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Joined: 7/5/2008

Msg: 117 (view)

A Date Tonight Posted: 3/21/2009 4:20:01 PM
Definetly not! But, I never know that for sure til i have one meeting or date.

Joined: 7/5/2008

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How long before it's real from online Posted: 3/21/2009 4:15:23 PM
I do not like to waste time re-inventing a person, as that is what lots of emailing without meeting does. Then it is a letdown as we invented our fantasy person. I believe in meeting soon as possible once mutual interest in each other is established. I don't feel that chemistry very often, likely because I have learned my limitations...I do not want to waste time in a fantasy. I think this is actually more cautious than not. I also tend to forget that my cyber friends exist when away from my computer. So to avoid missing out on the real deal, I will request a meeting within a few emails.

Joined: 7/5/2008

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Not sure where I stand...... HELP Posted: 3/20/2009 8:09:23 PM
I know the feeling... it is not good. I had a similar situation, and the sooner you accept it the better. I had never been rejected before, and felt because things were so perfect that he must feel the same. He was pretty honest with me as the woman your seeing has been with you. It took me several years, I would break away, only to be lured in thinking I could just enjoy him with limitations, he never turned me away, still seeked me out knowing it was eating me up inside. I am able to be his friend now, and on occassion chat still. And now he is off twisting other womens hearts with his charms and commitment issues . Good luck!

Joined: 7/5/2008

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Women question a man over 50 and not been married? Posted: 3/19/2009 9:38:59 AM
We learn our biggest lessons in life through our close relationships. That said, a man or woman who hasn't had much experience with the opposit sex nor raised children may not be as learned. Middle aged women do not want to raise their mate. I would never asume a man is imature because of a lack of marriages, but might if he has a lack of close relationships. I do kind privately scoff when a man brags about his clean slate and their lack of baggag. I would keep that to myself at first as to not be judged immediately. I run from personals that say "no baggage" etc as they are the baggage carriers.

Joined: 7/5/2008

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Anti-black Racism in Religion! Posted: 10/11/2008 4:30:06 PM
Hmmm... my imaginary friend is pink with blue polka-dots .

Joined: 7/5/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

Should I put Aspergers in my profile? Posted: 8/16/2008 8:37:48 PM
It is interesting to me that I feel that I can tell that a person is an aspie just by reading their profile/posts provided it isn't sparce. I have read many of your posts in the past scorpionmover, and I already assumed you to be one. I am aspie too.

Joined: 7/5/2008

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too much information Posted: 7/18/2008 1:02:29 AM
I appreciate knowing as much as I can. I am not looking for Mr. mystery. It also indicates to me, a posibility that he can commnicate, and share. If a man blabs on and on about what he doesn't want.... there is a good chance he has issues I don't want anything to do with. But, if he gabs happily and is interesting/intelligent, I am much more interested than in the fellow who only writes that he likes walks on the beach, and/or the other typical stuff 99.9 % of humans enjoy. I like reading an interesting lengthy profile over a short uninformative one anyday. If he bores me... I don't read it. Also, I don't evernot read a profile based on his looks. But smoking and religion and negativity can stop me. I also read profiles without pictures, as mine is.

Joined: 7/5/2008

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If everyone in the world was blind, would you still be single? Posted: 7/14/2008 11:17:51 PM
Please Mr. Wildman, I am really wanting to know...And I am not judgng just curious to imagin the scenario more accurately. Did you ever see a picture prior? Honestly, was she homely to you, or was it more like a vibe, aged face, body type. was the unattractiveness purely physical? I don't date much because I hate turning down men. And then the ol'.. "you didn't give me a chance" stuff. I have been attracted/infactuated/love at times to very physically unattractive men. Yet they have always been intelligent/creative sorts and the ol' chemistry was just as powerful had they been handsome. So I am blind in some ways, yet blinder in others, because I usually failed to see in advance their inability to communicate well. If everyone was blind I'd still be single. Because some other force rules attraction here. I'd have a feeling that I am attracted to whomever can provide me with a much needed life lesson. I am hoping the hard part of the lessons is past.

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