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 Author Thread: Great sex without orgasm - sounds weird, but anyone experienc this?
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
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Great sex without orgasm - sounds weird, but anyone experienc this?
Posted: 5/19/2013 5:40:12 AM
It seems too often people just focus on the "finish line" and don't take time to enjoy the journey. It sounds like you've learned to apprecate and embrace the journey. Good for you, Lady Arwen
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 231 (view)
 
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 4/18/2013 6:06:06 AM
lg, maybe you need to just find a man who would be willing to help you clean it up...
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 526 (view)
 
The Kinky Test
Posted: 4/12/2013 2:16:51 PM
I suppose I could do this as a different post but I'm wondering. How many women want to be considered KINKY? It seems like even the lower scores try to promote how they are still kinky. Thoughts?
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
Husband wants to watch
Posted: 3/23/2013 5:31:50 AM
I feel for you, OP. It sounds like he's putting you in a no win situation. Either way, it looks like a loose situation. I don't have a problem with people exploring teir kinky side but when they get mad at you repeatedly for being open to what they sugest. I think a counselor might be in order.

Good luck I hope you can find some answers.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 29 (view)
 
How does a woman successfully teach a man how she likes to be touched?
Posted: 3/13/2013 5:52:51 AM
Lady Arwen, Most libraries have some kind of inter-library loan system. If your library doesn't have what you're looking for, you can usually order it from another library. Often you can look it up and order it right from home. Ask them about their inter-library loan system.

I admire your willingness to talk to your guy and help them understand what makes you tick and what brings you to the place where you want to go. Like anything, some guys are receptive to learning how to please their lover and really learn what makes them happy (in the bed room and out) others just tend to their own needs. The hard part if finding someone who is compatable with you and who really enjoys doing things to please their partner.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 56 (view)
 
This is from Eharmony
Posted: 3/7/2013 9:24:50 PM
Why is that so rude. If the worst thing a guy can tell her is that she's sexy, isn't telling her she's not sexy better?

OK, that's retoricle, just making a point. Ordinarilly, I too would consider that a rude statement. I respect you for calling me on it.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
My dough won't rise!
Posted: 3/7/2013 9:15:06 PM
Have you tested your yeast. Take some of your yeast and place it in a couple cups of 100 degree water. If it starts to act up, your yeast is still active and you have other problems.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 54 (view)
 
This is from Eharmony
Posted: 2/27/2013 11:57:14 AM
Indeed, For what it's worth, you don't strike me as sexy at all.

Is that better?
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 6 (view)
 
dirty talk
Posted: 12/6/2012 1:20:31 PM
Get a feel for what she's looking for. What are her fantasies? Dirty talk is just a part of fulfilling those fantasy for her. You can play the roll of someone other than who you usually are to help satisfy her "naughty" desires. Try and keep in mind, it's not necessarily about you but rather providing her with what she wants. Could be telling her how desperately you want her or things you're going to do to her, what you want hwer to do to you. Let your imagination flow based on what she likes. Remember, stimulate her mind, THEN stimulate her body.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 65 (view)
 
The age old debate: Spitting or Swallowing?
Posted: 11/30/2012 5:16:41 AM
1388smartblonde I see you're pretty funny, that's a great thing for your honey. If his juices aren't the best, then wear them on your chest. If it's true love and you know, then take it down below. If you accept it's not a sin, then rub it on your skin. It can be so fun to play - this I just had to say..... :- )
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 896 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 11/26/2012 7:37:40 AM
Moxi, where do you come up with the 3 - 4 % ? And of course there's nothing "wrong" with those that do... or those that don't, for that matter.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 437 (view)
 
Hair pulling during doggystyle
Posted: 11/23/2012 9:38:52 AM
Fancyface, ou seem like a complete package, from what you wrote in your profile. Youre statements here make for wonderful iceing on the cake. Good luck.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 48 (view)
 
Being Too goodlooking can work against you ???
Posted: 10/26/2012 9:05:48 AM
Once again you show your qualities by making short sighted, sophomoric statements and attempts at oh so knowledgeable banter. I'm becoming more and more convinced it's highly that it's your looks that tend to turn women off.

