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bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 24 (view)

Love at First Sight Posted: 11/25/2005 2:52:43 AM
I have a theory about why some people never experience it... You have to be fully open to it... When you go into something playing Games and all that bullshit how is it really possible for something to see the genuine you. And btw, ab out the chic that we fell in love at first sight... It cant be lust cause i was with her for quite a while and we never had sex. It seemed the more we talked the more things we had exactly in common. It was like talking to a female version of myself. Hell, we didnt even kiss for the first week... Thats NOT LUST. Bottom line if you believe in it it can happen to you but if you dont believe theirs no way its gonna happen to you.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Wow tough crowd... I need to know what I'm doing wrong here? Posted: 11/24/2005 8:54:00 PM
Only 4 Interests dude... You say in your profile your Athletic. Only thing in their about being athletic is snowboarding. Add some more interests. The line asking for someone who is Tolerant? Seems like you have a lot of demands out of her but you expect her to bend over backwords for you and YOUR CAREER which as you say keeps you busy all the time. Lot of girls will think for sure he cares more about his career than he will me.(even though u stipulate that u would make time). I would put something in under YOUR CAREER. Maybe some chics would assume that you have a shitty job cause u wont say what it is. Take the comment asking for chics with only pictures to message you. I personally dislike when i read something like that in other girls profiles. Everyone,, well almost everyone on here has a picture. I havent received messages from any ladies that dont. Another thing,, maybe its not you but you need a picture in their showing more personality. A psycho pic such as mine or other thing that make them wonder wtf you are on, lol.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Love at First Sight Posted: 11/24/2005 8:26:55 PM
Well, yeah, i fell madly in love with this girl a couple yrs ago. After a couple wks i was thinking, hey this is the one. All we did was kiss so it wasnt lust. We were just perfect for each other and had unbelievable chemistry. Unfortunately in this world we live in most of the time one of the two in the relationship is gonna run for cover cause they wont allow themselves to feel that strongly about someone right away.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Age of consent laws:Outdated? Posted: 11/24/2005 5:18:14 PM
Well, this is an interesting Topic. I dont agree with the rational that says its all the dudes fault and he should have known. I'm 27 and recently was working at a pizza joint. A girl walks in and asks if we were hiring. I look at my buddy and say to myself damn i want her working here kinda thing. I walk to the back room browsing over her resume and i read that SHE HAS JUST STARTED GRADE 10!!!!!!! Me and my friend working their at the time both were completely shocked to learn this.. She looked 24 and without a doubt i would have attempted to pick her up in the bar if i saw her their and hadnt have seen the resume saying she was a grade 10 student!!!! Their is a limit,,, if hes a 40 yr old man he shouldnt be going after girls that look 24 such as this one so their wouldnt be a problem anyways but it really is difficult to tell for guys like myself. I met a girl on another dating site and she looked like she couldnt even pull of 14 yet she was 23. Whats a guy like myself to do if i walk into a bar and try to pick up this type of girl who came into dominos ... Include the question of how old you are and then ask her to come with me down to the police station so she can be tested by the lie detector??? Not happening, LMAO. Theirs no ****ing way i should be at fault in a scenario like this so long as she is consenting. Shes in the bar, an illegal place for her. If anything she should be charged for deception and trespassing. Its party our societies fault as well. Gee, he's older and can take care of me.. Maybe if our society didnt place so much importance on money and good jobs, etc girls wouldnt be thinking like this. i'm not a father yet but i've heard some things that are said from fathers to daughters. Is he a gentlemen, does he treat you right, does he have a good job. So naturally these young girls are mystified by the thought.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Coming on too strong?!! Posted: 11/24/2005 4:41:03 PM
If your thinking your doing TOO MUCH you probably are. She must have been giving u some kind of reaction u arent sure about. Call her few and far between but make it a long phone call when u call and make it a great phone call. Quality NOT quantity. Twice a week calling someone isnt too bad though... Do you click with them though? I mean i met a girl from this site. We talked all the time. She gave me her number after 10mins on msn. I called her that night and we talked for 6hours. Did the same for the next few days. But the trick was we CLICKED; it was all quality theirfore she and i couldnt wait to talk to each other. Truth is if she doesnt react well to you doing this SHES" not the one and the only thing your doing is getting practice for THE ONE. Its not love at first sight.. It is CHEMISTRY at first site and if you got it with someone they wont give a rip if you call them twice a day after a couple wks dating so to speak.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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First Date Fears... Posted: 11/21/2005 7:49:55 PM
That we will both become too n ervous to even speak.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Boyishly thin model girls. Posted: 11/21/2005 7:06:10 PM
