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 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 95 (view)
 
Talking about past relationships.
Posted: 4/30/2015 6:36:21 PM

I seriously can not judge his fast ( error corrected ) past , on a second thought , I judge him as a loose mouth,
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Talking about past relationships.
Posted: 4/27/2015 7:39:53 AM
Msg. #1:

My experienced is , a date talking about his failed relationship is boring me to death , of course the story is he was the hero and woman is the villain.. I seriously can not judge his character by talking his fast ,on a second thought , I judge him as a loose mouth.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Players
Posted: 3/13/2015 2:55:19 PM
msg.#28:

I agree with you a 100 %
a no response already lets you know they are not interested.
Unless the person is asking the background of your photo if it is in Florida ect..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
A nice little forum for discussing scientific and other intellectual issues
Posted: 2/14/2015 8:12:30 PM
Msg.1 :

I don't know if I am eligible to participate on Mensa discussions , I don't have a high IQ , I am street smart.
but it would be fun to know what they have in their mind about things.
Thanks for sharing , I will check it.

Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
When do we start to die?
Posted: 2/14/2015 7:59:25 PM
Msg. #1 :

We start to die even in young age if we don't use our mind to learn and experience negative and positive matters.
When we grow old like starting 55 ism our body is susceptible on desease and our mind is not as sharp as when we
are younger and our body decline on strength.


I am 38 and I would say my body has finally finished its growing and being full of energy, and from now on it's all downhill as I slowly die ?


For me My belief is as long as I am healthy and full of energy I am hoping to reach 104 years old. I may no longer a bikini hot babe, but I will be a full of wisdom old woman.

Have you read the book of Thich Nhat Hanb and the Holy Dalai Lama ? It inspired me to accept my age and feel young and enjoy life.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Women who usually wear heels and men who lie about their height
Posted: 2/14/2015 9:16:19 AM
Msg.#1.

Some women doesn't care about the height of a man, ( they cared their masculinity and great personality ,good financial status ) what they cared is they lies they are single and pretending they have a personal elevated life. But the truth is they are uneducated and poor.

I have seen tall women with short men with charismatic and great personality..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 85 (view)
 
How do you define compatability?
Posted: 2/14/2015 9:01:22 AM
For me ,compatible is wanting that person to bond with me harmoniously and we are on the same journey of life evoking each other to attach emotionally. It is not really necessary that we are clone to each other of like and dislike, .. These things doesn't really work to be compatible with each other , it is easier that the two person has the same aspiration and the same background.

What I observe on long marriages , myself , my parents, & relatives is a decision to want that person passionately, and embrace the reality that the other person is a human that err. Guide your partner to his/her best to treat as he /she wants to be treated.
Life is process of Give And Take , Honesty, Respect. My take is if you don't respect that person anymore let her/him go ,don't lower your standard to cheat or do things despicable.

Just my 2 cents
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 22 (view)
 
guy
Posted: 2/5/2015 4:25:21 PM

Tell him to you want to meet him. Put him in a position To ask you out. If he starts shying away, say" I'm in the mood for giving BJ's" I think he'll perk up right up, then . Even talk about where and when to meat ! : )


That surely got my attention on the words >>> "in the mood for giving BJ''s "
and where to meat.

Do you think you need an ice cold shower ?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 64 (view)
 
Curious: Why are you still here if you have a relationship
Posted: 2/2/2015 10:03:02 PM

The forum section is not a Dating Site. that's why :)


Now you are talking my talk, but you have to be a member of the Dating Site for a profile to be a member of the social forums.. If you score on the dating site a lot or zero, You are not obligated to answer some busybody questioning you, about your PERSONAL BUSINESS..


I know I am a boring person, I kept myself to myself, whether I don't have any ACTIONS ,or I am sleeping around and looking for a fling, or I have a relationship but I am still on the MARKET .........
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 80 (view)
 
No connection, no chemistry, no passion...but....they're nice?
Posted: 2/2/2015 3:05:23 AM
Msg. #1 :


No connection, no chemistry, no passion but they 're nice ?


