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Thread: Guys, what do you think of the girls?
stopstarin
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Guys, what do you think of the girls?
Posted:
6/30/2009 4:16:54 AM
only problem I've really seen with the girls is.................
supposed adult women, acting like high school girls!
This site is mostly fluff and ego.
Very little originality.
This site seriously needs to do away with the "favs" and pic rating garbage so the "adults"
around here can grow up!
starin
stopstarin
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I don't get it?
Posted:
6/15/2009 7:48:13 AM
when will you women stop taking everything to heart, things you're told in a bar?
starin
stopstarin
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Broke up w/TRUE NARCISSIST - Do I tell his ex what he is?
Posted:
6/15/2009 7:40:33 AM
sounds to me like you are now using HIS child to reign control over a situation you felt you had no control over previously!
let it all go and move on, it's NOT your battle.
starin
stopstarin
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Whining the new dating scene?
Posted:
5/28/2009 1:42:28 AM
isn't it obvious.........
people can't simply handle being alone or rejected!
seems so simple now huh?
starin
stopstarin
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Susan Boyle on Britain's got talent.
Posted:
4/19/2009 10:38:24 PM
^^ you may be right .......
or wrong.........
either way it will never detract..........for those first few seconds
when she opened her mouth to sing..........and MOST watching froze in amazement!
you see I for one WILL always remember, my own amazement, awe and joy that watching that video brought out in me. No matter what happens in her future, success or not...........THAT moment will always be there in me. And for that simple reason alone.........I thank her!
starin
stopstarin
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Susan Boyle on Britain's got talent.
Posted:
4/19/2009 8:21:46 PM
as I viewed this for the first of MANY times,
I will only now accept messages from her on here!
I even changed my profile!
with things such as they are nowadays, it is rare to witness something truly amazing.
I have now checked off that box!
starin
stopstarin
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Interested but Lacking Chemistry
Posted:
4/6/2009 3:21:42 PM
ya sure...........
let me wait around for months on a big "maybe"
PAPHUCKINLEASE!
cut the dude loose to let him find someone who ACTUALLY adores him
*rolls eyes
:stop:starin
stopstarin
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Do you like bubble gum? Any special meaning?
Posted:
3/27/2009 9:47:16 AM
It's official there's nothing men and women can discuss without sex entering in it.
isn't "entering in it", what sex IS all about?
stopstarin
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talking on the phone.........he's on pof
Posted:
3/19/2009 12:00:30 PM
wow...I've been doing this all wrong!
I should be messaging/chatting too/texting/getting to know and talking on the phone to many women! Doesn't that feeling just make ya'll feel warm and fuzzy?
No wonder this site is such a mess!
NO, we're not in a "relationship"
NO, we haven't met/dated yet!
NO, we don't owe each other anything!
and of course, multi tasking is no big deal...........
but I'll be phucking dammed, if I'm wasting my time, giving someone my attention, for them to be checking out/messaging other dudes whilst on the phone with me. Control freak my ass! How quick to label. You have to be kidding me. If 20 or whatever minutes of getting to know me, my time and attention, without "looking around" is THAT difficult, definitely not for me. I personally, turn down the tv, and leave the comp! It's not about talking to others while on here, but the fact there is interest enough to make that effort for me.
Now for all the others, with fiances, SO's and such. How excited and thrilled would you be, if way back, they were typing to you, and 6 other women/men, how excited they were to talk to you, message you......and meet you............AND all those other women/men as well? Seems it removes the "special" feeling for me!
Call me old fashioned, but I refuse to wait or participate in some line. You all can keep playing with numbers, I'll stick to 1 at a time thanks!
starin
stopstarin
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do we really know what we are all looking for?
Posted:
3/18/2009 3:06:50 PM
I seek the same thing I offer!
maybe my head's in the clouds or buried in the sand........( *tosses coin). I'm not sure yet!
My reality dictates my "type", is so inundated with suitors, that I end up bobbing around in a sea of fools. Maybe I'm out of my "league". I've been single a long time now, basically years. Just the way it is. Partly, I'm a b@stard, I admit it. I refuse to accept being treated poorly. I see BS I call it. I refuse to accept "maybe, kinda or sorta". I've tried dating different types. I've been on both sides of the fence. If I don't feel that mutual glow, that rarely happens between 2 people, I bail! I've tried and I just can't do it. Bottom line is, many, except my "type" seems to be interested!
Sure it gets lonely and there is so much I miss, but it's better then lying/walking/being in the arms of someone that doesn't make me melt! For BOTH of us!
