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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/30/2008 8:27:59 AM
My best friend wouldn't lie to me about my animals and they are also on Omega-3 supplements, Co-q 10, Resveratrol, DHEA, and the rescue is on Glucosamine because she came with loose knee caps. Sorry you don't understand what I said about haters. My dogs are my dogs- they were here before any guy and if he doesn't like them nor want to sleep with them, we just weren't meant to be. It wouldn't be an issue because if my potential partner had a dog, I would want them to sleep in the bedroom or whatever is comfortable for him/her (my potential partner). I am looking for like-minded people and for some reason, I just don't see myself clicking with someone who doesn't allow pets to sleep with them. Just common interest/sense. Well, we each have our opinions, chocolatenutt. So enjoy your's and I'll enjoy mine. You don't need to personally attack someone when you are posting on a thread about women who sleep with their pets in the bedroom. How petty can you get? Have a good one, I'm done with this thread.

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/29/2008 9:50:54 PM
I'm sorry, but when my dogs are playing in the dirt and mud all day with other dogs who probably have parasites or fleas I am going to bathe them. Sorry for loving my pets and giving them the best. Nutt? I think not. Caring is more like it. Condemn me all you like. All I know is they are extremely healthy, look great and my vet says they couldn't be doing better. Everyone successful needs haters ;)!

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/29/2008 2:41:54 PM
Trrypier, we are not friends. I only commented about what you stated directly to me in your posts because it was all negative and shot towards me. I didn't happen to agree with what you said so I decided to comment on it. Are you insinuating that I am close minded? You shouldn't judge people, its not right- but then again its not my place to tell you what you should and shouldn't do. A little pompous of you to be so arrogant and then, in the next breath, try to act all innocent like you didn't say anything that would offend anyone and the world is out to get you. You are just pissed because I had enough balls to call you on it. I do prefer my dogs to humans- I don't date nor sleep with just anyone, so my dogs are the only constant form of intimacy I have in my life for now. But when I do happen to get a new lover or bf, I make sure everyone is comfortable and loved equally...besides, my dogs don't even try to sleep in the bed when we get "frisky"- the movement annoys them and they go sleep in the floor or play. I actually don't let my dogs around people with whom I randomly f*ck- they go and sleep in my nanny's room or over at their human father's place- and yes, he too allows them to sleep with him in his bed. When you get a dog, or multiple dogs, you need to understand (which most people don't) that you are the pack leader. How you choose to run your pack is up to you. You want to make it out like I'm the bad guy of this forum battle lol! What's funny is, you don't even see what a jack a$$ it makes you look like! So, I'm done going back and forth- this conversation has grown frivolous and tiresome to me. Good luck in whatever it is that you wish to accomplish here- I'm not the only one who has grown bored with you. :modhammer:

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/29/2008 1:17:21 PM
...where some of you folks can go to meet like-minded adults to date. It's antisocial to sleep with your dog as a preference versus a human. I'm sorry but that's the long and the short of it. A dog is a great companion but when you keep humans out of your life and don't have a sex life because the dog sleeps with you then you've taken that friendship a little too far in my humble opinion. Dogs are great but they're not a replacement for a significant other. They give you love but that love is not a replacement for the love you can feel with a significant other. They are loyal, just like a significant other can be loyal. All it takes is for you to let down your guard and let the human into your life, giving them the same quality of love and caring that you've given your pet. Is that too much to ask? Hmmmm....my sex life def does NOT suffer because I let my dogs sleep with me, nor do I try to replace anyone....sorry, I think you are over-analyzing...

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/29/2008 1:07:30 PM
lol dude, my dogs are pretty f*cking far from "perfect". The 11 month old rescue just chewed a whole in my wall the day before yesterday. You have no sense of empathy, therefore you could never understand why some people are so passionate about animals. I never generalized men- I was making a joke. Chill out lol. I take them to the dog park every day and allow them to socialize with other animals quite frequently. You are the one who said they are dirty and why should anyone sleep with them because they are dirty? I'm asking why not? I rescued them, they think of me as mommy, and I am the leader of the pack- they can sleep where I sleep, its only natural. Good luck fishing dude, you're gonna need it!!!