There must be some good reason, that you can't connect with them perhaps personality CLASHES
"being nice/POLITE is CIVIL ". it is not really a big deal but being BABARIAN is a big deal..

For a normal person if he met some one that he has nothing in common he would not even befriend that person he would politely exit and bid the person a good day.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Curious: Why are you still here if you have a relationship
Posted: 2/2/2015 2:47:19 AM
Curiousity kills the Cat. that is an old saying,

Some people are still here for the POF forums, even they are already in relationship..
for most of them work on computer and they take a break on posting and answering post.
and for me this is like c ocktail party mingling with lots of people with out leaving your house.

VVVV it is a an education to learn people'spersonality through their mind and what they posted here
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Weight difference in pics?
Posted: 1/28/2015 8:21:22 PM
Please be kind don't rub salt on the person's wound it is hurting her/him enough , That she doesn't feel beautiful
because of his/her over weight.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 93 (view)
 
Weight difference in pics?
Posted: 1/28/2015 8:03:06 PM

I don't understand why American men are so absessed of women's weight and make a BIG ISSUE ABOUT IT
and not their personality? People gain ot lose weight ,it has something to do with metabolism and tyroidor whatever,
some gain weight because of water retention or when they age like 40 +the become inactive, they gained weight.

I have encountered men in this forums that Asian women don't gain weight and that is a silly notion.
The big argument is American men mostly have a shallow mind , the thrash stout/chubby women ,that they will go to the Philippiness/ Thailand/ China/ Korea . Japan/ TO MARRY A SKINNY WOMAN ,That is not smart reason. No wonder divorce rate is high in the USA, American men don't on look on how the women's feelings, is she in love with him and how she will treat him ? I have heard this on the media/ or any interview to an Asian Men,
A Question-- What Did You Like About This woman ?

#1 A poor man answer.>> She is vey Kind and Sweet To Me, and she's pretty isn't she ?
#2 A middle class man answer >>>She is kind and sweet to me. she is educated,she has a nice job and she come from a good family.
#3- A rich man, She is kind and sweet to me, she is smart with a good career, she was once a Beauty Pageant of Miss Universe and of course she come from a rich family too.
The moral of my post is a person is not his/her weight. Of course there are some obese people not just here in the USA,, that is why every body is trying to lose weight to have a healthy and Sexy body and a long life.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 81 (view)
 
Weight difference in pics?
Posted: 1/27/2015 9:17:18 PM
I don't understand why American men are so obsessed of women's weight and make a BIG ISSUE ABOUT IT. and not their personality ? People gain or lose weight it has something to do with metabolism and tyroid or whatever some gain weight because of water retention or when they age like 40 + the become inactive. they gain weight


How should I ask about the difference in weight without sounding mean or judgemental ?


It is really a tough job questioning a person why her 3 picture is slim and the 4th one is not, perhaps some good hearted forumites can come with a good question, so one will say that you are mean and judgmental that is really bad.

Meh, I don't care being mean and judgmental, what I am worried is being dumb and stupid to question her for her photos,
I am rocking my brain hard>>>>>>>>>>> that perhaps the 3 photos was taken before she gain weight on the 4th photo or vice versa. Or the 4 photos was not taken on the same time/month/year. I have a headache , blow up doll Dora is a better choice.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 80 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 6:01:19 PM

Then when we meet the woman 's 50-100 lbs over weight I walk right up and say " You know what my preference are and you lied to me, so I'm going to go".