Arrogant, c0cky or out to lunch, just the way it is!
starin
stopstarin
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2 dates, first kiss but no touching
Posted:
3/17/2009 9:45:10 AM
dude, take it for what it is at this stage!
stop over analyzing and enjoy her company!
sounds like things are good.............so keep em that way!
we all have our own paces!
starin
stopstarin
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The 25% Rule … Interesting Concept
Posted:
3/16/2009 4:49:34 AM
the only 25% rule is as follows..........
that someone you see is single 50% chance
and 50% chance they're interested in you as well!
hence.........25% chance @ best of dating someone!
the OP.........just a bunch of dribble!
starin
stopstarin
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Serious Member / Paid Upgrade Thread - Are we a tad spoiled by POF and a bit ungrateful for its services?
Posted:
3/13/2009 1:02:09 PM
ok..here's the deal......
dudes will attest I'm sure.......there's more flakes then Kelloggs here!
Huge list's of demands, requirements and deal breakers, make it virtually impossible to contact any woman above say a 6!So many here are already in one way or anther "attached", yet still come here to "play", WHY????....just because they can! Cleavage, "teddies" on beds," bar stars ", ego stroking and plain old BS is rampant. 500 "favs" on a blank........all be it, bikini pic'd profile. People STIL posting "model" shots. 40 year old's, still looking for children from men that have no kids or never married????? (really??? seriously???? Good luck with THAT! Married dudes, "internet firemen", headless six packers , and the "look at me with my children" pics. JUST PHUCKIN SAD!
Bringggg, bringgggg, briingggggggg...........that's the Clue phone...........GET IT!
I do 100% believe people are entitled to their own choices, standards and requirements, but come on.............SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!! I don't even bother sending out messages anymore, there just is no point.
In a manner, I understand where Markus is coming from. The above taints the waters here. There needs to be a way to weed out flakes (both genders). I could to a point agree to his premise of paying, I doubt I would personally, but I understand the logic. Even if it is a cash grab, SO WHAT. The point I don't understand, nor ever will, as posted before, was handing it out randomly or selectively to individuals. Sorry dude, but you shot yourself in the fin on that one.
now, I just call it like I see it, if you're offended, again........then you're probably here for the wrong reasons! I've been here for years now, and it just seems to be getting worse,not better.
*sigh
starin
stopstarin
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How do we remove upgrade status?
Posted:
3/12/2009 10:36:27 AM
test subjects or not........
the simple fact that any "paid upgrade" was given out for free.........
skews any information it draws. Becoming moot.
more views, more contacts
MEH.........
let's face it, I'm not interested in 95% of members, and of those 5% .....99.5% aren't interested in me........such is life .........no big!
so more views or messages from those I'm simply not interested in means........
well nothing.............
exactly what I'll continue to pay for being here!
lastly, more effort should be spent removing the popularity contest features such as "favs lists" and pic voting. Seriously, supposed adults needing to feel popular and pretty???? Sad!
*shakes head
starin
stopstarin
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Anyone else getting the not feeling a connection. or sparks fly.... ..............
Posted:
1/20/2009 4:40:42 AM
I'm with Rock on this one......
nice analogy too!
stopstarin
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How can I woo you?
Posted:
12/9/2008 11:49:35 AM
the best way to woo.....
least for me.......
is to WOW!
simple huh?
starin
stopstarin
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Why do men need a driver's license
Posted:
12/5/2008 10:34:07 AM
you do plan on leaving the house at some point...
no?
starin
stopstarin
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A guy's personal style
Posted:
12/5/2008 10:32:15 AM
wearing terrible clothes only gets them ripped off faster!
starin
stopstarin
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Not a fan of the fishing pictures
Posted:
12/3/2008 10:25:14 AM
women need to understand.........
the average dude doesn't walk around with his camera, twisting, bending and posing for the "Facebook" shots I call them. Our guy friends don't snap pics of us eating ice cream, or shopping or out on "guys night". We don't all pose together for dude group shots. We take them with us when we think we may want some pics of things that interest us.
So we don't have tons of pics just laying around or on the comp. So we are limited with the pics to post!
make sense?
If you don't like what you see then just........
Bounce!
starin
stopstarin
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What have you learned from online dating ?
Posted:
12/1/2008 10:27:28 AM
that a smile and simple "Hello", in the real world goes so much farther then hours of messaging here!
starin
stopstarin
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girly girls or women who know their way around the tool box?
Posted:
12/1/2008 8:27:56 AM
Meh!
couldn't really care less
I just don't want to be around someone who has to prove all the time all she can do.
starin
stopstarin
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Texting/Messaging
Posted:
11/30/2008 1:04:24 PM
stop making it such a mine fieild for us dudes to wade through.......
either you complain we're too aloof, or too needy......
