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Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Man asks woman to go to his home after dinner on first date Posted: 11/23/2009 8:50:31 PM
First date and after the dinner he wants to get laid ? Hmm, he wants to get the worth of his money.. That is the reason I pay for my own meals and drinks.........

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 8:41:28 PM
no....blessings Her Holiness Saint Vannili blesses the 1million dollars but not the sex...Sex is fornacating and sinful ........

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Are there some men who really DON'T like women but need their sexual needs met? Posted: 11/23/2009 2:51:18 PM
Msg1. It really has nothing to do that men don't like women, it has something to do some women disrespect men.... and vice versa....

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 2:05:21 PM
wishes granted: What happened to your POST??????? Vannili

Vannili

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Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 1:50:07 PM
FK my SO....(excuze moi french) ....I am nekkid already....comeOOoon..lets go. MonkeyFunker, turn on this side ah huh, and that side ah huh ,turn front and back..... ah huh,,,, well your worth is $7.99 an hour, one deal only,,,, take it or leave it..........

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Would you cheat on SO for alot of money? Posted: 11/23/2009 12:40:55 PM
Msg1.. Your SO would cheat you to have sex for a million Dollars ??? Even on a joke no one would pay a million dollars not even those kings in Saudi Arabia would pay a beautiful hookers for that amount.... So what is the business of your SO dealing with rich clientiles? why are you on POF dating site if you have a high brow SO ???????????

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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No sparks should I try again? Posted: 11/23/2009 8:30:07 AM
msg1. You are an introvert person, but you can over come that,by being an out going person,practice,practice,practice... See here ,it doesn't mean if you dine/ go out with a guy that both of you are already on the level of relationship.... That takes a while,but have fun and enjoy by being a good conversationalist.

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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What lessons have you learned from online dating? Posted: 11/23/2009 8:12:55 AM
msg.1 I learned to read people with out being a psychic, and I learned to be cautious/evasive and 110% kind ,respectful and compassionate.... Idon't anticipate that every guy I met is the ONE...........

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Playing the Posted: 11/22/2009 6:59:24 AM
msg.1 That's funny!!!! I thought I am smart of one line " going back to my ex".

Vannili

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Anyone Ever Been To One of Those BBW Parties? Posted: 11/21/2009 4:08:17 PM
I think I want to throw a party for all brown eyed,black hair people. make sure that you have champagne,wine,food and SOME GORGEOUS HUNK STRIPPERS.....

Vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Would a person who suffered a brain injury be a turn off for you? Posted: 11/21/2009 3:52:52 PM
No I will not date a man with a brain injury,but I can be a care giver to him as a job.. Mr. Travis may I turn the table on you , would you date a woman with brain injury and feel romantic/sexualy attractive to her???? I don't know about you, but my feelings toward that person is compassion and pity, but I will not be turn on the level of romantically involve with that person.

vannili

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Wants to know about past realationship Posted: 11/20/2009 11:43:44 AM
Thats a very cleaver way to say you don't want anyone knowing you that well. You will know a person the way, he represent his self,his integrity,dignity, his family his education and how s/he treated you and that speak volumes.... What is important is the present and not the past ,the past is a history...( I am NOT on the lowest bracket of status, so I am worried about people on criminal background.) It is common that people bad mouth their ex boyfriends/spouses to their new prospects, and I am not one of those.

vannili

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What is the best way to handle it if a date passes gas? Posted: 11/20/2009 7:36:17 AM
msg1 I would pretend that I did not notice it. Why would I embarrassed him and make him uncomfortable ???? Beside, it is not funny to pass a loud gas ...

vannili

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Wants to know about past realationship Posted: 11/20/2009 7:00:26 AM
Msg.1, People should not be nosey about other people's past, in details.. That guy you are seeing has a past too... As a woman I have some way of finding a man's character that was molded of his "background"(past) If some men are really curious , I tell them """"I burned the bridges that I crossed."""" Because I respect the men that I connected in my past,what ever happened between us that is just between us..

