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vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 140 (view)

Oh, its to soon to have sex... yah, blah, blah, blaw Posted: 11/21/2009 6:18:34 AM
yeah, call me a bi tch but that is why i don't date i will wait until i find a man who is a MAN who will STICK WITH me and is not looking for a taste EWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE lewd piece of crappy schit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go back into the toxic pond

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

strange signs?! Posted: 11/21/2009 6:00:07 AM
Shanadoah~AGREED Totally Flak-OH city red light~sounds like a man that i was talking to who lives with a woman and also RELOCATED with her get this people really likes me wants me to take him seriously i told him to get rid of the roomie HEY~I want a husband I have two kids i don't want to be part of his threesome fukin jerk must've been luv right, eh????

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 141 (view)

Whats the problem with long hair on a guy ? Posted: 11/4/2009 8:32:32 PM
i love longer hair on a man as long as it it not matted i like it brushed no baseball caps. what is it about men with baseball caps? women hate those pictures! we want to see you. not some baseball cap! longer hair ROCKS

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 153 (view)

Do abusers call the victims the abusers? Posted: 11/4/2009 7:46:57 PM
here is a weird question. my ex told me that his ex of 11 years was abusive. then every day of our marriage he called me a tart. he is from the UK. then he called me an abuser. do they twist it on us as some form of manipulation to make us take the blame and responsibility for their actions?

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 55 (view)

Relationship with a metrosexual! Posted: 10/21/2009 6:39:00 PM
hygiene does not define sexual preference

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 81 (view)

The 'I LOVE YOU' Bomb... Posted: 10/2/2009 1:01:27 AM
i did not know that there was a time period on love. Hey??? How many people on here are still married to their ex who cheated on them?

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 88 (view)

The true mindset of a woman.... Posted: 9/27/2009 5:15:33 AM
Hey **Rickeyes58**You have yourself well groomed and quite attractive.

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 19 (view)

Are Women much more pickier/choosy than Men when it comes to Dating/Relationships? Posted: 9/27/2009 4:53:09 AM
i find that there are critical men and women. there are some people looking for the perfect person which doesn't exist, so they are never happy. when it come to CHOOSY/PICKY it goes either way.

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 31 (view)

Is taking a break from dating a good idea when you are frustrated/fatigued? Posted: 9/25/2009 9:41:19 PM
i have taken a beak completely. even just today, one of my neighbours was asking me about dating.........do i date.....sex..... and i was like EWEEEEEEEEE............only if the man gives me money...............i am sick of being used and just pulled away in my car.Tonight I had someone else ask me about dating and i said nope. he asked about FWB and i said why so they can fuk me and leave? i don't need this schit in my life. yeah, he was hitting on me also. he is another freebird. UGGGHHHHH~~~~~~~~~~~~~STAY AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Burn in hell

vivaciousvixen2009

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Msg: 52 (view)

He dumped me over the net. Not sure what happend. Posted: 9/25/2009 9:32:08 PM
ohhhhhhhh, he played you like a fiddle..................... he wasn't man enough to have the ballz to speak to you face to face what a pathetic waste of space eeewwwweeeee wienie boy! who's testicles have not dropped yet!

vivaciousvixen2009

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Msg: 28 (view)

Found love were it was least expected Posted: 9/23/2009 6:33:42 PM
I believe in forever. My grandparents were married their whole life. Over 70 years!!! My parents are married 50 years. There are men that say I am cynical because my ex was mean and i am divorced. That is untrue. The people that I know are "Fairytale Married". So to the cynics that want to take you down And Congratulations!

vivaciousvixen2009

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(HELP!)My girlfriend's friend broke up with his girlfriend. Posted: 9/22/2009 2:34:58 AM
i have been in "those emotions" sad -confused~hurtdissed/broken hearted^ect. ***next time join them ~~~~OP post back and tell us what happened@@@@

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 51 (view)

what's up with this? Posted: 9/22/2009 2:31:13 AM
if he calls, just tell him that you are not interested in him. the end

vivaciousvixen2009

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Msg: 39 (view)

why woman get mad!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 9/22/2009 2:15:58 AM
Don't you know that we women are perpetually in a state of PMS? We just can't help but to yelp as some meek man! Men will never learn the nature of tampons and maxi pads!

