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daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 23 (view)

The Buddy Zone Posted: 8/7/2009 5:48:51 PM
OP@ i often wonder, dont men have their buddies already? from my understanding, correct me if i am wrong, but some men dont want female buddies? when a guy hangs out with a girl, doesnt he see a potiental friendship that might lead to something later on. once in a friend-zone, thats it, doesnt go any further.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 62 (view)

what's with these women around here?? Posted: 8/7/2009 5:16:21 PM
pulls up a chair beside Txguy2 and Ironhorse....I got more OP@ not just woman....its SOME men as well. there are plenty who are immature and theyre requirements are so unrealistic..i do wish them luck. gawd forbid if one has little extra weight, or their hair is the wrong color or its to short, interests arent the same and the list goes on and on, theres always something about me that someone doesnt like....but in the end..who cares..I love who I am and thats all that matters. lets not sugar coat, you either like me or you dont..simple as that...there is no medium grounds. chin up and smile OP....there are plenty of good and kind woman out there

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 277 (view)

Anyone else feel like giving up because of being unsuccessful? Posted: 8/7/2009 6:43:31 AM
I can relate...right now, I am taking me time to collecting my thoughts. its okay, to hide your profile and take breaks when needed, I am sure most of us do this, after all, were only human. it can be frustrating at times, but if anything, i have learnt alot about myself and as to what i am looking for in my future partner.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

Wife leaving me Posted: 8/7/2009 6:24:55 AM
am sorry for your hurt, its never easy. some are going to think i am nuts but it does work....instead of focusing on how she hurt you, remember the good times and fun you both had, and repeat to yourself>>>it was fun while it lasted...and wasnt meant to be. thinking this way will make it easier for you to move on...dont focus on the bad things it will only take you down. they say, many will ferget what they have said and done but they never ferget the hurt that they have caused ...and yet so true. you were 38 and she was 20 when you two met....you must of had some idea..that it wasnt going to last?? seriously, your both on a different path in life, different ideas and thoughts, goals, interests, different wants and needs? sure i get alot of offers from much younger guys, as much as that offer sounds good at times but its not practical or realistic to me. I'm not looking for a boy toy... I want a life time partner, someone i can share with on every level(physically, emotionally, and mentally)...not a short term of anything. I want one, not many....I dont waste my time and effort on someone who is totally the opposite of me, I want some compatiablity on our wants and needs department. its all or nothing....

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

Star Trek-Trekkies-geeks or not? Posted: 5/11/2009 6:55:18 AM
I saw the new Star Trek movie and i quite enjoyed watching it. sure brought back some memories and the characters were perfect for their parts too. I loved it.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

SCAMS - for the guys Posted: 5/9/2009 9:17:42 PM
how gullable some can be...tisk tisk.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 35 (view)

predict your own death... Posted: 5/9/2009 9:12:25 PM
predict your own death... ^^^I'll be hmm...dont know, but hopefully its quick and painless....no suffering....please make sure my little dog is taken care of. What song will be played at your funeral--if you have a funeral? be back to answer that questions...opps.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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Am I a bad guy for thinking this? Posted: 5/9/2009 9:05:43 PM
@OP>>The only reason I am on this is because I am unhappy & want to see what else is out there. ^^^are you a bad guy...umm lets see.....yes a dog. it drives me nuts, I know of many men who will find a reason to leave their partner by finding someone else..your a coward!!!! end it in a proper way..be a man, not a mouse, if your unhappy then end it first with her!!!!.... before getting involved with another woman.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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Happy Mother's Day to all the Mothers out there Posted: 5/9/2009 7:32:53 AM
I celebrate Mothers days everyday for my mom...not just one day of the year.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 71 (view)

Star Trek-Trekkies-geeks or not? Posted: 5/9/2009 7:29:44 AM
^^^going to see it Sunday with my girlfriend ...and I cant wait...mmmmmmm......popcorn..yummy.. I'll let ya know. not geeky, everyone is a geek in their own unique ways.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 26 (view)

One Thing I Learned From Working As A Janitor Posted: 5/9/2009 7:24:50 AM
Aww...most woman, no offense are pigs when it comes to public washrooms and funny thing is, they have clean washrooms at home. Ive asked some why they do this and their replies were, who cares i dont clean this washroom...nice attitude. hey, lets go to their house and mess up their washrooms but in a high school, washrooms are a disaster, along with the graffity. But I cant complain with the pay we get for being a custodian, I just spray disaffectant all over, let it sit for minute and hose the washroom down .