Thats bullshit and really quite bad thinking to think that just because someone is that skinny they are anorexic. I'll repeat what i said myself earlier. I have been an athlete all my life but up until about a year ago i was skinny as a toothpick and nothing i could do about it. I ate 6 meals a day and tonnes of snacks, lifted weights constantly 5 days a wk without fail(we are talking sweat pouring off the face kinda workouts every time but i never managed to gain weight. I finally gained about 20 lbs in a semester at school after playing on the college soccer team where i trained 3 hrs every day and ate constantly because i needed the energy. Wouldnt doubt it if some of these girls ate more than some of you bigger guys. If you like a girl with blue eyes why dont start ****ing about the fact that most girls dont have blue eyes and why dont they cause it must be their fault. Someone also made the statement ,, why would anyone want to look at that. Most(im aware not all) but most of them are born that skinny. How would u like them flaming u because you have a few extra pounds. Why would u want to be like that, fat is disgusting. Not very nice is it and i hope not many skinny models have read this thread cause its not cool. I know you have had some personal experiences like i have with runway models. Its true some do things like puke up their food or starve themselves. Dont tell me your wives dont go on Extreme diets all the time because they are way to self aware. The only difference is genetics, everyone thinks the same. Do you judge your 30lb overweight mother because she feels depressed a bout her weight??? The thing that is most bothersome to me is how they are treated because they are the coolest chics on the planet. They are very approachable girls. They dont have an arrogance about them like most girls; they take their shields down and let you be you instead of having to play games to talk to them. Wow, that was long; but im angry cause if my friend read this she would probably be quite upset. Your only going to get more flaming on a thread like this so whats the point.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Boyishly thin model girls. Posted: 11/21/2005 11:20:58 AM
Actually sounds like your a bit jealous. Otherwise why would u bring up such a topic attempting to be KATTY with girls that are really skinny. YES, it is very true if you knew anything about cloathes that skinnier people can get away with wearing anything. I mean when they go shopping, if they like the shirt they buy it and any color/ any fabric will look good on them. I didnt yet hear a response as to whether or not Tyra Banks is too skinny since she was one of the biggest fashion runway models ever but seems to me shes the same size as you Angelica. Also i dont know this for sure but im guessing if they had more avg size girls the focus might be a little less on the cloathes they are trying to show because of the bigger breasts. If i am wrong to assume that their is some bitterness for starting this thread i apologize but that is what it sounds like.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Boyishly thin model girls. Posted: 11/21/2005 9:19:00 AM
Supermodels not beautiful... ANYONE ever seen Tyra Banks on the runway. Or how about most of the girls from the show Americas next top model. Just because she ways almost nothing does not mean shes NOT eating and is puking up whatever she eats. Up until a year or so ago i was skinny as a toothpic yet i ate 7 meals a day including some snacks but could never gain the weight compared to my brother who ate 3 meals a day and was overweight by about 35lbs. Okay i have another reason for getting defensive. A friend i went to school with when i was younger is now a runway model and she has a healthy appetite and good energy. Some guys maybe are more attracted to girls in their cloathes as well. I get more of a hard on from watching a girl in fairly snug jeans and a cashmere sweater than i do seeing her naked.. Maybe thats weird but im sure im not alone.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Here for forums only but still receive mail Posted: 11/21/2005 9:03:26 AM
Just here for the forums??? Isnt that what non internet friends are for. This is a dating site; If your on here EVERY guy is going to assume you are looking NO matter what you say just because of that. Completely BS whoever said that men dont read a profile. Actually i've found that the majority of women who message me dont have a clue whats in my profile. When u ask them why they messaged you and what caught their eye their response is usually... I thought you were really cute.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Married but tempted Posted: 11/20/2005 8:24:55 PM
Obviously the guy aint giving her sexual satisfaction or any satisfaction at all. When im with someone i dont even think about anyone else. If i do it obviously means im not INTO her anymore. Maybe time for a short seperation to test the love. Having someone cheat on you is worse than having someone break up with you ten times over. Maybe ask her how she would feel if he cheated on her. If shed be pissed off then obviously she shouldnt be screwing another guy. If she doesnt seem to be bothered by the idea then maybe she should be screwing someone else.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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OK, how important IS money to you women, TRUTHFULLY Posted: 11/20/2005 1:35:02 PM
I think this can be looked at from two different angles. The older more mature people debating this and the ones around my age group. Like the 49 yr old lady that made the comment about finances; I would think every guy would know how to look after that by then which means it is a different question to ask when saying this to someone 22yrs younger. I have found on similar topics and on this thread that the women who are older tend to be a lot more able to understand that it shouldnt matter and i presume they are saying this because they didnt exactly have their shit together when they were younger however at the same time 99% of girls around my age have responded a lot differently since society has taught them differently. So they are money crazed independent nutzos trying to be as rich as they can on their own and combining it with your very hefty paycheque OR they want you to be hugh heifner rich and buy them trinkets. btw, dont get me wrong; I do find lots of girls that dont give a shit what i do; they just want to see me. Just personally wish more girls would take this approach since some great guys actually refuse to try to make a tremendous amount of money simply because we dont want the kind of girl that wants your 100 dollar bills instead of your heart. Sounds crazy i know but tis part of the reason for me. Im in this thread because i actually enjoy engaging debates.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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OK, how important IS money to you women, TRUTHFULLY Posted: 11/19/2005 8:42:55 PM
Hey Terminally CUTE; What are you doing this weekend? lol

