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struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 10/22/2006 11:43:16 AM
My Profile should have that angle covered. But since you so "kindly" pointed it out, I'll correct now.

struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 10/22/2006 9:31:47 AM
Believe me I've been played by some pretty evil women in my day. I've been played way more than I've played. Most of my Relationships have been normal(except for the 2 psychos). That was a very weird & difficult situation for me to have been in. I didn't go looking for that scenario, while others may thrive on it. Thats pretty Harsh judgement KHRP. You couldn't be more wrong though. It really dosen't matter what you say. I know what I feel in my heart at this moment. All I've ever wanted is ONE girl to love ,respect & grow old with and get the same in return. That has finally. happened. I'm sooooooooo glad I'm with who I'm with, and for the 1st time in my life it feels 'right' and I couldn't be happier. Yes It was an awful thing what happened to Girl B but we made our peace and moved on. She knew about Girl A and girl A knew about Girl B, so there was nothing done behind anyones back. I was on POF because girl A said to go back on there because she only wanted to be friends. It may have been easier if I was player and a liar in that situation but I'm too upfront with people. I just can't lie to people. That's all ancient history now. We are both very much in love and having a blast loving life. (Thanx CFB - You actually Get it! Yup lots of Bitter people here lol)

struttinkock

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Update Posted: 10/21/2006 2:30:22 PM
(For the skeptics) Celebrating our 1 Yr anniv. Today

STRUTTINKOCK

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Update Posted: 9/19/2006 11:22:27 AM
Update: 11 months and we both couldn't be happier or more in love.

struttinkock

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Syd Barrett - Co - Founder of Pink Floyd dies Posted: 7/11/2006 8:00:26 PM
Shine On You Crazy Diamond!! RIP Syd SYD BARRETT, the troubled founding member of PINK FLOYD, has died aged 60, after living the life of a recluse for the last 30 years. "The band are naturally very upset and sad to learn of Syd Barrett's death," Pink Floyd said in a statement on Tuesday. "Syd was the guiding light of the early band line-up and leaves a legacy which continues to inspire." A source close to the band, who did not want to be named, said Barrett died on Friday. Media reports say complications from diabetes were the cause. Barrett's bizarre on-stage antics in the late 1960s were linked to his experimentation with psychedelic drugs, and he left the band in 1968. The singer, songwriter and guitarist, who wrote the bulk of Pink Floyd's earliest music, has been credited with helping shape its progressive sound and influencing artists including DAVID BOWIE. He wrote most of the songs on Pink Floyd's first album, The Piper At The Gates Of Dawn, which was a hit in Britain, and also worked on A Saucerful Of Secrets, released in 1968. Barrett issued his first solo album, The Madcap Laughs, in 1970, with backing from members of Pink Floyd and SOFT MACHINE, but his involvement in music had ended by the mid-1970s and he has lived the life of a recluse ever since. Pink Floyd's 1975 track 'Shine On You Crazy Diamond', from the album Wish You Were Here, is widely believed to be a tribute to Barrett. Tributes... There were words of praise for a man who missed out on Pink Floyd's most successful years in the 1970s, when they made Dark Side Of The Moon, Wish You Were Here and The Wall. The band went on to sell an estimated 200 million albums worldwide, although internal rifts have kept public performances featuring its main members to a minimum since the 1980s. "I can't tell you how sad I feel," Bowie said on his Web site www.davidbowie.com. "Syd was a major inspiration for me. His impact on my thinking was enormous. A major regret is that I never got to know him. A diamond indeed." Barrett's biographer Tim Willis said Barrett struggled with mental breakdown during his life. "I think he had trouble talking to people and was very happy with his own company," Willis told Reuters. "The painful experience of protracted nervous breakdown meant he did not want to know about that bit of his life." Willis blamed a combination of drugs and stress for Barrett's mental fragility. "In one sense he only lived half a life. His career was over by 1971, if not 1969." Graham Coxon, formerly of British band BLUR, said Barrett was a major influence. "The music is there... a door he left unlocked... spend time there.... it's good," Coxon said. Barrett was born in Cambridge, England, as Roger Keith Barrett, in 1946. He acquired the nickname "Syd" as a teenager.