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

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Older people only pls Posted: 9/22/2009 2:05:10 AM
if you were molested see a therapist don't have sex with anybody many people wait until marriage to make a lifelong commitment then sex is based on trust one night stands are shallow dear

vivaciousvixen2009

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Is it healthy to check out other people online when your dating someone? Posted: 9/22/2009 1:59:34 AM
it is not a matter of being secure as a woman. it is a matter of his commitment to you. you have every right to feel secure. he is looking for more. that does not make you less of a woman. recreational men are players. does that make you happy? it is like him going to a hooker or stripper. would you want it?

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

Found love were it was least expected Posted: 9/22/2009 1:54:10 AM
I think sometimes it takes some bad apples for us to really really appreciate a good apple i am so happy that you found a man that honestly cares that you trust i wish you the best say your prayers and thank God for His Blessings

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 29 (view)

How do I get myself, to give myself, permission to let this go...? Posted: 9/21/2009 8:44:55 PM
healthy love doesn't hurt

vivaciousvixen2009

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Msg: 66 (view)

Is it worse to get rejected for your looks or your personality? Posted: 9/21/2009 8:27:53 PM
reject me for my looks at least i will know that my personality is being considered

vivaciousvixen2009

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Must have job, car, house...are they after my cash? Posted: 9/21/2009 8:15:03 PM
my ex has lived off of women his whole life this is why women want a man who will take responsibility hindsight doesn't correct my mistakes of the past

vivaciousvixen2009

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Msg: 63 (view)

Meeting her other suitors? - wtf Posted: 9/21/2009 7:57:00 PM
NAH he wanted the three of them to hang out BOING

vivaciousvixen2009

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Flakey Girl after the 3rd date.. Opinions please?!?! Posted: 9/20/2009 7:30:35 PM
ask her if she wants to get together or blow it off? why not get the straight answer?

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 87 (view)

Girlfriend going on holiday with her male friend. Posted: 9/20/2009 7:13:50 PM
she needs to tell him to buy another ticket for you. it needs to be clarified that you are her other half, she would love to go but only if you are invited.

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 59 (view)

Meeting her other suitors? - wtf Posted: 9/20/2009 11:36:00 AM
this is one of the funniest posts that i have ever read OP boy ~~~~do you hustle in the "tightie whities" dingle berry boy

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

Repulsive penis ?? Posted: 9/20/2009 10:52:39 AM
these are the grossest websites that i have ever seen it isn't good foreplay yucky!

vivaciousvixen2009

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Sick parent - Healthy child Posted: 9/19/2009 8:28:47 PM
i get chronic sinus infections bronchial asthma get my meds off of the internet have piss poor health care they REFUSE to open my file i get knocked out cold with pain not breathing asthma inhaler allergy meds antibiodics cranking bad headaches and total shutdown do what you can

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

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Sick parent - Healthy child Posted: 9/19/2009 8:54:48 AM
i have two children in diapers. my children are very smart and understand communication. i talk to my children. they are my best little buddies. the three of us are very close. my son is autistic and hard to manage. he has lots of love. as a family unit~ working together~ we manage I just give 100% and put my needs aside. i have had people ask when am i going to take care of me? i can't. i have two little ones to tend to first. they do require 100%. i just try my best

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

It is it him or me! Posted: 9/18/2009 10:43:37 PM
i would ask him exactly "what do you mean by that comment? what are saying? i don't quite understand?"

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 38 (view)

Are other countries better at relationships than America? Posted: 9/18/2009 10:29:19 PM
I have had very close friends that are Americans who were born and lived a large part of their lives in Egypt, Japan, Philippines, Iran, Iraq, Germany, England, China, Italy, and a few other countries. In my 20 years prior to being MOMMY. I relocated for business throughout the east coast. Lived lots of places. Business meetings.....Yada ..Yada ..Yada.. From my friendships and conversations, I have learned that all societies have basically gone nuts. There is no priority or respect on marriage and lifetime commitment. Italian men bring their laundry home to their mothers at 30 years old! The Italian woman don't want them because the men want to be pampered! The Iraq and Iran teenagers are having sex. The same in Egypt. The Philippine act respectful but are sexually active. The Europeans live together, they just don't marry like Americans. So basically, it is a worldwide problem. "C'est la vie"

