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 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 85 (view)
 
My Boyfriend's Dog
Posted: 5/22/2013 10:02:20 AM
Msg.1:

That is really annoying that his dog interrupt you for your intimate sessions, and on top of that he chewed your pants crotch and panties... I don't know what to tell you, a mere thought ,how about letting the dog stay out side in the yard, while you and your boyfriend are having sex?.





Perhaps, it is his great, great, great Grandmother reincarnated as a dog, and we know how grand mothers are they HATE SEX with capital letters..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Is 'Respect' an Overused Word..?
Posted: 5/22/2013 9:48:05 AM
Msg.1:

You got a point there, respect must be earned. If a person would put that in their profile ,"You respect me".

I would think twice and move to another profile.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 63 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/22/2013 2:31:13 AM
Talking about a guy buying a person to have sex isn't unfathomable question when said person is his ideal
fantasy of the youngest hottest thing he can get that will be his submissive subservient



Please forgive me that I lied about nobody buy an Oriental women as a submissive sex slave , if she has a bangs & young looking& slender,obviously she is an Oriental or Asian ..... You are right, but since economy is down, lots of men are jobless ,they can not afford a house mortgage ,what more of a brand new woman from another country.

So men are scrounging Garage and Yard sales because of inflation. Used is cheap and better than nothing, What is good about Dolly ,she doesn't whine, nag, and call a man a ba stard or jerk and she is cheaper, he doesn't need to buy her a plate of food and coffee, I heard on the grapevine that they are great under a man and enjoyable phucking them with a bouncing .............
Senior citizen men are selling them for$9.99 as is ,no return. The vagina is already broken and it need to be fix ,just put electrical tape and it is good as new...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 55 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/21/2013 10:28:54 AM
[ quote] Vannili , you obviously felt comfortable with what you did. I think a grown men and women can choose whatever they please. It's not anyone forced you to. How ever if people are choosing to get married because they
were in tight spot. I can 't help myself feel like someone is taking advantage of their misfortune .It never occurred to me to ask my husband ( I was married ) or boyfriends when I was in relationship for money in exchange.

Every woman's dream is to be married to a nice man and a nice house with a picket fence with children and a man to grow old with.. But if that woman is in a "tight spot" of being phuck buddy to all the men she meet, she could change her life story and cross the sea to look for a man who will marry her. . As for me , I work 2 jobs as dancer/actress, department store sale clerk . I have a very jealous BF and I don't think I have a good future with him.. So I break up with him for I have ambition for a good family life.

Meeting stranger to marry or to have relationship is not comfortable, you are gambling your life ,if you'll hit it good or bad . I have covered everything like where to go, if things did not do well.
Coming to a different country is a big transition, cold /snow in winter and so hot during summer, and different culture.
Money is a great tool, to buy material things, but it can not buy happiness . So what I can say is it needs GUTS and
brain to be a decent woman to have a good experienced on being love, than a s lut who phuck every man in town in the end she got no one..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 52 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/21/2013 8:19:05 AM

And I suppose young ,hot looking girls marry old men strictly for love.


Well, hot moneyed
old men like Donald Trump, Hugh Hepner, Clint Eastwood, Michael Douglas, hot girls married them for love of fine living and to secured their future, of course they learned to love their husband on the long run of living together or they cheated their husbands for love and lust with their hunk gardener boy,grocery delivery boy and got divorce....
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/21/2013 2:23:33 AM
It's a business exchange. Marriage is not a business exchange. Having sex with someone who is deperate to sell themself or so desperate to buy a human being is quite gross.Hardly an exaggeration.


Most men are getting it for FREE, that is what I heard, and they don't even want to treat a woman for plate of food and coffee, and you talking about a man buying a person to have sex ??
The last time, I heard about those lovely Ladies renting their love TUNNELS , they are collecting unemployment because of no business.. Those charitable women are killing their business..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/21/2013 1:49:52 AM
^^^^^^^^

It is illegal to buy a human being , ( that is why there was a civil war here in America to abolished slavery owning a person) Men meet those foreign women on internet dating site, I don't know if there is a membership fee like E harmony, but most are free like POF.

