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LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 199 (view)

why are hot guys so mean ???? Posted: 12/4/2008 12:21:57 PM
Because they are**, and if you girls keep letting them know how attractive are, they think their looks can win over their personality when they are WRONG. dont let them be, and holes, and they wont have the chance. they only do it if they think they can, and not all good looking guys are **holes.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 97 (view)

Say something or keep my mouth shut? Posted: 12/3/2008 12:37:09 PM
I would confront him first privately, to let him know you know, and your gonna put your foot down, and tell your sister, if he isnt honest with you. so give him the opportunity to be honest with you, and tell him to tell your sister/his wife what hes been doing if its harmless in his eyes, or tell him you'll tell her if he doesnt.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 58 (view)

My gf won't even let me touch her down there Posted: 12/3/2008 12:34:08 PM
Dude if you honestly respect the girl, than you wont pressure her into doing anything, she doesnt wanna do, and you'll wait until shes ready and feel comfortable. you should have more respect with her, knowing shes only been with one other person, and saved herself for that long. so dont make the relationship about fooling around, show her you actually care/respect her, and than when she see's that, she'll feel more comfortable to do things with you. But she obviously knows what she wants, and knows that, she doesnt want her relationship to be based on sex, and she has to wait until shes comfortable to take that step with her. So if your just looking for action, than maybe your with the wrong girl, but if you honestly wanna make it work, than you'll respect her.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Being the other woman Posted: 12/3/2008 12:28:30 PM
In my opinion, I see that as being degrading. Someone whose willing to be the "back up"/ the other women or whatever, they obviously have self confidence issues, or they'd turn away and say no. Not only is it hurtful to the other person, but its also hurtful to yourself knowing that would even use someone and do something like that. Tell your friend, to put themselves in the guys wifes shoes, how would she feel, if she was married to a guy, and he was going behind her back with "another women". thats so disrespectful of the man, and so degrading, for the girl to lower herself, to allow herself to be involved in that, shes only gonna end up hurt. So to answer your question, no i couldnt be the other women. It sucks to be cheated on, and it also sucks to be the person, that the other person is cheating on with. Thats just not something to get yourself into, just causes a big mess.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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What if Prostitution was Legal? Posted: 12/3/2008 12:22:49 PM
As disgusting as it already is, it just would be even more disgusting, if just gives women the excuse to sleep around, and say its to make money. Friggen get a real job, geez.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 215 (view)

How freaky are you? Posted: 12/2/2008 7:15:24 PM
Depends what you consider freaky lol. I know i like it to be freaky sometimes, so I'd give myself a 7ish.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Why do you love me? Posted: 12/2/2008 8:08:24 AM
" I've asked this to some before because it was to soon!!!! and wanted to know there reasons." In response to that statement. what is too soon? does there have to be a time limit on when you should open up to someone and tell them how you really feel? But honestly I think people ask "why" to alot of things, its just the easiest question to ask someone, and when you dont know what else to say, usually thats the first thing that pops to someones mind is "why", because like someone else said, maybe they just dont think its believable, and they dont think that someone who actually love them, they didnt think they were lovable, so thats to most known thing to say, is "why".

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Breaking the secret man code shhhh! Posted: 12/2/2008 8:03:12 AM
Haha I dont think that was ever much of a secret...Most girls realize that after awhile about guys. guys just hide their feelings, and they dont want to be known as the sensitive one. Its actually pretty obvious. I wonder what guys would do, if girls were the ones who acted that way, and just acted like they didnt care.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Friends with and EX!!!! Posted: 12/2/2008 7:58:33 AM
Well is his new girlfreind friends with her ex's, or other guys? if so, than she shouldnt have a problem if hes friends with you. as much as people dont like when someone their with is friends with ex's or other girls in a sense, if they wanna keep them happy, than they will suck it up, and not have such a big trust issue, and not have a problem with who their other half or whatever is friends with. you might not always agree on their friendships, but its their choice and you gotta respect that. So If he was a true friend at all, he'd tell his girlfriend that, and than let her get to know you, by the 3 of you hanging out together. but when you really think about it, do you honestly wanna see your ex with another girl? It might be akward, but your doing all of this to try to keep a friendship with a guy, well if he cared at all, than shouldnt he be puttin effert into it as well?