A real personal trainer for fitness or fanatic on body building are very lean well muscled bicep and very trim waist not looking chunky and they show an aura of strength even on their lean faces, I guessed strenuous exercise and weight lifting is a pressure to endure . I was a dancer when I was young so body building is not my thing.
If I were you ,I will charm that over weight woman, for an" income" as her personal fitness trainer, and for sure I will not look down on FAT WOMEN but an opportunity to help them to have a lean,sexy, healthy strong ,energetic bodies , as a fitness trainer and that spell MORE INCOME. Hey maybe some romance too if the become chunky opps I meant muscled like you. just sayin,,,,,, no bad intention.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 78 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 8:00:55 AM
msg.#74

Just wondering why don't you hit those women working out at the Gym, so you know what you are getting ?
Insulting women of their weight is not a CLASS ACT. Every body lied and being Lied for the purpose of "getting away with it or in their mind ,they think, they are Sexy even they are 50-1oo lbs . overweight or they think the man they are meeting is more interested in their personality /IQ not their BODY WEIGHT.

I think you are lying if you admit that You Never Lied In Your Life.

You may think you are an Adonis, looking at your profile did not even turn me on.

Sexy ness is in the mind on how your project your self ,and the words that comes out from your mouth. just my 2 cents
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 76 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 6:42:18 AM

"You know what my preferences are and you lied to me. so I ,m going to go".


Sir ,I don't want to label you as a Mashogamist or what ever because you are a person not a pair of shoes.
My comment on your words is " it is cold as corpse". If I were in your body, I would say that too if I see them as a dead meat
not a warm human beings. Perhaps working in some Human Resourses , I can learn something to treat others like I want to be treated, with kindness and DIGNITY.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 75 (view)
 
Should you always go through with a meet and greet?
Posted: 1/27/2015 6:15:23 AM
Msg.#1:

Meeting wo/men through dating site, emailing , listening to his /her on the phone doesn't guaranty
that the person whom you form a great imagination through his/her pictures , words, voice, is the man you will be meeting. I come early on a meeting place ,mostly Casino bars,(cheap drinks) , and check the man's personality discreetly, for any reasons I don't want to meet him , I will ask a Co cktail waitress or a bartender to serve him 2 beers or whatever he wants, pay the cost of the drinks plus tips ,it is not from me but from my "boss ". And vanish as fast as I can, and call him that I can't make it with a silly drama alibi. Most men that are down on their luck spent time at public library with their portable computer using the outlet or using the library computer for 2 hours limit. I know this because I peaked on the screen ,OMG, Plenty of fish Dating Site. During summer I hang out at the library browsing and reading books, and to cool of, " can't afford air condition or swamp cooler in the house, even I save money on drinks I buy for these few guys that I stood up it is not enough... This is how I rock......
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 96 (view)
 
What if you found your soul mate was the same sex as you?
Posted: 1/27/2015 4:55:30 AM
MSG #1 :
According to Dr. Edgar Cayce ,there is no such thing as soul mate, and I believe his explanation. My belief is each of us already form in our consciousness the kind of person whom we want to spend our life one on one ,through our observation on people. I have so many friends, male and mostly female that we always bond, pot luck/party or going to some places, you may say we have great feelings to each other. what I observe is we are respectful ,giving and laugh a lot. But I don't call that we are soul mates.
I would like to share you my story, when I was young I was an expat , working and moonlighting to send money home for family, On my day off I clean houses, tourist guide and in the evening I dance in a club where those American service men from these huge ships hangouts. to make a story short, I was fighting with this girl {I can't remember the reason} verbal combatant , I geared myself like Manny Pacqiaow ready to give her a punch, This American guy sitting in a booth, said stop several times to me in a nice way, I guessed he was bothered drinking his beer by loud voices or my raining saliva is reaching him. He stand up and grab me and kiss me on the mouth for a long time, until I calm down. I was a topic of gossiped in the community > hah that is the girl kissed by AMERICANO. The truth is we don't hang out with American service men . we women think that only prostitutes hang out with them.... from that night I decided I will marry an American man by hook or by crook. Yes I married an American man 2 x divorce, it lasted 18 years until he passed away. I don't think he was my soul mate or maybe he was my soul mate who am I to argue with you.
We work it to have a good marriage that is all I can say. In this day , I still go for Americano for a partner.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 164 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/26/2015 8:33:22 AM

You just blew your own argument. You said women are either whores after a guys money or appreciate his character like. Now you are talking about "giving away free milk" which in 1920 meant a woman having sex without
the ringie the guy's money Tsk,tsk.