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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OK, how important IS money to you women, TRUTHFULLY Posted: 11/19/2005 3:53:50 PM
I actually wanted to point out that Someone, not sure who but mentioned earlier in this thread that she wanted to be romanticed which takes money. I would say that is completely bananas. Try taking a girl for a hike up a mountain and having a picnic at the top(FREE), or how about parking your car in reverse facing the ocean, opening the hatch and watching the moonlight while discussing our life together; sipping champagne till were drunk and laugh at each other. Oh right, forget it, jewelery and an hour at a premium restaurant is SO MUCH more priceless, lol. Well no hope for me, LMAO, horrible credit, OH NO. Guess i should have been born few hundred years ago. I love threads like this; make the day inzeresting.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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OK, how important IS money to you women, TRUTHFULLY Posted: 11/19/2005 1:53:50 PM
Didnt you women want equality? If theirs gonna be equality its gotta be in ALL AREAS of life. Some girl said she wouldnt be with a guy that made less than her; You know theirs other areas of being rich. I worked for a billionaire recently and on one of those days he walked up to me and said your very rich Sean. I looked at him like wtf you talking about, this is a bottle depot, lol. He said your very rich INSIDE. Which would explain why i represented my country in the olympics but ofcourse besides a few plane tickets and apparel i have nothing to show from that or the last 12 yrs of training but what i do have is soul from what that made me into. Judge a guy on where he works, what he has and you might just end up missing more than you could imagine without even knowing it. You can have all the support of the country when you go to the olympics and walk through the stadium but once you tell them you live with your parents its the complete opposite. Oh well, living the life i want and no regrets and not many can say that.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Are men or women more shallow?? Posted: 11/19/2005 1:33:08 PM
Unfortunately i havent found too many girls or any i guess you could say that im attracted to that dont judge me based on myself. Instead of applying myself to becoming a rich guy with coin i made myself rich in personality and spirit. I actually did something amusing the other day at my hairdressers. We started talking while she was cutting my hair. I said i was a semi-pro amateur athlete living at home with my parents but then went on to say i worked at dominos making pizza's and then finally to give her the real shocker i mentioned that i represented canada in the olympics. It was truly amazing how quickly her personality went UP/DOWN .... Hah, funny part is a lot of these chics will get the money they want BUT they'll end up getting divorced or cheated on by most(ya, theirs some cool bros that have money) when they lose their looks. meh, just a funny story i wanted to say since were talking about shallowness. happens all the time too. Is it shallow to only be attracted to skinny girls from europe or australia. I have noticed in my interactions that girls from other parts of the world are not so ****y and money hungry as north american girls. Unfortunately havent run into any that werent already taken.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Are men or women more shallow?? Posted: 11/19/2005 11:05:33 AM
Yes, its totally true a guy judges women on her looks and are Very shallow in that way. But ofcourse lets not forget how shallow women are about other things such as MONEY; Perfect example is most guys will be with some girl who is living with her parents but almost no women would do the same! For the most part if a guy doesnt have a good high paying job to take care of her he doesnt stand a chance of getting the girl. If a guy tells a girl he really likes he to early into the relationship no matter how genuine the words are the woman will assume that he is needy and emotionally unstable. Yep, guys have other shallow moments such as forgetting important dates, and ofcourse or extreme desire to play sports instead of spend the night with you, lol. Yea, i know im biased; Im a guy but my points are accurate according to myself and friends experiences.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Profile Review Posted: 11/17/2005 11:12:58 PM
Hey bro, since i did hijack your profile maybe should give ya some advice. Your profile sounds good; says who you are and want your looking for. Just one thing i might take out is this..... peaked your interest and you if you'd like? just to many you's, lol. Good luck man. paece out