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 91 (view)

What is the sexiest thing you have ever done? Posted: 12/1/2008 9:55:05 PM
Id say the sexiest thing i have ever done is the day i started having sex...lucky guy lol..

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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How long can you go without sex or masturbation? Posted: 12/1/2008 9:52:17 PM
" My only question is why? Why go without, ever? I'm a woman and I love being a woman, I consider that a part of "being in touch" with my femininity (sp?) so to speak." I totally agree with that statement lol. I wouldnt wanna go without it either, I waited 22 yrs of my life and went without sex, and than once i started, i just dont want to stop, i would do it ALOT if that were possible. especially when masterbation doesnt work for someone, you kinda need a good feel sometimes from someone else. but if i had to go without it i would, but honestly wouldnt wanna, cuz its just a great turn on, so why give something up, or go without it, if you enjoy it.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 12/1/2008 9:47:16 PM
I dont know what your talking about dude...cuz I know for myself that i love to swallow, its better than making a mess, or spitting it everywhere, so i rather swallow it, i actually think it taste good. thats my opinion anyways, but not all girls think the way i do.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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WHY are you guys so QUIET when you have sex? Moan for me! Posted: 12/1/2008 9:44:21 PM
I guess guys perfer hearing the girl making noises..guys do make the odd noises, especially when its time for their surprise to blow lol.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Cold red aliens land and ask for hot water bottles Posted: 12/1/2008 9:42:19 PM
Been there done that....its not that bad to do during the time of the month, especially if its not that heavy, but i'd stay clear on those days, but the light ones arent so bad, it feels really good i think. but oral sex for a guy to perform on a female durin that time, NOT A GOOD IDEA, EWW LOL.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Question about an encounter Posted: 12/1/2008 9:51:53 AM
What the heck, why did she give you blow jobs using a condom? what good is that, you dont get the real taste, only the taste of a condom. but maybe she was lacktating and a bit of milk came out of her breats, or maybe your just imaginating it, who knows lol.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 107 (view)

girls with high sex drive Posted: 11/30/2008 5:51:42 PM
Hahaha Yeah I have a high sex drive as well, but i guess you just gotta be careful who you tell that too, cuz than guys try to take advantage if they know, but also just know how to stand your ground, and when to turn a guy down if its not what you want. and even tho you have a high sex drive, i know that a guy respects a girl, as much as they want it, for turning them down. But just gotta have limits thats all, nothing wrong with having it with one person at a time, but dont want it to be plenty of people, cuz that gives off a bad rep.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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What words would you LEAST like to hear after sex? Posted: 11/30/2008 5:48:03 PM
Girl : Are you gonna cum yet Guy: No im too tired too Girl: well i want you to cum Guy: I cant, im too tired, so it will take longer Girl: well i wanna keep going lol

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 269 (view)

How many sexual partners does it take to become a turn off! Posted: 11/29/2008 6:22:12 AM
Lmao yeah if it worked that way, and you went by deviding the girls age by 3, my number would be 7.3333333, and i def dont wanna get that high.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 312 (view)

Re: Most Wild Place You Had sex! Posted: 11/28/2008 8:38:30 PM
In the back of a van on the side of the backroads. in a car at the lake. In the grass in a parking lott of a car dealership late at night lol.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 310 (view)