vannili

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Regretfully didn't give him my number!!!! Now what?? Posted: 11/19/2009 7:53:28 AM
.... I know where he lives, and Ihave been there before. Should I stop by ?What do I say?....... I WOULD , and tell him to let me in please ,to look for my Victoria's Secret favorite thongs fashion in a tiny American flag that I left the last time we were on his couch...

vannili

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Are tall men more likely to cheat? Posted: 11/18/2009 7:14:29 AM
as far as I know it's the tall women who cheat the most, right after the short and mid -sized ones. ........................................................ The Devil twisted my tongue, sorry mr.evil .

vannili

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Would you message someone if you knew they weren't going to respond? Posted: 11/18/2009 6:54:40 AM
How would I know that if I message them they are not going to respond ?? Even a psychic with crystal bowl,tarot cards or what ever cards can not predict those things, they may reply or not reply. It is taking chances for we don't know the unknown..

vannili

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just to gather opinions,would you date a guy who said this? Posted: 11/18/2009 6:43:47 AM
Also so as not to condemn him , his honesty means maybe you'd get a great friend out of the deal. A person who admit his weak character, verbally is not really a great friend. If I admit to you that I am a kleptomaniac and a liar would think that I can be a great friend because of my honesty???

vannili

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Mooching off Posted: 11/18/2009 6:27:14 AM
Msg.1 Those moocher are really scary,, this guy got my phone# we just talk only for lest than an hr. he wants to relocate and move in with me, his litany was he wants an honest woman,like a broken record. And another POF male friends* first dating* woman wants to move in with him the next day with her daughter.. This other one women moves in with him and after that they don't want to work, they wake up late don't clean his house,ect... According to him You should separate your dating/love life and your private space, until you know the person very well and she is the one you want to have comitment and that takes time...

vannili

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just to gather opinions,would you date a guy who said this? Posted: 11/17/2009 8:12:50 PM
Msg.1 : No I will not date him, Iam only wasting time with him,obviously he is only enterested with sex and not me.... I am enterested with commitment..

vannili

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Are tall men more likely to cheat? Posted: 11/17/2009 6:23:15 PM
What a retarted thread this one is. No dear,you are just having a bad dream..........

vannili

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Are tall men more likely to cheat? Posted: 11/17/2009 3:13:25 PM
Msg.1, Yes a tall men have so many reason why they cheat,one is he is not getting enough loving, I mean SEX, or he loves variety of meat.... And a short guy would do that too. Obviously it has something with their penis or their mind ????? Not the height of a man.............. I am not really sure

vannili

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A question for you all... Posted: 11/17/2009 11:37:07 AM
I am not impressed if a man will tell me that he is an Alpha or Beta Male, or his birth sign is Cancer etc.. He has to meet me half way, because I am not bending to suffice him for commitment..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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A question about dominant men. Can they also be gentlemen? Posted: 11/17/2009 9:30:14 AM
The way I understand a gentleman is an educated / street smart/cultured man. They could be aggressive in sex, gentle in lovemaking, I think they have different mood on different women. For they know that sexual intercourse,/expressing love to woman is govern by the mind and emotion..... Dominant is authoritarian, ruling and controling , use force .........I don't think I want to be controled in the bedroom, I can be a Denver Bronco and he can be a Laker,then when we come out to dine in the dining room , Iam a lady and he is a gentleman...

vannili

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What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/16/2009 10:00:05 AM
Sometimes those things just need to breathe a little you know? I am dreaming >> a nightmare......

vannili

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What are your favourite sayings? Posted: 11/16/2009 4:49:23 AM
Why buy a cow when you can get a free milk? That might be true ,but all cows are not happy and are not all from California.. I am over here ,You damned fisherman !!