So this 2000 + you are implementing that women on the year of 1920 ish have sex with out the ring, what ever that means and it has something to do with "free milk" Vannili's quote. .now 2015 women having sex with out the benefits of marriage , they buy their own bling bling ring at Walmart. and the call their baby's father my boyfriend.


I've noticed your accent varies defending on the strength of your argument :D Just teasing.

One super stupid is enough , so I am not participating on this post because joining you makes me stupid , and there is no more room for another stupid

No comments and PEACE..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 163 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/26/2015 6:49:48 AM
demidar

I have faith that you are civilize and kind man, losing your cool is not worth it for these provocations ,I understand
that the topic of debate went out of control. I apologize on my comment , about changing team instead of women go for men..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 132 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/26/2015 6:26:43 AM
Clooneystutor

Your argument is so refreshing , I agree with you, but let's tackle the root of what makes a woman intitled to insult a man, disrespect him as a human being. These women are from divorce family, They see Father as money/goodtimes/ materials things. They did not bond with father as a family; loving, strict, and disiplinarian. When Mom and Dad meet they are verbally combatant, if Dad lose his job, and can't sent money for child support, then mom hurls all the kind of insult in the book to him or sue him.. These women model is their mom on how to treat a man. Really and trully it has nothing to do with the stars Mars/Venus. I met a lots of divorce women at place work, >> new man-- is so sweet good, bought me this n that, and bad mouth the previous guy. that becomes a pattern, I am happy for them because my life is easier at work for awhile, then back to square one again.

"Let's stay in touch and see if we have a chemistry"
I define Girly Girl that she doesn't do the game of REALITY, that mutual interaction with someone is an effort and energy to make a chemistry.
Let me give an example my late husband was 2x divorce, and he is treating like his former ex wives verbal combatant, we did not go to therapy counselor or whatever, I put him in his place, to treat me kindly... I believe that people change for better, for they have that goodness in there inner core.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 154 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/25/2015 6:57:03 PM

As for getting your milk for free ,aren't we a little past this type of thinking ? Sunshinegirl ,you got told


Are you kidding ??? getting a free milk 1900-------2015 fukking with no legal string attach, it is a rampant common practice that the victims are children , baby mamas are fighting for child support.. Baby papas are having a ball, they are like Rooster that they can mate any chicks and lay Eggs for omellete hehheheh

Can't blame people who wants to become a Lawyer for it is a secured career.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 201 (view)
 
Paying for a date
Posted: 1/25/2015 6:23:30 PM
south_ city we are on the same page. But this day and age dating is sexual, I was confirming my dinner date to a transvestite neighbor He/she told me not to say dates , that is fukking, OMG in front of friends! okay appointment then.
whenever someone ask me if I have a boyfriend my answer is always I have no boyfriend but I am dating,
A young girl told me that she understand what I mean ,going dinners,dancing movies, picnic ect. that is the OLD time Dating means sex ,imagine, I was so open to people that I am big time slut, LMAO .. Now I change my lingo I say MEET &" this guy I am talking with.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 128 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/25/2015 5:56:15 PM
Calguy14
I just a emailed a forumite who met her husband here on the POF
they are bf & gf for a while and finally married.
what I notice about her messages is she doesn't do personal insults to a man. or woman