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Profile Review Posted: 11/16/2005 12:13:13 PM
Wow,, here i thought you responded in a cool way by messaging me. Yes, I was in a way trying to pick a fight since i love doing that sometimes. Theirs a good chance Jay didnt notice the way you worded your post; I did, and i thought it was nutts to send the same message to every guy when you say so yourself you like to have a nice creative message incoming. It sounded by your words like you did think you were more worthy of getting a good message than your male counterparts. That struck a nerve with me; If i read into your post wrong and you were not implying these things then i am a jerk who didnt understand you. Ofcourse Jay didnt see anything wrong with what you said; You were helping him and he probably likes what he sees. If you didnt care about what i was writing you wouldnt have responded so something struck a nerve for you to send me a personal message and 1 in the forum.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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I like my profile, and women can't resist! Posted: 11/16/2005 4:15:43 AM
damn message board... meant to say c-o-c-k-y and funny at the beginning of my post., peace.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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I like my profile, and women can't resist! Posted: 11/16/2005 4:14:52 AM
omg sorry dude but you need some seriously help with women... Chek out askmen.ca Being arrogant is a total turnoff. Try out**** and funny! Or sensitive jerk... Chances are u have no idea what im talking about and by 37 you should. Time to do your homework. If you were gifted with women you wouldnt be on this site. Unless ofcourse you are too timid to ask out women in the bar, etc, or you just moved somewhere new. Another thing is you have a lot of interests but seriously everyone on the face of the planet could fill up that much space full of interests. THE MOST IMPORTANT GENTLEMEN YOU WILL EVER MEET? Does that mean your the king of England? With that line alone i'm willing to be you wont get 1 message or reply. Unless ofcourse shes an extremelly ugly chic with a lot of baggage(we are talking truckloads). Saying I love you everyday kinda wears it out dont ya think... I love my mom but theirs no way i say that every day. Then it wouldnt mean anything! The list for when I say; I DO! Your basically saying you'll do her bidding and let her walk all over you. You dont write out that your so honest, you dont cheat, your caring. She'll figure that out from what you say and how you say it. Leave something mysterious for her to wonder what your all about? Dont write,, but I will accept friendship with other ethnicities.. Just doesnt sound right and she knows your cool with that anyways since you love these countries and they are your interest so its obvious. The ,,, So make it happen comment! If i was a chic i'd be thinking is this guy gonna try to control me when i get into a relationship? Its just me but i think you should replace the comment about you looking so young because you eat right and look after your health. Sounds a bit like your bragging; Its cool to be proud but everyone that looks at your pic and your age can tell you look after your health. Hell, Im nearly 28 and can barely pass for 18 because i look after myself as well but theirs no need to mention that. They'll find out in bed, lol. Just trying to give some advice,, well lots of it and i may be off base since your a decade older than i am but that was my two cents. Peace out