All she wants to do is watch porn,have sex ,watch sports and drink beer Posted: 11/27/2008 1:46:45 PM
Wow, its not often you hear a guy saying he feels played and used, usually its the other way around. so it seems like shes more like a guy, if shes the one pulling those strings. But if you didnt like what was going on from the beginning, you would of stood up and said something, and you wouldnt of had sex with the girl, knowing thats only what she was looking for. I say there is nothing wrong with watching porn with someone, but if you dont want it to be about just that, than you should of known better. But it doesnt necassarily have to be about sex, just cuz you watch porn, maybe you should of turned around and said " hey since the porn is turning you on, you can play with yourself you dont need me". Because if you were looking for a relationship, you should of known from the first date, that clearly the chick wasnt looking for that. she obviously just wants to have a good time, and if you dont wanna offer her that, than back off, and tell her to find someone who does. But dont give into the girl thinking if you do, than maybe she'll want more from you.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Adult chat lines..would you? Do you? Posted: 11/27/2008 1:39:55 PM
If you think about it, a dating site, as like this one, is kinda like a chat room, but not totally the same, but you can msg random people, and talk to them, so its pretty much the same thing, but instead of calling it a chatroom, its called a dating site.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Is casual sex getting a bad rap in our society? Posted: 11/27/2008 1:37:58 PM
Is casual sex getting a bad rap in our society? The answer: NOOOOOOOOO...Its not the casual sex persay thats getting the bad rep, its the person doing it, and depending on how that person goes about taking advantage of having casual sex. I dont think that there is a problem with having casual sex with one person, but than when there is that person, whose sleeping casually with plenty of people, than its not so casual anymore. So its how you go about doing it, that makes people look at the person differently, not society itself. And yeah casual sex can turn into a relationship, but it also doesnt always lead to that, it can have once already been at the point, than turn into FWB. I agree i think its better having a FWB or having casual sex with one person, than going out and sleeping with some random, or differerent randoms. But than again everyone judges differently, and views it all differently.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 79 (view)

How can a man cum more? Posted: 11/27/2008 1:28:05 PM
I've heard from guys, the longer you leave it alone, than once you do something to it after awhile, the more will come from it lol. The more pleasure a guy gets, the harder it is for them to cum, or sometimes they cum quicker, but sometimes it takes longer, but the less pleasure, the more likely there is to be more cum from it.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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a sexual question Posted: 11/27/2008 1:25:38 PM
It lives on with you as long as you do, its a never ending thing.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 53 (view)

Anyone had cuddling turn into more? Posted: 11/27/2008 11:11:25 AM
Hahaha Ummm yes it does happen lol...

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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How Do You Get Somone Out Of Your Head? Posted: 11/25/2008 12:16:50 PM
in my opinion, I dont think you can ever get someone out of your head, unless they meant nothing to you, but even than, its not like you lose your memory of the person, you still remember them, you just dont think about them, but someone who you felt meant something to you, its pretty hard to get them out of your head, you just more or less, try to think less and less about them. I think the only way to stop thinking of someone, is when you start thinking of someone else, so in that sense your always thinking of someone in one way or another.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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What defines a Sport ? Posted: 11/20/2008 8:07:39 AM
A sport - who came up with the word sport anyways? I'd say it means, a team playing with another team, to gain the highest score. thats a good way to define a sport.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Are there ANY women who don't CHEAT? Posted: 11/15/2008 8:36:08 AM
Obviously there are decent people out there who wouldnt cheat. I know I could/would never ever cheat on someone, I would end a relationship if I didnt wanna be in it, I wouldnt cheat, thats just low.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Women & Blowjobs Posted: 11/15/2008 8:33:33 AM
I disagree lol. Guys know the difference between good and bad obviously, if they like it and are turned on, than clearly its good. And a girl knows from expereince, and just knowing the right kinda skills, and how to make it good. Especially when you do it enough, you know what a guy likes, so you learn. thats my opinion anyways.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Women kissing after oral sex Posted: 11/15/2008 8:30:43 AM
Its great either way.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 843 (view)

Curvy Vs Slim Posted: 11/15/2008 8:28:37 AM
I'd say guys like curves..gives them something more to play with lol..cuz i got curves, and i've always been told that they like it.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Lovemaking in front of pets Posted: 11/15/2008 8:26:31 AM
LOL..yeah thats a little weird, even tho their animals, its still weird, cuz they can sense what goes on lol.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 11/15/2008 8:22:29 AM
If a guy truely likes you for you, than their gonna respect you either way. But from my experience, most guys love oral. I dont think i could live life without not knowing what it was like, honestly, its an amazing turn on, weather being to giver, or receiver, well in my opinion anyways. But than some people perfer sex over oral, and some perfer oral over sex, so it depends on the person really.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 11/15/2008 8:14:36 AM
cheating is cheating, weather its kissing someone else or anything else, its still cheating. If your committed to someone, than you shouldnt be doing anything sexual at all with anyone else. I've heard some people say, as long as it doesnt involve kissing than its not cheating, but i dont agree with that at all. if more people were to think like that, than more people who be doing other sexual things with other people, but cheating is cheating, no matter what it is, starting from kissing. it would turn me off more knowing if i was with someone and they slept with someone else, rather than if they kissed them either way it would be cheating, but sexuallness is worse than anything.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 120 (view)