Just as a point of interest you, wrighting skills is not a race, do you even know what the term ignorant means? If so you might want to use a different example that's more appropriate. As for immigrating to this land, even the ancestors of the "Native Americans" immigrated across the Bearing Sea ice sheets.

It's not a big issue when someone makes mistakes, it's when they preclude these mistakes with statements of how they excell at everything they work at (or something of the like). This just emphasizes how self absorbed they really are.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 32 (view)
 
Being Too goodlooking can work against you ???
Posted: 10/25/2012 12:14:17 PM
Perhaps it's a huge ego, that leads you to believe that you're "too good looking", instead of the looks that backs them away. ??? Just a thought...
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 772 (view)
 
Squirting
Posted: 9/23/2012 8:42:18 PM
Well said, Oceanoflove6. My sentiments exactly... except from the one making it happen point of view. It's such a wonderful reward.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 65 (view)
 
Nipples!
Posted: 9/12/2012 3:22:32 PM
Very interesting read.....
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 300 (view)
 
No bras and nipples
Posted: 9/12/2012 3:07:44 PM
Excise me, LAURAL...
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 299 (view)
 
No bras and nipples
Posted: 9/12/2012 3:06:35 PM
Laura, you look great going au-natural....
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 452 (view)
 
Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/12/2012 2:24:53 PM
Lulai, Spot on But even better if you DO actually enjoy it.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 451 (view)
 
Ladies That hate recieving oral sex
Posted: 9/12/2012 2:16:09 PM
Christy, Maybe cut back on some of your restrictions. You might be excluding some decent guys.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 39 (view)
 
Is it really better to give than receive? Oral sex question!!!!
Posted: 9/12/2012 2:10:44 PM
Personally, I don't think I could date a woman woul wouldn't let me go down on her. I never understood what the issue was with some guys. Afterall, isn't it about pleasing your partner as much as it is about receiving your own pleasure. Don't they go hand in hand?
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 21 (view)
 
Am I Doing The Right Thing. Would like a man's perspective as well.
Posted: 7/13/2012 12:21:28 PM
God, my spelling sucks when I get typing too fast. Sorry
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 20 (view)
 
Am I Doing The Right Thing. Would like a man's perspective as well.
Posted: 7/13/2012 12:18:50 PM
I'm curious Veedub, It sounds like you have a lot of personal motivation and abviously a working head on your shoulders to accompish all you described. Don't know why you didn't name Eagle Scout if you achieved it. THat in itself is quite an accomplishment and I congradulate you.

The problem is the way you comunicate with people on here makes you sound like an idiot with no sence of being able to articulate your thoughts in a clear and cohesive manner. Obviously with all the schooling you've had, there has to be more going on upstairs than the smidgeon you present in your coments. Why not take the time to be less agressive and hostile and present a clear and well reasoned point ov view?
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 19 (view)
 
Am I Doing The Right Thing. Would like a man's perspective as well.
Posted: 7/13/2012 12:10:15 PM
Fisher Mane... You got that right... all the way around
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
Am I Doing The Right Thing. Would like a man's perspective as well.
Posted: 7/11/2012 1:17:14 PM
One more thing, remember, there's a difference between him being an outright bad person and you just not agreeing with the way he lives his life.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Am I Doing The Right Thing. Would like a man's perspective as well.
Posted: 7/11/2012 1:07:03 PM
OK, I had to put my $.02 in here. As a parent, you not only have the right but the responsbility to give your children the opportunity to grow up to be a decent person. If that means keeping them away from a reprehensable and vile parent, then that's what you need to do. Just because a man uses his penis to father a child doesn't make him a DAD. if he can't or won't show the child love and affection and teach that child to grow up responsible and accountable then they do not need to be in that child's life. They gave up that priveledge.

If this guy is the way you describe, the kids need to be saved from being exposed to his destructive and detrimental influences.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 45 (view)
 
phone sex/sexting before meeting someone
Posted: 7/7/2012 6:44:53 AM
Vixxxy, I have to agree with PetyGrace. I think you jump to a flase assumption about exchanging sexual ideas and painting a negative picture of a woman.