vannili

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What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/16/2009 4:16:52 AM
All I said was that she had someprovocative photos( which she has removed). I'm not saying its right to assume provocative photos= show penis. But that's usually what happens,guys think provocative photos=easy.If you don't want that,try to avoid provocative photos. What part of Asia are you from? Saudi Arabia ??? Women has to wear burqas because men in that country are oversex and barbarian the rape, grope. and stare women crotch in public ,... The guy is pervert it has nothing to do with her photos.. Some POF women wears bikini and even black panties and bra in their profiles,lying in bed that is more suggestive, so very bad playboy mags.posed. === so desperate sheesh! she was wearing a mini dress, she was not nude for pete sakes!!!!!!!!!! An educated gentleman will not exposed himself ,only a pervert will do that..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Who are Asians?. Posted: 11/15/2009 8:32:13 PM
well when ever I fill up a form it has 3 boxes of nationality!,1)Caucasian,2)Latinos,3) Asian. I selected Asian because of my eyes,but I am really an Earthling..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/15/2009 7:01:29 PM
1) check your profiles photos.. 2) same thing could be said of woman gold digging.. There is nothing wrong with her Photos , She's a naturelle beauty ,that she's got beautiful shape of leg and beautiful skin/face... And she has a very nice write up of herself.... What makes her sexy is her attitude and intelligent.. I wish I were her.... I would say ,RegnisThe Great, Please Don't Hate Me Because I Am BEAUTIFUL!!!!! Ahh,I did not know that you show a little skin and some bitter people will think that you are a goldigger hahahaha what a fuzzy mind.. ps there are some forumites in their bikinis and there was no bad comment of them......

vannili

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What are guys thinking? Posted: 11/15/2009 6:44:55 PM
No it never happened to me, I am selective ,I dated gentlemen, first date Igave them a quick hug and thank them for the lovely dinner..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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New Fish, Please Read Posted: 11/15/2009 1:20:45 PM
Step 3 Sit by the computer with a box of comdom or a wedding dress ,whichever you prefer, wait for messages. Now I know why I ain't getting emails from guys,,,,, my face was lathered on green face creams ,wearing my holy knickers and holier T shirt...

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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bad first date Posted: 11/15/2009 12:35:24 PM
msg1. Don't feel bad about those dates, you can not filter people 's intentions, but expect the unexpected.. I even have a date that scared me of my life, it is the experience that makes us a better and wiser person, until we meet our match.. Good luck. Vannili

vannili

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In case your a serial killer in a profile Posted: 11/15/2009 12:04:52 PM
Wazhiz~~~~~~~~~~~ In one of the profle it stated >> you must not contact this person if you are golddigger,cheater, liar of your age and serial killer... I am all of those, a cereal killa" (I don't know how to spell) now the guy wanna marry me... Highfive wazhiz !!!! My fish is always jumping from her fish bowl,hmm, she is also looking for a match..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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In case your a serial killer in a profile Posted: 11/15/2009 8:19:24 AM
msg1, I don't know why you come up wth this thread, it is so sickening even for a jest, we all know that there are 2 sides coin of life the "good and the bad". Let's concentrate of the good side because that is what we interact with each other..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Must have car and job=gold digger? Posted: 11/15/2009 7:18:45 AM
I don't know why men here, inPOF thinks that they are mines,that women are in heat to dig gold from them, when they are also like the rest of us trying to meet ends met. Of course ,there are women who think that the can dig gold on the ruble of stones and dirt. I don't think they can even find a fake gold on those.... so to speak If I have a house and a car, it is because I slaved myself working to own it.. And I will not be attracted to a man WITH OUT a car and a job... So is he , he won't be attracted to me, if I don't have a job and a car..........