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/28/2008 10:57:54 PM
one normal out of two ain't bad.my question is for the other two.if you hate men so much,and love those pets,and they do not want sex,so you say,why are you here on fish.you should be at the spca.and on the side of reality,with your houses full of hair,parasites,and feces,i really doubt too many men would want to hang around anyways,and that smell is most for sure,a turn off,sex is out.and that brings us back to those animals you clain doesn't want sex?Hmmmm,i wonder. I don't hate men but I think if you think men are cleaner then my dogs, you have some serious issues. My dogs are cleaned daily- coat washed and dried daily, have their teeth cleaned bi-weekly and brushed daily, and the place where they reside is kept spotless thanks to my hired help. Also, there is such a thing as a neutralizer- it diminishes odor causing bacteria and is very efficient when an animal tries to mark in the same spot (due to territory or just potting training issues, either way, its good). I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love my dogs. They are presentable, well mannered, and adorable. If sex was an issue for you because I have animals, I would let you know they can be with the nanny for the hour or two until I got my "rocks off" otherwise, I wouldn't want anything emotional with you. Its like dating a guy who denies and hates the woman's kids from a previous marriage. Ugh! LOL that's just me though, but don't think that everyone who loves animals doesn't have a sex life. People actually do and yes, it is actually really good. Now lets talk about why you don't... LOL jk. Have a good one!

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Whats with women that invite their dogs into the bedroom to sleep? Posted: 9/28/2008 10:44:52 PM
My dogs are like my babies...I love them and would never want to be separated from them- period. I sleep with my dogs, yes, all 3 of them and ALL of them are over 10 lbs. Sometimes the day gets so hectic that I am not able to spend any time with them, which is why I have a live-in dog nanny. So when I come home from a long day, its snuggle time! Why should they have to sleep in the floor when they can enjoy intimacy? Most dogs will never get to feel that- let alone humans lol so if it were "the dogs or me" situation, I must say, "holla!" and be about my merry little way. Asking this question is like asking a mother why she sometimes goes into her child's bedroom and sleeps with them. When you've raised/rescued a dog or many dogs, they become a part of you and you feel responsible. Dogs don't judge you but they listen and empathize. They feel your core more than you think...people get close and attached to things like that. I'd love it if I got into a LTR with someone who had dogs. I have a big a$$ bed lol! The more, the merrier! P.S. So long as they are kept clean. Someone with disgusting, dirty, filthy dogs can forget about me wanting to cuddle up....although my pathetic a$$ would prolly wash them myself just so they could enjoy spooning!!!

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First True Love, Life changing religous experience, Abuse, Insanity or some or all of the above? Posted: 9/24/2008 12:53:53 PM
That girl is not who you obsess over anymore. Now that you've discovered yourself, think about the qualities you want in a partner- do NOT obsess over her. Not only will it kill any relation you may develop, it will certainly immobilize your future. I am comfortably numb because I let some a$$hole control me. Don't let it happen to you, you are the only one in control. I can't comment about the movie- I haven't seen it nor do I know what its about. Can you give more info?

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Best getting back together song. Posted: 9/24/2008 12:19:19 PM
Addicted- Saving Abel Cold- Crossfade

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Your Pet or YourRelationship? Posted: 9/22/2008 10:12:06 AM
I would NEVER give up any of my pets for some dude or chick. Sh*t, they are like my babies!!!!! If the guy loved me enough to suggest getting "rid" of my pet because he was so allergic and uncomfortable, he should understand that I love my baby and he should be the one taking precautions to "rid" himself of allergies and such. The cat is better off without her. Who just gives up their baby like that??? Maybe I am just overprotective or something, but I even went so far as to having a live-in dog nanny. LOL! At least she found it a "very good home" but if I were her, I couldn't imagine a home that's better than mine to let my baby go...

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Why in the name of god do americans eat pastries for breakfast? Posted: 9/21/2008 11:25:37 PM
I AM AMERICAN AND I DON'T EAT PASTRIES AT ALL!!!

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He brought his Fanny with him... Posted: 9/21/2008 1:16:15 PM
I HATE FANNY PACKS!!!!!!! Good eye, OP, it looks like we could be friends lol!

