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Joined: 9/6/2005

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Dating with feelings for another Posted: 3/20/2006 8:17:40 PM
Well...it depends on the reasoning. Why can't you be with the one you have feelings for?

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 3/6/2006 6:51:55 PM
Sure, I have. I have met several guys in person from a online site without pics. I had seen a profile from a different site and sent a contact. We chatted online for several months not paying any particular attention to meeting, just as friendly chats. Well, we decided to meet and me having no pic available, which I shall explain later, (his was available). I told him what I looked like and what I would be wearing and where I would be at. Well, we met and have become very good friends. We have dated a few times and each time has been most enjoyable. The second time I met someone, we both did not have pics. Again we chatted for several months and decided to meet. Again I told him the same senerio. Again it was very nice and we have become very good friends. But in resonse to people saying about not having pics available, I do not have a scanner nor a camera available to post a pic. I have one posted on another site but it is about four years old and I tell anyone who responds this, but they can at least have an idea of my looks. I only have that one posted because my sis did it. I guess I am alittle bit adventureous in response to meeting guys without pics. Good luck!

Joined: 9/6/2005

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Is it possible to turn a friendship into a relationship? Posted: 1/3/2006 5:46:15 PM
Very well stated..lilgreenqueen...{friends can be lovers, and friends at the same time, the most worthy relationships are based on respect, trust, and honor. thats what friendship is.} I totally agree with you...

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Is it possible to turn a friendship into a relationship? Posted: 1/2/2006 7:40:59 PM
I do believe a friendship could in time become a relationship. I think people confuse the two. What do you want from a friendship? What do you want from a relationship? Do you want to have both? I think the answers will become apparent in given time. Allow yourself time to make that decision. If it works for the best to become friends then hey go for it. And it it works for you to start a relationship and still remain friends then hey go for that also. The two of you will know what is right. Good luck and always remember your friends no matter what.

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im interested in someone and i think they are interested, but... Posted: 1/2/2006 7:05:28 PM
Hey, got an idea. I work in retail and it would just tickle me to pieces if a guy would do this: you have regular customers right? well ask one of your regular customers if they would do you a favor; write a note to this gal and simply say.. HI.. How is your day? and ask the customer to take it over to her. Simply sign it with "Across the way" It is a start and if she replys back wow Just a thought... Keep us all posted on how it goes...Wish you alot of luck

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Why is it so hard to find Mr.Right? Posted: 12/11/2005 5:51:51 PM
Maybe because you are trying to hard? Let Mr.Right come to you. When you least expect it; it will happen. It takes time,effort and the willingness to have patience and confidence. I am hopeful that my Mr.Right will bump into me on my worse hair day and there will be a sparkle in our eyes. That way I will know he is my Mr.Right. If he can accept me on my worse hair day then it was meant to be. Good luck in your search.

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Shhhhh dont tell anyone... Posted: 9/17/2005 6:20:35 PM
Sure.

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What are we dating for? Posted: 9/17/2005 6:00:10 PM
We all as adults sooner or later find ourselves in the dating scene. Hopefully we meet the right one and fall inlove and live happily ever after. But we have to first find that special one. So here starts our dating. What really do you look for in a date male or female? What is it that you want to achieve mentally? Let's not jabber on and on about the sex and love yous just the actual mental state of mind you prepare yourself for.

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Why Can't WOMEN Be Friends First? Posted: 9/11/2005 3:06:52 PM
Woman can be friends. I have a male friend I haven't even met. We chat online and I think he is just an awesome friend. We can chat about anything;well he usually listens to my life happenings but is compassionate and listens and hasn't even made fun of me and my silly life.I think it is so pure and simple to have him as my friend. Maybe one day we shall meet and I will get to thank him in person for being my friend. Keep trying .Friends come to you in the most unique ways.

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Do we have sex on our minds on the first date? Posted: 9/8/2005 6:37:06 PM
I know as well as everyone else here that sex is on our minds the first time we meet someone. True? I do hope there are a few good people who think otherwise. I will be the first to admit that sex is a consideration on the first date but would hope not. I was told recently by a friend who invited me out that he hoped my teeth would sweat or he wouldn't be working out as hard. Humm didn't quite know how to take that so I asked him what did he mean. Do teeth really sweat? Silly me. The reply was about fulfilling the other partner as equally as you would like to be fulfilled. But I said on the first date? And he said when you were ready. So it is on our minds but appreciated the kind gesture "when I was ready." Think I might give this one a try when I am ready

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She's in love with me Im not in love with her what do I do Posted: 9/8/2005 6:06:44 PM
well what made you want to date her to begin with? I think everyone needs to be honest and upfront with a relationship; be honest on your profile as well. I think both of you need to sit and talk about what each of you want. It is not fair to you or her to continue on knowing there is some false hope there. Tell her how you feel. I promise she will appreciate it in given time.

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I need advice about an abusive ex. Posted: 9/8/2005 5:50:27 PM
hello, I haven't been in an abusive realtionship so I am clueless as to how you feel. But I can sympatize for you. Have you any documentations of his abusive behavior? Maybe the judge did what he did because there was no evidence of his abuse. I am not taking his side but tying to be open minded. I would have police officer there when he picks up the child and when he brings home the child. Document so the police will have something to go by as far as the condition the child was in when he left and when he came back. It is a start. Document everything. Please let us all know the outcome and stay in touch

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You gain experience from a broken heart Posted: 9/8/2005 5:12:30 PM
wow that just blows my mind. I couldn't have said that any better. Thank you . You have enlightened my heart and my views. Wow just Wow Yes I have learned from that experience and will hopefully find a love again.

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Serious Question #2 about Bush: Do you think he purposely lied to start a war with Iraq? Posted: 9/8/2005 3:27:43 PM
Lied about what? I thought that the reason we went to war in the first place because Bush(the American people voted him into office) gave Sadam amply time to comply with WMD's. Would you want a President to back down on his word? He told them he would invade if they did not comply. True? So why is everyone on Bush's butt? He made a commitment and stuck to it.

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You gain experience from a broken heart Posted: 9/7/2005 6:56:35 PM
have you met someone thru an online dating service? Well I did just like most of us do. I chatted all the time ; after work and sometimes into the night. We lived about 5 hours away. It was pretty kewl and had my attention from the get go. We finally met after about 3 months. Then about another three months I introduced him to my family. Then about a year later we married I was on top of the world. To make a long story short we broke each others hearts. But the experience I gained was one I will cherish.The idea of being in love having him close to me and visa versa. We all have one time or another had broken hearts and probably will continue thru out our search. But don't let this discourage you. One day somehow someplace one will pop out and grab your heart for ever.

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