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 86 (view)

Living solo Posted: 5/5/2009 10:52:30 PM
barra60...like the way you think....i agree. don great posts, enjoyed reading them along with the others. I would love to have someone in my life but unfortuately most are to quick to make the decision of moving in to fast these days....and I'm not willing to jump so fast. I dont care how well we get along, moving to fast, never lasts anyways. maybe in time, as we grow together as a couple then I would be comfortable with the idea but not within a few months, not even a year, thats way to soon for my likings.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 20 (view)

HELP! My dog... Posted: 5/5/2009 10:39:03 PM
OP@ shes a dog, not a human. some pet owners teach their pets, very bad habits and wonder later on how to break these habits that theyve learnt from their owners. maybe dont teach her any bad habits..is a start. dont get me wrong, I do have a dog and I love her very much but she doesnt run me or my home, I am the master and I what I say goes.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 41 (view)

How many testimonials have actually stopped you from messaging? Posted: 5/5/2009 10:27:31 PM
i have read some testimonials and they all sound like a sales pitch. those who wrote about the other, if theyre so great and wonderful, why arent they with that person is what i often wonder. so yes, theyre a turn off for me.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

TVs in bedrooms Posted: 5/5/2009 10:13:01 PM
Nope, I dont have one in my bedroom, bedroom is for other entertainment. having a tv in the bedroom only takes away from adventures..wink!

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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Do woman realise how ridiculous they look with pumped up lips? Posted: 5/3/2009 9:13:45 PM
I have thought about it, I wont lie but I know myself, I cant do it. I am all real and I believe God gave me what I have and wasnt meant to be alternated with cosmetic surgeries. my wrinkles, sagging body parts(wink), out of portion body images, grey hairs and a corky bubbly personality I am who I am, like it or not, I'm unique in my own ways. I often tell others, dont hate me because of an imperfection in your eyes, but to love me for the good person that I am.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 111 (view)

First signs of Spring Posted: 5/3/2009 9:00:43 PM
yeah!!! finally getting warmer here, little green stems are peeking thru the dirt, hearing theyre little cries as they stretch out for the sun, "oh, its been a very long winter, I am free"!!! waiting to bloom in time. this weekend, rotor tillers were in full use, everyone out in theyre yards raking and cleaning up after the winter, trimming, hanging branches on the trees, and everyone out for their daily walks. oh, lets not ferget the smell of skunks...phew ewy(plugs her nose)

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

no kids Posted: 4/30/2009 8:43:43 AM
I dont have children in my life but i do cherish the time spent with my nieces and nephews, they keep me young at heart. My work involves children of all ages. OP i know what you mean....my friends, family, and others have children and I being the only one, not having children. everything I do, involves children, dont get me wrong, I enjoy it and love it, god bless them little darlings. but making plans with them, and doing what i want to do, just isnt possible and sometimes, i would love to have just adult company, a friend who I can call and say, hey lets go on a trip or maybe on an adventure some where, or last minute plans being spontanous. hope i dont sound to selfish. I do know of some(in their 50's), whos children have grown up(25 & up) and have another child, because the house is to quiet and for the sake of not being alone...wow, that blows me away to see this. little do they know, theres so much more to life.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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Anyone else have difficulty getting people together? Posted: 4/30/2009 8:31:03 AM
^^^I'm in for 5 buks I agree...i find the bar scene gets old and boring after while, i dont care for it. I perfer to have a back yard bbque to entertain friends...pot luck bbque...little bonfire, guitar jamming, mingling with the guests, meeting new people....i find it to be more enjoying then the bar scene.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 210 (view)