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Profile Review Posted: 11/16/2005 3:41:52 AM
Thats kind of hypocritical dont ya think... Honey Dipped Blond! you mention that you hate it when a guy puts a lacklustre effort into messaging you and that the best emails are the ones where u can tell they read the profile; YET, you say that you write the SAME message to every guy! Yeah, you make a joke and say your lazy but at the same time your okay being lazy writing out a note yourself but you expect more from others. Do you think your better? You also mentioned u dont like them writing,, Hey, how are you doing? or nice pic, heres my msn, add me? but you go on to say you like it short and sweet. Cant get much sweeter, honest, and short than Hi, how are you doing today? kind of thing. Not trying to pick a fight, lol.. well maybe a small one. Just seems to me someone who cares a great deal about spelling and grammer would make sure she didnt sound like she was being hypocritical. Either you are hypocritical or your not letting anyone understand what it is you tried to say in your thread post. btw,,, i know my grammer isnt the best.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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would u date a 28 year old guy who lives at home still Posted: 11/15/2005 12:04:08 AM
How about this scenario for you guys... What if he was an amateur athlete the last 10 years and had represented Canada in the olympics but due to the fact that he lived on kraft dinner for a decade and put all his time into winning an olympic medal. Still home at 28, no money but the backing of a whole country. What if this person told you ya hes got a shitty job at dominos but hes got a bronze medal in his parents basement. Would you date him then? You shouldnt since money is all that matters.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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WHAT IS THE DEFINITION OF A PLAYER? AND HONESTY?? Posted: 11/14/2005 11:52:29 PM
Actually if a guy works on it he can find a happy medium. Nice guys are nice but they dont give women a hard time. They want to please4 them.. If nice guys lose that part of their game they will get a lot more game... I have done this myself; Just takes practice like anything else in life... Players arent born that way; they learned their game no matter what they tell you.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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WHAT IS THE DEFINITION OF A PLAYER? AND HONESTY?? Posted: 11/14/2005 11:48:16 PM
A player is a man that knows what a woman wants and gives her a taste of it so she'll keep coming back for more... Every guy whos b een married for a decade is a player.. They just know whats going down.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Too Early to put out? Posted: 11/12/2005 5:08:25 AM
GIRL,, come here and dominate me... I'll let ya just for a little while... SOOOOO HOTTTT..... Does this guy have any idea how much fun he could have with you; whatta tool, lol Could always become a porn star; plenty of sex their for ya; and dont have to worry about first date,, you'll be doing it in a matter of a few mins.... BONUS.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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what the... Posted: 11/12/2005 5:02:35 AM
LMFAO,, this is classic... Find it hard to believe the guy is actually bailing... thats usually the ladies job. Plenty of experience with that, lol..... I have two other theories though... 1st one is,, he could have just realized hes gay, sad but does happen apparantly. OR... you were the first relationship he has had in a while so he settled for you and now hes thinking to himself that your not the one for him because hes got his balls back so to speak.... Honest answer,, sounds like a fling Love lasts a little while; True LOVE keeps getting stronger as you go.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Do You Men Read Our Whole Profiles? Posted: 11/12/2005 4:55:06 AM
Yep, some of us to read Every little detail in your profile and the we have a lot in common line is not always as fake as it seems. Guys that dont read a profile through are looking for SEX. Their is a difference,, who gives a **** about whats in a girls profile if all you want is sex, all you need is the attraction for that. I'll also implicate that since their is generally people on these sites that are more shy; that they are looking to get some action cause its been a while for them. Lets be honest a lot of people are on here because they cant get any action in the realm outside computers due to the fact that sending a message to a complete hottie online to approaching her in a bar is a completely different ballgame..