American Embassy and the girl's country investigate the background,health, ect. to approve a visa. That cost a lots of time /paper works and money plus the air ticket..
American Embassy is very strict, a man has to visit the intended 3 times( show them air fare tickets,married certificate, love letters, declare property and tax, job discriptions,they even want to know what hotel, the coupled stayed , and what color a lingerie a girl's wearing on her honeymoon.

Most women from other country who married Americans are college level, one guy that I know from work ,he married a chinese lady who works here in USA as administrator in a health department and he drives van delivering uniforms laundry.. We Asian escape the country to get married ,because of our goverment.... .. and thinking we have a good future here in America, the first time I came here ,I clean toilets working as a maid in a hotel,( in my country my family has servants.) Helping my late husband to pay bills, for my shoppings ,own savings, and to sent money home to pay the debt of my expenses on coming to America..
We Asian doesn't considered that we are sex slave, or prostitute but a wife who work on a job ,take care of our house and fu ck our husband.. I put this in black and white to clear matters about Asian women.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
How much of a difference do pictures make?
Posted: 5/20/2013 9:16:12 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^

Oh, I am so right that men compare us to cars, thank God ! I am not a Taxi, I am a vintage Mustang Sports car,I am well taken cared, my chassis are still great. I only go out on Hot August Nights and paraded myself to the onlookers and any takers..

Vannili aka Mustang Sally.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
Things men and women don’t know about each other?
Posted: 5/18/2013 8:34:55 AM

I kinda like those sports bras,have a couple myself. I hate how part of a conventional bra digs into my skin,
kinda hurts. And a sport bra keeps everything from moving around too much, that hurts too when that happens.


I did not know that a man wear bra, but if the do, may I suggest that they get a bra that is snug ,they have to measure their chest around so they know what is the proper size for them.

FYI> womens' breast jiggles ,beause it is fat, while men's chest is made of muscles.. Oh don't take my word maybe
I am wrong, some men their breast is like a papaya, but I have not seen one yet.... lol
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Lowered Standards is really a lame excuse for being Human
Posted: 5/16/2013 9:30:45 PM
For me the meaning of stardard is a level of EXCELLENCE , it is not the expensive clothes that I wear or purse in my hand, but the attitude on how I interact with people, do I make them feel good about themself and laugh?
Do I feel good about myself ? am I proud of my morals? those are my gauges of standards.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 68 (view)
 
Lowered Standards is really a lame excuse for being Human
Posted: 5/16/2013 8:56:25 PM
Have you evered lower your standards for a date ?



I know from experience that anytime I have dropped my mine,I've regretted it.



Well if a person has no social finess, I will not take that against him, for the reason that he was raised in a diffrent inviroment. and I will not lower my high standard ( that I work hard to be in that level ) for him or anyone else..
But it is a good lesson to interact with people who have no standard or low standard practicing patience and kindness to them if I happen to date one of them, but sadly, there will not be a future for us.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 67 (view)
 
Relocating For The Over 45 Crowd.....
Posted: 5/16/2013 7:44:29 PM
No I would not relocate for someone. That is a risky decision,unless I want to move to a certain
place like San Francisco California,but I was told that the cost of living there is high. So I would
rather stay where I am , the cost of living is cheaper if you don't get addiction of gambling.


On the other hand ,some of us who have retired early in life and have no ties to their home
or family can easily pick up & go . Seem to be the problem on long distance relationships.


Yes, it is easy to pack and go, but you have to think also the consequences, new town, no friends
it is only one person in that place that you knew.
I would rather have a relationship with someone in my town or close to my town. Just my 2 cents
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 14 (view)
 
How much of a difference do pictures make?
Posted: 5/16/2013 7:09:04 PM
Msg.1:
Personaly I don't relay on pictures , it doesn't bother me if he is photogenic or nonphotogenic,fat or skinny,tall,or short.
What is important is his personal projection on how he impress me with his fine manners and TRUE characters.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Things men and women don’t know about each other?
Posted: 5/16/2013 6:54:30 PM
Msg.1:

OMG!!!! Seriously, are those quotes really came from the mind of a million wo/men ????
Well, what do I know I came from a Pacific Island, and I don't follow the mind of another wo/man
on how I deal with my S O , who cares, if the commode seat is up or down, and why would I want to have other guys to check me out?? that is sick...