GAWD.......pick a phuckin team already!
I personally like texting and talking on the phone. This BS crap about not wanting to communicate with someone you're interested in is just asinine, male or female.
For the life of me I could never figure this out. If I'm interested/dating someone, a text or phone call is greeted with appreciation and excitement. How on earth it's a bother to most is beyond me. Whether at work, relaxing or anywhere, someone making the effort to be in my head for a few minutes is a big deal. Even if I'm unavailable at that moment, and can't return such, it still brings a smile to my face. I swear I must be from some other planet!
if there is no effort to communicate, what ever the format..........THERE ISN'T INTEREST!
Next!
starin
stopstarin
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How many times a week to see someone new
Posted:
11/30/2008 10:42:46 AM
^^^^^^^ show off!
starin
stopstarin
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How many times a week to see someone new
Posted:
11/30/2008 8:55:56 AM
all depends on schedules, distance and interest levels.
starin
stopstarin
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Plentyoffish Paid Virtual Gifts.
Posted:
11/29/2008 11:44:03 AM
I spend good money sending virtual flowers and they’re always Un-sniffed/Deleted?”
POF- free
internet-$40
comp-$1000
"flowers"- $15-$30
spitting coffee all over my monitor, and almost peeing just a bit...........
PHUCKIN PRICELESS
ahahahahahahahah -------"unsniffed"
will now bow @ Frau's feet!
don't forget the threads about whether or not our "virtual" flower vases are 1/2 full or 1/2 empty with water........
*smirks
starin
stopstarin
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Holding Out
Posted:
11/29/2008 11:20:34 AM
I get clubbed over the head like a baby seal about this all the time ( damn cute those poor seals are too). It's such a common discussion with my friends. GAWD, I'm SO tired of it. All the "I should do this, and that", I'm "too this or that" , seriously give it a rest already!
It, has been over a year, since I've been on a date! YES, 1 YEAR! I said it! Sure of course, to a degree this bothers me. As I do want someone in my life. But that doesn't mean I'll take anyone, just to be with someone ( insert cringe here).
For the life of me, I can't understand why it is that I can offer X, X and X and it becomes "too picky" of me, to expect the same in return! It's utterly asinine.
all I ask, is please Dear God, don't EVER let me be who, "she" settled for!
starin
stopstarin
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Plentyoffish Paid Virtual Gifts.
Posted:
11/29/2008 10:38:31 AM
I'm assuming this "idea" is some sort of plastic surgery for a personality?
will my "flower" put me over the top in an equal battle?
Will these "gifts" draw moths to the flame?
Are they kindling for a passionate fire?
.........not so much!
luv me or hate me for me, not some redundant token of affection
MEH!
just allow us the option to block them, like the IM feature.
starin
stopstarin
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I feel like I'm overmatched here...
Posted:
11/28/2008 7:49:40 AM
dude, seriously...
that pic rating thing is just a litmus test for insecurity! LOSE IT!
I do hear where you are coming from though.
I've been around here awhile. I for one, am looking for something beyond the "norm". Not chat buddies, phuck buddies, fans or favorites. Something real. In person. I trudge through my inbox messages, reply "thanks, and good luck". Terrific. We all do. I peak through every once in awhile, shaking my head at who I'm interested in and who's interested in me (insert Twilight Zone music here), I swear Rod Serling's hand is actually on my shoulder as these 2 parameters could not be any broader. Such is life. Then BAM, someone responds or messages us with actual content and interest. PANIC......breath breath.........ok now what? Yes, yes be yourself, go with the flow. She is gorgeous, seems totally interested and is actually a joy to talk too! Yes I'd even go so far as to say, I look forward to coming home and reading my messages. BUT, others have flaked out before, lost interest or found someone shinier to play with. How much to share, what depths of personal information to talk about? It's overwhelming to say the least.
I myself have been exactly here, and said to myself after all the, let's just say "interesting" experiences here, "Why me". Let me say it has NOTHING to do with confidence, insecurity or self esteem. It's just simply shock. Most of us grab fast food once in awhile, grab your burger and go. Simply put, you pull to the window knowing the usual and what to expect. You pull to the window and BOOM, a Tbone steak on a China plate. Understand now?
let's just say, my caution and past experiences here..........well........
completely PHUCKED IT UP, yes I admit it. So just enjoy that good feeling, and relax. Remember she probably has it as well.
good luck dude!
starin
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POF Gifts, and roses
Posted:
11/27/2008 11:23:49 AM
yup.........
another eye roller for me!
next will be the "virtual" note to pass to the cute girl 3 "virtual" rows over! Or "virtual" pigtail pulling. There is already enough grade school crap floating around here. I TOTALLY agree this stuff is equal to the "last call" roses in the bar. Ironically they are the perfect "red flag" for me. Wave proudly ladies!
