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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: T-shirts you'd like to see  upnorth135 Joined: 7/4/2008 Msg: 113 (view)   T-shirts you'd like to see Posted: 8/20/2008 9:17:11 PM Women beware my X husband is out there  upnorth135 Joined: 7/4/2008 Msg: 207 (view)   Has being online toughened you up emotionally or made you more sensitive? Posted: 7/26/2008 6:11:03 PM Hi from TOUGH to you, I believe you are using the wrong words.I am a very sensitive person and get the game players on here.I respect myself and what I value and want in my life for today.If rejected or dropped in to cyberspace by someone.I check where my part in it was or not and see it was not right and know they were the ones to miss out on a GREAT person ..SMILE Jenine  upnorth135 Joined: 7/4/2008 Msg: 355 (view)   Domestic Violence Posted: 7/26/2008 5:59:19 PM HI and TODAY, My first relationship and marriage in the late 70's was violent .My X husband was one of the very first arrests in Duluth MN where the state picked up charges ..So that we as many do would not drop charges..I followed through he got his sentencing and I got back with him # 3 times Arrest follow thru and ANGER management for him.I did finnaly follow thru with divorce HE recieved custody.I did not give up and go back..Kept watchful eye on all and stayed close as close could be to my 2 boys..We can have all the education in the WORLD .If we have low self esteam and do not know how to learn to respect ourself ..THE pattern will continue..REACH deep..you can love the abuser LET him go and learn what real love is .It starts with oneself and a lot of work on ones self.INTIMACY.... into ME i see..YOU CAN DO IT then everything you want and deserve is yours.Jenine  upnorth135 Joined: 7/4/2008 Msg: 18 (view)   anyone been in this situation Posted: 7/21/2008 4:52:59 PM Yes it hurts. BUT .The only thing I can do is look at what my part was in any relationship and CHANGE me,I was in a 14 year relationship with a 12 year old son .He left married a 20 year old and had a baby 6 months later.HMM I played victim for years and always pointed out his problems .I HAD TO QUIT BEING VICTIM and change and learn to respect me and know I deserve better and move on to what Iwant in my life..ALWAYS SMILE  upnorth135 Joined: 7/4/2008 Msg: 118 (view)   What did YOU do wrong in your last relationship? Posted: 7/11/2008 11:51:16 AM All I can change is me....What was my part in every relationship I have .To improve and move on.  upnorth135 Joined: 7/4/2008 Msg: 342 (view)   eHarmony...STAY AWAY FROM THIS SITE!!! Posted: 7/8/2008 7:02:41 PM Yes and if they still continue to charge your bank or credit card .PUT a block on any charges from them thru bank or credit for 6 months..   Show ALL Forums