A woman doesn't need to know about men, she only need to know one man and that is her man.
by keeping her mouth shut and listening to his words, body language, facial/eyes expression, she will know him like the back of her hand...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 109 (view)
 
Learn to Take a Hint...I Don't Want to Be Cruel
Posted: 5/15/2013 4:23:38 PM
The irony is that the women posting most vociferously in this thread would probably be the first ones to fall for the OP'scharms if the met in real life.



If it is guaranteed that his teeth is made of pure gold and his c ock is 24 karrat Diamond, I will kungpu and karate chops all the women here so I will be the first one " to become a potty in his hands, LMAO!!!!!!!
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 103 (view)
 
Learn to Take a Hint...I Don't Want to Be Cruel
Posted: 5/15/2013 4:06:36 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^

count me out, I am heading to the monastery to become a nun ( on a second thought, maybe not ) and I hope on my way I will meet the Ugly Hunchback of Notre Dame, who has a kind/loving heart..


God bless you methodist, thank you but I don't want a dialogue with you, I would rather have a dialogue with my cat...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 100 (view)
 
Learn to Take a Hint...I Don't Want to Be Cruel
Posted: 5/15/2013 3:43:58 PM
methodist:
I understand you as a mind of a prostitute , You want to interact with a woman but not to stablish and invest a good friendship to lead in to man and woman relationship. What is your pleasure ?? trade with money or with your love to a woman ??

You can not approach a woman and treat her like a PISS.

shell out your $300.00 and enjoy phucking her on the behind so she won't see your face,and if you did not cum in 10 seconds too bad. And she doesn't need to take a hint, and YOU DON'T NEED TO BE CRUEL..
just my 2 cents
Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/14/2013 12:58:39 AM
And may I add that it is stupid to believe that an American white /black married an Asian is supporting the woman's family by sending them money, how can a man support someone's family when his own parents he doesn't even care how they are doing ? They put their parents in a Nursing home or if the parent have little pension they are on the street,old and homeless for they have no room for them. Their reason is they have their own life and family, their parents is a family too...
and how dare a" tweet "theory that American man is renting a wife ".. FYI once a woman is here in the USA she'd starting working and helping her husband on household expenses , even support him if he got laid off or fired.and sending money for her family in the country, perhaps, she is helping one of her sibling tuition fee for college or medicine for elderly grandmother or helping back her parents for extra money ,who knows.. AND IT IS COMING FROM HER PAYCHECK NOT FROM HER HUSBAND...

I have been here for 34 years and I know what I am talking about..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/13/2013 8:34:42 PM
lagoodguy

<div class="quote"> She also knows many chinese women at Hainan who meet and married white guys who are working in china and they seem to be much happiers in generals then the one married to chinese men. So its not like they wanted to leave china to come here.

That is stereotyping, there are some bad white men and bad chinese/pilipino/thai men ect.ect.. and if a woman falls for one of them that's the break...
I stand for what I am going to say that any woman with any nationality are happier with any man who is a goodloving husband / father and good provider.. whether he is white, chinese, thai, pilipino ect.
I was married to a white American man and I don't judge him that he is better than a Pilipino man.. men are men whatever their nationality is, for under their skin is the same red blood that gives them life...



















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 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 33 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/13/2013 12:28:49 PM
Airline tickets to other countries maybe cheaper than yesteryears, but the hassles of meeting a wo/man is risky, the different cultures, different upbringing, different mentality ,ect..ect..
The great marriage and family life about my friends and I are not happening to all the Americans who married Asian, some are cut to be mean women, if I were a man ,why would I invest my hard earned money on a woman abroad.. Women are women whatever the color of their skin is and whereever they are....
We Asian respect a man for the reason, that we grew up in a family with a man in the house....But now adays there is no more family and there is a lot of single mothers who father and mother their children.. A good man> husband/father is declining so fast..

