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Joined: 7/3/2008

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Best thing about being a single mom/dad? Posted: 1/20/2009 4:02:16 PM
I love everything about being a single parent to my child; I started to realize shortly after the birth of my child that my ex and I had different views on raising our child. Fortunately, we got divorced early in her life. Now though, I've raised her for a while and am wishing that she would be raised in an environment where she san see firsthand what couples can expect from each other. You know, learn from a little example. C.

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Best/Worst part of kissing Posted: 1/20/2009 3:22:53 AM
The best part of kissing for me is when a guy really knows how to make love with his mouth to mine. Toes curl. Worst: when he doesn't know and slobbers all over me. Briefly dated someone who had very loose lips.....I mean jello loose; well I cringed the few times we kissed, could not grab ahold of them to make the kiss meaningful enough for me. Was glad when that was over.

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When do you consider a marriage is DEAD and must take the next step. Posted: 1/19/2009 8:34:02 PM
OP no one on this site (in your life) can tell you when your marriage is over. Like everything else that answer lies within each of us. I endured the last two years of my marriage because I refused to give up and wanted to find a little bit of common ground to get us back on track. I woke up one morning after a particularly bitter quarrel with my ex-husband and just lie in bed for hours wrapping the thought around my head that I'd finally had enough. When I did eventually get up I was a zombie; I did my usual stuff until he noticed that I barely responded to him. Having realized after about a week of this, my ex THEN wanted to do the counselling that I tried to get him to continue, stay at home, take me to dinner...all of the things I previously wanted to do. My mind and my heart was resolved. I filed for divorced that same week. It has been five years and occassionally he tries to win me back. No Can Do, BUSTER! You see, no one can tell you; you know when your heart and mind directs you. Good luck.

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why do people stay on POF after meeting someone? Posted: 1/19/2009 8:19:26 PM
I agree, babycakes80, I think that there is so much to do with each other and to keep current with your other physical activities that you find time less and less for virtual interactions. Personally, I find that whenever I boot up my computer to visit the forums, I spend less time with loved ones. And although I haven't been dating for a few months except for the odd blind date, hookups that never seem to work out, sometimes time away from the computer seems like such a pull. Having someone in my life, will finally be that 'glue coming undone'. For now, I'll keep right on pof'ing.....

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Serious question here...want to hear from those who know Posted: 1/19/2009 7:31:33 PM
Ditto on 'CMonster's' post 7.....

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Is it ever wise to date somebody from the office? Posted: 1/19/2009 7:24:26 PM
wow some very good points mentioned here, OP. I think, and I concur, that the general response is NO! It is not wise.

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Dating people from different cultural backgrounds Posted: 1/19/2009 7:03:52 PM
Geez! are we ever gonna move past this? I've dated and befriended many persons of different race /cultures. We should never let others dictate our opinions, sounds like a speech I gave my daughter two days ago. I have a God given right to make my own choices/mistakes! So should YOU!

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why do people stay on POF after meeting someone? Posted: 1/19/2009 6:57:20 PM
I have conflicting feelings on this topic.... I think that if I were in a committment with my mate (or trying to establish one) I'd like to think I won't be on this site. However, I really like the topics in the forums and being able to vocalize my thoughts and views with others. Honestly, I started this site to meet a mate but fell in love with the discussion part of it. Now, I rarely bother with my mail. Anyone wants to talk to me should visit me here. I'd give the relationship my full attention, though. Hands down.

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girl who wants to take it slow! Posted: 1/14/2009 8:16:04 PM
My, my, what's happened to good ole fashion romance. Doesn't anyone believe in that anymore. Be taking it slow you learn not only about the other person but also about yourself. I think learning to control oneself is quite sexy. Think about how much more special things will be, once you finally get to the next stage of your relationship that will work for both of you, that you've learnt along the way. If things do not work out as may be the case, you've taken something out of that experience to use in the next relationship. Have a heart, give her a

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Whats the Best Accent you've hear that you love... and why Posted: 1/13/2009 6:23:49 PM
I love these accents in the following order; English - just love it! Australian - just love the Aussies Caribbean (Bahamian) - love my countrymen, 'sides we have a lilt to our speech.

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How do YOU handle rejection? Posted: 1/10/2009 9:44:38 AM
OP did you find out where she works? I may need to invest in a bulletproof vest.....

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Profile or pic? Posted: 1/9/2009 3:47:37 PM
Pictures catch my eye, but the profiles keep me coming back. I have a hard time putting myself out there, so I just throw bait and see who gets hooked!

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Hug or a Hand Shake? Posted: 1/9/2009 3:43:41 PM
I hug socially and shake professionally. Find that easier to stick with as I am a hugger but it would definitely not fit in with meeting business clients. Chey

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Why I never meet anyone without a picture.... Posted: 1/9/2009 3:29:18 PM
Hilarious!!!!!