*shakes head
starin
stopstarin
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32 WF, Am I square bc I'm not tattooed or pierced?
Posted:
11/25/2008 9:26:55 AM
well I'm 42, but my opinions still count........
we have already said it..........
it's the package not the packaging!
starin
stopstarin
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BAD DATING EXPERIENCES meet on plentyoffish,a murder
Posted:
11/24/2008 8:16:12 AM
why do people complain and whine about others that they CHOOSE to make time and effort for?
once AGAIN..........this site never ceases to amaze me
*shakes head
starin
stopstarin
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an honest to goodness man who is frustrated
Posted:
11/24/2008 6:53:16 AM
^^^^^^ where are the Sky Marshals on this flight.......
Talk about a hijacking!
starin
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Any men over 35 seriously looking to get married?
Posted:
11/23/2008 10:32:34 AM
I'm by no means, ready to run to the alter. I'm a million miles from there. I was previously married and hold no resentment towards it and would do it again. Definitely.
but since I'm single, and have been for awhile, it's just something that really isn't in my thoughts.
starin
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Events
Posted:
11/22/2008 10:56:43 AM
to be honest..........
MEH!
it just seems those who sign up are much older, and there never seems to be people I'd actually be interested in meeting there........... ya know!
if people are going and having fun........good for them, just not my thing!
starin
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Have you ever run
Posted:
11/22/2008 10:51:57 AM
actually it has happened to me 5-6 times.
they have seen me on here
worst part is they would then think of us as some kind of friends or something.
no interest is exactly that........
no interest
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Taking a break and do I owe an apology?
Posted:
11/22/2008 10:28:46 AM
ok, I'm kind of with x-file on this one.......
personally I think she wanted out. The "break" excuse worked well. What he did or didn't do, irrelevant! The whole "I'm old fashioned" so she never called leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I also agree, after "X" amount of time, a call should have been made. By either of them, to talk or to split. Adults end things, not twirl around for 7 weeks in limbo.
starin
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How should a very fit 40 year old dress?
Posted:
11/22/2008 8:37:46 AM
^^^^^ the irony of dates turning into prunes!
starin
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How should a very fit 40 year old dress?
Posted:
11/22/2008 7:11:11 AM
simple.....
dress flattering..........
but leave some things to the imagination
starin
stopstarin
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Do you believe you can meet someone online?
Posted:
11/21/2008 10:40:58 AM
yes, sure.........
meeting people is easy........walk out the front door, log on to the net.......
simple huh
but as DJ, says .........
meeting someone on the same page, mutual admiration, and chemistry here?
sorry but real life is a little more realistic for me
I've talked to and met some gorgeous women, great body and amazing personalities......
But unlike Meatloaf sang......."2 outta 3 ain't bad", but will never cut it for me in a relationship. Finding all 3 together........ya not so much!
this whole internet thing, MEH! Just too many flakes and fakes. Not trying to come off bitter, just being realistic. Too many grass is greener here. Too many looking for attention and some ego stroking. You give people the benefit of the doubt, try to be honest and straight forward. Keep things realistic.....and POOF, someone shinier comes along. There just doesn't seem to be any reason to even make an effort. I'm sure many will disagree, so be it. But I'm not here collecting fans or favorites. Having messages in my inbox, means nothing if I'm not interested. Responding with "thanks, and good luck" becomes about as redundant as most of these threads. The forums have basically become my "friend with benefits".
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How to Look Good Naked
Posted:
11/21/2008 9:43:25 AM
sorry if it's been said..........
skimmed through
we are just used to being more exposed then women all our lives
in warmer weather, we have just a pair of shorts on. From youngsters to us well .........
now.
you always see us. We are just conditioned to have less on, hence more exposure! So tossing off the shorts won't be that big of a deal. We all have our insecurities, but they are generally OURS!
and NO PHUCKING WAY IN H ELL am I about to share mine
*batts eyes
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Those Whiney profiles
Posted:
11/21/2008 8:04:30 AM
I agree 100% GSB
I never EVER want to be someone she "settled" for
when people drop the bar so to speak, they just create more miserable people in the pool. The confusion, games and BS associated with doing so, taints people's views, thus taking the garbage to the next relationship.
hence all the whiny threads about whining.......
and they'll tell two friends and
so on, and
so on..........
LOL
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If you were turned down.
Posted:
11/19/2008 10:06:32 AM
things are never this black and white.......
too vague to even answer!