To All the American women it is a fact that Asian wants to marry an americano to get a green card, and to see snow, but there is a rumor that they want to marry an americano to have a beautiful babies, with blond hair, green /blue eyes tall and white skins, and what is tragic is 70% Asian men turnes to transvesites.. So for me americanos or nothing .............
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/13/2013 8:42:23 AM
Seriously, I emigrated to America with a Bride visa,my late husband went to Hongkong to marry me,( a total stranger and that is the only time I first met him) one week to prepare all clearance papers like health certificate,background check financial matters, involved a Lawyer service ect.ect. then he left for the states.. I met him through ,a penpal list booklet , at that time there is no computer/internet. We write to each other and call on the phone for certain impotant matters.2 months after I was approve of my visa. It cost a lot of time and money
I guessed it was something like destiny for we have a happy marriage of 18 years until he passed away at the year of 2000 (he was 20 years my senior).. Now a days ,it is hard to marry outside the country there are so many restrictions and it is risky to marry a strangers like playing a russian roulet you don't know if the bullet is on you.. I was told that( an American )man have to visit the woman 3 times and not all men can afford to spend air fare, stayin in a hotel,ect..

My advice is look for a nice girl/guy where you live, and don't take the risk of wasted energy on money,emotional pain, and time.... Playing safe is not a bad idea, than paying a credit card debts for 10 years or more for the enterest..)

finding an S O is using your head 100% and 98 % heart. Just my 2 cents.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/12/2013 11:02:49 PM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
theanswerguy2:
Congratulation!!!!!!!! you won a Bride for the best ANSWER IN THIS THREAD, it is a give away State Side Bride ..

No body wants to order it, and UPS and PostOffice doesn't want to deal with it ,so please pick her up at the nearest Walmart for she loves to shop there... Or if she is not there please try Goodwill Thrift store.

Thank you
Miss Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Mail Order Brides has anyone tried
Posted: 5/12/2013 10:29:55 AM
I was a Mail Order Bride, but my suppose to be fiance change his mind because of the policy > As it is , no exchange,no return. and the expense of the Stamps............ I was smuggled in coming to America, by boat to marry my fiance who is soooooo cheap.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 59 (view)
 
moving in after 3 days...can it really succeed?
Posted: 5/11/2013 6:22:01 PM
Msg.1:
I am amazed about you knowing the internal affairs of the man that his ex is kicking him out of their place. After knowing for him 3days your lady friend took him in her house.. Now he become her responsibility.. End of the story.


<div class="quote"> My main problem is a man literally trolled this site looking for women to 'rescue' him ,,,,,,,,,,,
Women now a days recues stray men, instead of stray cats and dogs.. Pray tell me what makes it your problem ?
It is not your "puki" that is being pounded nor teeth/ throat that is stuck with hairball, nor your water ,food ,heater to support the man....

Get your own life Sweetheart, so you don't meddle into someone's life...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 47 (view)
 
why not read forums?
Posted: 5/11/2013 2:28:40 AM
For me reading the forum is like a party ,mingling with other people around the world, it is a good education on understanding a mind of a person, it could be brilliant, dull, irate, pervert,we are all human beings that want to connect to express and impress others ..Some people post threads that are made up, that is alright at least their imaginations working fine to alliavate their loneliness.. I don't considered it garbage for it came from a mind of a precious human beings, I maybe spewing garbage too and I am not ABOVE the others here because we are on the same boat...

I made a lot of friends here at the forums with just their the posts and pictures as if I am familiar with them for years.
What I learned here is to be cautious , When I have a POF date , I asked if he read the forum, he'd ask what is that? my respond it is like Dear Abby, his answer is I don't read these craps, but I got a lectures from non forum guys> "in this country when someone invited you they pay for it" I don't want to impress a man that I am a *Meal Whore and it turned me off for a man who jabber private matters to strangers (forums). Life is good and people are good if you know how to press the right botton on them.....
edit:
I am not getting a tons of email dates, but emails that I made people laugh for my posts,well, it is better than nothing..but I am desperate ,that I don't mind dating a man with plastic shoes that has toes...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 155 (view)
 
Is Texting Cheating?
Posted: 5/10/2013 8:54:36 AM
lexus,
How does it grab you if your boyfriend of 2 years is busy texting another girl for flirting ect.???
You are asking strangers , if that is cheating ? What is important is what you think of it and how it affects you.
For me a person who cheats is dishonest not to be trusted, not just on relationship but on everything..

If I were the girlfriend of that person whom you are texting with, I will see you personally at your work and tell in your face to lay off my man and find your own man..


