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 Author Thread: Do women mind single dads with kids
 Merven
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 754 (view)
 
Do women mind single dads with kids
Posted: 7/1/2009 2:51:43 PM
I've noticed that lot of the younger women on here who don't have children seem to once they find out you have a kid just delete your messages,
I'm 20 yrs old have a 2 year old son, and he is basically my world, I use to start out my messages explain i was a young dad and what not but 99% of my mail would be read and deleted, This includes Women who have children already,
Now I just send a Basic message.
Is there something i should say or change in my profile or am i just fishing the wrong crowd? lol
 Merven
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 15 (view)
 
Any advise?
Posted: 8/12/2008 5:37:21 PM
Thank you all for your sound advice, we sat down today and went over whats going on, her family basicly ignores me which is fine... i cleaned up an area for him over there and it makes me feel better to know he has a place like that where he can walk without hurting himself. the reason i dont go threw my lawer is because i cant charge it under my company, ( i could but im not like that) and most of my money is going to the new company trucks. Again thank you all and i will take it all into consideration,.
 Merven
Joined: 7/15/2008
Msg: 4 (view)
 
Any advise?
Posted: 8/11/2008 10:07:31 AM
All shes told me was she would have left me earlier if we didnt have a kid.... and that i didnt make he happy. but it confuses me because i proposed to her not 3 months before and she was looking at wedding dresses with her friend less then 2 weeks before she left me..... sadly, i dont think she would come on here and tell her story lol
 Merven
Joined: 7/15/2008
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Any advise?
Posted: 8/11/2008 9:56:32 AM
Hey everyone, well lets start off with with my names Jeff and I'm a 19 yr old dad.
Yes i know i will probly get alot of ridicule because im young.. i dont care... anyways
The mother of my child recently left me and is now only letting me have him on the weekends. she expects me to pick him up and drop him off and never come by her house any other time. i recently found out she was with a guy 3 days after she left me. he has since left her and she has a new guy..... (all this within 1 1/2 months), she lives with her mother and there family to save money, but there house is nothing short of a pigsty. I own my own place with a room for him and every thing, i work full time and own my own buisness.... one thing that really anoyed me is i told her that if she ever needed money, such as for food or clothes for him or what not just tell me and ill pay for it, but she turned around and yelled at me telling me to pay only the support i need to.... shes trying to cut me from her life, but its kinda hard when you have a kid together, ive talked to legal aid and they sent me to another place. I havent gone to that place yet..... does anyone have any advice or info i could use???
Thanks ...
 
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