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wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 151 (view)

Safety on a First Meet. Posted: 10/5/2008 11:56:36 AM
u did the right thing i wouldn't have got into his car either he sounds like a control freak but nothing like wasting your time for u to go a whole bunch of different ways ......but also that is on the 1st signs of abuse sometimes taking somewhere where they don't know anyone and not formiliar with the area and having no one else around except u to..........

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 13 (view)

date turns sexual then fwb now bf/gf maybe? Posted: 10/5/2008 11:49:24 AM
plain and simple he is a " player " and u are the door always open when he needs laid try saying no the next time he wants sex ...........see how long it takes him to get ahold of u then

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

Drawing lines Posted: 10/5/2008 11:44:38 AM
" time to take the blinders off " i feel there is more going on when u aren't around and no one is letting u know .....

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 7 (view)

Space- HELP! Posted: 10/5/2008 11:36:11 AM
tell him how u feel .....maybe he feels the same way we were like that in the beginning and afraid to tell each other in fear of the other person moving on with there life now mind u ............. we tell each other " i'm going out with a friend " but if u guys spend alot of time together day in day out u will find u won't get nothing done u need to get done............ like pay bills,get groceries,clean your place,or make phone calls that u unsure that u want him hearing yet,clean the car,do over time at work................ u can do all of this when u can tell he would like space or u need space

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 99 (view)

Does No Car Mean No Action? Posted: 10/5/2008 11:28:27 AM
instead of trying to keep everyone else happy do it for yourself if u can afford to fix the car and still want to drive it then do so ...........if in the long run u won't need the car then sell it....... do what best for u not for friends !!!!

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 63 (view)

Why Do Relationships FAIL? Posted: 10/5/2008 11:25:15 AM
lose respect for the person insecure overprotective family gets involved when shouldn't out of control kids lies financial problems

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 15 (view)

How in the world do you break it off to someone that has gotten a little too attached way to fast? Posted: 12/3/2007 5:58:45 PM
like most ppl do don't allow a person to get that close keep reassuring them that u would like to take it slow and don't lead them on to think they are forever change your phone numbers don't make yourself available

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 7 (view)

Issues you could say... Posted: 11/7/2007 10:32:30 AM
oh man i have seen ppl in this spot and it heads for disaster one give your buddy respect don't date his g/f 's or eye candy it might not bug him now but in time it will ruin his and your relationship when you guys go out for a night of drinking it will come out it may be good or bad most cases leads to physical fights.... also in time your buddy will stop bringing girls home cus he can't trust you or trust them she could be leading u both on and not wanting either one of you just playing games or wanting a place to stay ............ to give your buddy respect u could ask your buddy what's up between her and him cus she is getting to friendly by giving to many hugs ...........THEN if he gives u a direction then go from there............. " oh man no she keeps coming here to get onto you where just friends then u know where u stand .................go after her OR she keeps coming over here wanting to have me ( your buddy ) but i want to take my time and not rush things ................THEN you know to back off and avoid the hugs

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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Mind Games Posted: 11/7/2007 10:08:22 AM
because they are all talk sitting behind a computer or talking on the phone until it comes time to do the deed then the cold feet come ...........

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 59 (view)

girlfriend hacks into boyfriends email account Posted: 10/21/2007 7:30:40 PM
it boils down to don't share email password or keep them saved on any computer that would stop most of the none sense

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

ever date an on going arguement. Posted: 10/18/2007 6:40:26 PM
they are always right no matter what is said or done but in the end are usually the ones to get a punch in the head !!!!!!!!

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

Ummm..I hope that this is the right place to ask this??? Posted: 10/18/2007 6:23:38 PM
sounds like a stocker to me and i would run run run

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 116 (view)

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW (head lice) Posted: 10/18/2007 4:31:48 PM
they die in heat so if u wash everything in hot water ...........then dry it in the dryer also after they have a shower get the kids to use a hair dryer ............i found it worked for us monitor who they play with or sit with on the bus if it comes back again in 14 days it will be easier to notify parents and inform them so they can check there kids to .........i know u don't want everyone knowing but if the child they sit with hasn't been checked at all or treated then your child is just going to get it again............ boil combs on the stove or just replace them hair elastics or hair pieces replace or wash back seat of cars spray car seats bike helmets hats

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 33 (view)

To sell the ring?? Posted: 9/26/2007 5:38:40 PM
i trashed mine trash for an ex husband thats where the rings belong in the trash !!!!!!

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 41 (view)

When he wont respond.... Posted: 9/26/2007 4:57:25 PM
he told u everything u wanted to hear now he has u worrying and waiting .......don't wait show him u are secure and u don't need his games

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 40 (view)

Good grief ! my date turned out to be a tranny ! Posted: 9/24/2007 6:11:38 PM
How did u even know this person was ? did u cop a feel and find out the boobs were fake or go to reach for the croach and find out there.................. like when u look at some ppl u can't tell ..................unless u grab a feel

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 61 (view)

I'd do her, I wouldn't do her.... Posted: 9/19/2007 5:07:07 PM
both genders do it after they score they do it to .............nah wouldn't do her/him again ...........or ya he/she rocked in bed.................