It would be about the reasoning behind it!
I'd probably pass though!
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Do any guys actually get a lot of messages on here?
Posted:
11/19/2008 9:48:27 AM
being the refined gentleman I am........
I prefer not to type and tell!
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What is the best experience you have had with online dating
Posted:
11/19/2008 8:53:23 AM
well being the simple folk that I am.........
Yes I have chatted, and met women here, and actually dated a few . Cool beans. Seen the desperate, chatted with the flakes, bi polar's and flattered some insecure egos. Great, it's the net......no real shock.
Transport to a few days ago..................(minute drum roll please) LOL
I have a message, (insert my typical cringe here). WOW, long initial message. Hmmmmm
Start reading........
OMG, WOW, HOLY CRAP!
big smile.........and a slight blush, yes correct a male actually blushed AND admitted it.
I was sent the most incredible, personal message I have ever received (been here off and on for a few years). It completely blew me away. There was no" let's meet, I love you, I wanna do you so bad" redundancy. Just someone who had noticed my profile, and has followed my post in the forums. Through all of this had realized who I am, what I'm about and the nature of my character. I was floored. Trust me, this RARELY happens, especially the nature of this site. Long post short, she was really pleased with who I am, that she had noticed me. Sans the flag waving soapbox and screaming from the rooftops professions of what a "great person" I am (yes I just rolled my eyes there). This message wasn't about meeting, dating me or such. Just that for some reason, I had actually moved her.
Point of all this, I am who I am, make no bones about it and I'm content to do my thing. As I have stated in many posts, I'm not into chasing rainbows, unicorns or pots of gold. I'm Happy doing my thing, and if someone notices great, if not......cool beans as well.
This one message has actually restored my faith in "online" in general. That just being ME, IS actually good enough.
Kudos to that individual, and wish her nothing but the best !
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Do you think this is true?
Posted:
11/19/2008 7:18:25 AM
*shakes his head
*rolls eyes
Gawd.......
ya nuff said
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Self worth
Posted:
11/16/2008 10:04:55 AM
for years and years, I felt I always had to prove something (I'm sure losing my father in my late teens produced that). Then later in life I felt I had to prove that I was a good guy. Probably had a hand in wrecking a good marriage (the insecurity). Been the last few years, I've just come into my own, I know who I am and what I'm about. I'm not afraid of what makes me cry, stirs my soul or lights up my eyes.
No one particular event, more so the series of them.
It all boils down to how you feel about yourself, not in the public eye, at work, or in a relationship, but who you are once your head hits the pillow at night and you're alone with your thoughts. No one is watching or hearing and judging.
I'm a happy guy who is happy with how I turned out. I feel no need to shout it from the rooftops or make all these professions of who I am, I let everyone else decide who they think I am. Good or bad!
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What is your #1 Pet Peeve in Profiles
Posted:
11/16/2008 7:24:26 AM
ok..........
a few more
the "screaming ovaries" profiles, late 30's never married and no kids, YET not interested in guys with kids, because she wants to start her own family 1 day! Tic toc tic toc
pretzel pics- the "bar stars" bent and twisted bar/club shots, usually ass and chest sticking out, camera overhead.........with the obligatory pouting/pursed lips
pics with shirts/sweater TUCKED IN...........Who does that?
cropped pic of your last dude's hand shoulder etc etc.......come on, seriously!
"I like going out, and like staying in cuddling watching movies" originality at it's finest
"I have an amazing career, tons of amazing friends and family and I'm very busy, but will make time for that special someone". ahahahahahahahaha, SURE you will, let me wait by the phone! Now if this is all true, why even be here, you have plenty of opportunities to meet people being out all the time doing things. Never understood that one!
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WHY DON'T MEN TAKE THE FIRST STEP ANYMORE???
Posted:
11/16/2008 6:58:00 AM
simple........
why bother with read/delete thing over and over? And YES I know this sounds like "poor me", but is in no way correct, as I sometimes do the same. Fact is my "type" is generally inundated with messages, why bother being lost in a sea of fools?
what is the point?
I very rarely send out messages anymore.
She either notices me or not!
Now, if I'm messaged for once by someone my type (no disrespect), then I'll crawl over broken glass, dragging myself by the tongue. LOL . I learned long ago that there is no point in chasing unicorns , rainbows and pots of gold!
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Are women so much better at spotting matches?
Posted:
11/16/2008 6:28:30 AM
read the forums around here.........
it'll change your tune!
some of the complete messes that these women choose!
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Can you have great sex if he is too big?
Posted:
11/16/2008 6:25:19 AM
shouldn't this be in the testimonials forum?
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