struttinkock

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Do men realy think that blonds are more attractive? Posted: 6/28/2006 8:01:17 AM
I prefer Dark or Red hair. My Fiance' was a Blonde, I talked her into dying her Hair Red. It makes her look more mysterious. I think she'll be a blonde again before the Wedding though. easy come easy go

struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 6/11/2006 10:44:17 PM
Cool thanx, I couldn't be happier. Another Month under our belts and No Regrets

struttinkock

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Black metal... Posted: 5/31/2006 9:13:26 AM
There is a Good Segment about Black Metal in the New Documentary 'Metal: A Headbangers Journey'. They Interview members of Mayhem (sorta).

struttinkock

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Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 5/30/2006 12:58:58 AM
Thanx for the tip Ctrydancer. I'll have to give it a try when my Sweetie gets back from her Trip later this week.

struttinkock

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James Blunt Posted: 5/29/2006 9:08:48 AM
You're Beautiful has a great vibe. Its a shame Radio is Killing it by overexposure. I too saw him on SNL. He blew me away. I never knew who he was before that. My GF had just pulled the "Lets just be friends" routien. I emailed her the Lyrics to 'Goodbye my lover' because I related to it so much. That song hit me like a lightning bolt!! She actually went out and bought the cd. I can't say for sure if it was that song or not(I know she played it for some co-workers and said "This is how he feels') but all I know is she's back in my arms and we're now engaged.

struttinkock

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WHY WOMEN DON'T RESPOND: A REBUTTAL Posted: 5/29/2006 12:26:08 AM
It sounds like he's just firing off 1000 emails and seeing who'll bite. It dosen't sound like he's using much bait though.

struttinkock

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Popping the question Posted: 5/29/2006 12:20:07 AM
Update: at 7 months I popped the Question I think the Key is, feeling sure about the whole situation. With Girls I dated in the past I'd ask my friends "How do you know she's the one?" I didn't have to ask that question this time, I just knew in my heart that my search was over. She wants to get Married in her Church so there is a waiting Period (Oct 2007) so we have a nice long engagement to make sure.

struttinkock

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Can you sleep when you are cuddling? Posted: 5/29/2006 12:12:39 AM
I never know what to do with my one arm. If I slip it under my partner it goes to sleep. I like to keep my Cuddling and Sleeping seperate. Cuddling and falling asleep in each others arms sounds a lot better on paper than actually doing it.

struttinkock

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Do I call and If so when?? Help! Posted: 5/29/2006 12:07:54 AM
Just Call me already, I'm sitting here staring at my phone waiting for you to call. I'm kidding, But if I were him I probably would be wanting you to call. I know I'd be pacing back and forth "Why dosen't she Call?" Having Kids and making a Play date can work to your advantage, you can keep it very casual. Just meet them at a Park or a playground. The Kids can play a little more and you can continue on with the small talk. Have a Pen Handy so you can give him your number on the playdate and then let him call you next time. It may even be for dinner for 2

struttinkock

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I have a Problem Posted: 5/28/2006 11:56:46 PM
It took me 37 years to finally learn(As Cliche as this sounds) that it's really whats on the inside that counts. I've dated a few very Fit, very pretty girls, but on the inside they were the most shallow "Ugly" messed up people I've ever met. (This isn't a shot a beautiful Girls. I'm sure there are some really nice well adjusted hotties out there, I just found the two rotten ones is all I'm saying) I was a shy Kid growing up and Bigger girls for some reason would flock to me with doughy eyes. I thought they were very unattractive and didn't give them a chance. Somewhere along the way I started to see people for what they are in the inside. My Fiance' is very pretty and yes she is a bigger gal, if I had of met her when I was 20 I probably wouldn't have even considered a date. But to me now, she is the most Beautiful person, inside and out. I'm not saying I'm trying to convince you to buck up and date girls you find unattractive. If the "37 year old me" tried to tell the "20 year old me" to date the big girl, it would have fallen on deaf ears. You like what you like. You're only 20, You have a long life ahead of you just enjoy the ride. When the right one comes along you'll figure it out. Just enjoy life, take in what it teaches you, & pay close attention to what it teaches you. If god forbid a girl ever knocks the wind out of your sails one day. At the time a broken heart may seem like the worst thing that could ever happen to you. But for me looking Back it was a painful lesson I needed to learn and glad I went thru it.