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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This Sucks!! Posted: 9/19/2007 4:56:55 PM
sounds like he got u mixed up with another girl the catch is u went to his job and asked about it ...............no one likes to be comforted about it at work there is a time and place for it ............ maybe he is seeing someone from work thats why he covered it up cus 2 years and he is saying one thing then changing his mind ...............sounds fishy...........

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

am i stupid to expect single women to accept the fact i have a daughter and see her twice a week Posted: 9/19/2007 4:45:03 PM
they have failed cus its all about them they think instead of your daughter they should come first and the attention should be put on them 1st and then your daughter.......... unlucky ones i would say

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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Why does he play these games??? Posted: 9/18/2007 8:17:01 PM
let me tell u something and read it and believe it U ARE BEING PLAYED HE CALLS U WHEN THE OTHER GIRL IS BUSY OR WHEN ITS SAFE TO CALL U PLAYERS SHUT OFF THERE PHONES WHEN " THE OTHER IS AROUND "

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 15 (view)

I think my Ex is playing with my heart ... Posted: 9/18/2007 8:07:54 PM
he is keeping very close ties with your cus he is waiting for u to blow the friendship and commitment part of the relationship all together and put the blame on you you had someone else in the apt ,u are seeing someone else, don't make yourself available each time he wants to do something or when he calls then he will realize what he has lost ......... right now he hasn't yet cus you guys see each other alot or talk on the phone alot.......

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 66 (view)

WTF am I supposed to do now? Posted: 9/18/2007 7:47:44 PM
notice how everything boils down to " so u can't track him down " no computer , no landline phone, office says they left him a message but did they really ? " no " they probably know of his acts and behaviour use to it by now......... " PLAYER PLAYER PLAYER " sorry hun but i think so

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 65 (view)

WTF am I supposed to do now? Posted: 9/18/2007 7:36:37 PM
i would have to say anything it get laid or try to take advantage of you in any way also notice who is doing all the work here .........u are u went there for the weekend ........u are trying to track him down............ u are calling when it ok for you to call .......why can't he call you and catch you off guard to see how you are doing ?............. he also told u everything u wanted to hear to test the water to see if you are really over your ex and going to go threw with the divorce..........maybe but never know chalk it up as a experience and next time make them do the work .......come to see you i have heard of a few cases like this and answers in the end were he was married,committed ( she was out of town for the weekend ), saying he was leaving the country was so the girl will give up calling and tracking him down cus she believes he is gone out of the country,

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 53 (view)

Was I wrong? Posted: 9/18/2007 7:22:27 PM
this is why u take someone for coffee first if u see any red flags then no 2 nd date then in time take them out to eat ........ as for the smoking" to each there own " some smoke in new cars some don't

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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Poor new born baby so sad Posted: 9/18/2007 7:00:07 PM
the family is disgusted due to she is young and " monkey see monkey do " from one relationship to the next and involved with friends who have babys young and not all from the same fathers and the fathers aren't around today............so she tells ppl i can do it if my friends can............. if she would have listened to her parents and got her grade 12 and stayed living with her parents instead of one relationship to the next then maybe this wouldn't have happened they believe the baby is suffering now for her immature mistakes thats why they are disgusted...........

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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How do you deal when your child is going to be 18? Posted: 9/18/2007 6:49:24 PM
well when i was 18 i had to stay in school as long as i was under my parents roof if i skipped school they still called home to my parents before i got home from school but i had the use of the truck when i wanted to drive to school to if i swore or didn't do my household chores then that ment no use of the truck for the rest of the week and no going out on the weekend.......... i then thought omg my parents are strict but now i look back it was only so i would have respect for them in which i do now............

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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Poor new born baby so sad Posted: 9/18/2007 6:34:30 PM
my friend gave me a call lastnight and asked me a pretty serious question and i'm just floored in shock ................ My friends cousin is only 20 years old and she gave birth to a boy 2 weeks ago when the baby was born the baby came out with a small brain and bruises all over his body and only weighed 6 lbs............they also never used foreceps at birth either the doctor told his cousin her baby is going to be delayed in life due to the small brain............ my friend is just disgusted this happened to a baby and very upset My question i have never heard of a baby being born with bruises and what causes them does any one have any ideas ? as for the small brain i could only guess and tell him drugs ........... the family doctor is monitoring her very close but the family is disgusted thanks you for your replys

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 23 (view)

Rehired after termination Posted: 9/18/2007 6:15:13 PM
not good to have friends in a work place that have to in time do the upper hand like friends with the Hr out of work doesn't go over well in a work place in fact can lead to big problems if u have a union this girl at work is a lead hand and she is also the HR best friend out of work but the lead hand lies alot causing ppl to have conflict and tell there supervisor....... then it leads to a meeting with the Hr ............yep u guess it the lead hand is always right even though she lies !!!!!