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Victims of child sex abuse.How does it affect your dating and relationships? Posted: 9/19/2008 12:52:46 PM
I choose to never have children, never have a husband, and never get too close to anyone other than my best friends. I can't handle it- it might change as I myself change, but there are certain things you can't just "let go of". I am quite promiscuous myself and am very manipulative and assertive. I have been told I am dominant alpha female. I'm not insecure nor self conscious but I won't risk the chance of putting my offspring through anything that I went through. That's just me. I categorize my life like this: My three best friends know every little thing about me. They love me and accept me for who I am- that is where I get my intimacy. I have as much sex to appease me. I don't like sex that is not rough and hard. I hate sex with people who try to be romantic because it all seems fake to me. Then I have my workaholic life and sports. I am constantly training and practicing. Finally I have a release- just like this forum, outside of athletics. There are chat rooms and other threads to help air out some of that dense clutter left in your mind. Most don't know what its like to go without a childhood and to wake up in the middle of the night screaming 15 years later due to some repressed memory. Some people can't fathom what we live through, on top of average, everyday stress. Some days you wish the white noise pulling underneath your skin, deafening your ears, dulling your soul would just...go away. You wish there were somebody who could make it all go away, but you know there isn't. Not one person out there can make things okay. Its all in YOUR head and YOU are left to deal with it at the end of the day- no one else but YOU. So YOU heal the best YOU know how, the best that YOU can. All you can do is cope in your own way. No one said it would be easy or the same for everyone...best of luck!

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Affair with a married co-worker. Posted: 9/18/2008 5:26:50 PM
Are you a higher rank? Do you plan on staying where you work for long? Is she your boss or does she work for you...does she simply work with you? I've been with many married and older men. I love being the "other woman" simply because I don't want to get attached. Go for it if you don't plan on working there long, don't plan on letting everyone know your business and how big you are down there amongst other things.

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 9/18/2008 10:57:49 AM
Everything I wanted, I was scared of my own feelings. I'm not sure how to explain it. He was the first serious relationship I've ever had that was real. I mean, he didn't lie to me ever and didn't use me for sex. The sex was mutual and amazing when we had it, but there were plenty of nights we just laid on his yacht and just held each other. I was scared because I was falling in love with him. I was scared of love- my mother wasn't the greatest role model. Is that clearer?

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18 year old girl marries a 40 year old man? Posted: 9/18/2008 10:02:51 AM
I've always dated "older men". When I was 18, I dated a very successful 50+ yr old man- didn't look his age whatsoever and certainly didn't act like it. He was affluent and witty- same sense of humor and the sex was amazing. I never received money from him and I didn't expect to- it wasn't a freakin' whore vs daddy relationship like you guys make it out to be. I appreciated his wisdom and he appreciated my vibrant mind and creativity. He wasn't insecure and I wasn't looking for a father figure- I was looking for a mature man to date- all of the men my age were only looking for one thing. We had deep, intelligent conversations and the age gap really brought on new, interesting topics we both explored together, always learning something new. I think the relationship didn't work out because I was falling for him and I had to get away...I was scared. He taught me one thing that I have used in my every day life; a woman should never have to compromise herself or her values. Not very many men would give this advice. I messed things up for us- if those two individuals feel and have a relationship like he and I did, then I think the marriage is completely okay. Hell, back in the day, folks were getting arranged marriages at age 13! Let them be- to each their own- at least they love each other and whatever hurtles they come across they will deal with, not you or I.

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Anybody had any success with Craig's List? Posted: 9/7/2008 12:27:32 PM
Need a prostitute? Def the place to go LOL!!!!!!!!('')