struttinkock

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Question To The Happily Married Folks Posted: 5/28/2006 11:30:23 PM
AA: You never know what you'll find on a Dating site. I'm happy to say I'm a Happily Engaged Person. (Just here for the Forums now) oh yeah, we met here on P.O.F.

Struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 4/26/2006 5:18:17 PM
Thanx Man! There still is Love in the World. A lot of us have been kicked when we're down so much that we forget that it still exists. I never gave up hope, I believe every relationship I have had has prepared me for this moment and for this wonderful Woman.

Struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 4/26/2006 4:34:21 PM
We've been together 7 months now (Minus the two week Hiccup) I've dated Girls anywhere from a year to three years and I've never felt this way about anyone. She gets along awesome with my family & friends and her folks and I get along so well. Marriage was always in the back of my head with the others but deep down I knew they weren't the one. I've never been so sure of anything in all my life. We are both on the same wave length its scarey sometimes. We finish each others thoughts, we say what the other is thinking. Our engagement will be at least a year, so we're not jumping into Marriage immediatly. I won't make excuses defending her. She was scared that things were working so well between us so thats when she wanted it to stop because she said it all felt too right, too safe, too perfect. Me spending that weekend with someone else was the best thing for us. I realized how much I needed her and she realized she better give her head a shake and not let me slip away. I know it probably makes no sense, but thats how gals operate sometimes lol. Love makes us do whacked things. If I was reading a post like this from someone else, I'd say "Ah what a Sucker that guy is" but ever since we got back together things just couldn't be better.

Struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 4/25/2006 10:21:11 PM
Sometimes 2nd chances Pay off. Not only am I still with that Girl But I asked her to Marry me and she said YES! Her Feelings certainly have changed and she says (Often) that she is very much in love with me.

struttinkock

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Mark Knopfler Posted: 3/28/2006 8:13:33 AM
Check out The Notting Hillbillies. Its Mark Knopfler, Steve Phillips, Guy Fletcher & Brendan Croker. Its very "Rootsy" a very cool Album. Another Great Singer/Songwriter/Story Teller is Shawn Mullins. I highly Recommend Souls Core, Eggshells & 9th Ward Pickin' Parlor. Daniel Lanois is another Master of his craft.

struttinkock

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Buck Owens Posted: 3/28/2006 8:07:39 AM
Rob Zombie used a few of Bucks songs on his Movie Soundtracks(House of 1000 Corpses/Devils Rejects) They were really cool songs. Sadly, I thought he already passed years ago. Its sad when a legend kinda just fades away. I'm glad Johnny Cash had such a big Comeback before we lost him. He too had faded into obscurity until Rick Rubin helped give him a second (or third) wind. RIP Mr. Owens.

struttinkock

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Will Steven Tyler's surgery mean the end to Aerosmith? Posted: 3/28/2006 8:04:47 AM
I think Aerosmith Ended after "Done With Mirrors".

struttinkock

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Walk the line - Johnny Cash, the film and Artist? Posted: 3/28/2006 8:02:42 AM
FYI: The Scene in the Movie where Johnny Proposes to June said it was in Ontario Canada. But it never said what city it was in. I just got the Audio book "The Man Called Cash" and the city was London Ontario.

Struttinkock

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Popping the question Posted: 2/20/2006 7:25:04 PM
I dated a Girl for a year, I just wasn't sure if I'd want to Marry Her. We Broke up. I dated a Girl for 3 1/2 years the thought of Marriage came into play but She really wasn't the one for me. Then I dated another Girl for a Year. It still didn't feel right, something was missing. Currently I've been dating a Girl for 5 months and I've never felt more right about anything in my life. This weekend for fun we made out our Wedding invitation list of who we'd like to Invite. I'm pretty sure we're on the same page.

