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CountryGirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Why do females go for the badboys Posted: 2/17/2009 6:43:47 PM
I personally like the "good" badboys...I've dated enough of the "badboys" to know that there's no future in being with someone that chooses not to be honest, loyal, and trustworthy. These are not qualities that are compromisable for a longterm relationship in my eyes. With a degree in Criminal Justice and Psychology I am also not too inclined to date someone who has a rap sheet as long as my arm and STILL hasn't learned how to make positive choices in their life...not that I don't understand that everybody makes mistakes at some point in their life...but let's be moving in a better direction now for sure... However, I also know that I don't ever foresee myself with a pushover, no thrill, no wit sort of guy either though...I like to be challenged and love the high of experiencing life with someone that I adore and cherish that can keep me on my toes but always smiling too! The "badboys"are fun for awhile...the "goodguys" are predictable forever...but finding a "good badboy" that can hold his own and keep up with me for the long haul would definitely be where it's at!!!! I'm the girl who's always game for whatever thrill life's got to offer on a Saturday night...and a Catholic church girl on Sunday morning! ;)

countrygirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Why do women date mutiple guys at once? Posted: 12/28/2008 6:35:40 PM
Why do PEOPLE date multiple PEOPLE??? Typically it is to find the "right one"... hence the whole concept of going out on "dates" and getting to know people until you meet THE person...of course there are also many other "reasons" that people date multiple people- some don't want a committed relationship, others want multiple sex partners, some do it for attention, for some it's just the thrill of the game, and others to fill various other voids in their life or relationships...however, I personally think that "dating" multiple people at once kind of defeats the whole idea of giving a person the opportunity to be the "one" when you meet someone that you would like to get to know better... When you find THE person that has all (or at least MOST) of the things you are looking for in another... you no longer have the need to keep looking and going out on "dates" with multiple people when you have found someONE that captures and keeps your full attention that can move you towards an exclusive and committed relationship...or at least I don't...but until then... However, I do also think it is important to be honest about your actions and intentions and to be up front about what it is that you are looking for and seeking out...that way nobody gets hurt and nobody is wasting time with the wrong impression...

countrygirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

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What makes someone classy? Posted: 12/17/2008 11:02:49 AM
Living with and by morals and personal standards. Honesty, loyalty, trust, respect, intelligence, and stability are all good contributors as well. The ability to carry yourself well with confidence in who you are and what you want without the arrogant and self-centered attitudes and behaviors. Being comfortable in your own skin and being able to articulate your needs and desires without degradation.

countrygirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 793 (view)

Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 12/17/2008 10:12:56 AM
Cheating is cheating...if your in a committed relationship with another and not being honest about your actions, feelings, or intentions you're not only cheating on your partner, but more importantly- you're cheating yourself.

countrygirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft Posted: 12/17/2008 10:01:01 AM
I would go out on a limb and say that it's probably something more psychological than anything else...maybe they got "hurt" in that position or don't like NOT being in control... I personally love the position myself and have never had a partner lose his erection in that position, but I think open communication with your partner is always key to finding out and understanding what works and what doesn't for both of you...

countrygirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 65 (view)

If you had the perfect partner how often would you want sex? Posted: 12/17/2008 9:44:29 AM
As often as possible...no limits, but a minimum of a couple times during the week would definitely be preferable!

countrygirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Meet Married Women ads? Posted: 12/17/2008 9:14:37 AM
I have to say that I totally agree...it is this kind of mentality that has produced the extremely high divorce rates and the premise that it is okay to live in a "throw away" society that views marriage and practically everything else as some form of entertainment and "if it's broke...just get a new one and keep that until you get tired of that one too"! What I can't figure out is why people even bother getting married if they want to go out and sleep around...why not just stay single and hoe around? Is it just about the health and financial benefits???? A friend of mine talked to me about other partners that he and his wife brought into their bedroom for entertainment as well...Do morality, commitment, faithfulness, or respect (for yourself or partner) even exist anymore? Needless to say, their marriage didn't end up working out in the long run. I think a lot of people use sex as a way to feel validated and wanted...problem is, if you allow yourself to be physically used- it's not going to make you feel better psychologically and the feelings of emptiness and aloneness will still persist. Additionally: If you ever happen to develop a conscious, you also feel guilty about being a liar and a cheater (if your partner doesn't know what's going on)... OR If your partner does know what is going on and is okay with it...I can't imagine a person could lie to themselves for very long and will eventually figure out that they aren't really "wanted" or loved by their spouse if they are willing to share you with others in an intimate way...

CountryGirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

First POF dating experience Posted: 11/21/2008 3:39:34 PM
Nope, haven't had anything like that happen...thank God! LOL

countrygirl9903

Joined: 7/10/2008

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Can men deal with NOT getting blowjobs? Posted: 11/9/2008 6:58:14 PM
If so, then he's not the guy for me LOL...

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