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Joined: 7/8/2008

Msg: 15 (view)

Coworkers, Friendships,and the Relationships Posted: 11/9/2008 7:16:21 PM
You know what its always bad very bad to get involved with a coworker ...I did it one time and it didnt work out and it was all bad at work...Hey you dont buy your meat and bread at the same place lol

Joined: 7/8/2008

Msg: 271 (view)

Do you wish the worst for your ex? Posted: 11/9/2008 7:14:39 PM
I wish her the best, and hope she finds happiness, but I dont let her know that I still tell her **** you when she is blowing up my phone trying to make up and get back together lol

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Msg: 64 (view)

Over Protective Bf's Posted: 11/9/2008 7:12:51 PM
Why deal with a man that has insecurity issues?? Seriously I know a ton of guys like that, and they never want to listen...The fastest way to push a woman away is one to show signs of insecurity and two display jealous behavior...Then again there is a catch 22 there, we all know that you women like it when we get jealous, it shows you that we care...So a little" Just a we bit" is fine, but a guy that all he does is fights with you because you talk to other guys is always going to fight with you...Get my drift babe...You know what you need to do...

Joined: 7/8/2008

Msg: 1252 (view)

Can men and women be friends without sex? Posted: 11/9/2008 7:06:38 PM
Hell ya there can be just a friendship...I have a ton of female friends and thats that we just chill, shoot some pool, play some poker...Good times...

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Msg: 173 (view)

What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away? Posted: 11/9/2008 7:05:05 PM
Confidence is such a turn on, but if some nasty chic is trying to put her tnogue in my mouth no thanks...Better be sexy

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Msg: 62 (view)

I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN Posted: 9/2/2008 10:56:16 PM
I think the only person here who truely understands where I am coming from is post #63...I didnt choose this...Friends fall in love all the time...Mine just happened to be a lesbian...I dont know whats on her mind, I've started to push her away and she is tripping out about it right now...I need to do something to get her to come clean...I refuse to be with a woman that plays games...At the same time I would hate to live in regret...

Joined: 7/8/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN Posted: 9/2/2008 10:46:30 PM
I am far from a sucker....I'm the exact opposite...I don't let myself get close to women who play games....I have called her on it...I feel for this woman, but she has about 5 minutes left of my time...I refuse to get involved with a woman that plays games...I'm giving her time to see what she wants...I see the way she looks at me and eyes dont lie...She feels something for me I am sure of this...When we were in the stairwell i could feel her heart racing and she was trembling....I wont take the mixed signals too much longer....I'll push her away and see how she reacts to that....If this one fails me then I'll keep looking there are plenty of women out there....It's just I don't find a woman I really like too often...Thats why I'm being patient...As far as being a sucker, I have never let a woman play me and never will...You might want to find a different selection of words nordic....You know nothing of me so you have no right to even place me in a catagory like that....If you want to see a sucker view your ex husband

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Msg: 57 (view)

I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN Posted: 9/2/2008 9:51:57 PM
See this is a very touchy subject...I'm getting so many thoughts and you all argue amongst eachother...I don't think no one really has an answer to this situation...I'm totally lost and have no clue what to do....Ya she is giving me mixed signals right now...We work together and today she got jealous when I was talking with one of my female friends...She is acting like a straight woman...If she was truely gay and was in it just for the sex, I don't think she would get jealous like that...I called her on it and told her that we are not in a relationship and that I knew there was no future there, besides your gay so why should you care...She followed me out on break and attacked me in the stairwell lol....She is out with one of her gf's tonight and she keeps texting me...Telling me that I can have her, and I asked her to further explain in what way...And she said translate that however you want babe....So you all this is a very strange difficult situation...I like the girl very much, we hang out all the time have a good time together...I may have to back out of this...Not sure what to do...