<div class="quote"> And for me as a single person....what type of relationship is ok to have with a guy that has a girlfriend ? Exciting and embarrasing!! because you have to hide from the girlfriend's rant and she would probably Kick your AZZ..
oh this thread is 3 years old...............
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Is life alone a question that should be asked.(not bitching)
Posted: 5/9/2013 10:58:09 PM
In my case I have 2 jobs, and I am used on being alone since I become a widowed 12 years ago.
Right now, life is easier for me, and I don't mind sharing my life, with a man but no live in please..

He'd live in his own house, with his carpenter tools on his formal dining table and put a pool in his living room. He can work in his garage/yard day or night.

And I can wash hanged my panties in the bathroom, go shoppings, read books as much as I want, life is good.......
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 31 (view)
 
Is life alone a question that should be asked.(not bitching)
Posted: 5/9/2013 10:08:13 PM
It is a matter of choice , some people want to be alone with the company of a dog or cat or books, ect ect..
For they are very private persons and they don't tolerate others in their space, but I guess it is about getting used on a person current situation on being alone. My impression of them are they are takers and users,some hates men but married 4 times, have boyfriends that come and go. lol
,Sure they are lonely but they pretend they are happy go lucky they don't want any one ,living by themself and become very negative on their outlook of life and other people, and their happenings is gambling in the casino until they are broke......... They are my friends.
Bonding with another person like relationship is more fullfiling life, >wrong, bad, happy, love ,hate, moral responsibilty, physical touching, charities ,is a living.. If you did not have that experienced you did not live a life..

One of the Everly Brother ( his partner passed away and they are not really brothers but a long time friend) have a concert here in Sparks NV said that the most important in life are friends and family he is right, because feelings is tangible... Yeah, it is a bliss to have that loving feeling to another human being..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 9 (view)
 
Dating advice
Posted: 5/9/2013 8:50:05 PM
Think first before talking, and make a habit of listening to whom you are talking to..
Read the book of Dale Carnegie, How to Win Friends & Influence People.. It will help you a lot on social conversation.
You seem to me like ,you have a good sense of humor..
Good Luck.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 44 (view)
 
..He's 59...but doesn't act like it
Posted: 5/9/2013 10:02:49 AM

lets see if he acts like 60 next year !



Yeah , he'll be acting 60 years old alright, COMPLAINING and bit ching for every thing.

Your post is a good punch line, that I can't help not to respond as straight line gal....
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
How frequenty should a couple be having sex for my age 39?
Posted: 5/8/2013 10:15:38 PM

According to the Medical journal , three times a week is what is considered normal.


Not according to the Holy Bible, God said be multiple, so my math is one every night before going to sleep and one before getting up in the morning on week days so two times in five days is ten times and saturday is 2 times quicky because of some house work , laundry, yard work grocery shopping so it is twelve times in 6 days , no sex on sunday for that is God's day like going to church after church going to garage sales ,or to flea markets.

12 times sex intercourse a week maybe considered abnormal to the Medical Journal but not to some healthy people with strong libido.. It is a fact, that eating too much cheddar cheese , raw onion and oysters makes people horny...

head down in a low voice,,,,,,,,,,, talking about personal experienced ( :-)
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 51 (view)
 
Proper/improper attire?
Posted: 5/8/2013 1:29:23 PM
Msg.1:

My first meet is in Denny's he was late out of our appointed time, and he was wearing a dingy t shirt with advertisement logo and work jeans. and I was wearing pants and blazer..
I did not comment of his attires /personality, but he commented on it,* that is the way how he dressed , he has to be taken as he is*.... I did not anwer him for I don't know what to say...
I divert the conversation about travels, families, works hobbies.. ect. ect.. I don't gauge a man of what he is wearing ,as long as his body odors are not offensive to me and the other people around , and if that is the case I will not even embarrass him I will use,diplomacy 101 it is a good tactic but not so common on most women...