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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And if she sleeps with you on the first date? Posted: 11/12/2005 1:37:59 AM
WAY TO GO GIRL,,, you wanna **** him do it,,, this is a free country. Personally if i slept with a girl on the 1 st date it would make things that much more special quickly. IF any effect it would be a good thing. btw,, whatcha doing later? jk,,, does the term once you've gone black u never go back work for chics too... always been curious about that... i want the experience.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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DO PEOPLE GET MAD AT YOU TOO IF YOU DONT REPLY TO THIER EMAILS IMMEDIATLY? Posted: 11/11/2005 7:30:10 PM
Women have it easier on this site for sure I'm starting to think..... had heard a ratio of 5-1 for the ladies. LOL,,, i've never had the problem your talking about with IM popping up while reading a message. I have a good profile and i think im pretty damn sexy, lol, must be quite the ego boost to actually get that many messages in one day. My max is 4, but i guess considering the ratio of men to women thats not bad. Still i do wish more girls would respond because i really do read a profile before responding!!!

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/11/2005 7:23:29 PM
LMAO,,, have a few for me. Carefull tonight, someone might slip u a rufee. I know i would, lol

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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The common link in most women's profiles... Posted: 11/11/2005 2:11:53 PM
I think you should stop giving yourself negative hits man... YOu said your NO PRIZE good grief... Any girl that reads that is gonna not even think about sending u a message. And they do look at the forum links in your profile! Im sure you can get a better picture too dude. Also women like to laugh but every second of the day wouldnt be very appealing to me if i was a chic; I would think that it would get annoying but thats just me. Also if your an amateur comedian im assuming most women are thinking to themselves,, hes got NO money and i'm going to be married to this guy 15yrs from now with this. No knock on you, i'm sure you love doing what your doing.... But maybe want to get a job and take out the amateur comedian thing. I play soccer, surf, and ride mountain bike at a somewhat semi-pro level should i put that in. I've never seen you on t.v so i'll assume your not even close to making the big bucks with it.(once again not insulting you dude)... Just comes a time when u gotta put your dreams on the side such as i did to a degree.. Sure you have a heart for the game like PELE but unfortunately that does not mean you can be that good. DUDE, DO NOT WRITE YOU ARE A NICE AND SWEET guy in your profile! Take the hopeless romantic out, romantic is good by itself. You also say in your first date that you would drink alcohol if it was neccessary,,, that whole line spells out neediness. Thats the nice guys finish last image right their dude. You set the parameters and never be indecisive. She expects you to take the lead, not cater to her every want. Finally i'll shutup after one more comment... being stand- up comedy? noticed a couple other grammer mistakes in their. Good luck to ya man.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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What TV character would be your perfect match? Posted: 11/11/2005 1:49:19 PM
JENNIFER ANISTON,,, omg she is so sexy,,, her voice, eyes, that girls got the perfect body, face and personality.... Too bad i'll pbly never even meet her.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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Okay what's up? Posted: 11/11/2005 3:30:55 AM
LOL,,, WHAT THE... maybe you would have better luck if you actually wrote a guy back when he messages you, lol.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

Okay what's up? Posted: 11/11/2005 3:28:45 AM
Yeah, lose the tattoo pics and the comment about having your share of bad relationships. You definately have a beautiful smile though; Might want to take some time to get some good shots of it:) You sound fun, easy going, and caring person. I would write you if you lived near me for sure. I actually liked the pic of you sitting in/on the tractor wheel for some reason i cant explain right now, lol. Canadians Rock!

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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DO PEOPLE GET MAD AT YOU TOO IF YOU DONT REPLY TO THIER EMAILS IMMEDIATLY? Posted: 11/10/2005 11:13:54 PM
Now the question i have is; Was that 22 messages over just a 1 day span or did you leave your account alone for a few days? Because it is pretty unbelievable to think that you get 22 messages EVERY DAY. Hell, Tyra Banks wouldnt be getting that many every day. BTW, not saying you dont look sexxy for your age:) My problem isnt with the girls that take just a little while to respond; Its the ones that keep your message but never respond and months go by.. WTF do they keep it,,, delete it or respond, lol... You dont have to change what you wrote in your profile but if you cant handle the messages your getting maybe you should put restrictions on WHO can message you since i'm pretty sure you know what your looking for. Also, Im pretty sure your not actually attracted to everyone that messages you either so just delete those ones right away cause theirs no point in fussing over them.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 326 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/10/2005 8:29:07 PM
Oh you think so do ya; No way am i getting stuck with that job. Being a bit nosy and pokin fun is much more fun. Yeah, you pay for the plane ticket i'll provide the bed and we can subtract our cloathes and multiply my sperm..