Struttinkock

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Question To The Happily Married Folks Posted: 2/20/2006 7:16:59 PM
How long did you date before you seriously thought about "Popping the Question"? The Gal I'm dating now I feel really good about. She's the 1st one I've ever felt 'sure' about. I'm just not sure how to go about it. I'd like to go the Ole Fashion route and sit down with Her Parents and Ask Permission. Is that even done anymore? I haven't even told my Best friend yet I feel or are they the 1st Person you tell before you pop the question(Should your Gal be the 1st to know?)

Struttinkock

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OMG It's Valentines day!!! Posted: 2/14/2006 9:21:57 AM
Not True Wmom. V Day was around long before Hallmark A booked called Travels in England, written in 1698, gives an account of the way it was done: On St. Valentine's Eve an equal number of Maids and Bachelors get together, each writes their true or some pretend name upon separate billets, which they roll up and draw by way of lots, the Maids taking the Men's billets, and the Men take the Maids'; so that each of the young Men lights upon a Girl that he calls his Valentine, and each of the Girls upon a young Man which she calls hers. By this means each has two Valentines--but the Man sticks faster to the Valentine that is fallen to him than to the Valentine to whom he is fallen. Fortune having then divided the company into many couples, the valentines give treats to their mistresses, wear their billets several days upon their bosoms or sleeves, and this little sport often ends in Love. This ceremony is practised differently in different Countries, and according to the freedom or severity of Madame Valentine. St. Valentine's Day was mentioned by Shakespeare. The poet, Drayton, wrote verses entitled "To His Valentine," in which he expressed the idea of birds' mating on St. Valentine's Day. Each little bird this tide Doth choose her beloved peer, Which constantly abide In wedlock all the year.

Struttinkock

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falling for someone i barely know and fighting these feelings... Posted: 2/14/2006 1:41:47 AM
Meeting someone new who likes you is like winning the Lottery. In the beginning everything seems perfect. I believe things at that point actually are perfect. Its as you look closer you discover the cracks and blemishes. It dosen't mean they are all wrong. Just more realistic. We have to learn to accept their flaws and imperfections and love them for who they are. Its natural to feel strongly for someone new. If you're in the market for something real and not just a roll in the hay We all hope this is the "One". Enjoy the connection you feel for someone new but keep your eyes open and your heart in check. It may simply be the excitement of someone new which can wear off, or it could be the real deal. Only time can answer that question for u. But if they get away we may wonder if we blew it Was she the one? Rejection of any kind tends to sting a little. But its rarely fatal.

Struttinkock

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Has anyone watched .... Posted: 2/14/2006 1:33:22 AM
Yeah I had my heart stomped on by a real she-Devil. She was my 2nd GF so I was just a nieve trusting kid. She was so pretty(Ugly as hell on the inside) She lied cheated and Broke my heart. I never knew why she was so two faced with me. I so didn't deserve the heart break she put me thru. For years I wished I could erase her from my mind. Then 2 years ago I met this beautiful beautiful girl. Things were going great. Then I saw signs that she was a mini version of the original Heartbreaker. Because I had learned from my past I was able to walk away from this one fairly unskathed. The only wasted relationships are those we don't learn from. I went out with a Gal for over a year. She was really nice just not for me. The last Movie we watched together was "Eternal..." We both Cried because we knew we weren't going to make it as a couple. But we were so thankful for the good times we shared. We broke up a month or so later, but we parted with Class. We thought of that movie and both said we'd always cherish the good times and wouldn't want to erase them no matter how painful it may be to say goodbye.

Struttinkock

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Is it OK for a girl to ask a boy out? Posted: 2/14/2006 1:21:35 AM
I wish more Gals would ask the guys. We're just as scared as you are to make the 1st move, and just as excited when they do. Usually I bite the bullet send out 100 emails and get the cold shoulder from 99 of them . This Girl I met on POF made the 1st move and emailed me 1st. I planned our 1st date then she trumped me and invited me to do something the night before our date. I've never had a girl plan a 1st date before. She kept it a total surprise all week. I was so impressed with her Guts to do this with a guy(me) she never met.