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 29 (view)

I find this site disheartening.... Posted: 9/16/2009 9:59:58 PM
here is a hint work on one person that you like and that is it be a man stop whining stop scoping focus invest your energy

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 32 (view)

Question for dating women who seek info on their Exs. Posted: 9/15/2009 9:40:13 PM
my ex doesn't pay child support~he is in a different country plus has moved to a different area in that country so on my ebay i posted a pic of the family yeah, i know that he has been on my ebay so~i go to his ebay waiting for him and the other psycho to cheat on each other and for the ebay to show him moved elsewhere FYI: they both are cheaters and sent me a pic of them having sex NICE people ALSO: He is not allowed to return to the family in the divorce papers. I will not let him hurt my family any further. yeah-i check up!!!!!

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Fed up Posted: 9/15/2009 8:28:09 PM
OP, i have been to divorce class. i also tended open bible church every week. my ex is now wicca!!!!!!!!!! let dumb ar se people judge you. your only judgment that you answer is to God. there are 2 paths that we can follow, the path of God or the path of the devil. the path that these men have chosen is their choice. pray for your ZEN you don't have to pray for your exes the only perfect Christian was a Jew and humans hung Him from a cross so don't try to be perfect. try to be close to God. try not to hurt others. try to make the right decisions for yourself. God will let you have a man when you let Him take some of the burden. God loves everybody. Even the people on the forums who mock Him.

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 123 (view)

80% admit to supplying false details on their profiles Posted: 9/15/2009 8:02:41 PM
i know~~~~ tons more women responded to 6'0" because for some strange reason women like men six foot and over. very very weird???? i had to look at your profile. you made me look

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 46 (view)

I need mature advice on restarting a relationship. Posted: 9/15/2009 7:56:31 PM
POF read your question: you are a forum person. you are reading. this man is scoping. you are NOT insecure your feelings are valid everybody is saying that your feelings are valid and nobody trusts him no matter how IN LOVE you are with him or not sometimes, we can love the person BUT it does not make him a good catch or a good person you are going to get hurt~~~~~~~~ he is still looking ****YOU ARE ON FORUMS!!!! you have your answer-

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 39 (view)

I need mature advice on restarting a relationship. Posted: 9/14/2009 10:23:46 PM
he still goes online you go online to check on him he is fishing otherwise the profile would be deleted i had this fight with somebody that i had dated who wanted to hide his profile if you are involved ~~~~~~~~~not a forum person but exclusive profiles are not looking around you are on the profiles~~~~~~not looking for men there is a difference do you think that he is on the profiles??? NOT

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 121 (view)

80% admit to supplying false details on their profiles Posted: 9/14/2009 10:06:46 PM
i have noticed that from the men that i have actually met, that they have lied about 1. age 2. employment history 3. relationship background 4. past sexual infidelity 5. height 6. waist belt size 7. if they want an ltr or fwb 8. going to church so..............where are the good honest real men?????

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 55 (view)

Moving too fast, still hung up on his ex? Posted: 9/14/2009 9:55:17 PM
it is not too fun when you are thinking about somebody~~~and believe what they have told you~~~while they are out with somebody else just read what i said a couple of times and-you will know your standing it doesn't feel good~does it? maybe he isn't worth any more of your thoughts, time or energy? i don't like being taken for granted. i like feeling special

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 40 (view)

unique divorce problem Posted: 9/14/2009 5:58:46 PM
nobody posting opinions knows why she is getting divorced or her situation. for her children stability and for your own sake keep it quiet. when people get divorced, you can't be sure of the outcome. i am being impartial, not knowing the situation. to be fair, nobody knows the circumstances of why she is departed from her spouse. don't involve the children, until there is marriage. children don't need a roller coaster of different men living with their mother and not sticking around.

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 167 (view)

Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS Posted: 9/14/2009 3:42:28 PM
it is called live and learn and don't repeat the same mistake because boy life is just too short to waste it on an ar sehole

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 93 (view)

What do you miss Posted: 9/12/2009 10:45:53 PM
i miss being loved and loving i miss have a best friends and a lover to laugh and cry with even be silly never feel lonely when i am alone without any insecurity of a heartbreak tomorrow i miss the dream, hope and prayer of having a man to be with forever Where is the Love for LIFE ???