Are there any people left that date one at a time? Posted: 4/27/2009 9:28:24 PM
Are there any people left that date one at a time? ^^^ when I am truly interested in one guy and not many..it is he who gets my undivided attention and effort. It is him I desire. I cant possible date more then one, I couldnt bare the thought, knowing I was leading more then one man on...just not right in my books and not acceptable.... so hes got MY ALL attention besides, I would want to be his only one so in return he would be my only one too, hes all I would need.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 18 (view)

just friends Posted: 4/25/2009 7:35:20 PM
If it were I, I wouldnt want him as a friend...hes already lied to you about his status....what next....kick him to the curb. as Amy had pointed out, I would be concerned why 4 marriages havent worked for him.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 271 (view)

Does anyone like being alone better? Can you take or leave having a relationship? Posted: 4/22/2009 7:58:26 AM
Does anyone like being alone better? Can you take or leave having a relationship? ^^^ today, I am enjoying being on my own, comfortable and content. I'm at the age where I dislike the bs, or drama, that most seem to thrive on, no thank you, I'll pass. I'd much rather have peace at mind and serenity. Enjoying my time, doing as I please without having to sacrifice any of my passions or interests. I do enjoy anothers company but at what cost and whos? there are days that I do miss the company of another but that feeling passes by quickly. Question is, Am I willing to go thru the agony, the pressure, the frustrations, the ridicoulous rules of dating, just to let someone in my life....right now i can say, I'm not willing too, it exhausted me where I cant be bothered now. difference is, my younger years not knowing any better being in a long term relationship... I tolerated alot, eventually, I lost my identity, which was my fault but who was to know i was young and nieve then.... but now, being mature and wiser, having my identity back, and knowing better, tolerance level just isnt there. I've enjoyed reading the posts...and glad to see I'm not alone in this. so anyone for card game on friday just a thought. well you all have a super day...and be good now.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 278 (view)

Getting even or holding a grudge... which would you do? Posted: 4/18/2009 10:12:19 PM
I say ...neither! if it were a bad situation, I just look at it where its coming from and walk away. sometimes others want us to feed the fire with fuel, but i refuse to waste my good energy on someone whos not worthy of it. theyre not worth my time and effort. and sometimes by not responding to their drama, pisses them off even more... ..poor buggas.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 85 (view)

Cuddling and Boundries Posted: 4/16/2009 9:05:33 AM
Im' not a friggin puppy; I'm not going to "cuddle" with someone if I'm not dating them. I'm not kissing them if I'm not dating them and I'm not giving a full body massage either. ^^^ agree with Mark....I also dont cuddle, nor kiss or give full body massages to "friends". Some have even called me an old prude and say I'm missing out...am I? I say ppfptttt, call me what you will, but I know I'm not looking for short term affection that lasts one night or 5 minutes, I want a lifetime of it. When it comes to any type of passionate affection, thats something I do with my exclusive partner only, not with "friends".

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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Cuddling and Boundries Posted: 4/15/2009 7:41:22 PM
@bomber>>a massage does not mean cuddling at all. or has the definition of cuddling been changed since i last cuddled with a loved one? maybe i missed something, lol ^^^ guess your not the only one...(scratches her head hmm) to me a massage is a massage...and when I go for massages, it relaxes my muscles and puts my mind at ease ...sex is the last thing on my mind at that time. if a guy offers me a massage, better be a damn good massage, if hes expecting sex afterwards but I will let you know when I had enough, he doesnt get to decide (rub here and there, most consider that a massage...not!) funny thing, I have always enjoyed giving massages and when I do, I concentrate on soothing their muscles and aches and nothing more.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 106 (view)