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Msg: 39 (view)

I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN Posted: 8/31/2008 2:41:27 PM
Right on Nordic I cant tell you how much I like a woman with attitude...It would be even sexier if the attitude was legite and not from hormonal fluxuations due to metapause...Sometimes you can't help who you fall for...Yes the situation is messed up...I'm trying to figure out what will be best for me...You all over look the fact she has been with men before...If she is bi thats fine that can be dealt with...If all she wants is to reap the benefits it would suck but at least im getting some from a sexy ass woman...I see 3 somes in the near future.. I may have to put my emotions in check and on the back burner and just have some fun and see if it goes any further....Thank you all for your info and your 2 cents and nordic you may wanna stop mixing medications lol I'm only playing with ya nordic, your not the only one that can have an attitude babe...

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Msg: 33 (view)

I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN Posted: 8/30/2008 3:17:07 PM
Well thank you all for your advice...Bashing or not I still appreciate it....So here is the deal...I had her over last night....We just chilled and watched a movie...She asked me "So when you gonna kiss me?" I was like uh uh....Totally did not expect that...I didnt make the move right then and there...Instead I cuttled up with her, gave her a back massage....Ran my hands over her neck, down to her breasts and gave her a good tease until she could not take it anymore...Made my move....It got very hot to say the least...I'm not sure if she just decided she liked me, or was just horny....I don't know whats on her mind...I really like her and don't want to bring it up and risk scaring her off...Any advice on that??

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I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN Posted: 8/28/2008 11:58:48 PM
I really neeed some advice from you ladies...I am in love with a good friend of mine who is a lesbian...She has been with guys before, but does not like them...We are really close and share so much in common....I have strong feelings for her...she knows i like her and yet still hangs with me...How can I get her to give me a chance??

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How do i get over being shy?? Posted: 8/22/2008 10:20:39 PM
Akiros I understand what you are going through and how you feel I use to be very shy myself, back in the day....You have to first understand that most women will not approach a man...You and only you have to initiate the interaction...He who hesitates masturbates It's not easy, first you have to get over your fear of rejection...Thats where that shyness comes from, it's a natural self defense mechanism...Like I said it's not easy but some how you need to get it in your head that you don't care if a woman rejects you...My fear is big groups of women, because not only are you under the scrutiny of one, but many...Just remember women want to be approached, they want us to talk to them...If you want to get over that shyness and boost your confidence email me...I have a good read for you that I know will help you...I just don't want to put it out there for everyone to see...

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Msg: 86 (view)

Slim men, heavy women Posted: 8/20/2008 1:21:44 AM
I'm a slim guy as well...I prefer a bigger woman...See to me sleeping with a skinny woman and that whole hip bone on hip bone feels like ****ing a bag of antlers lol So not cool

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Msg: 24 (view)

Colorado Springs Posted: 8/20/2008 1:13:36 AM
Just one question, where are all the good women in the Springs?? Do not tell me at the Victory World outreach either...I've been on this site for about a month and Have talked to just about every woman local not one was my type...I'm a musician new to the area and damn need some women and some friends...Send me an email if your interested in chilling...

Joined: 7/8/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

do men find the nipple piercing attractive? Posted: 8/19/2008 11:59:21 PM
Thats kind of a hard question to ask because it depends on what type of guy your looking for...Myself ya I love nipple piercings, and other piercings...Tattoos are a plus...Then again I'm a guitarist and a bad boy I'm into wicked ass shit like that...It depends on what you are looking for...You may attract the wrong type of guy with piercings and tattoos...If you like bad boys then pierce away....

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Msg: 22 (view)

need a womans advice.. Posted: 8/19/2008 1:25:58 AM
Ya know Cause2B thats a good one...Nicely played sir lol...Not sure if that will work though...Might as well of walked up to her and said "I would so love it if you sat on my face" lol...The object here is not to get slapped...Now if she shot me down then I might say something like" So a blow job out in the parking lot is out of the question lol..."" Just kidding but god is that funny....

