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Domestic Violence
Posted: 7/17/2008 6:58:56 AM | | You can start your life over. I left an abusive marriage a year and a half ago. Life can begin again but it takes a lot of work. First of all you have to take this one day at a time. The longer you are out of the situation the more objective you will be regarding this situation. This is not going to be easy because you do have feelings for this person and that's ok. It's not okay to accept this type of behavior. The most important thing you need to do is get you some help. Seek out counseling and a support group for domestic violence. You have to concentrate on getting yourself healthy. There are reasons we accept this type of behavior. It could be things that has happened in our childhood or other reasons or events that has happened in our lives. You have to get yourself well so that you can let him go. It does not get better no matter how many times he apologizes or says that he will change. He has to want to change and not just because someone wants him to. I just want to encourage and let you know that you will be ok. You can get your life back. Thousands of women including myself have went on to lead independent, successful lives. If you need someone to talk to, please contact me. | | | |
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