The loss of a pet Posted: 4/13/2009 1:45:28 AM
oh my....3 pages and I couldnt hold my tears back...sigh....made me think of my little Maggie(dog) whom I had to put down recently due to her illness. I hated the idea of making this decision of putting her down alone but i had too...and knowing once I walk out of the drs office, I wasnt going to see her again..it terrified me. In a private room, giving her a full bag of doggie bacon as her last meal and treat, holding her and crying, telling her I loved her very much, and petting her continuiously. after a while had gone by, I had to finally let her go and handed her to the Doctor. as they walked out of the room closing the door behind them....thats when I lost it...dropped to my knees and bald my eyes out...literally broke my heart in two. I gathered myself up and walked out, looking around the waiting room, everyone was looking at me with tears pouring down my face. I rushed to get to my car and drove off. I had her cremated and she now sits on my shelf in the sun by the window, just the way shes always liked it. I have had pets before but not like this one. no words can describe what she meant to me, I carry her in my heart with happy memories. she came into my life when I seperated with the ex 10 yrs ago, and gone thru some personal issues. I knew, I wasnt ready any time soon to be in a relationship, so thats when I decided to get a dog. I hated the idea of walking into an empty house...truly hated that feeling. She served her purpose in life, she was there for me, at any given time, got me thru alot of hard times, we had that special bond. we had so many good times together. to this day, I am so thankful for having her in part of my life when I needed her the most. And when it was near her time to go, I was there by her side, holding her every minute, taking care of her needs, after all, she did take care of me. I have learnt many lessons by having my Maggie....God rest her soul. this is the first time, I have ever spoken of her to anyone...and I am glad I did...I could sure use a hug right abouts now...blah. I thank you for sharing your stories and my condolences for your losses. to you all... @GUESS>>> many have told me to get another dog....not even a week had gone by and some have said, for gawd sakes, "its just a dog". hearing so many uncalled responses by many, I kept it to myself....and never spoke of her again. No one will truly know how one feels but ourselves. Some will be compasionate and understanding of our losses, and remember, everyone deals with hurt in their own ways.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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The guitar player's [GEAR] thread Posted: 4/10/2009 6:21:47 PM
I've been reading this forum and I have to say, its been intriguing to know many still love to play the guitar. my knowledge of guitars isnt that wide of range but its a passion of mine to sit and listen to others jam, and still do to this day, i could sit for hours to enjoying it....theres something about the guitar sound that brings me peace in mind. I dont play but I am looking up to taking some lessons...i can play a few chords..lol. but as a child, all my relatives, and even my parents played the guitar and often entertained us children on demand, no matter where we went, they had their guitars and those they visited would pull out their guitars and jam the night away.....omg....good ole days. I have to admit, I very much miss it. I'm not sure if the guitar I have is worth anything but that doesnt matter, it has its history behind it and stories. I have a grand prix, mint shape(label>hand crafted model 7675) . hopefully someday will play, wont be a pro like most of you...lol...buy hey, thats okay..its all good. so those who havent played in years....pick up the guitar and play again. I want to marry a guitarman.. who can play for me any time of the day. days

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

Cuddling and Boundries Posted: 4/8/2009 9:25:31 PM
yeah...I'm a softy....(shhhhh...don't tell anybody) ^^^ to late Korky...you let the cat out of the bag....we see it. OP@ there are no boundaries when it comes to cuddling, each to their own. I had a different experience once...met a guy and we hit it off from the start. funny thing was, he wanted to date, no problem and then he requested us to only cuddle for the first two weeks of seeing one another...NO sex. hmmm... okay that was a challenge itself but hey why not, this outta be interesting. Well, no words can describe how amazing that experience was.... it was pure tension...and then our animal instincts came out...oops...lol. but in over all, we dated for a year and half.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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I Like them Firm. How about you? Posted: 4/8/2009 9:15:15 PM
I like firm handshakes myself, If I was introduced to someone, or I introduce myself, I automatically put my hand out to give a handshake. guess, I was brought up that way. (I carry sanitizer lotion..lol) just incase I need it....never know.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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No pets please! I rather be single. Posted: 4/8/2009 9:04:34 PM
The animals will always be loyal, always be there for you, will not lie to you, and will do their damndest to make you feel better if you feel like shit. They will take care of you when you are sick...at least to the best of their ability. That is more than I can say for most humans. ^^ you pretty much read my mind. I have a small dog, I spoil her but I am her master and I run my house, not her. It beats coming home to an empty house. I love the fact I can come home after a hard days of work and walk in the door and there she is, so happy to see me, her tail wagging hundred miles an hour...happy happy joy joy!! . if someone were to enter my life, and he wagged his tail happy to see me as I walk in the door then he would be spoiled and pampered...lol......but shes all I got right now and I love her.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