Struttinkock

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confused and hurting Posted: 2/14/2006 1:14:40 AM
Sometimes when you stop pursuing them they turn around and start chasing you. I've never been able to play hard to get(I wish I could). When I like a Gal I tell her and tell her often. I think it scares some or perhaps there is no thrill in being wanted so easily. I was put in a position a few times to turn a girl away because I was pursuing another. Boy they came running back to me and the advances towards me were really something. I could never play hard to get because I figure if they think you don't care they'll just move on to the next guy. Not always the case as I've discovered.

Struttinkock

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OMG It's Valentines day!!! Posted: 2/14/2006 1:08:16 AM
Happy V Day, May Cupid put another one thru yer heart!

Struttinkock

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Walk the line - Johnny Cash, any fans of the film and Artist? Posted: 2/14/2006 1:01:27 AM
Hey Spilly - Are you sure the Line wasn't "Empire of Dirt"? If so the Song is called "Hurt"

Struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 2/14/2006 12:58:28 AM
Just an Update: I went back with Girl "A". I couldn't get her out of my mind even after spending a great weekend with Girl "B". I was worried at first but things couldn't be better. We're 5 months and counting and we are both totally in Love.

Struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 12/15/2005 10:20:49 AM
You are right, She didn't make me come back here. I however wanted to continue on with her but she basically Dumped me. I guess I was so determined not to Hurt of feel rejected I jumped in POF again with a "I'll Show you" attitude. Little did I know I would actually meet someone, who so far seems very cool. She told me she was scared and looking too far ahead and panicked. I told her to just enjoy the moment and she didn't have to fall madly in love with me in a certain time frame. If it happens it happens. Sometimes you can fall in love very quickly, other times it takes awhile to grow into something. I think she wanted it to happen instantly. As far as the sleeping together, it really was a surprise. There was no lead up to it until night fell. I just feel I hurt her now and she is trying to show me how she feels. But I'm going to meet this other date and nothing will stop that. Shes gone from excepting the situation one minute to feeling betrayed the next. Thanx everyone for your advice & support. No matter what the circumstances or who did what to whom I feel bad someone got hurt out of it. I guess I could take the "How do u like it" Attitude. But she's a great gal, and I wouldn't go out of my way to rub it in. I am going to give the new one my 100% attention and just put my ex out of my mind for now. I told her maybe she needs to go out and have another relationship to work out some of her issues. I'd rather she put someone else thru the frustration and then maybe down the road if things don't work out & we're both single and both ready to try again....Who knows.

Struttinkock

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Would You Tell If You Cheated?? Posted: 12/15/2005 2:00:06 AM
I was in an odd situation. I slept with an Ex, I had just met another girl a week or so ago. We hadn't gone on a date yet, just planned it for next week, but really hit things off on MSN. I really like her, but I had to close the chapter with my ex. I was not going to tell this new one about my Weekend. I did nothing wong and didn't feel guilty, But she had me in a corner. Asking me questions about my weekend. I told her I had sex but it was nothing to do with her. She tore me a new strip. After a few hrs she calmed down and realized, I didn't owe her an explination and we weren't even a couple. It was just something that happened. She respects me for being Honest and the date is back on!!! But I thought I blew it.