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 92 (view)

What do you miss Posted: 9/12/2009 10:45:35 PM
i miss being loved and loving i miss have a best friends and a lover to laugh and cry with even be silly never feel lonely when i am alone without any insecurity of a heartbreak tomorrow i miss the dream, hope and prayer of having a man to be with forever Where is the Love for LIFE ???

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 43 (view)

When does the pain end? Posted: 9/12/2009 9:34:40 PM
Hopefully, you will find a true sincere woman who is worthy of your loyalty and love God Bless You. There are two paths in life a person can follow. The path of the devil or the path of God. Stay with the path of God and your rewards will eventually come. A woman like that does not deserve a good giving man. You need a Godly woman to love you.

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 52 (view)

Moving too fast, still hung up on his ex? Posted: 9/12/2009 9:25:10 PM
if it worries you, then there is a reason. i would like my boyfriend to be with me on a Friday night, not with some other woman. understand????

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 11 (view)

disclosing cronic illness on profile Posted: 9/12/2009 2:00:08 AM
i would tell her before sleeping with her.

vivaciousvixen2009

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Msg: 105 (view)

Child support... Posted: 9/7/2009 8:59:58 PM
get it in the legal system. if he can change his mind about you, his whole life and just everything how can you trust this type of man. Protect yourself somehow with some legal recourse. Be smart. Men lie. They also don't like to pay after they leave a woman. That includes the expenses of a kid. For some reason they believe that they don't have any responsibility to that child and the money that they make is "their money" weird they can cum make a life~~~~~~~~a human being and dump the child somewhere go off in a new car with some other women feeling that they are in the right don't trust the male mind he is not committed to you he dumped you there is your proof cover your a rse he is going to screw you again

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 90 (view)

Child support... Posted: 9/7/2009 10:04:38 AM
nobody has the right to say to be nasty about the op because she is asking about her child's welfare and the best way to proceed with the future. she is asking a very smart question! ~~~~~why do so many mean people have to mock others because they themselves are truly ugly?

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 85 (view)

Child support... Posted: 9/7/2009 9:19:09 AM
if you go privately 1. he can default like my children father's have~~~~~~Great to let them still have erections shoot sperm and have sex 2. not take responsibility and continue with "your baby's daddy" 3. i had one of my ex's want to do DNA privately. i went through the goverment. this took 2 years for child support to begin. he tried to say that "it wasn't his" he was the only man that i slept with. THAT WAS GOING TO THE BANK. fuchking stard. oh, i LEARNED!!!!! 4. my other ex defaulted to another country again, has his money in another country's banking system and evades the law, but he will be nailed~~~~~eventually~~~fuchking stard~~~ ~~~~~ALWAYS, Go, through the system so that eventually you can put him in jail when needed. Sorry to give that advice!!!!!

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 160 (view)

Promised to call. Didn't But checked POF mail HELP PLS Posted: 9/6/2009 10:29:02 AM
this is an old................>>>>>story with this man. he is a player. i have spoken to him since, he wants a bisexual dark spanish woman. he wants to be able to look..... he likes an open type of relationship. that aint my games babes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! he was gaming me. so everybody, throw your theories out the window. the man has never opened a forum for the life of him. i had gotten to be very good friends with him and to know him very well. keep in mind, i had vested, quite a bit of my time and energy but whatever. i am glad so many people were so derogatory.

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 21 (view)

Break up sad, but mostly relief? Posted: 9/1/2009 6:13:33 PM
eventually when i think about the man that i had dated, i have actually laughed hysterically. it was like a relief of pressure. deliriously happy

vivaciousvixen2009

Joined: 7/12/2008

Msg: 68 (view)

What would you have said? Posted: 9/1/2009 3:35:17 PM
Employment~Unemployment Welfare~Burger King Whatever What really bothers me is his lack of ambition toward his children. He doesn't mention them as people. He is not talking to you about their well being or how they are doing. He never mentioned to you how they are eating. This world is not about his sorry ar se, it is about his children. Once you make children and bring them into this world, they come first. That is what I would have said. What about your kids? How are they eating? How are they living?

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