Star Trek 11 in may, new trailer!!! Posted: 4/8/2009 8:49:43 PM
Star Trek 11 in may, new trailer!!! I was listening to the movie trailer and I heard >>James Tiberius Kirk and I so cant wait to see the movie... gonna be a good one.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 100 (view)

First signs of Spring Posted: 4/6/2009 10:54:33 PM
well, snow is melting pretty fast here and its getting warmer...oh spring is near. I started planting my seeds this weekend, all 280 little plants waiting to bloom

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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Why People Leave This Site Posted: 4/6/2009 10:46:41 PM
I have a few times and spring is almost here and I will be gone again for the summer. lets face it, how many times does one continue to put themselves out there to endless emails, Ims, phone calls to first meeting and never gets past that point.....seems like a waste of time an effort to getting no where. I have better things to do, then play high school games, we're not teens anymore.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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The one thing you miss most when you are single Posted: 4/5/2009 8:43:49 PM
The one thing you miss most when you are single ^^^ a partner who stands beside me no matter what, knowing I can rely on him to be there for me. Everything a relationship stands for, as a loving couple, someone to fill the emptiness in my home.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 67 (view)

Are interests important to you... Posted: 4/3/2009 4:22:23 PM
Are interests important to you... To a degree it is....everyone has theyre own passion in interests, for an example...i love gardening and doing my scrap booking...now I cant see most men doing these hobbies but then again who knows..lol. I wouldnt expect him to do my interests but maybe ask me about it from time to time, show alittle interest as to what I am doing and to respect the fact, its what I enjoy doing as long as it doesnt affect my partners time or the relationship....then its all good. I should never be put in a situation where I am having to give it up because he doesnt like it....not practical. some like skiing, well, skiings not for me, and I have tried it a few times... but I will go with them, and while I am waiting for them to do their sport, I can enjoy sitting by the fireplace, reading a book and watching others ski, i enjoy that. maybe a common interest to share together would be nice...like going for walks, outings, movies, camping, entertaining friends, going out for dinners, get involved in some activities and more.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

First signs of Spring Posted: 4/1/2009 7:31:58 PM
2 feet of snow here yesterday.... whens it going to end...i tell ya. thank gawd it was nice out today..melts quite a bit but i wasnt liking the shovelling heavy wet snow...man that was hard on my back after 4 hours. I am rooting for spring....bring it on whooot whoooot.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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What kinds of games do you play? Posted: 4/1/2009 7:18:43 PM
ugh..i knew it @bedroomblue... had that hunch wasnt the musical spoon theme for some reason. and no I havent tried the game your referring to...but it does sound like fun. I dont like playing games on computers...I like to socialize with people..interact in person. I find computer games are to addictive for many... endless hours looking at a screen and life passes them by. seen this happen to many people i know of...and now they wont go out...have fun..and interact with others....they even procrastinate on doing things. I cant get a few friends to do anything now....like pulling teeth and they always have a lame excuse as to why they cant go out ...now, thats sad. computer = the devil...thats how I see it. theres so much more to life and living it.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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What kinds of games do you play? Posted: 3/31/2009 10:35:49 PM
Does anyone know how to play spoons??? ^^^ raises her hands ...oh oh oh ..i can. hmm wonders, are you referring to playing music with spoons...thought i should ask.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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crafts with eyeglass lenses Posted: 3/31/2009 10:33:30 PM
@beaugrande..any local eye glass shop will take them for donations. under $40...wow good price..i wont say how much i have paid

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

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crafts with eyeglass lenses Posted: 3/31/2009 6:15:41 AM
I drop my old glasses to where I purchase them...they fix them up with glass cases and donate them to those who need them. there are plenty who cant afford glasses and need them. its a shame to throw them out.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

