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Joined: 9/10/2005

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worst way to break up count down Posted: 11/11/2005 5:02:06 PM
my causin broke up with his girl by going to our family get togeather on christmas and played a recording of her cheating on him in front of the intire family she got the hit busted and she left.

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worst way to break up count down Posted: 11/11/2005 5:00:19 PM
the worst way i been broking up with was when i was going out with this guy for a year he acted like every thing was ok and invited me to his familys for dinner on thanksgiving well i went and he was not there so i waited there for hours with his fam for him to get dropped off there and tell me he was with anouther girl and we are done. it was so embarassing.

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not being able to get over someone.. Posted: 11/11/2005 4:55:30 PM
best way to get over someone i found is to move far away from them and find someone else but thats not the best advise i know just the easist

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worst way to break up count down Posted: 11/11/2005 4:52:49 PM
what is the worst way you or someone you know has or have been broking up with

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give me a good reason to get married. Posted: 11/4/2005 11:49:48 AM
usdave there are 2 last names in the house. the reason im on here is for the fact i dont get out to make friends im always home taking care of the kids and when my b/f gets home from workl im taking care of him. i want to make sure he has a hot bath ready and food to eatt the i rube his back he works hard{constrution} and needs time to rest so as you can see im busy this is only comunication with the world that exsist outside these walls.

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give me a good reason to get married. Posted: 11/1/2005 12:46:04 PM
i think its cause the way his mom and step dad fight he dont want it to be that way with him if he get married his ex agrees

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give me a good reason to get married. Posted: 11/1/2005 12:39:47 PM
i been with this guy for 4 years have too kids togeather and 1 each from previos relationships. i want to marry him but when i bring it up he says "its like where married now and asks why get married? whats the big deal or purpoise? we live togeather and have kids whats the diff?" but i never know how to respond to that question. so im asking you guys what should i say? whats a good responce to that?

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Women who are users Posted: 11/1/2005 12:31:50 PM
i by far dont fit into this catagory the guy im with now well when i met him he had no job no car and was living with relatives. i had the job and car. now he has a job and a truck but i still give him money to help him when he needs it. but he always helps me too so we are pretty much even no gold digger here. but i do know a few.

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Child Support Discussion Posted: 11/1/2005 12:22:32 PM
i think if the other parent is willing to help there is no point in going after him {or her in some cases} for child support!

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Child Support Discussion Posted: 11/1/2005 12:21:15 PM
ok you asked for our experiences well mine is like this. i got pregnant with my now oldest and the farther left when he found out. i was living with his mom at the time in a town 4 hours from my closes relative. i was also working for his mom, well when she cought wind she drove me to grey hound and told me i had to find my own way back to where my closest relative live {my mom} and then i was left there with no money and only a handful of my belongings. luckly i managed to get ahold of her boyfriend by useing the phone at greyhound bus stop and beg himto give me anough money for a one way ticket which was like 40 dollors at the time. well after going threw all 9 months with only help from my mom i had the baby i called the farther to so if they wanted to be in my childs life i got a no dont call here agian so i was left to do it on my own. i went to get food stamps and medicaid they told me i whould have to file for child support sop i did. we had our first appointment with child support and he did not show so it went to court on our court date he tried first to deny being the farther hoping he whould not have to pay so we did a dna then the next court date he tried to say he did not have a job {my guess he quit his job to avoid paying he gets money under the table so why work} they told him to pay 48.30 and get a job within a time limit. he didnt pay so i got afdc. the next court date came he cryed to the judge that he was not paying cause he had no money then told the judge he was hiding from the repo guy so they whould not repo his car. the judge gave him a time limit to start paying. he still did not pay next court he did not show so they locked him up thats when i started getting money. now i just recently got an increase to 58.88 and he pays cause they garnish his wadges. thats my experience with child support.

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Do women mind single dads with kids Posted: 11/1/2005 12:02:05 PM
the guy im with right now has a son. 8 year old lots of women love single dads it shows there more resposible well at least most of them

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How many of us Posted: 11/1/2005 11:59:04 AM
OverIt50, cant beleive he thinks he is too cool.lol i see 16 and 17 year olds still trick or treating wish i was a kid agian it was fun dressing up but i pass that on to my kids now.

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why do people cheat? Posted: 11/1/2005 8:47:38 AM
psychman, i dont think he isnt into me cause he is all over me all the time. at the time he cheated we lived over an hour apart. now we are living togeather and it seems he always 'parden the expression'"up my but" but he is very affectionate to me. some times i wander if he was just useing the girl he cheated with cause she give him money and stuff and she claimed she was getting a check for 10,000 dollors which he told me bout that she was gonna give to him to help him out with some legal stuff but he really was gonna use the money to get him and i our own place. she never got that check though but now that im staying with him and even a week before i moved with him he droped her like old trash and has not had nothing to do with her since.