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My Ex : Five weeks from Separation to Suicide. Posted: 9/4/2008 7:18:18 PM
Steven, my best friend drove to California from Virginia when he was 19. His gf wanted to come with him- it was during finals. They were very much in love and actually complimented one another really well. She had turned 19 six days before they left... One night around 4:30 in the morning, I called him, drunk. I wanted to make sure his trip was going good and to check up on him. I also wanted to talk about life, like I always do when I get wasted. I started falling asleep on the phone...must have been around 5:30 am when I asked him if I can call him later and would he pull over and get some sleep? He replied, I will around 6am, but right now I am wired. He told me she was asleep and he was just watching her sleep out of the corner of his eye- how beautiful she was and how her soft, pale skin was glowing in the light of the rising sun. How he described her gave me goosebumps...I was so glad that he was finally happy. He had a hard, sheltered life full of alcohol and beatings that were justified by religion. I could just see him so very happy when he was with her, and I felt happy because he was happy. At 6:15am, somewhere in Tennessee, he got into a car wreck. They were hit by a big rig who was doing 85MPH and lost control of the wheel. She was killed on impact; he didn't even have a scratch. How did he get through this? I have no idea- he pretends like it didn't happen- like he never met her. He pretends that this chapter in his life just...disappeared- from meeting her to the tragedy. Since I knew her too, he cut off all contact with me as well. He tried to be so strong, but he'd call me late at night or odd hours of the day, not okay. He'd call me crying, frantic. He could barely breathe have of the time let alone speak. I don't know what to tell you other than he definitely blamed himself for losing her. Now, he is back in college two years later and doing well. He still gets sad, but he is focused on his life now. He found a passion for something, acting. He wants to pursue that and make the best of life because he knows for some reason he was meant to stay here and she was meant to go. He turned to God and this has actually brought his family and him closer. I don't know what else to say other than if you need someone to talk to, I know it feels so good to unload all of your anxiety, fears and guilt on a complete stranger. So please don't hesitate to email me. Best, Lindsay

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Red flag statements or questions Posted: 9/4/2008 8:57:13 AM
This most certainly does not send a red flag- she is probably motivated and doesn't want to share her life with a loser. Young, attractive women tend to chase after older men solely because they offer security. Take it back to our natural roots- where men think of planting their seed first (sex), women think of security and ensuring their lives for them and their children. Men don't understand why these women are "gold diggers"- why confuse gold digging with wanting security? I work hard and own a business at 21. I also wrestle and am going pro within 6 months. I don't want to date someone who doesn't have the same goals as I do nor has any ambition. You bet your a$$ I'm going to find out if you drive a decent car, keep up and care about your appearance, as well as what kind of home you live in. You say this young lady was attractive and intelligent...don't you think maybe she herself is successful or has goals in life that doesn't involve living in a trailer? I don't think there is anything wrong with that, what you are saying makes me think that you feel insecure because you feel she is out of your league. Inadequacy always ruins a relationship, no matter if its romantic or just friendship. And bassman, in a freakin' poor economy like this, as a business owner, you never know when you are going to wake up and have everything you've worked so hard for gone- just like that- gone. So yes, it is definitely not a red flag to ask if your business is doing well. Also, if your business is doing well, this can indicate how intelligent you are. Anyone can start a business, just like anyone can start a relationship. There are very few who can maintain them. Especially after getting a divorce! I'd def want to know how you financially stand so I know what I'm getting myself into! If you keep on dating these young, hot sluts, they will more than likely gold dig because you set yourself up. You have to be the one to offer something more than just your money and security to the table. Once a woman knows you have that, you have to intrigue them or else they will think that is all you are and will ever be. These girls just want the finer things in life without settling down- if you make it seem like you are a door mat before you even meet, of course that is how they will treat you! My suggestion- think with your head and I'm not talking about the one attached to your****

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The capacity to love........ Posted: 8/30/2008 11:52:01 AM
I have 3 Boston Terriers. They are 6 yrs old, 10 months old, and 5 months old. I love them all dearly and will probably die when its time for them to go. The youngest got pneumonia when she was 1.6 lbs- things didn't look so good. I was a wreck! Couldn't eat or sleep and I cried all of the time. This depression lasted 2 weeks until she finally got better, she was hospitalized and I went to see her twice every day. I don't feel the same way about people- I could care less if I get burned or hurt someone's feelings, but God, if anything were to happen to my dogs, I don't know what I would do. Your mother is right, but she is not right to make it a negative view. Dogs are loyal and will love you unconditionally no matter what. They trust you to be responsible and they don't judge you, no matter how badly you f*ck up. They listen and are quite empathetic, willing and able to be there for you through thick and thin. I can't understand people who think its bad because I love my dogs too much. I don't love them too much, you just don't love at all.

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