All Night Lovemaking! Posted: 11/14/2008 2:39:45 PM
Sounds good to me lol

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 61 (view)

Ever cheated and not felt guilty? Posted: 11/7/2008 11:18:26 AM
Cheating is one of the lowest things somebody can do to somebody. I would never do something like that, but its happened to be before. Why do people cheat? 1. Because they have insecurity issues 2. they want to feel wanted by another person. 3. something has happened to them in their past, so thats a way of rebelling. 4. an excuse to get out of a relationship. 5. they are bored. 6. they want to try something different. 7. they arent thinking properly 8. they lack confidence 9. they are only thinking of their own feelings. 10. Its really low of them, and they have committment issues, and they like screwing things up. Its an awful thing to do to somebody.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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How can anyone feel comfortable enough to have sex? Posted: 11/7/2008 11:03:41 AM
Okay it doesnt make you a bad person, or a weirdo for thinking that way. everyone is entitled to have their own opinions, and everyone expereinces everything differently. There is totally nothing wrong with saving yourself to marriage, I give alot of people credit who do that, because I honestly kept telling myself for the longest time that i was gonna save myself until marriage, but than something changed my mind. But at least i can be proud to say i waited 22 years of my life, to wait until i felt i was ready, and i have no problem admitting to that, for the longest time, i had a fear of what sex would be like, i thought i would cry, or that i'd puke, or that i wouldnt like it, or that i would get badly hurt, i just didnt trust anyone enough to give it up, but it took me 22 yrs to change my mind. But i waited until i was ready, and i felt comfortable, not because of what someone else wanted, but it was my choice. So to answer your question, if you dont feel comfortable to have sex, than clearly your not ready for it, or its not with someone you should be doing it with. sex can mean different things to different people, but I know that i couldnt of just given it up to just anyone, it took so much for me to. And there is nothing wrong with having sex, yes the right thing to do is wait until your comfortable and your ready, and you respect the other person and yourself. but do you honestly think someone who sleeps around with lotsa people has any respect for themselves, or anyone for them? probably not. Thats why you hear about people sayin how their Friends with Benefits, well thats because they feel comfortable with that person, and there is some kind of connection there, or its just a one night stand, and thats no good.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Sexually Frustrated Posted: 11/7/2008 10:48:35 AM
in all honestly, i think thats her way of hinting at that she'd be willing to do it with you, so maybe you should offer her a hand, because thats obviously what shes looking to hear.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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She used to do escort. How can I get past this tough time and move past her history? Posted: 11/7/2008 10:40:51 AM
Ummm wow, first of all why did she wait for so long to come out and tell you the truth, she shouldnt be hiding the truth from you. Second of all, there are lots of jobs that would help her pay for school, so thats no excuse for her to say it was the only way to help her pay for school, because she could of did anything else. 3rd of all if it made her cry herself to sleep at night, than she had no respect for herself, or she wouldnt of done it to begin with. 4th of all the past is the past, and since you werent apart of that part of her life, at least she wasnt doing that sort of thing when she got with you. 5th of all you said you supported her when she told you, but the question is, did you just tell her that to make her happy, or can you honestly get past that she did that kinda thing in her past? 6th of all, now that it has come out in the open, does it make you see her different, do you still love her for who she is, and not for the choices she made in her past, if you can say yes to that, than you can put it behind you, and move on from it, but if not, than you have a problem, and if you wanna make it work, than you'll do whatever it takes to put that part of her life behind you. Also Im sure you figured she had slept with guy(s) before you, as you had been with other girls before her, so would you think any different? she derserves credit for stopping it tho, and not continueing on with it, and hopefully she learned that wasnt the best way to go around about it.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 321 (view)