What kinds of games do you play? Posted: 3/31/2009 6:11:40 AM
i like challenges, word games, Scrabble and any strategy games....skudoo and crossword puzzles...stimulates the brain. I pretty much like any games. i remember years ago, playing card games every weekend with family or friends. wisk, oh hell, yahtzee, canasta or board games and texas poker...nothing like entertaining with friends. eat some food, have a few drinks and talk about whats going on in our lives thru out the week. now, its seems most are either to busy or dont play card/board games anymore or they resort to playing online games alone....so sad...socializing and entertaining has lost its game.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

BEER Posted: 3/30/2009 10:01:46 PM
not much of a beer drinker but occasionally I do have one, it would be Alexander Keiths beer.....smooth and tasty (they only come in bottles)

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 104 (view)

whats in the trunk of your car?? Posted: 3/30/2009 9:24:11 PM
well i went and checked my trunk ....4 fishing rods and accessories (ya never know when you need it) ...spare tire and a jack...and a doggie blanket for my little pouch(car rides and a scraper/brush. kinda cleaned out the trunk a few weeks ago. I dont usually carry a whole lot.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 94 (view)

whats in the trunk of your car?? Posted: 3/30/2009 8:10:58 AM
whats in the trunk of your car?? ^^^ I dont know...it went from one trunk to another.... get back to you on that list.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 183 (view)

why do people commit suicide in general? Posted: 3/30/2009 7:46:39 AM
Irisheyez...Quite often, it's not life that people ( who want to commit suicide ) want away from. Instead, it's the pain that's felt. ^^^ I agree...its a feeling thats left inside them...needing something to look forward too on a regular bases.... not finding a purpose in life, can leave one to feeling very lonely and empty. Its a tough world to be in today... seems kind and caring is gone..acceptance doesnt exsist, to much critcism and judgementals...so much hatred. aww such a lovely world to be living in huh? wheres the love?

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 89 (view)

First signs of Spring Posted: 3/30/2009 6:59:09 AM
hopefully soon for us....still have a foot of snow and we had some nasty freezen rain last week...now theyre calling for more snow might as well make the best of it... I am looking forward to making my gardens this year in my new home.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 88 (view)

First signs of Spring Posted: 3/30/2009 6:58:41 AM
hopefully soon for us....still have a foot of snow and we had some nasty freezen rain last week...now theyre calling for more snow might as well make the best of it... I am looking forward to making my gardens this year in my new home.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 237 (view)

Online Dating Guide for Men: Part Deux Posted: 3/29/2009 9:30:32 PM
@woodrow...fabulous darling just fabulous. I enjoyed part one and part two...I'm waiting for part three as for those who said " wish guys could read this " I couldnt help to think, would if every woman agreed to putting in their profiles..they wouldnt have a choice but to read it eventually right....throw them for a loop...omg I can just see their faces now.....klik next ...klik next ...klik next...huh?...wtf ...okay alittle humor....my bad...I couldnt resist...I'm leaving now....hehehe woodrow..keep up the writing, its intrigued me to read more. I have heard some say, they should have a dating class for most men.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

Pictures Posted: 3/29/2009 5:11:56 PM
how about sending your wife some of your naked pictures....might get the fire going with your marriage.

daylillies2

Joined: 7/9/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

coping with herpes Posted: 3/29/2009 10:46:05 AM
Isn't it ironic, that this post has only been up 1 day and over 120 people from this site have looked at it. I'm telling you, at least I admit to having it. ^^^ I have nothing to admit, I know, I am clean in my health department...I like to read on these topics to get more knowledge and understanding...so i know what to expect in my future when I do meet someone. after my ex cheated yrs ago..it scared me to think he could of given me something, so I got myself tested and it became a routine with my Dr. I did laugh one time he said we might as well test you for eveything....i giggled ok and said i wasnt having sex with anyone for yrs...he said dont matter, better to be safe then sorry and hes right. I get tested as a routine, every 6 months, even though i knew i was clean, just to put my mind at ease. I had 2 boyfriends after my long term marraige and requested to them before we got intimate...to get tested, they werent to keen bout it but they did it and I would have my results for them. until i knew it was safe... i wasnt putting out.... sorry but my bill of health comes first and i been thru enough crap in my life that i wont put myself thru anymore. its just a precaution I take for me and I am sticking to it. 15 yrs later....I am still clean.

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