I'm surprised at all of the negative coments about sexting. Not sugesting that more people should do it but rather with the attitude and the negativity towards it. The greatest way to stimulate a person sexually is to first stimulate their mind. Once you unlock the fantasies and desires of the mind the height of sexual arrousal can be unlimites. That's not sugesting that you have to follow through with all of the fantasies, afterall, some fantasies are just that, fantasies. But unleashing the thoughts and desires and sharing them can be quite intimate and arrousing. I think this can hold true when whispering and talking "dirty" to each other in the bedroom, or by some other means.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 111 (view)
 
Does great oral sex giving depend on how much you like/love that person?
Posted: 7/6/2012 1:19:40 PM
I'd say think of it like this.. Who do you think would give the better oral, the person who absolutely loves doing it and turning on their partner OR the person who isn't really into it but really cares for the one their with. My supposition is that you can really care for someone but if you're not good at it, it won't magically happen. On the other hand, if you love giving oral, then your partner, weather you love them or not, will be turned on. Of course, this doesn't diminish the deeper emotions that are shared when you do really care for someone.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 89 (view)
 
Sexual Compatibility...find out first or later in the relationship
Posted: 7/6/2012 9:00:34 AM
Sexual compatability is just part of a relationship just like exercise habbits, eating preferences, house keeping, religion... and so on. Any one of these can be a deal breaker. If you put too much emphasis on any single one, that could be a deal breaker for your partner. The key is to wade into the waters and see how deep the bottom runs before diveing in. COmmunication is important in any relationship. Be open and honest, don't just give hints, and know that fantasies and desires don't always need to be fulfilled, sometines they're just that... fantasies.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 60 (view)
 
Most Guys Definitely Would.....But what about the women???
Posted: 7/4/2012 11:25:08 AM
Where do you come up with this "Most Guys Definitely Would"... ? WHy even be in a committed relationship if that's what you're looking for? If you and your spouce want to be swingers, that's fine bt don't bring the rest of us into that with you... It's guys like you that give the rest of us a bad rep.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 69 (view)
 
Sexual Compatibility...find out first or later in the relationship
Posted: 7/2/2012 2:07:37 PM
Pam, I find it interesting how sexually open minded you are but yet you won't even allow someone to contact you if they're even spoken to someone who is looking for an intimate encounter. "Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex"
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 16 (view)
 
meaning of this?
Posted: 6/23/2012 6:29:40 AM
OP, I'd think nothing of doing something like that platonically. I don't see anything that would necessarily mean more than casual friends from this one particular act. Now regardless of what anyone else says on here, you know that it doesn't necessarily mean anything.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
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Military guys and tattoos??
Posted: 6/22/2012 4:41:58 PM
Re Boricua's statement about it being a sign of low self esteem... Pfft !!! most military guys have a high self esteem. This statement coming from someone who's never had the confidence to put everything he has on the line to protect others and having the confidence that he will succeed, caries little value. It would be easier to say someone posts pictures of himself with no shirt on a dateing site has no self esteem therefor has to make up for his deficiencies as a man by trying to show off his body. Neither one has any real validity.

I served for over 20 years, most of the guys I served with had at least some college or background in the trades. ( I don't know what "well educated" means. They come from all walks of life. Some from well off families and some from dirt poor families. Some come simply for a job or career most come because they believe that the USE is worth fighting for, because they understand the freedomes so many people take for granted is paid for at an extreem cost by a very few yet they're willing to pay that cost because they want to see their mothers and sisters and brothers and those who wouldn't lift a finger to help others, enjoy the freedoms that we experience every day.

The tatoos typically are a lucal cultural thing, just like you might find on college football teams or other tight knit groups. It's not restricted to guys in the military but rather more typical with tight groups of men or women. There is a lit of testerone at and around Ft. Benning, the men and women who serve there have committed themselves to something extreem, often times they share that devotion by "war paint" or tatoos. Bikers often do the same thing.