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disipline Posted: 11/1/2005 8:28:44 AM
just wanted to thank everyone for the advise

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Being friends with your ex.... Posted: 11/1/2005 8:06:50 AM
im good friends with my boyfriends ex. i always take there son to see her and she treats my kids great.

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disipline Posted: 10/31/2005 10:17:28 AM
its hard to find anyone to watch the kids. well my oldest daughter that is. no one wants to baby sit her cause the way she acts but my mom and my mom always works so its really hard to get a break.

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what can i do bout absent parents Posted: 10/31/2005 10:15:18 AM
maybe its a good thing that he is not around then i dont want my daughter to get disapointed.

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what can i do bout absent parents Posted: 10/31/2005 10:06:57 AM
im sorry to her how bad your doughter is taking the absent parent issue. luckly my ex broke it off when he found out i was pregnant with her so she dont really know he even exsist.

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disipline Posted: 10/31/2005 10:03:04 AM
thats true there. the sleep thing more then every i just gave birth to a baby boy 3 weeks ago and my 11 month old still dont sleep threw the night.lol

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disipline Posted: 10/31/2005 9:52:31 AM
i seen a show called nanny 911 i thought bout calling it.

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what can i do bout absent parents Posted: 10/31/2005 9:50:39 AM
the farther of my first child refuses to acnowledge her. the state makes him pay child support "58.88 a week" other wise he whould not pay nothing. but he will not visit call write or nothing. his daughter has never met him she only seen a stranger at court for child support cause i whould take her with me to the court dates so he could see her but he dont even look at her. it whould be nice if he whould have something to do with her ionce in a while like at least once a month.

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disipline Posted: 10/31/2005 9:45:48 AM
thats a good idea with the timer. i think part of the reason my daughter is so bad is also my mom cause when we are there everytime i go to punish her she runs to "nana" and nana comes to her reasue saying she is only 5 she dont know better. it drives me nuts.

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Being friends with your ex.... Posted: 10/31/2005 9:39:28 AM
im good friends with my ex's fam and with him still. the only bad thing is they want him and i back togeather im not for that but other then that we get along great and as for my ex we are better togeather just as friends.

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How does child support work if? Posted: 10/31/2005 9:35:44 AM
i do not get junk for child support. i get 58.88 a week. thats just cause i just got a 10 dollor increase. i whould not mind if he take his daughter once in a while to give me a break but he refuses to have anything to do with her and to this day whould not give anything at all if the state did not garnish his wadges. oh and the fact he dont report all his income dont help. he gets income under the table. it ticks me off he gets off so cheap!

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disipline Posted: 10/31/2005 9:27:38 AM
my daughter is 5years and she will ignore me when i tell her to not do something or to do something she also has a bad habbit of leing and stealing from other kids. i found he hiding stuff and when i ask her where she got it from she will lie. she runs around the store and when i try to put her in the cart she makes a seen. yep she is that screaming kid everyone turns to look at. i went to mc.donalds once and cause i said she could not have ice cream for lunch she screamed in the drive threw mic thAT i dont feed her and let her starve . what do you suggest?

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Breastfeeding in public...approve or disapprove? Posted: 10/31/2005 8:59:04 AM
your baby has too eat they have to eat i know mine is a lil piggy.

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disipline Posted: 10/31/2005 8:37:34 AM
i have a difficult daughter and am looking for effective disipline. how do you disipline your children and what age are they? what are the results?

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Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 10/26/2005 5:23:55 PM
as the saying goes everyone looks good to someone but no one looks good to everyone

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why do people cheat? Posted: 10/26/2005 10:00:16 AM
yea it happened to me with the guy im seeing now. he cheated with this other girl for a month and i just hung in there till one day he decided he was wrong i guess and totally doged that girl even had his number changed so she could not call him no more. now where doing good.

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If he doesnt want me why is he upset about me being on POF? Posted: 10/26/2005 9:47:38 AM
he is a control freak he wants you and anyother girl but he does not want you to meet anyone else cause he will loose control over you. its the have a cake and eat it to thing. he uses those head games to keep you distant enough so he can screw around but also keeps you close enough so he can still use you too. its all a control thing.

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why do people cheat? Posted: 10/26/2005 9:38:47 AM
just wandering what whould cause someone to cheat one someone? this has puzzled people if you want to be with some one then why cheat.

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Why did you name your children what you did? Posted: 10/26/2005 9:24:44 AM
i named my daughter isis for that same reason.

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