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

Rehired after termination Posted: 9/18/2007 5:59:17 PM
it has never happened to me but i know a girl who threw a hot part at her lead hand and he got 8 stitches and they fired them both.......... her being a union rep even then 3 days later they hired her back and the guy to she told me i was safety issues they were working longer then suppose to be with no break and also the machines weren't running right so there was a mess everywhere causing unsave working conditions .................

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 43 (view)

How old were you the last time that physical pain made you cry? And Why? Posted: 9/18/2007 5:40:13 PM
the last time i really cryed was when it was the 1st time i was on our family trampoline after having it for awhile on our family farm my brothers always went on it but i never did....senn how my brothers acted on it and said " no way " i landed the wrong way on my foot ....landing side ways causing my tiba bone in my leg to break ....... i was rushed to the hospital and underwent surgery right away having a plate and pins put in my leg before i had surgery they told me the chance of saving my leg was very slim and if i woke up with pins coming out from my knee then they couldn't save my leg...............after surgery i woke up in shock grabbing my leg..............they saved it but boy what a experience............... i was only 19 at the time ...............it was the 1st cast and last cast on this girl 5 months in a cast and getting it changed every 4 weeks was enough for me .............even physio really hurt after being in a casts for so long............ oh boy i can still hear the break and i can still hear myself crying...............after all these years

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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Inside Brookhavins obesity clinic......... Posted: 9/18/2007 5:26:33 PM
my guess is social assitance cus they also need some kind of a medical coverage to be put on pills for other reasons other then weight...... but we also watched the show to it was very interesting i thought

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 182 (view)

why do men run away? Posted: 9/16/2007 6:52:21 PM
not really cowards but leaving for reasons............could be any of these immature being a player afraid of commitment not ready to settle for children in there life fulltime g/f isn't to sure what she wants in life friends family g/f doesn't work poor location for the b/f to have his kids around ex g/f is friends with g/f or ex g/f just won't leave you's alone ex g/f finds the guy for child support payments in arrears and garnishes wages and in time it will include g/f income to

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 96 (view)

I don't know how to forgive someone and I think it's killing me a little bit day by day... Posted: 9/16/2007 6:44:16 PM
well it is just advice but good luck u can go to court and get a court ordering stating that a mutual friend/family person be the in between person when u have to drop your son off/or pick him up take him to your friends an hour before the fathers pick up/or drop off your kid...........then u leave and go home therefore it stops the fighting all together or complaining DON'T be there when he picks him up or drops him off he is using u for ammunition ..........if the friend trys to tell u what he said " say i don't wanna hear it " it takes a strong person to do it but it can be done ............... he life is miserable so he is trying to make your miserable to................. when u both realize its unhealthy to fight and stressful and your son doesn't need to hear it and when u both grow up and realize its time to move on and be adults then the fighting will in time come to a end................ P.S we have 5 kids it can be done and 2 fathers..........

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 126 (view)

Cheater getting cheated on Posted: 9/16/2007 6:29:10 PM
she is doing this cus she is after something and hasn't found it yet house,money,car sex,anything for a ride to make her life a better life...............

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 184 (view)

Helping himself to my computer............... Posted: 9/13/2007 2:21:16 PM
let me revise this and u can see it from your side and maybe u will get it Oh wise people on the forums, I need some help on this one...........we all maybe wise but we don't know the full detail and we aren't in the situation........ u left him at your house while u went to work................so i guess this guy doesn't work days or work at all...........so at some point in time u trusted him in your house while u were at work ..............so what is the big deal here ? there is only so much a person can do in a day while at your house after awhile it becomes boredom........ also while he was on mapquest was he looking for a quicker route to find to his new g/f or the next girl to use..................

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 72 (view)

How do you cope when the one you love is in the arms of someone else???? Posted: 9/13/2007 11:02:13 AM
holy cow did u ever get shit on !! as for your friend i wouldn't classify him as a friend anymore !!!! anyone to do that to a friend shouldn't have the right to be classified as a friend...........be careful cus the next g/f u get the " guy friend " might find out and do a set up .........as in a guy he knows he may pay him to take your g/f again !!!......... sad but have seen it happen your guy friend of 14 years just doesn't want to see u happy............u may not talk to him or see him at all but trust me he still knows who u are dating and what u are doing and is still working on the next step...........to avoid all this drama next time if u can u move to the girl........... not really much u can do until u have healed once u have healed and have stopped loving her then u will see the red flags like i did but until then u are in deniel " oh she wouldn't do that " " oh thats why he called alot " " oh thats why her cellphone bill was alot " until u are healed u won't see the red flags but in time u will............... DON'T get into another relationship until u heal trust me u will be alot about anger u won't be able to trust her, u will put up a wall for your friends cus u will be afraid of losing her,u will basically become controlling!!

