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Joined: 6/29/2008

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Met someone who continuously goes through women online.. Posted: 10/5/2008 7:07:44 AM
That would be the notorious "Sport Dater".

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Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met Posted: 7/24/2008 11:32:55 PM
You see posting old photos as narcissistic? Doesn't a person need to be deficient in at least three basic social skills to be a narcissist? Hitler, Stalin, Saddam, pol pot are classic narcissistic personalities. Lack of empathy is the first.

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Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met Posted: 7/19/2008 4:43:02 PM
Don't you think recent is honest though?

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Profile Photo Does NOT Look Like the Person You've Just Met Posted: 7/19/2008 4:42:02 PM
We should all look like our photos. I feel that posting old photos and not at least listing the date of the photo is a lie. So a person with old photos is trying to start a relationship based on a lie. I was on match.com 3 years ago and see some of the exact same photos. Honesty is the best policy. That's my 2 cents.

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Another Picnic in the Park....South Pasco...North Pinellas ... July 19th Posted: 7/19/2008 3:05:38 PM
Sorry for your loss.

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how mant dates would you go on before you decide you click or not Posted: 7/16/2008 2:20:02 AM
I have always known on a first date and the message was sent on a first date also. So the old 3 date rule. Seems silly to me. I think most know on a first date or by a second at least. Past three = serial dater territory.

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A guy i had met on here.....Please Help me Understand :) Posted: 7/16/2008 1:41:01 AM
Sorry, he's just not that into you. Leave him behind.

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Guys asking to meet with you immediately Posted: 7/16/2008 1:13:07 AM
Giving you a phone number is not asking to meet with you in my case. It means that emails are now done, quickly a waste of time. We are 10' tall and gods on the internet if we want to be, so to speak, if we are liars. Phone call says quite a bit. One or two phone calls and I know if I want to meet a girl. Actually one for me. To me a phone call is the only way to move forward to a meeting. We are all here to move forward. Not to rush. It's all about face to face. That matters in the end. Second phone call and no meeting set. I'm done. Play it safe. Use good judgement. Email is a waste of time. Remember one thing. Trust is something that should be earned. The phone conversation should be scrutinized by you. I have talked to women that in emails seemed fine. Phone conversation sent up red flags for me though. For me email is a waste of time. For me I don't expect a reply in a few days but after a week I assume that person is uninterested. Different for many here no doubt. How many are just looking to score and how many are genuine good guys. Phone call is a good way to weed through that lot and see who is who. Good luck.

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Are manners dead? Posted: 7/16/2008 12:31:09 AM
He went straight for a feel and you thanked him for the evening? Do these guys actually score with behavour like that? I'm starting to think POF is a very crazy place. Do any of these men have family and friends and reputations? Things have really changed in the three years I was gone. Maybe basic nut kicking should be a mandatory high school course for girls. I can't believe the things I read in these forums. I really find that kind of thing hard to believe. Is it really that common? This site has a system to keep people honest. Can't you rate a profile?

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Has being online toughened you up emotionally or made you more sensitive? Posted: 7/16/2008 12:02:36 AM
I think this question may be more for women. They deal with the pervs and players for the most part. My worst experience has been really old pictures, serial dater once, and a really weird woman that embarrased me in a really nice restaraunt. For me my last two LTR were both off match.com I have just learned to stay grounded. No more than one or two emails or phone calls. Take it to a normal place. That normal place is called the real world and off the internet or phone. It is much harder for women due to bad guys. Realistic expectations and don't start a relationship via email or phone is a good policy. Start a relationship the old fashioned way. Face to face. And also practice good judgement about safety.

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Talking about sex before even meeting Posted: 7/15/2008 11:44:43 PM
It is disrespectful. A gentleman would never do that.

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For our first date, I wanted to take her fishing.... Posted: 7/15/2008 11:40:41 PM
Not sure. Maybe you can write a book on cheap romantic creative first dates. Make a million and forget about her. You are creative man!

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Can you experience that amazing chemistry/connection more than once?? Posted: 7/15/2008 10:19:59 PM
Everyone has wondered that I think. I know I have. You think you may never have that passion again. The answer is a resounding YES! Takes time. You have to be over your last relationship to feel that again. Don't worry about it. Focus on the future. It'll happen.

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Men who arrive for the 1st date with a rose.....do women like it? Posted: 7/15/2008 9:30:28 PM
A yellow rose is appropriate. Being traditional is a good thing I think.

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Next day phone calls Posted: 7/15/2008 8:42:39 PM
Isn't that like like an extension of the same silly rule all over again?

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Next day phone calls Posted: 7/15/2008 8:36:52 PM
Screw the rules. Who made that one anyway? I claim shenanigans. If she had as much fun as you and is into you she is waiting to here from you. First thing in the morning may come off kinda needy or worse, like a stalker. Touching base in the later part of the day is good and if the conversation goes on for longer than thats ok. Ask her out again. I have never waited because I got the signals that she was into me also. Waiting a few days is kinda like a mind game I think. The original intent of this dating rule as I always understood it was to make the woman sweat as to weather the guy is going to call or not. Women have known that trick for years. Be yourself.

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waking up to sex... Posted: 7/12/2008 1:16:17 PM
Spooning makes life worth living! Rest of the day is a breeze. I thought I was unusual.

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Guys, would this hurt your feelings??? Posted: 7/12/2008 12:20:35 PM
Wouldn't hurt me. She may say that for many reasons. I know I'm a good guy and doing well. So. Move on and find the right one.

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Online or Web Cam Sex -- is that all that some men want on here? Posted: 7/12/2008 12:09:48 PM
Maybe it seems to you that the pervs a running amock on this site. I think they tend to contact more women, use fake photos and bios. It is harder for women I have seen by reading profiles. I wouldn't dream of asking a woman for that nor would I be interested if she offered. These pervs can't make it through a date so they sit in their dimly lit bedrooms and harrass women because that is all they can do. When they ask for nasty cam things or anything weird,,, go ahead and demean them with a string of insults about what losers they really are. Maybe they will learn. Take heart. I bet there are lots of good men on here. I am one.

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Is cooking considered a gender role? Posted: 7/11/2008 4:48:10 PM
Not at all! I am the handiest guy in the world and love to cook. There is plenty to do around the house so it is accomplished together. Then its free time.

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