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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MATCH.com V p.o.f Posted: 11/14/2009 6:23:53 PM
I have had no experience with Match. But I can say that Yahoo is pretty much a waste of money. The women rarely respond to intial contacts. I have found much more success with POF...plus the forum is a blast! And the fact that it's free is a great plus! I was at yahoo free for 3 months, if I have some contacts I can't respond to the guy unless I pay subscription,then I paid 80 if I am correct for 3 months ,most guy I encountered are professional con artist, I even recieved a letter from Negeria Africa that they want to buy some land here in the US but they want to know my ss,every thing about me ,I got scared that I cancelled my account. American single is worst, and it is expensive ,they are always sending me an email of guys who wants to contact me that are no longer with the site.lol. I am happy on this site POF for the forum. I've met some decent guys here , but still I have not click with any one yet....

vannili

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Living expenses and pride.. Posted: 11/14/2009 8:12:24 AM
Good grief Kitten Cat-have you nothing better to do than read forums all evening??? Me thinks, When Kittencat ~~~ is reading the forum,she is on her break time of her hectic Datings... Highfive Kitty Cat !!!!!!!!!!!

vannili

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Dealing with the crazies Posted: 11/14/2009 2:57:17 AM
* I met this person a year ago? She was a nice person, but we have different values system and enterest. and I did not feel any attraction to her .* We hadn't met in person but her" intuition" said we are meant to together,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, Que Caramba!!! Before Iread your problem I was sanely doing all right, now I am very disturbed after I reading your problem, I know and prided myself that I am better than Dear Abby and Dr.Laura when it comes to advicing people... I think I need a budwieser You look like that guy who writes the jokes of Jay Leno , are you HIM ???????

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Astounded by the amt of perverts on here... Posted: 11/13/2009 1:02:53 PM
Whose who emails me are nice people young and older gentlemen, The only regrets I have ,some are from other states and UK..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Successful Coffee Dates? Posted: 11/13/2009 12:27:50 PM
I have a nice coffee date yesterday, with a handsome POF guy, I brought 2 styrofoam cups and he brought 1 tiny bag of coffee , he heat the water he got from the grass water springkler on his car generator while his car engine is running... I thought it is not fair that he dunked the coffee bag in his cup3 minutes and he dunked in mine 1 second only... I think he is cheap..

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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To the guy doing my wife.. Posted: 11/13/2009 12:02:15 PM
Msg.1 that is a brilliant !!! very funny!!!

vannili

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Email for a retiree. Posted: 11/13/2009 9:19:16 AM
Msg.1 : How could you hurt our feelings disregarding us? We are millions celibate here on earth. My name is Vannili, and my other name is Sunshine. Like the song I am your sunshine your only sunshine I make you happy when skies are grey , you never knew dear how much I love you, so please don't take your sunshine away...

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Do you ever think about how much time you have left? Posted: 11/12/2009 8:53:02 PM
msg.90: Ohh how romantic, I hope your SO will arrive soon , to enjoy and savor your loving nature... Vannili

vannili

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independent women fall the hardest Posted: 11/12/2009 8:40:58 PM
chameleonf: thank you very much of your input... I enjoyed reading it..

vannili

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IS IT TRUE THAT A WOMAN SHOULDN’T PURSUE A MAN? Posted: 11/12/2009 8:30:56 PM
yew4ic: Yes I've read that book, but I don't remember the author's name. Perhaps it makes sense to them but not me... " He's Just Not That Into You". This old silly story makes more sense to me. A young new wife who is being abused by her husband went to a wise man, and in that village is a wild lion that nobody can get near him. The wise man advice the woman to get a 7 whisker from the lion and her problem will so solve... So every morning the woman showed herself unmoving to the lion in a very far place so the lion will get use to her and she moves closer and closer until the lion is comfortable with her and soon the lion put his head on her lap and enjoying her caress on his head and she was able to pull 7 whisker from him... The moral of the story >>> a man can be nervous and insecured of strangers too,,,, let that man get warm up to you and get to know you better, perhaps his type is brunett but once he was comfortable with you and he find out that you are good for him he don't care anymore the color of your hair blond or brunnett etc.... I don't believe that he is not that into you, because he doesn't know you yet....