I say please all the time ,do you think I am weak ?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 126 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/25/2015 4:15:02 PM
My post on #123 is sarcasm
please reread it again, there is no such dead brain man that is in a normal relationship, as you know .
I take that back , people with special needs goes with relationship with their own kind for I know
one nice a couple who work at a Thrift store that I use to volunteer.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 125 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/25/2015 3:54:00 PM
calguy14, Reread the message Number 1, my take on that is no women would treat a man like that , even a bipolar or whatever in public on what the OP posted , the give away is > is she that close to the man with his girlfriend or wife to hear them vividly at the theater , and restaurant this is a good one, they were issued 2 menu she snatch the menu from his hand ? . This is a made up story........... She is hurling a negative messages on
women at this dating forum. As a woman I read what she up too . I read 4 times her post to absorbed what she means and what is her point. I am not blaming any men or any women ,I am sticking to her message what she is implying.
In answer to your post.
Life is not fair, whether family, finances, partners ,through our journey in life we encounter these problems ,it make us strong and learned what is the best for us, experienced is a great teacher, this teacher or you may call God teaching us to use our mind to live in peace and a happy life. We can remove the blockage of negativity in our life if we want too.

Saying PLEASE is not a weakness, it means you have CLASS, Jesus said in the bible the humblest person among you people is the highest in person.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 123 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/25/2015 2:24:27 PM
^^^^
Yeah right if I am a busy body minding other couple's business instead of my own life, I will join deet 's club. that those men who end with unkind women are dead brain who injoyed being treated in an abuse relationship Duh...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 144 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/25/2015 2:01:28 PM
How can a woman check a man how much he can put on the table , if they are not on that BARA BOOM BARA BANG level ? Yes I said that a whore is after a man's money and a true grit woman is after the character of a man. well if a woman is looking for sex ,she doesn't need money and a good character of a man Being slut can get a lots of actions ,I hope she has a good job , OBGYN is pricey, for the treatment of HIV,sypilis, ect.ect.
Hey if you have guts to interrogate your dates financial status more power to you.
They have a fancy name now GOLDDIGERS,.,,,, Way back 1920ish "free milk from Daisy the laughing Cow.. sure means no legal responsibility, it works for both genders.

What I have posted is reality and the argument is close on you.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 198 (view)
 
Paying for a date
Posted: 1/25/2015 1:24:15 PM
Msg.# 1:


What is the general consensus about paying on dates ? Does it have to do with who made the date? Is it considered less chivalrous if the woman pays?
Ladies, are you offended when a guy asks you to go "Dutch" ? Guys, are you ever embarrassed if a woman pays for the whole date ?


I took up lessons of Etiquette, on dating when I was a teenager, in the Philippines if a man invited you he takes care for the tab, then the a girl invited him for dinner in her house with her family cooking his favorite dish ,giving him a gift of cakes to take home ect.ect.. When I become a widow and dates I offered to share, those men I dated, they tells me, that in this COUNTRY IF YOU ARE INVITED IT IS RUDE TO OFFER TO PAY! Those men never heard of POF forums. I never experienced a date tells me to go dutch, but I go dutch with myFe/ male friends. No I will not be offended if a man initiates the dates, and ask me to pay my own, I'll be happy to pay + tips for my own meal. I met a guy from POF, first date he used a coupon and I feel so embarrassed because I know the cashier. Casino jobs is you know almost every one. So I always pay by handing him the money descreetly, I don't think he is embarrass ,he even takes leftovers. what I learned is a poor man can not share his life with you for he have nothing to share , he disregard social ethics, what he have in mind is to survive ... 3 meals for a man is a cheap lessons ,no I am not a stupid fool, I am just kind to him to respect him as a human being even he is half a man..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 134 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/25/2015 11:04:23 AM
Msg.# 114

I love your dry sarcasm. Please let me invite you and buy you a drink, the limit is 4 bottles of Budwiesers you take care of the tips and your taxi fare on going home for drunkenness .... for I am on this men age group with not very much money to spare. Even I am a woman.

(With straight face )
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 124 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/25/2015 10:12:16 AM

disagree_ there's a 3rd type. Smart, acts like a lady and thinks like a man. Wants a good man who has something to the table -nothing whorish about that. Men have a criteria ,why shouldn't a woman.