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Why I never meet anyone without a picture.... Posted: 1/9/2009 3:25:31 PM
I love this Thread, Pami! I too would avoid contacting the profiles with no pics. I had one encounter with a guy on another site who had posted pictures of a fine...I mean fine, gentleman but they all seemed to be too cataloguesque. We talked by phone for a while and everytime I asked for a new photo got a different one but still looked like something out of a magazine. Finally, I went to the search engine and found out that he had two other profiles on other sites and the pictures were of other 'fine' guys. Called him, told him off and blocked him from my contact list. He eventually stopped calling after a few weeks. What the heck am I doing looking for a guy online anyhow, I only get contacted by young men under 25 who live in Turkey!!! I have much more fun with these posts....keep 'em coming, dude/dudettes

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spending the holidays single.. Posted: 1/8/2009 5:51:11 PM
Post#16 - jd28Spot wrote: I grab a bottle of Merlot, light candles all over the house, put on some soft music and relax. Good time to just kick back and reflect. I use this remedy whenever I am feeling 'coupleless'. Works everytime!!! This Xmas/New Year I spent with close friends and came home new years eve to ring in the new year relaxing with my daughter. I felt really comfortable. There is soo much hype during the holidays that some people get pulled into the fray. Can be pretty exciting, though.

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Last time you were told I Love you? Posted: 1/8/2009 5:36:49 PM
Like you Haywiresue-post #28 I too am living my life to the fullest. Last person other than my family, who tells me that constantly and I them, was my ex-husband last year. I know he was not sincere, just trying for a quick roll (not happening ever!). My last sincere 'heart-flip' was three years ago. I'd go bonkers in ten years. Go fish

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Would we have better relationships if looks REALLY didn't matter? Posted: 12/27/2008 11:47:10 AM
WoW! I got a brain buzz from reading all the comments this topic elicited. Personally, I look at a persons outward appearance - style of dress, attractiveness, and the way he walks! (I am a sucker for a bit of bowed legs and taut buns). I have no problems admitting to that shallowness; however, if we cannot communicate (I also admire intelligence) I move along. I am not a beautiful person, I am very average looking but I do know what I want. That being said, my last relationship was with a guy who had a receding hairline, weighed around 230 lbs and wore thick glasses (which he changed later; no remarks on my part contributed to that). He had a beautiful spirit and was the most intellectual person I have ever met. I affectionately called him my walking 'enclycopedia'. To this day I've regretted breaking off the relationship. OP I can understand your posting this thread, the fact that so many have something to say on this topic shows that it is a current view no matter the age, culture or race.

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What's one thing you loved/love/miss about your ex? Posted: 12/27/2008 11:05:22 AM
I miss his wry sense of humor. And his voice; his accent was just the sweetest thing to listen to. His intelligence and the way his eyes sparkled when he was teasing me. We're still friends so I get to experience those things occassionally still. Merry Christmas!!

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Has anyone here gone on 100 online dates? Posted: 9/21/2008 8:23:54 AM
Exhausting just imagining that. I've only had two dates from online dating, one from POF and the other from another site. I live pretty far away from most of my contacts (I rarely contact person living here on my island) . This cuts down on the let's meet for drinks/dinner options....lol. 'Sides, I am busy enough as is in my everyday life that I hardly have time to go online, as much as I'd like to.

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I am really starting to hate dating Posted: 9/21/2008 7:25:17 AM
Hear, hear Applepiefaceplant. Everyone should just lighten up a little!!!

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I am really starting to hate dating Posted: 9/20/2008 4:07:08 PM
Golly, I was gonna post a comment about how entertaining the OP's story was but after having read all of the following comments, I prefer to leave well enough alone! Needless to say, we've all had some type of relationship experience that shows us up in a bad light, whether or not we choose to admit it, yet looking back we can find something amusing out of the episode. May I suggest that we treat the post in the manner I would hope it was given....for entertainment purposes?

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on t-shirts Posted: 7/22/2008 5:29:36 PM
'Those rules don't apply to me' 'Get a life? Where can I download one?' 'Reading is..... fundametal (strike through) fundemettal (second strike through) fundemutual (third strike through) aww shucks....GOOD!

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on t-shirts Posted: 7/22/2008 5:20:20 PM
I don't wear t-shirts but I saw a few that I liked..... 1) big-chested girl with ' I wish these were brains'. 2) kids today are spoiled. Nothing a little refridgeration won't cure. 3) Itchy, twitchy and ****y!

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Re: Whats your Sign? Posted: 7/20/2008 7:01:13 AM
GEMINI (May 21-June 20): You are a quick and intelligent thinker. People like you because you are bisexual. You expect too much for too little. This means that you are a cheap **stard. Geminis are notorious for thriving on incest. Hey kcrich, are you my brother? lolol..... At least we have a beautiful stone...emerald!

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whats the worst thing you have done? Posted: 7/19/2008 7:02:21 PM
Well, I have to admit that I have no interesting stories from personal experiences to tell. However, I do have a story about my witnessing a naughty act. I was having dinner at a local Senor Frog's restaurant and we were dining on the outside when this couple came out and stood against the railings next to our table. After a few minutes, my date noticed that the girl seemed to be 'getting off'. She was moaning and tossing her head every so often. I, being the curious type, switched my seating so that I could watch without having to turn my head around. And got first row seat to the most perverted, disgusting show I've ever seen! We could not see the actual connection, but we could see that her clothing was lifted and she had on no panty; also that he was rocking and jerking in the rhythm. Finally, I could no longer watch and called management to the scene who were verified that such an act was being performed and asked the couple to leave. Later, I learned that the girl was an overnight guest on one of the cruise ships and she had just met the guy that very same evening!

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