I am not a teacher to correct you on how you run your life,even IF, I knew you personally for years.. You are the only one who can answer your own questions, because you will not ask these questions if you are unaware of your self......... If you are being an anal or you are wrong, right ?????
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 90 (view)
 
Am I wrong to expect old fashioned manners?
Posted: 5/8/2013 9:53:37 AM
John255317:

I don't believed that the guy bytch non stop on the " tardiness" of the OP. Newly dating have control on their temper, and show his date that he is a good man ,unless he was married to her for 47 years that he grow a horn on his head like the Devil..
Talk about "old fashion manners".. Let us not get carried away lashing the poor guy ,
it is one sided story,let us hear also his story, then judge him if he is really the selfcentered,
rude ,obnoxious guy...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Am I wrong to expect old fashioned manners?
Posted: 5/8/2013 9:27:05 AM
curviest,

<div class="quote"> I go swimming a lot and I know exactly how it takes me to get dressed,packed and ready :20 minutes. So I lay in bed repling to emailspn my laptop till 0810.Except the doorbell rang at 0800." I assume it was the postman".
As I 'm in a big house* I had quickly pull on my swimsuit and a kaftan,grab my clothes in a bundle and dash downstairs before he gave up and left.* To my astonishment it was my date,half hour early.

There is a big OOPS on this , so the postman always ring , a big house like yours doesnt have a post box or postslot , do you always grab your swimsuit ,kaftan ,clothes, when the postman ring??????????? You don't make sense on this, as the saying goes if it doesn't make sense it is NOT TRUE.

Even in* make believe *if a date turn up early like 30 minute, you should offer him some nice hot tea and scones, meaning you should practice good manners yourself and not expect good manner from others. and Good Manners is not old fashion, it is ingrained to good breeding people ,forever... >>Generation to generation in every part of the world.

OOPS, [your post] You quickly pull up your swimsuit and a kaftan ,grab your clothes in a bundle and dash downstairs * before he gave up and left. Now answer me truthfully , whom are you going swimming with the POSTMAN ON DUTY,OR THE MAN YOUR DATE??????????
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 57 (view)
 
Emotional Detachment is the Best Strategy
Posted: 5/8/2013 8:45:31 AM
flowerbomb73:

Your education is High School and your profesion is a Lawyer...
and you don't have a write up on your profile....

You should learn the game of " thinking" that people have brain ,they know how to deal with FAKE and TRUE cards that was laid on the table.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
Emotional Detachment is the Best Strategy
Posted: 5/8/2013 8:26:40 AM
PS_4:

Are you sure you are not my Evil Twin?????????? LOL

The players are ahead of the games, whether the game of life, the game of gamble, the game of chess, football ,the game of romance, the game at work with people,the game of negotiation ect.ect..
If a person doesn't know how to play the game of life ,s/he is a fair game like a ball that can be toss around..

You are correct, " play it cool" so you can study the person /situations how s/he will react on your strategy, of enticement, the rule of the game is to be enterested to that person, make him/her feel she is the NUMBER ONE IN THIS WORLD, and the winning strategy of a "difficult person" is mirror him/ her..

Vannili, The game player.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 41 (view)
 
..He's 59...but doesn't act like it
Posted: 5/8/2013 12:46:22 AM

He's 59 ...but doesn't act like it


Maturity doesn't come with age but experienced and understanding of others.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 27 (view)
 
How does one let things go?
Posted: 5/7/2013 9:02:16 PM

Lol there really is a sucker born every minute, I never believed it until now.


And there is a control freak born every second minutes, the Op asked the girl to be his exclusive , when he only dated her for just 3 times..
and the girl did KISS AND TELL about going out with another guy,,,,she should close her mouth.
Each of them are free to date others, unless they have moral obligation to each others like engagement..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 40 (view)
 
..He's 59...but doesn't act like it
Posted: 5/7/2013 8:42:53 PM
he is now telling everyone I refuse to give the rest of his clothes to him because I want to hurt him and I am angry with him.... when he moved out he told me to throw the rest of his stuff out, I gave to charity. His behavior and slandering me is immature and hurtfull. What do you think?


Well, I think your post reminds me not to let a man move in my house,even how CRAZY I am of him..
I will not subjected myself of hassles and pains.. He has his own place and I have mind too ,or I will move in his place with my overnight bag only......

Calling him all the nasty names in the toilet book ,won't help the stressed he caused, so just move on and learned a valuable lesson on how to deal with the person's personal belongings, that is left in your property, most are got sued on it...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 93 (view)
 
why do guys keep u hanging on instead of ending it?
Posted: 5/1/2013 7:50:04 AM
No ,just pointing out how untter selfish and unaware some people can be when the equate their "problems"
with other peoples.
It's like the rich guy being outraged because the waiter brought him a slightly overdone steak and demanding sympathy from the poor guy who hasn't eaten in days .