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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profile pics Posted: 11/10/2005 7:43:18 PM
OMG, your gorgeous.. Terminally stunned i am... I thought i was looking at an 18 yr old.. I rate your pic 10 outta 10. Got a phone number? (wink)

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 323 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/10/2005 7:40:19 PM
LMAO, chill out im bored.... see i knew u would bite my head off for that; that would be why i did that.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

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DO PEOPLE GET MAD AT YOU TOO IF YOU DONT REPLY TO THIER EMAILS IMMEDIATLY? Posted: 11/10/2005 7:30:01 PM
Yeah, i agree with the dude earlier.. It is quite annoying when u have in my case 3 whole pages full of girls that read your msg but have never responded. Why do they keep it if their not interested, and if they are they should maybe respond, lol. Is it just an ego boost for most of these girls? maybe you ladies can make light of this

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 7 (view)

DO PEOPLE GET MAD AT YOU TOO IF YOU DONT REPLY TO THIER EMAILS IMMEDIATLY? Posted: 11/10/2005 4:20:29 PM
Well, I find it hard to believe u dont have time to respond in some way to everyone that you do find interesting.. If you have already read their profile it doesnt take much to just say a simple hello back... only takes 10 more seconds to type something quick back and respond but thats just me, i'll reply even if im not interested just to not be rude. I'd say if your attracted to the guy respond cause u cant be attracted to them all so i think you are just fussing over nothing... Got to devote time to finding someone special.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 302 (view)

Who wants their profile rated? Posted: 11/10/2005 4:12:50 PM
lol,,,, adults really? i hadnt noticed... No fun in the forums, gonna cry

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 299 (view)

Who wants their profile rated? Posted: 11/10/2005 3:44:12 PM
CATFIGHT,,,, common ladies, bring out the claws; i'll cheer ya both on; Just dont hurt me.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 320 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/10/2005 12:42:38 PM
Hey Nimmodreams; Shes gonna tell u exactly what she told me. Dude, just take the time a get some good pics. Their are some contradictions in your profile too but i better shutup or Amberlynn will kick my ass. Shes the real genious; i'm just a fast learner, lol.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 313 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/10/2005 12:02:53 AM
yes, you are amazing, The great PUN KIN. Im on my knees bowing. Is their anything her highness would like while i am their? lmao

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 306 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/9/2005 11:52:01 AM
LMAO, All this time i thought my photo was good. Now i put in a bunch of good ones and suddenly with the same profile every chic i write to is writing back and getting writes to me too. I'm finding a lot of them dont give a shit about your profile. Virtually the same profile writeup is getting 90% more responses just because of better pics in a shitty background. Kinda doesnt seem right to me i guess but then again maybe the picture i had up was that horrible, lol. I actually thought it was good, oh well. Props for the help

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 273 (view)

Who wants their profile rated? Posted: 11/8/2005 2:22:31 PM
Yeah, nothing wrong with living with the parents for a bit. Im not a mooch, pay rent, food, and yes i dont mind it for now. Gives me a chance to pay back student loans i already have and save up to go again in September.

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 271 (view)

Who wants their profile rated? Posted: 11/8/2005 1:06:32 PM
LMAO, theirs no pleasing you huh. No, i live in a 400,000 dollar home. I am helping my parents finish the basement and yes it is an unfinished basement but i should say i put up those photos last night and i already got 2 messages from quite the lookers(wink).

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 299 (view)

Let me rate your profile... Posted: 11/8/2005 2:25:03 AM
Hey, i put up some new photos. Could you let me know what you think, danke

bigwavesurfer

Joined: 9/14/2005

Msg: 261 (view)

Who wants their profile rated? Posted: 11/8/2005 2:23:51 AM
Hey Jess,, I put up some new photos, could u let me know what you think?

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