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Msg: 45 (view)

Funny pick up lines Posted: 8/19/2008 12:01:38 AM
CAN I OFFER YOU SOME CHIPS AND DICK

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Msg: 24 (view)

Ladies i need a prespective here? Posted: 8/18/2008 11:57:03 PM
Email her and ask her if she is alright...Ask her if she is mixing medication, cause you dont do that whole bi-polar thing..Tell her that her sister is much better, and you can't wait to play in her fun slot...Offer her a good doctor that induces hypnosis that might rid her of her bi- polar disorder...Then walk away smiling...See now there's a good gentleman...

Joined: 7/8/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

need a womans advice.. Posted: 8/18/2008 10:56:12 PM
Now ladies don't get upset...Some of you are brutal when you are all together...I've seen so many guys crash and burn approaching a group of women...It's hard enough being under the scrutiny of one woman let alone a group..I have never had a problem approaching women in any way, shape, or form...For some reason I cannot approach a big group of you beautiful ladies...I missed a very big opportunity, and this has all been on my mind for days...I posted this forum only to ask for some advice...If I offended any of you with the whole vicous wolf pack commit I appologize...

Joined: 7/8/2008

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need a womans advice.. Posted: 8/18/2008 10:40:51 AM
Well thank you ladies for your advice...You all had some good points....Ya I won't ever miss another opportunity like that again...

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Msg: 2043 (view)

do men actually exist that date women with kids?? Posted: 8/17/2008 11:39:23 PM
We are out there...I don't have any kids of my own, but am attracted to to older women...The fact that she has kids tells me she is more than likely not going to play head games with me, and she is looking for what I"m looking for...We exist Momma just have to look in the right spots...

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Msg: 40 (view)

Funny pick up lines Posted: 8/17/2008 11:28:31 PM
Do you have a mirror in your pants cause I can see myself in them... if you want an interesting reaction walk up to a woman and tell her...""I would so love it if you sat on my face..."""

Joined: 7/8/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

Is this weird-Am I too caught up in looks? Posted: 8/17/2008 10:11:36 PM
I was just browsing the forums and saw yours and have some advice for ya...you need to get off that whole vanity thing man...Ya looks spark the first attraction, but if your vein and have to keep asking women for re-assurance of your looks it shows insecurity...You cant rely on just your looks bro..looks don't carry an intelligent conversation...Looks don't make a woman laugh...looks don't build a relationship...For the longest time I could never figure out why I see so many beautiful women with not so good looking guys...I didnt figure it out until I joined the modern man club...Women are attracted to your social status more than anything...You want a beautiful woman surround yourself with beautiful people...Get off that vanity crap cause in the long run it does not matter how good you look...

Joined: 7/8/2008

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HEll of a joke Posted: 8/17/2008 8:51:32 PM
Whats 6 inches long has a head is in a mans pants and women love to blow it????? Money

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Msg: 46 (view)

short guy in a wheelchair Posted: 8/17/2008 8:32:08 PM
Listen guy the truth is if it bothers you that bad, women will pick up on that...It's kind of like how a dog can smell fear...Women can sense lack of confidence and insecurity...Regardless of your condition you need to set it in your mind that you are just as good as the next guy...No need to compensate anything...Be you... If you find confidence, women will be more comfortable around you...Trust me on this...

Joined: 7/8/2008

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need a womans advice.. Posted: 8/17/2008 8:14:22 PM
Alright so Me Mr. Confidence was shaken...Ya ya laugh it up...So I"ll swallow my pride and just ask you ladies...I was at Deny's the other day with one of my friends daughter...There were 4 very beautiful women at the table next to me...I got caught checking them out lol...Was so busted...They all turned and just smiled...One kept looking at me and smiling...Was an obvious green light...I could not bring myself to approach that table...It's hard enough approaching one beautiful woman let alone 4 beautiful women...How does a guy approach a vicous wolf pack like that?? I will forever kick myself because I am very confident and was shaken not stirred...

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