Why do women equate sex with committment... Posted: 11/7/2008 8:59:41 AM
Not all women think that sex comes with commiment. but just think about it, when your sleeping with someone, and your not in a relationship with them, but your continueing to sleep with them, its not like your sleeping with anyone else or they are, so your kinda are commiting yourself to that one person, becuz your only sleeping with them. But if you want something to be just about sex, no strings attached, than maybe you should make sure to tell the other person where it stands, so you both know and are on the same level, so that way nobody ends up hurt, and looks at it as being more.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Why are so many people having sex without using CONDOMS? Posted: 11/7/2008 8:55:12 AM
Apperently it feels better without a condom, but its not safer without one. nobody can be that trusted, like i can understand if you've known someone for a long time, or been with them a long time, and you know their only with that one person, than its understandable, but if people are having mulitple partners, and its not long term, than its not the safest way to go thats for sure. you know how some guys say "well i will pull out" well sorry folks but if you believe that, than your silly, becuz it doesnt always work like that, so unless you wanna have a baby, or your shooting blanks or something, than the safe thing to do, is USE A CONDOM.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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What do you NOT like about sex? Posted: 11/7/2008 8:49:42 AM
what is there not to like about sex, its awesome, when its done right lol. But i guess it would really depend on the person, and what they expect, some people like it to last longer, some not so much, If i could say one thing, i'd say i wish it could last longer, and more than once too. I wish it were something that could take place all the time haha. And not every position works for everyone either lol.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 114 (view)

Why is sex on the first date such a big deal? Posted: 11/7/2008 8:43:42 AM
If sex comes into play on a first date, than i wouldnt consider it a date thats for sure. A first date is to get to know someone, and for them to respect you, how is a person gonna respect you, and want anything more than sex from you if you sleep with them the first time you meet. I personally dont think thats ever something I could do. You gotta feel comfortable with the person to jump into bed with them, i doubt a first date can do that for ya lol. Just think "why buy a cow when you can get the milk free", so if you plan on having sex on a first date, than you got accept the conseqances of knowing thats all it could ever be is just sex. But kissing is another story, kissing someone can say alot, but i think sex is taking it too far for the first time. or maybe even the first few times, but i guess it depends on a person. But if your lookin for it to turn into more, than dont have sex right away, but if you just want the sex, than go for it lol.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Unusual Compliments Posted: 11/7/2008 8:38:11 AM
My sholders lmao, or my legs, or my eyes, or even my lips, or my hair, or my smile, my height.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 143 (view)

Why do you have sex? Posted: 10/29/2008 12:43:23 PM
Because it feels good, and its addicting.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 10/23/2008 12:21:30 PM
Actually not all girls have a problem with it, I know I dont have a problem with it, depending on how it taste, but usually I like the taste of it. But everyone is different. Some girls love it, some girls hate it, just like some guys hate performing oral on girls, and some love it, works both ways.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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DAILY QUOTES Posted: 8/9/2008 12:24:14 PM
The Next Thing Up From Falling Backwards, Is Taking A Step Forward Before You Let Yourself Fall Backwards Again.

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Deja vu.... Posted: 8/6/2008 12:21:49 PM
This makes me wonder, do people ever have any good stories about ppl they met off this dating site, or any dating site or are all the stories bad?

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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coming out of a long relationship and finding it hard to let go Posted: 8/5/2008 11:19:08 AM
" I put up with all the hurt she put me through and gave her everything... she was the world to me... " Alls that says there, is how can it be so hard for you to let go knowing you just said with all the hurt she put you through, why would u wanna continue wanting a person that puts you through pain/anger/emotion after emotion. when telling yourself that, shouldnt it make you wanna let go? because you said she was the world to you, but were you the world to her, if you were, than do you think she would of put you through all the hurt you said you've been feeling, it has to work both ways in a relationship you know. If your making all the effert and the other person isnt, than desnt that tell you something?

LiL Meggie

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Met someone who continuously goes through women online.. Posted: 8/5/2008 11:12:54 AM
Thats why you dont trust anyone that easily that you meet online. dont thinking talking to them for a day, that you can learn alot about them, cuz they could be feeding you lines. so thats why it takes time to get to know someone, and feel comfortable, and be around them a bunch of times to see what their all about before u get into anything serious with them.

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