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venusdomina

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What is the good of a relationship? Posted: 11/24/2007 9:38:22 PM
For me it means the search is finally over.

venusdomina

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Things your ex did in bed that your current does'nt! Posted: 6/19/2007 7:08:54 PM
My ex boyfriend used to love eating me out/69ing... This one, not so much. Sex is great, but ultimately, kind of boring with out foreplay. yeah... me too. and he would make sure I came 2 or 3 times before he did.

venusdomina

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If a woman has a few scars..does it make you look at them different Posted: 6/11/2007 5:38:53 PM
I look at my honey as the most beautiful flawless creature that God could have possibly blessed me with. I have had about 500 stitches in my life and three children. And he sees nothing but pure beauty. That is love. We sadley enough are our own worst critics. No body looks as closely at us than ourselves.... love everything you have because we get older and the things we do love about our physical selves warp with time. there will come the day you will laugh at yourself and say what was I thinking. Wish I had known I was this beautiful and not wasted it. just my opinion.

venusdomina

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women and why they think men should buy everything ???? Posted: 6/4/2007 4:24:39 PM
I seem to have the oppisite problem. seems im always expected to buy.

venusdomina

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 2/7/2007 8:28:17 PM
^^^yeah me!!^^^ lol

venusdomina

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 1/21/2007 2:45:13 PM
it was forbiddin to mark your body in worship of false idols...

venusdomina

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 12/27/2006 12:06:32 PM
sorry.. double post.

venusdomina

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 12/27/2006 12:06:12 PM
oh, and the "embarrassing theie children" statement. LMAO. My children love me very much. They don't even think of my tattoo's. They see it all as just "me". Who I am. You have some serious issues.

venusdomina

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Tatoos on a women turn on or turn off Posted: 12/27/2006 12:04:43 PM
I wasn't ever refering to Tat's that are hidden and personal. I'm talking about the ones on the arms, legs and neck that are meant to be seen by everyone. Those are what I find in bad taste. Wrong again guy. I have many tattoos. Large ones at that. I as well have a high paying job which I have worked very hard towards. I will retire when I'm 55 just like any untattooed person. You know, I've seen lots of trashy people with-out tattoos as well. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. You may think it takes away from a person's beauty, but to some it adds. A man with well done ink.. well, I could wet my panties. Did you also know I have quite large ones and they are well hidden at work. My clients have no idea I have ink unless we get that indepth into conversation. It's sad that you are closed minded. You may miss out on meeting that wonderful women someday because you are so stuck on the surface of people rather than who they are.

venusdomina

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MEN !!! What is it that a woman can do to make you guys fall head over heels for them? Posted: 12/23/2006 6:06:09 PM
If you know what super string theory is, then I am all yours!! As a matter of fact.. I do.

venusdomina

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People turning nasty on you. Posted: 12/3/2006 9:17:33 AM
I recently have just gotten out of a relationship. I'd have to say same goes for men. When ever we would get into a heated argument (which I hate, can't stand to fight) he would get real evil and say things like I hate you, or f-you and go to hell. Stuff like that. I forgave it two times. And the last time I ended it. He called me every name in the book and told me he hopes I die. I call this immaturity. It Sounds like throwing a fit for not getting your way. Soem people are just very selfish and their true colors come out when they don't get what they want.

venusdomina

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my date wants me to choke him Posted: 8/13/2006 9:37:07 AM
thereal deal = prude.

venusdomina

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my date wants me to choke him Posted: 8/12/2006 10:32:01 PM
geeze. just lightly choke him.lol. you know your own strength. Common sense.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 5:24:22 PM
maybe he has been the whole time. and that's why he lacks the excitment of being bf/gf. maybe scared.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 12:53:49 PM
yes he does. I have spoke to him about it. He says "sure" we can be bf/gf. I don't like "sure". And he says he plans to see no one else and that he does'nt want me to either. I've suggested keep my options open and he did'nt like that. I have spent all my free time with him(which honestly is only once or twice a week) except for once. And he was mad I did'nt call him that day. He said his ex use to pull the same stuff and cheat on him. I was going out with my sister for my birthday.