Oh and by the way, after serving 22 years, I have NO tatoos, not my thing.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 281 (view)
 
what about GUYS performing oral sex?
Posted: 6/22/2012 2:14:16 PM
abeille1217
I agree with your interpretation of that coment. He doesn't know what he missing, obviously....
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 95 (view)
 
performing oral on female for 1st time
Posted: 6/10/2012 9:14:42 AM
My advice would be start out slow. Remember, anticipation heightens the experience. There is a whole body that needs attention, work your there and do a little nibbling and kissing and ever so light brushing. Build up the the anticipation. Work her mind and imagination. Take your time. Don't be affraid to communicate with each other about where exactly she likes you to do what. read her response and, my friend, savor every drop. It a reward for doing a good job.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 491 (view)
 
small breast appreciation
Posted: 6/10/2012 8:45:37 AM
I never understood the infatuation that some guys have with large breasts. I think small breasts are better in so many different ways. (but won't go into that here) You gals with smaller breasts should be happy with what you have and how they look. There is nothing unfemanine about the fact that they're small. SOME of us really appreciate that aspect of your beauty.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 212 (view)
 
Why do men want to finger your behind?
Posted: 5/13/2012 1:10:23 PM
Tam94568 Well said. Its nice to see an open minded waman like you.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 670 (view)
 
Sleeping naked
Posted: 4/17/2012 6:43:30 AM
Exactly.... Gotta love that middle of the night... keeping warm sessions
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 1 (view)
 
HTTP 400 error
Posted: 4/17/2012 6:10:06 AM
I am not able to access the POF home page ot any individual profiles. Any time I click on either I get a notifiction of HTTP 400 error. I can not even access the HELP section. Can anyone give me some guidance on how to fix this problem?

Thanks
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 667 (view)
 
Sleeping naked
Posted: 4/16/2012 12:53:37 PM
With a partner, naked is good,
For "around the world's post" there are wonderful waus to keep those parts warm.... ;- P
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 35 (view)
 
toys and orgasms
Posted: 3/31/2012 5:02:28 PM
Although I appreciate the do it yourself attituds, be careful with making your owne. I read about someone usinf a saw, like the above mentioned, and the saw blade broke through the "toy" part and really messed the gal up.
 Cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 130 (view)
 
Question about golden showers
Posted: 1/19/2012 5:58:13 PM
That's just not true.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 7 (view)
 
Reporting Image if doesn't show users face.
Posted: 11/28/2011 4:03:44 PM
Couple, I'm curious, I have never seen pictures like you describe. Interesting...

Alocin, do the profiles you report ONLY have those kinds of pictures or are a couple thrown in with the rest of their "authorized" pictures?
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 210 (view)
 
Have you every enjoyed a man with a velvet tongue?
Posted: 6/21/2011 4:32:12 AM
Kalie, Can you incorporate toys ie a cibrator into your love making to help stimulate you, as he's licking and sucking and pulling your hood back to give you the attention you need?
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 313 (view)
 
How to you get your man to like giving oral sex
Posted: 2/27/2011 5:01:42 PM
Ahhhh a woman after my own heart.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 68 (view)
 
tips on dirty talk...
Posted: 9/19/2010 11:40:18 AM
This can be an opportunity to simply devuldge what aspects of "play time" that you enjoy both giving and receiving. Of course you approach it different than dinner conversation. ie incorporate soft whispering close to the ear, what you're looking forward to doing and having him do to you, maybe include some "out there" fantasies. Often times it's the body language and tone rather than a specific script.

An example: Star Treck First Contact. The Borg Queen is talking to Data. It's her body language and the way she talks to him that gives it a sensual appeal. Not her looks, not what she says but HOW she does it.

Remember, most sensuality originates from the mind. Stimulate that and the body will follow. Be soft and playful. Make it FUN

I don't know if this helps or clouds the waters.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 38 (view)
 
Question about golden showers
Posted: 3/10/2010 3:36:44 PM
I find it remarkable how someone without a penis can tell others what a penis can and can't do and be so wrong and yet still so adamant. Hmmm
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 34 (view)
 
Honey recipes
Posted: 1/30/2010 10:38:03 PM
The bees didn't do well last year but am anxious to try out some of these recipes. Thanks everyone.
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 597 (view)
 
Sleeping naked
Posted: 1/26/2010 5:08:38 PM
Aren't mamals animals??? Just HAD to make that observation. :- )
 cowboybt5
Joined: 7/13/2008
Msg: 8 (view)
 
Hot sticks
Posted: 1/1/2010 9:04:08 AM
Thanks Kazz, I'll check it out right now.
 
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