That is the most illogical metaphor...........
.This makes more sense a rich man ordered a medium rare steak, but the waiter brought him a slightly overdone steak, the rich man doesn't want to take the overdone steak ,so he ask the waiter to return to the kitchen and (HE DEMAND) to order him a perfect medium rare steak as he like. FOR THAT IS WHAT HE IS PAYING FOR.
He demand a sympathy from a poor guy who hasn't eaten in days ? this is the most brain dead logic. Let me ask you a question, did the rich man went to the street and look for homeless people to" demand "a SYMPHATHY for he can not fix his own problem ??
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 87 (view)
 
why do guys keep u hanging on instead of ending it?
Posted: 4/30/2013 8:53:54 PM
I met this guy & got involved pretty quick. We seem really click, anyway it was about 6 weeks into this,he planned a vacation to his hometown before we even met. We had exchanged keys a week before he left.of course he lives w/his 2 sister & I live alone.



This is a bit weird , It makes me hard to swallow that he gave his key to you when he is living with his 2 sisters, but I believed you that you gave your extra key to him..
What you did is scary!!
i know i am an idiot.


I am astounded, like I can't make the Tail or The Head, but what I can say is --You can lead a horse to a trow ,but you can not force him to drink if he doesn't want to...


Is it expecting to much to send an email or phone to your" girfriend" when ur visiting family in your home town, specially if u were in a newer relationship. If he wasn't gonna call or email me for the entire 2 weeks, why didn't he say that he would tell me i really care about u & want to be in relationship. right ? why do they string u along??


Right ! I considered men like flies , they were so attracted to a piece of meat that I hang out to dry under the sun to make some jerkys............

OH, this is 4 years ago thread, I hope the OP is happily in a good relationship now...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 70 (view)
 
He acted like he was doing me a favour by dating me.
Posted: 4/27/2013 8:42:24 PM
There are two sides of story, and it is the OP.. So I will not be so easily judgemental of the "bad character" of the man. And I am sharing my opinion the way I understand the OP's Thread.
Edit:
The way how I rock in this world>>>>>>>>>>>I can not control others but I control myself on how I dealt with people..
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
He acted like he was doing me a favour by dating me.
Posted: 4/27/2013 8:29:17 PM
If a guy wants to handle the check though our agreement is dutch, I would let him and say graciously Thank you..
He already brought up that he is financially comfortable and likes to treat people a few times.. I will not argue with him and insist that I pay for my food and tip ,end of discussion.

Men are insulted ,when a woman open her purse to pay or share the tab with people around, that is why I gave my share discreetly to my date for dutch, some accepted but mostly they don't...


[ quote] " Yeah,but a bill like this is no big deal to me. If you pay your share and run short , your kids will have to do without. I couldn't do that to them.



I would be insulted too, if a man would say that to me in public/private. But you OP were adamant to pay your share and that is pushing his red bottons.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 585 (view)
 
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 4/26/2013 3:33:18 PM

Damn wimmins.....you mean I've been working on this price list for nothing....how about I throw in a free car wash?


Why not? I enjoy watching my car being washed, by NIKKED MEN.. LOL.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 82 (view)
 
Women can fix this!
Posted: 4/25/2013 10:23:40 PM
Message 1:

I am a woman and I fixed broken things, like fences,lawn mover,car engines, "wood puppets, "you name it,,,, but I don't fix men for they are not broken, they are just free thinkers, saying Good Morning , Hi, What's up? Ect... what is wrong with that?
Men have freedom of speech too like women.... and I don't intend to be the incarnation of Adolp Hitler..
If a man ask me for sex( in LETTERS) it is my decision to say YES OR NO or I don't answer his email..
On the other hand,
If a man confront me sexually in person,I'll sue him with sexual harrasment, it is that simple...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 581 (view)
 
Women...would you pay for sex with a man?
Posted: 4/24/2013 6:14:33 PM
Noo, I am a full true blooded woman , I don't pay a man to have sex with me,he pay me to have sex with me,whether the deal is being a legal wife/common law wife/ prostitute/ whore....
How can I shop at Walmart to buy "Summers Eve" if I don't get paid ?
I can't let it stink and smell like a dead fish can I ????


Vannili
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 137 (view)
 
Date With Single Mom Went Horribly Wrong
Posted: 4/24/2013 7:50:39 AM
[ quote] What world are you living in Vannili ?