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 98 (view)

Top 10 danger signs Posted: 9/13/2007 10:50:10 AM
u can never answer there cellphone either if they leave it in the car if its the opposite sex on the phone it always " i can't talk i have to run " the min u are absent they talk for hours u never meet ALL OF THERE friends either just some they wish u to meet also on weekends they are always busy and u or wondering what to do with yourself u can never tell your friends when u hungout with them last or what u did ......cus they are seeing your friend

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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why lie Posted: 9/13/2007 10:41:19 AM
well as for work employees going out and drinking afterwards is a " red flag " work is work friends are friends sounds like she likes the attention it will come back to haunt her trust me as for her job it will fail in less then a year

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 66 (view)

My ex is on POF!!! Posted: 9/13/2007 10:31:30 AM
u r the ex its none of your business as for him on POF he is doing it to get your goat u can tell hee the truth if u wish but u are heading for drama she won't believe u or it will come to a 3 way fight and make things worse then they are let bye gones be bye gones

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

When my penis wakes up before either of us do..... Posted: 9/13/2007 10:20:30 AM
well u are sure lucky to have women deal with it on contact as for the women that due shift work i guess then your hands would come to a resort

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 32 (view)

marriage after 6 days Posted: 9/12/2007 8:11:10 PM
she was involved for quite sometime with him she was just trying to move on with you to let her heart know that ok her finance is the one

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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He's always around!!! Posted: 9/12/2007 7:44:33 PM
he is keeping an eye on u for a reason to see who u hangout with then he is going to try and date them .........if he gains then it will be a game asking your g/f what he was like ? that u had told her give him a month then he will move on to the next girl but then they both might follow u depends go to clubs if u see him leave avoid him as much as u can and he will get the hint

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 116 (view)

Fiance wants me to delete male friend..yes or no.. Posted: 9/12/2007 7:38:37 PM
he has trust issues for sure u should be able to have male/female friends and still be with your man so if u delete this guy ......then what ? is he going to do something for u u have asked him to ......never give up something unless its equal it can lead to control " i told her to delete him she did " next step ...............

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

Do you have neighbors like this? Posted: 9/12/2007 7:30:05 PM
very common around here in Ontario i admit have did it a few times ........... they have pools and the decks have patio chairs and umbrella's for the day time beating sun............ they soak the sun all day step out sit on the deck for 1-4 drinks then back in the pool .......then they have a bbq (which is beside the garage) in most cases after the beating sun/very humid day has gone down most sit in the garage and watch the rain storm coming in or the clouds moving fast.............. they bbq dinner then turn on the bug killer on and sit back and relax with a cooler or fridge in the garage of booze to stop the constant running back and forth to the house and letting the bugs in the house as they sit there they comment on how burnt they r , all the ppl that walk by, also the cold cement floor in the garage helps to keep them cool as well

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 98 (view)

MY LIP GLOSS IS POPPIN'........?? WHAT THE.......? Posted: 9/10/2007 8:20:35 PM
yes i agree alot of songs on yout ube or the radio that are very common get over played just to name a few here are some my humps my umbrella premicious girl paralyzer ( finger eleven ) big girls don't cry ( fergie ) glamourous ( fergie) as having teenagers in the house i hear all the new and old but after a few weeks i do get sick of hearing them grrrrrrrr

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 57 (view)

Overanalyzing and over-thinking things. Posted: 9/10/2007 8:03:07 PM
sometimes ppl that over analyze things seem to be the ones that have been hurt in the past bad and can see things happening in the present that are going bad before they happen

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 124 (view)

What are your pet peeves...... Posted: 9/10/2007 7:54:28 PM
1 ppl that are drama queens 2 ppl that think the world revolves around them ...they want they want NOW !! 3 selfish ppl 4 ppl that use ppl........ but when u need a helping hand there are all full of excuses 5 ppl with bad b-o and wear 2 shirts to cover it up ....lol.....take a shower

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

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What would you do? Posted: 9/4/2007 1:54:48 PM
u can't trust neither of them and u never will be able to if u accept this behaviour and rekindle things with both of them ................they u r saying it was ok for what happened kick them both to the curb and move on

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 44 (view)

Why do people wear sunglasses in clubs???? Posted: 9/3/2007 5:32:29 PM
to hide being stoned also to hide what they are looking at ................

wildgirl_5

Joined: 9/11/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

Your longest break / being single Posted: 8/28/2007 4:18:04 PM
the longest break depends on how long it takes your body to heal after a break up some can heal fast others there heart takes longer i guess

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