no need of astrology. I know my virtues, and vices, and personality, because I selected them myself...like choosing food in a buffet restaurant. By The Way...astrological tables/charts are about 3,000 years out of date. The daily newspaper horoscope would label me a Virgo. The Precession Of The Equinoxes actually makes me a Leo. So, 99%+ of all horoscopes are wrong, because the caster does not even know about the Precession, much less take it into account. Secretiveness is a vice for some, but a virtue for a secret agent. Positiveness is NOT a virtue. Every single crime ever committed was committed by someone who was positive they would get away with it. Every war ever fought was started by someone who was positive they would win.

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