Struttinkock

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Should I feel bad? Posted: 12/15/2005 1:53:17 AM
I met this Great lady. We dated for a few months and she recently dumped me. But she was everything I could have hoped for in a woman, Funny, Pretty, sexy, smart. About 3 weeks in she tells me she really likes me as a person, But her feelings lean more toward being Friends and thinks we should break up. I say lets not rush things, Lets see if more time will change your mind. so we continue to date, things are going well. She even starts to call me her Boy friend. I think things are back on track. Then two weeks ago she drops a bomb. "I still only feel like we are friends" She feels bad that she lead me on and says I should just go back on POF and look for someone who can love me fully and openly. I protest again but she insists. But She wants to remain buddies. I go back on POF and get discouraged but then out of the blue I meet this great gal. We really hit it off. We are planning a date that will run all weekend long. My now EX and I We got together on The weekend. Just as friends but somehow ended up in bed together. She said this dosen't mean anything will change. I say fine, its just sex then. In the morning being a friend she asks me how POF is going. I tell her actually pretty good, I met a nice girl a few weeks back and we're going on a date next week. She says cool and hopes it all goes well. Then On Tuesday she tells me that after hearing I had a date really upset her. She says all of a sudden her feeling have changed (Don't know what you got until its Gone). She wants me to take her back. I really had a great time with her and if I hadn't met this other gal, I'd take her back in a heartbeat. I guess if I did go back, I'd look pretty whipped. That would be an open invitation to walk all over me wouldn't it? I tell her I'm afraid if I do, a month later she'll say she still has no feelings. She actually got quite angry with me that I won't break my date, after only talking a week or so. I said if things don't work out we'll see. But I want to give his new gal the common courtesy of a clean slate and not be 2nd in line. What should I do? Go back to an Ex thats wishy washy, or see what the new peson is like? I feel bad that she feels hurt, but she pushed me away and made me go back on POF. Should I feel bad for her?

Struttinkock

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I met a girl on POF Posted: 12/4/2005 8:32:47 AM
You can never go back to the scene of a perfect crime You can never return to where love was Blind Lick your wounds, forget her and then move on. If you give her a second chance, you'll give her a third & fourth She's obviously very easily distracted, another messed up, evil one in training

Struttinkock

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Is it just me, or is being dumped for no reason after two years out of line???? Posted: 12/3/2005 1:59:35 AM
I was with a gal for just over a year. Really nice girl. About 7 months into the relationship I started to question whether she was "The one". She was unemployed and on Welfare but I gave her a chance to turn things around. She started to feel like a burden and it was obvious we had different goals in life. So I had to end it with her. Over a year and a half later she is still unemployed so I'm happy with my Decision. I guess thats all just superficial and me venting a bit. But really she was a wonderful person I wish her the best but we were just not meant to be. No matter how softly they/you break up with someone it's gonna hurt, because they/you feel rejected. Every decent person deserves happiness. Its just hard to meet someone who isn't haunted and effected by their past. It's one thing to learn from our past experiences & mistakes and move forward rather than being bitter or messed up and use it against everyone. It'd make finding that special someone so much easier. Too many people are out for revenge and take it out on the innocent bystanders. I've experienced heart break more than once, but is a part of life. You move onwards and upwards and you love each person like they are the 1st and last person you ever will love. If it works out... Awesome. If not, we lick our wounds and hope love finds us again. It really sucks though when there is no closure. You begin to question "What the heck did I do wrong? Whats wrong with me?" If she wants to be a friend she owes you the truth to put your mind at ease.

Struttinkock

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Walk the line - Johnny Cash, any fans of the film and Artist? Posted: 12/2/2005 11:02:58 PM
Yeah he did Cocaine Blues. It was so damn cool It actually made my Cry. We lost such a treasure in Ole Johnny. I'm not sure if someone portrayed Wanda Jackson in the film as an actual person in the movie, but I know she did a Tour with Elvis/Johnny. There was a Backstage scene and you can hear Wanda's Fuji-Yama-mama. Very Cool. Pheonix did an excellent Job capturing the essence of Johnny, but I wish they'd have touched up his damn Hare-lip, I'd be into the movie so much almost believing it was Johnny but that split lip kept snapping me back to reality. But it was a great film.