vannili

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independent women fall the hardest Posted: 11/12/2009 7:42:14 PM
Independent women are like the rest of women in all walks of like, they take chances on men. Their independency is not inborn, they learned that being dependent to a man/or any one is not a freedom for their soul, they can not soar up high but they are like a slave ,clingy for being dependent to a man. So if an independent woman falls she knows how to break her fall, like a karate player by bracing her side arm/body so her head won't hit the ground... Independent woman fall in love the hardest ?? Independent woman is tenatious,goal getter, a fighter to get on the better side of life ,for she has no one to depend but her self...... Talking from experienced.

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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from one dater to another: 'show me your drivers license, please' Posted: 11/12/2009 1:41:18 PM
I had my drivers license tattoed on my azz. ' When we get that far in to the relationship,then your welcome to see it. I thought you said it was tattoed on your precious jewel ???????? It is a emperative for me to see the driver licence of man whom I am dating so I know what I am getting, whether it is tattoed on their jewel or Azz... ChancesRMD, what's you cell NUMBAH ?

vannili

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Living expenses and pride.. Posted: 11/12/2009 1:26:04 PM
msg.50 <div class="quote"> Hey I have some friends that would be willing to live for free and will do a nice job servicing you. let me know. Serenity Sam, if your friend is the one who author that topic ~~~~ Love Quality Of Life And who Pay~~~~~~ Hook me up to him ,but I ain't paying any monie , I'll barter and trade... Truly there is NO free ride and dinner in this world .... for both men and women.. It is money talks. But there is the story of the Bad Wolf And Little Miss Ridinghood..................,

vannili

Joined: 7/8/2008

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Living expenses and pride.. Posted: 11/12/2009 11:10:58 AM
msg.47: Why are you groaning and complaining here at the forum, degrading him about his cheapness ??? I wonder if he read what you said about him ????? Perhaps he will understand you, that you are that kind of a person who has nothing to do and your "fixed" is to shoot people with your malicious venom like what you doing to to forumologist..... IF you got nothing to do eat some good bologna and enjoy it. It save degrading your self by airing your dirty and stinky undies, Your thread is not even good topic for discussion and debate..... Vannili For all I know "forumologist "has a better taste in man than you... Thank you big Daddy Jinx...

vannili

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Living expenses and pride.. Posted: 11/12/2009 9:56:13 AM
Some women said they don't care about money,as long as he is a loving man,etc.etc... My observation to some close girlfriends and reading some threads here that money is no object when it comes to loving a man.. . I was even brandied as a GOLDIGGER here ,of my practicality in finances on all my feedback contributions ... As a woman, if I gave a $10.00 to a beggar on the street or feed a man with my gourmet cooking,gave him gifts, ( I never (lent)/ give money to a man unless he is a beggar or* a husband), even he is not THE ONE, I gave it from the kindness of my heart and I don't begrudge it . The OP's BF moved in with her with her invitation or permission, with the weak preposition of 100 a week, finances is not a business deal between them as lovers, not like landlady" versus tenant"" MONEY DOWN""........ The man was thinking ~~Aha!! I found a good woman who loves me and not my money,she'll support me with her 2 job as she supported her 2 kids, ,,,,now the OP is complaining because of the strained of her finances expenses, I don't blame her, it is not easy to support a lover financially .... Now , all the feedbacks coming from women to kick him to the curb ,because he is a &^%$##@ ,,,,,, ,I wonder if there is some truth in what man's think that women loves only a man because of his money and if he is down he is kick to the curb???? Don't get me wrong ,I am not championing any man, but I will not let a man move in with me and support him when he is down and begrudge it.. Come on you guys,let us give some respect to the guy ( he have a dignity too ,like us ) he did not force her with a g*n point to her head to moved in with her.

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