I live in a world where people do" ARE HIGH CLASS ACTS " they use their common sense../ intelligence whether they don't have much, but thinking on situations makes them have a better scores in life .


<div class="quote"> There is an old saying-" When life gives you lemons, make a lemonade "

I will say no thank you Mr. Life ,I don't want Lemons, for I can afford a nice Sweet Oranges..

Most people here in America, have a car, if they happen to ride a bus/ taxi they have "GRAGO" like a basket and turn in to seat for babies/toddlers strapped to them. If you are not seatbelt police how come you see a parents strapping toddlers in a regular seatbelt "for adult" ?? Around the world no 3 years old go to school riding a bus.
Nice question for the OP, * will it kill you to take them to the closest McDonalds?* Do you have a street map and know where they are at ?? Perhaps the closest Mcdonald is 20 miles or they don't eat meat.
You may personally have a nice idea, but you don't question them and directed their actions in real life.

<div class="quote"> I was just merely commenting on how mean-spirited his actions were towards the kids and it would not have killed him to make the best situation.
It is just one person low opinion and it does NOT count...
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 131 (view)
 
Date With Single Mom Went Horribly Wrong
Posted: 4/23/2013 10:54:39 AM
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

<div class="quote"> That having been said ,would it have killed you to drive everyone to the closest Mcdonald and the kids could have played in their playland while the two of had a coffee and a good chat? I am saddened by the lack of compassion in your attitude towards these kids.
You don't get it do you ????
The big issue here is the 3 years old sitting on the car floor between the mother's legs NOT IN A CAR SEAT , if something happen ,if another car hit his car or whatever it will endanger the toddler.. And it is against the law to have a child sitting on a car floor. Perhaps there is no policeman around, but if some concern citizen spotted him he will be reported .
He can not have that child in his car PERIOD!!!
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 127 (view)
 
Date With Single Mom Went Horribly Wrong
Posted: 4/22/2013 8:59:01 AM
But you know,some single mums are worth the effort and can make a good partners. Maybe have in the past and Im sure there are many that still around.


I agree with the benefit of doubt, the date of the OP has kids ages 5 and 3 + 9 months in concieving each = 10 years
if she is a good partner to a man............ Why the father of her child split up with her or she split up with him ? ---------
Some women only wants the loveydovey but not the responsibilty of having a partner and the outcome of sexual intercourse, (children) in other words living a life to the fullest.
I put myself in the OP's shoes, I don't think I want to be subjected to get a TICKET, for not having a car seat ,bad record on my driving, insurance raised up,and be on the scenario, that my date is pacifaying her unruly kids,spilling juice in my car, noises,of the kids and mother, I don't think Mr. Pecker my boss will think that is seductive to drive my mind CRAZY about her and fall in love with her.

Oh sure, some men would want to have a ready made family, a good woman who knows how to rule a good household and deciplined children to go home after his work. Men would father some children and help them riased financially if it makes him FEEL GOOD TO BE AROUND THE KIDS AND THE MOTHER..


edit : We are the Master of our lives, in other word --- it is cause and effect, of what our decisions are.
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 118 (view)
 
Date With Single Mom Went Horribly Wrong
Posted: 4/21/2013 8:33:18 AM
she is young and lonely,she really wanted to meet you.She did not have a sitter & she used bad judgement bringing the kids. but really sad that you didn't even give a ride home &she had to take the kids home on the subway,that's just bad.


If you read the OP's post your message will entirely different, the OP's" first meeting "is on an indoor swimming pool, we assumed that is the woman 's idea/suggested to the OP, so her kids can enjoy the outing unbeknown to the OP.
They were early and the pool was close to be open on a certain time. The OP made an alibi , and he offered the mother with 2 children to drop her in a convenient place,at her house ,the ESSO gas station, but she was adamant to be drop at a subway station , stating with sting," that they already take to much of his time". I personally think , that is fine, because if the OP got a TICKET for no toddler carseat, that is sad..........

And to the forumite suggesting to put some clothes on the seat so the child will be perfectly alright , very ingenuous
are you expecting the OP to go to his house and get some clothes /sheet/blanket ?????? I bet he doesn't have these in his car trunk.. And still he will get a TICKET if a police spotted his car..
 
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