Struttinkock

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Is it wrong to have female FRIENDS? Posted: 11/24/2005 12:07:01 AM
No T,D it was long since over with the GF. I dumped her because she was an unemployed waste of space spending all my money. In fact I ended up dating a new one after I left my GF but that one didn't work out(She was an evil two faced beast). A month or so later my internet Gal came drinkin' with me. It seemed pretty innocent. I was friends with her for a good year and saw her twice and nothing happened, I never even suspected anything would. I was pretty surprised she had more than just friendship feelings towards me, but a Tounge down my throat told me something different. I wouldn't have minded dating her, I even tried for awhile but her Ex was in and out of the picture so I wasn't going to get caught in the middle of that crap. A bit of fun was ok though. As for my other Female friends(Who by the way I met long before the Internet came along), they are just one of the guys and I haven't hopped in the sack with them. My one Gal Buddy has been my friend for 17 years, we've never hopped in the sack together. We go drinkin' and Pool playing all the time. In fact I introduced her to her man who she just married and I couldn't be happier for her. So put that in yer pipe and smoke it. The New GF is more than welcome to read what I say in the Forums. Where do you think I met her?

Struttinkock

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What to do about being shy? Posted: 11/23/2005 11:09:46 PM
I kinda like the old Caveman way of meeting women. Hit them on the head with a big club and drag them back to your cave. I pound a few Drinks into me and I can talk to the ladies. But if I'm out shopping or out for a ride and I see a pretty thing I can't just walk up to them and say hello. I never know what to say after saying Hi to them. I need my Liquid courage to get me thru.

Struttinkock

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Is it wrong to have female FRIENDS? Posted: 11/23/2005 11:03:37 PM
I met a really cool gal online while I was dating a girl for over a year. We became really good friends. I told my GF all about her and she was cool with it. We met for lunch one day. I invited her out Drinking, but I insisted my GF was there. I didn't think that would be proper since she was coming from out of town and would have crashed on my couch. I broke up with my Lady friend, a few months later I went out Drinking with my internet friend and she seduced me lol. It was wonderful but eventually messed up a pretty good friendship. I would have to say my Female friends outnumber my male friends. Its always been that way for me. Luckily my new GF dosen't have a problem with that or else it wouldn't work out.

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 103 (view)

What is more intimate ? SEX or Holding Hands Posted: 11/7/2005 10:15:04 AM
Yeah Sex is fun but after the 4th hr it's just nice to hold hands for awhile. You forget how special the little things are when you've been single for awhile. But then when U meet someone you remember all the little things leading up to it being a Sexual relationship.

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 25 (view)

what the???? Posted: 11/1/2005 8:17:01 PM
Still no response from the Gal. I think we have found our answer. Some fellas get down right impatient when ignored so to make them feel better they lash out from being frustrated. Hell some of them deserve it I imagine, but it never hurts to tell a guy hello or "no thanx psycho yer not my type".

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 21 (view)

Betrayed after the relationship was over Posted: 10/29/2005 8:51:12 AM
I was seeing some girl a yr ago. She turned out to be two faced liar and a Bit Psycho. She attempted to smear my name all over town. Making her look like the poor victim and me the Scumbag. I showed that gal nothing but respect and compassion. I have a lot of dirt on her in emails/Msn chats. I walked away from her and never confronted her on anything. I've sure thought about posting that info somewhere. But some fantasies are best lived out in your head I guess. I still hate the thought of letting her get away scott free. I guess Karma will bite her on the ass eventually.

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

what the???? Posted: 10/28/2005 10:46:10 AM
He probably got P'o'd because you didn't respond to his email. You're bad for that

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

What's top of your issues list with Religion? Posted: 10/9/2005 10:46:58 AM
"God Created Woman, But the Devil Invented the Blues" Some nights I think its the other way around, Take last night for example. There are Some evil grumpy women out there in the world.

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 11 (view)

Whoops Posted: 10/8/2005 3:21:02 PM
Do you guys get the Simpsons over in the UK? For some reason I hear Ned Flander's voice when I read your posts Just razzin ya

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

Whoops Posted: 10/8/2005 3:14:12 PM
(WonkaVision)Not a Big Whiskey Drinker are ya son lol That post made my head hurt

Struttinkock

Joined: 9/8/2005

Msg: 5 (view)

Whoops Posted: 10/8/2005 2:41:10 PM
Dbl post, forgive me

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