Hey Blonde, do you already check the man's wallet first thing, if he can bring something on the table ????
Letting them have BARA BOOM BARA BANG, they don't even put a little thing on the table., they reason why pay a free milk, and what you let them have is a gift and you enjoyed it too. NOPE I don't think like a man , I think like a person with a lot of common sense. That's just me.
Blonde what ever your definition of a good man is up to you..
Note:
And I believed that both of us are not below in the lowest poverty level. that we go out with pennyless men. have you not think of that?
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 120 (view)
 
Why do so many men end up with unkind women
Posted: 1/25/2015 9:32:36 AM
Msg.# 1 :

Hey,hey, sister it is a tough competition among us women here . And Plenty of fish is not fibbing , that there's a million fish (men ) here. Plenty of fish Dating Site is not responsible if these fish ( men) wont bite your BAIT.

We wimmen are marketing our self here , may the best woman win...... Yout sales pitchs sucks , do you think by hurling some cow dungs on other women here makes you desirable ?
why do so many men end up with unkind women.


*You play dirty*, oh forgive me.My bad, let me be nice, you gave me the impression that you follow that man with a girlfriend or wife to the movie theater, restaurant , following closely and you listen to their conversation ?? Or making this up? A poor penny book writer won't even use your imaginative materials.. Or her books will end up in a dumpster.

OH MY GOD!!! You'll hit below the belt for DESPERATION.

Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 96 (view)
 
Are you attracted to 'Crazy'?
Posted: 1/25/2015 6:33:28 AM

^^^^ that's a bit rude.,,,,,,,


I respect your opinion ,about my strong words, but some see it in different view that my strong words are like a bitter medicine that will knock a person into a consciousness..


Please don't write them off so easily as defects.

Please don't tell me ,not to be my own person, I run my mind with out beating around the bushes and I target the issue bull'seye. Is that a crime ???


Maybe just not date worthy.


Now basilik123 ,your are definitely TALKING.

Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 115 (view)
 
Men in this age group and money
Posted: 1/25/2015 5:43:28 AM
Msg.#1:


OR women don't really get involved with him because he doesn't have much spare money.


There are two kinds of woman that lives in this world , one is a whore who see a man for his money and one is woman who see the goodness of the man to share her life and grow up with him.

I am not speaking for other women , Me I don't want anyone noseyying if I have spare money or not, as long as I am not
bothering any one for money or freebies. And I am not inquisitive about a man's financial status, if a man invited me to an expensive restaurant , and his fund is limited then he is a fool , that would apply to me too.
If a man can only afford to treat me at McDonald hamburger ,I'll appreciate it, for I don't gauge a man how thick is his wallet , I gauge him through his character..
I hope you are satisfied with my honest answer.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 94 (view)
 
Are you attracted to 'Crazy'?
Posted: 1/25/2015 4:59:15 AM
Msg: # 1:

Thanks for asking this question, as we all know there is no limitation on asking questions under the sun or under the moonlight .
No I am not attracted to Crazy Persons for we have nothing in common, they can't survive in the world and can't normally interact with others for they have defective mind.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 370 (view)
 
How to answer 'how many men have you slept with?' question?
Posted: 1/23/2015 10:21:25 AM
m_church

LOL, If I meet a man like you who thinks women are like vehicles and ask how many milage I run, in a flirty way batting my mascared eyelasses I will tell him the truth.
That I am an old vintage Dodge , I am well cared, chassis are checked, once a year my lover rides and parade me and park me at Victorian Avenue Sparks NV to be admired by on lookers That is on Hot August Night.

Yes, I am La Di Da I looked down on those retired Taxi Cabs in the Junk Yard.

Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 368 (view)
 
How to answer 'how many men have you slept with?' question?
Posted: 1/23/2015 6:35:17 AM
[quote ] How to answer " how many men have you slept with ? question ?