venusdomina

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When to bring it up [Exclusive Dating] Posted: 8/7/2006 12:46:24 PM
If things are all moving along nicely and you each are comfortable with each other, you shouldnt need to ask/think that question. everything should all just fall into place naturally. Through actions and words you would know where you stand and where you 'fti into' his life. good answer. I'm going to take this to heart as well.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 12:40:47 PM
You have no idea how often women piss away good things because they pour on the pressure for commitment. As if that means anything or has any value you are probably right.... F**K IT!!!! I'm just going to have fun. lots.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 12:36:40 PM
which are? I plan to spend the rest of my life with some one but does'nt mean I need to get married to do so.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 12:27:03 PM
thing is, I don't care if I ever get married. I just found it odd he threw it out there right away.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 12:24:10 PM
Well now arn't you a genius sarcasim?

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 12:23:23 PM
ahhh damnit emmary.lol. just when I thought I had it figured out.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 12:21:17 PM
well, if anything this has helped alot. I'm not going to approach this at all now. Just go for the ride I guess. I definitly have a good feeling about him so I trhink I just get imaptient sometimes. I truely never met any guy that keeps his word thus far like him. He calls every day if not multiple times. Some times we don't know a good thing when it's in front of our faces. I'm definitly going to just let what happens happen. thanks all for the advice. I'm just going to forever shut up about it to him now.lol.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 11:59:47 AM
so all in all I just need to stop trippen? Relax, see where it goes and have fun. And truth be told I am analytical to a fault. It's not the best trait.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 11:44:38 AM
you are very right about the label thing. That's kind of what it seems I'm doing. I just have a hard time assuming things. I prefere for them to be spoken. That way no one gets hurt and there is'nt any misunderstanding. Guess more than anything I feel like I'm stuck in limbo.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 10:43:03 AM
well, I'm glad to hear I'm being petty. Really. I just needed outside advice. But the thing is. I myself am in no hurry to get married either. but when he says we can be bf/gf he sounds like he's settling. I've been married once before. If I never get married again that is fine. I just did'nt understand what he meant. or where he was coming from with that commint.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 10:17:58 AM
exactly, who knows? that's the problem. but he is as sweet and attentive as can be. Does wonderful things for and when we are out I'm his main focus. He says we can be bf and gf but always like in a if it's that important to you sort of way. I want him to mean it and not settle.

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 10:11:31 AM
if it's obvious than tell me.lol

venusdomina

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is the answer right in front of my face? Posted: 8/7/2006 9:57:06 AM
Ok, met some one about a month ago. Been seeing each other on our free days. Well, long story short. I would like to be with this person. He says "sure" we can be boyfriend and girlfriend. And in the very beginning he said that we would not get married.(uh). But he does'nt want me to keep my options open and date anyone else. He says I'm the most important person in his life. But he is very weary whenever it comes to are we boyfriend and girlfriend question. If he does'nt want me to be with anyone else and him either is'nt that a "commitment"? So my question is, do you think he is keeping me around until something better comes along or what? I'm pretty confused. I'm going to break it down to him today so any advice wopuld be appreciated.

venusdomina

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any women ever go to the clubs by them selves? Posted: 6/26/2006 2:31:14 PM
I've gone to the movie's quite often by myself. went to a concert once on my own. was lots and lots of fun. was nice not having to worry about every one else and if they are enjoying them selves.

venusdomina

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What is a child to you? Posted: 5/25/2006 5:06:23 PM
my children are an appendage of me. I can not function normaly without them. they are everything. The only true unconditonal love.

venusdomina

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In a relationship......don't use my toothbrush!!!!! Posted: 5/22/2006 5:59:33 PM
^^^you hit the nail on the head^^^

venusdomina

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I miss him Posted: 5/22/2006 5:07:07 PM
a game of russian rullet anyone?

venusdomina

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Wow. Posted: 5/22/2006 11:07:45 AM
dutch on a first date is a must, no pressure. no expectations.

venusdomina

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In a relationship......don't use my toothbrush!!!!! Posted: 5/22/2006 10:53:48 AM
thing is, you don't truely know where that tooth brush has been. I won't elaberate.