These words that comes out from the mouth of this guy sum up he is a big time uneducated . what he got in his mind is one track fukking ,fukking fukking. Sex is part of our adult life, but we don't talk about it ,we do it in private .
If it is me, I would say NONE .. if he won't stop ,I will tell him I will respect you if you watch
a porn secretly, instead of picking me, what my past is none of your business
I told that to co worker woman who wants to know about my sex life...
My advice take it or leave it, Never ,never divulge the number of men you have sex with in your past, your bank account ,social security... And don't be interested about your date sex escapades ect.ect.
Your private life is none of any one business ,present or past.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 193 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/23/2015 5:36:23 AM

@bluemoon
You 're allowed to be born again virgin at any time.


calguy 14 I heard that from another guy to be" born virgin again,"
Well, generally men are too cheap to buy me a cup of coffee at Starbuck
so buying a fake man made hymen is too pricey to be broken one time
so the best option I come up is to Cross My Legs , You bet I am not born again but I am a virgin Again.

Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 192 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/23/2015 5:17:05 AM

Some people can ride a motorbike, some people can sew a wedding dress, some people cant cook very well
and some wouldn't be able to change a flat tire. OK, there would be a fairly strong pattern of gender specificity about
it. but really its just a vapid "toilet seat or toilet up seat down" /" all men area stupid , all woman are impractical"type of nonsence discussions.


Right, what people strong and weak ability to do things is not a topic of intelligent discussion. but the subject is > Men who Never Learned to Cook, the issue is The OP is getting tired doing it by herself cooking for these men. I am one of the forumites that don't believe a normal person can not cook for that is necessity in life , he may not be a creative or international gourmet cook. but if you like I would say he surely knows how to prepare his food. I don't know the OP personally but reading her words, it dawned on me that she is set to do things her way in the kitchen that these men are uncomfortable or afraid to rile her ,a 62 yrs old asking her how to cut a limon ??? Give me a break..........
The name of the OP's game is MY WAY ( or you don't know how to cook) or THE HIGH WAY. these men are not psychic to know her mind, so hitting the High Way is a very good option. They sit comfortable watching football or reading and waiting > BABE, DINNER IS SERVED !!!!!!! Heheheheheheh
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 186 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/22/2015 5:07:33 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^ sunshine gal
I am awed I never heard a smart woman in my life ,, who isn't buying some BS sandwiches.

If he is an Arab, I believe that his wife won't let him use the washing machine because it is not
a Machine gun.
I met a JIM not your Jim Miss Hiker, Ohh, every one thinks I am a lucky girl he is tall dark and handsome
and drive a sexy red sport car he work in a Car Lot. First time he comes to my house,told me ,he is poor poor guy no body takes care of him,"please will you rob my back " , I said hey! get out I don.t
want you dying in my kitchen, my match maker ( girlfriend ) asked who is wrong you or Jim ? I said it is I, I don't like men.LOL.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 171 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/22/2015 1:36:01 PM
demitar Life is not just money and fukking, there are more to it than that. It sadden me to know that you pay for everything and got scammed.
My philosophy is what you sowed is what you reap.
How can you expect a woman comes to adore you if you are combatant and think of them in nasty view ?
I don't know you ,but I want you to have a happy life, (as a human being to another human being ) do you think it is wiser if you change your type ? Go for a man, it is not a crime to be a GAY. just my 2 cents.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 169 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/22/2015 12:58:41 PM
Message #156.


Unfortunately, men do not like to be around masculine woman, sorry, sad but true.


demidar You may want to change your strategy to these masculine women, be a social skill gentleman, with a bonus of romancing her if she is your type, instead of checking around her place what you can fix ,while ogling her ASS, A poor shot.
Note:
I am not making this up.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 167 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/22/2015 12:27:21 PM
You got a point dragonbits, there are matters that needs a professional jobs to be done. If I were a man I won't
underestimate the mentality of a woman, she knows what is professional job to be done in her car, house ect..


EXACTLY!!! These days, ANYBODY can be an expert!!!lol


Honestly, I won't buy that literally, like I am not buying that a man can't cook and cut a lemon. for that is a basic human needs, to eat..If I were that man I will ask the OP how she wants the limon cut slice thin or thick quartered or just halve ,ect.. I politically assume he learned something in his schooling. or a bartender put a cut limon in his drinks.

When my husband was alive ,he never dirty his hands ,he hired people to do things for his car/house/yard I thought that is a normal living,and I grew up in that kind of pattern. when he passed away , I don't even know how to put air/gauge in my tires, I pay $10.00 every time I need air in my tires, When I become poor I finally learned to asked a woman ,she looks like she think I am stupid, I don't blame her, but I got miffed when a mechanic yelled at me that I put too much air, I yelled back at him >how can you measure air ? He taught me to read the car book, and buy a tool gauge and how to use it. Excuse me ! I maybe a stupid woman ,but I am not his Stupid Wife.

The moral of my story is > never say Never Learned.
DON"T RELAY ON MEN TO PICK UP THE PIECES OF YOUR IGNORANCE AND WEAKNESS.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 147 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/22/2015 4:44:29 AM
I love you Dee4166 You are my HERO !!!
Depending on a man with our basic needs is not going to work.
Being a Lady with self respect and Dignity weight more than a wench,
who trade in tumble on the hay..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 145 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/22/2015 4:32:02 AM

Come on, Vannili, that's harsh. If you use that logic then,since you grew up with a bathroom,you should know how to repair a leaking sink and fix a toilet that doesn't flush.

I apologize for being harsh, The story of my life is >>>>> I grew up ingrained in me that women don't do a man's work. when I become a widow I have to work 2 jobs + sideline, employ a expensive handyman to do " a man's work around my house. Girlfriends advice me to get a boyfriend to do these things for free, it turns me off I can not stomach it.Some guys offer to do things for me , and I tell them no thank you I have a plumber or a handyman. They think I am a feminist * If only they focus on me we might up to second level. When the economy went down ,I can't afford a handyman, I learned that American women do masculine things. To make a story short I learned to paint, fixed door, hammer nails fixed fence, prevent leaking sink and toilet, sawed some tree branches , mixed cement to patch concrete in my yard, check my car ect.. I cried a lot before I learned those masculine jobs, I learned these things wearing a mini skirt. black pantyhose ,pumps shoes standing in whatever section number depending what my project is asking a customer advice. Men are helpful if their attention is peak. uh.
Now I only hire a man if the work need some strength for I am not physically strong.

This forumite said he cooks for a date to GET LAID that is a cheap shot. Opps sorry I am harsh.
If a person wants a good relationship he sell his self that he is a great person with intelligence.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 136 (view)
 
Men Who Never Learned to Cook
Posted: 1/21/2015 6:35:59 PM
I think a man is pulling my legs if he tells me he doesn't know how to cook, he grow up in a house with a kitchen, I bet he observed his mom cooking. If a person can read he knows how to cook.
Your husband and those guys you dated are sneaky, LOL ! How do you slice a lemon ?

I grew up with servants , but when I came to U S A, I cook or I go hungry.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 26 (view)
 
Is revenge sweet justice? Or is it petty?
Posted: 1/21/2015 6:12:15 PM
Drama Princess ? Stay away from those chicks it drag you down and it is a waste of time and energy to listen to them or read their text.


Don't worry princess just need a time out.


Yeah, right a long time out LOL
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 514 (view)
 
Women that wear too much makeup at our age....
Posted: 12/20/2014 11:07:04 PM
Msg.#1;

fishon!!!, I say you are more prettier than those women who spend money on makeups and consumed their time in the mirror if you mind your own business and get a life, perhaps focus on observing some nice scenery, flowers, paintings ,reading good books to enhance your out look in life.


<div class="quote"> I am a woman of 51 and I don't wear makeup makes me pretending to be someone,,,,,I look at women my age who scares the shit out of me, do we know how stupid we look ??
Women who use makeups/facelift/ect.. Thinks your opinion is a Big Jokes.
LIVE & LET LIVE !!
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
my guy still has his POF account
Posted: 12/15/2014 7:05:19 AM
Msg. #1:

You still have your account here too.
 
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