venusdomina

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Leo...ruler, beauty, intelligence, passionate.... Posted: 5/7/2006 9:56:44 AM
Protective, adoring, playful, inventive, generous, supportive, sensual, warm, joyful. Possessive, jealous, control issues, coldness, cruelty, selfishness, egotistical, self serving. yin and yang.

venusdomina

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men keep there look longer then weman Posted: 5/4/2006 5:58:12 PM
29 buddy and I'm only getting better.

venusdomina

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old picture Posted: 5/4/2006 5:31:45 PM
believe me, men are just as guilty if not worse.

venusdomina

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People from 80's TV shows you'd fantasize about being in a relationship with Posted: 4/28/2006 4:35:00 PM
Billy Idol. mmm. And Rob low. I think that's his name.

venusdomina

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will I just be a M.I.L.F forever? Posted: 4/24/2006 5:07:33 PM
you know, to somebody who is in the 50's and older. We are still just kids. Enjoy being you and bettering yourself. Eventually, some one will climb that tree. Just be patient.

venusdomina

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Why can't I find a woman who can enjoy sex as much as me and keep up? Posted: 4/24/2006 4:43:49 PM
to the op, no we don't peak about 30. We start to reach our prime in our 30's hence the dirty 30's term. I'm afraid of what I'm going to be like during my dirty thirties. Sex is so important now(when it's worth having) I can't imagine needing it more.

venusdomina

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how often do you masturbate? Posted: 4/24/2006 4:41:02 PM
daily, I like to cum so to speak, but when it comes down to the physical with a partner I am alittle desensatized. So I've figured out to not cum at least a day or so when I know I'm going to have sex.

venusdomina

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What do you look for on your first visit? Posted: 4/24/2006 4:39:28 PM
what is it with men and dirty toilets anyways? is it because they don't have to sit on them as much as us? It's not so hard to drop in a 2000 flushes blue guys.

venusdomina

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Lapeer Michigan SINGLES Party! Posted: 4/21/2006 11:41:43 AM
sounds inviting

venusdomina

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Gothic styles Posted: 4/10/2006 7:02:41 PM
people always label me as goth. but I don't have pale skin and I dress very classysince I work in a professional setting. I get tired of hearing it to be honest. I'm me. that's just it.

venusdomina

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do u believe that people really need time to get to know one another? Posted: 4/5/2006 9:11:49 AM
I can tell by that pic that you believe in MAGIC. Or John Wayne Gacey.

venusdomina

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do u believe that people really need time to get to know one another? Posted: 4/4/2006 6:32:54 PM
yes. very much so. I think it takes about six months to get to know somebody and their good and bad habits.

venusdomina

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Goldigging???????????? Posted: 4/2/2006 7:49:12 PM
I'm just happy if he "HAS" a job.

venusdomina

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for the guys: how do you go from being one way to getting all insecure ? Posted: 3/31/2006 12:05:54 PM
^^^ it goes both ways^^^

venusdomina

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Is it possible to fall in love with someone you never met? Posted: 3/28/2006 5:07:33 PM
sounds like you fall in love pretty easy Kain.

venusdomina

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Why do I bother trying? Posted: 3/24/2006 6:57:37 PM
to the OP: We have all had a broken heart and experianced deep depression at least one time in our lives. You have to take this as a learning experience. Know that killing yourself is not going to help anyone. Especially not you. I was very much so in love once too. I was hurt very badly as well. I thought I had no reason to live. I would play little suicidle games. Seeing if I could get the nerve up to go all the way. But you know what. I think back to that time now. I feel foolish about it. How could I let anyone make me feel so low. I am worth so much more. You are very young and not even close to ugly in appearance. You have many more broken hearts to live thru and many hearts to break. Life is short and no one is worth making you feel like you want to die. Know that you deserve better than some one who plays mind games with you. You are number 1 in your life. And you should be with some one who see's you as number 1 in theirs. Do not let this get you down anymore than it has. You know what you have to offer. This is her loss and some one elses gain. Stop dwelling and get excited about the next person that will be in your life. Work on making you happy. The confidence comes along with your happiness. Because you will grow to learn you need no one but yourself to be happy. And when you meet that special some one that'll just be a bonus to you and her lives.

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