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buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

Msg: 45 (view)

What are we doing? Posted: 2/15/2009 6:30:59 PM
It is true that as we get older, we make better choices. I wish I would have started much sooner.

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Friends with benefits.... A rant Posted: 6/19/2006 6:08:38 PM
Dawn, if I had known that I would have hopped a plane! The "Vikings" told me that right about where you are "there are sea monsters, that could jump out of the water and eat a plane or a vessel". They also said that the ocean just ends right about where you live! I'm very afraid! But, you are berry berry cute! To stay on track with the thread: I think whatever someone wants to do and if they aren't hurting someone else then it is ok

buccaneer38

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Is it just me but it seems the nicest women live out of town? Posted: 6/19/2006 6:02:57 PM
I can't move my practice, if they can't move to me.........................sorry, they are just out of luck..............

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Is it just me but it seems the nicest women live out of town? Posted: 6/19/2006 5:52:22 PM
It is just you dude. I have met some really scary women that live out of town. Be very very afraid LOL By the way, if there is going to be a "delete this thread" on this or any other post then it should be included on EVERY post. It is only fair! There have been soooooooooooo many threads that I would have voted to delete sooooooooooooooooo many. Lets be fair!

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Traditional views vrs. Todays views Posted: 6/19/2006 5:49:10 PM
I hold the "traditional" views, but I have screwed up (literally) many times ...........alas, I am human. I want a woman who is cute and a whore in bed, that will be true to me...................................now that is a fairy tail ............................As I look at the two words "fairy tail" I think....................that isn't spelled correctly! A "fairy tail" would be what a homosexual man is looking for LOL Dawn, your so cute!

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Friends with benefits.... A rant Posted: 6/19/2006 5:24:52 PM
I have "mixed" emotions on this subject. I have turned down more than one woman that only wanted me to have sex with her on a regular basis. Here is the "strange" part: I have had lots of one night stands, but when I run across an honest woman that tells me straight up that I am just to be her sex toy, then I don't even do it one time. I think that I enjoy being in control and I also think that I want to at least believe in my heart that there might be some small chance that we will become closer and closer. I don't like that much honesty ie; her telling me that there won't be a "real" relationship, because we are only going to have sex...........................It is just way too weird for me. P.S. Dawn, I think you are so cute, too bad you are on the edge of the earth! Do you ever get "scared" that you are going to fall off the earth? LOL............Tracy

buccaneer38

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Drug addiction and deception; Can it be forgiven? Posted: 6/19/2006 5:10:56 PM
I would forgive the "friend" because she really was between a rock and a hard place. I don't know how many "friends" would tell you because she would be damned if she did and damned if she didn't. Concerning your drug abuser/thief boyfriend. To me drug addiction is like child abusers. I would never trust either again.

buccaneer38

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Advice PLEASE!!!! Posted: 6/19/2006 5:04:47 PM
sneak up behind him with a large caliber weapon, he will never know what hit him (I'm kidding). Anytime someone breaks up with you it is gonna hurt, no matter how careful or how well you pick your words. Life sucks and then you die. Just suck it up and tell him. Maybe this will help you go ahead and do it. You aren't that special and he will probably have another woman that is probably cuter and smarter with a better job by the next day anyway, so quit stalling, so he can find someone better than you. Did that help?

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Shy guys Posted: 6/18/2006 3:25:39 PM
Yeah, I am soooooooooooooo shy too LOL (tongue in cheek). I am as shy as Attila the Hun (he couldn't spell his name either)

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Met a nice guy who has bad teeth... Posted: 6/18/2006 10:46:19 AM
Okay, as far as the teeth go, I am with you on that! Gross teeth are a "deal breaker" for me. I can't and won't do bad breath and bad teeth! Now as far as someone "Helping" me out by telling me not to go out with this one or that one! Phuck them! Almost every story I have ever heard that someone told me about this one or that one was almost all prevarications (lies). I ALWAYS go to the person and ask them about (this thing or that thing that I heard) so I can find out the truth. So many times people miss out on really good people because of so much BS that a pseuo-friend tells. Don't listen to all that crap-O-la, find out for yourself.\ I could tell you so many stories of things that really happened to me because of so called church people that wanted to help me by telling which people it was ok to go out with! I had one deacon of the chuch come to my office in the hospital to tell me what kind of "sinner" I was going out with! Once again I say PHUCK him, because he didn't have a clue what he was talking about. He was just repeating what other so called church members had told him! Talk about EVIL! They should be in the fires of hell themselves for speading gossip.

buccaneer38

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Is it okay for a woman to hit a man? Posted: 6/18/2006 10:36:15 AM
"Hitting" is NEVER ok, in a relationship, however "spanking" is good in a relationship and on naughty children as well. Come on ................just a little comedy...........................you know comedy isn't pretty!

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Shy guys Posted: 6/18/2006 10:30:26 AM
Well, honestly if you go up to a woman and act like you will die if they don't go out with you, then most will not go out with you so they can see if you will really die! It is kind of like going to the bank and trying to get a loan ie; if you really need a loan then they aren't going to give it to you. (Odd but true). Now, if you go in and act like you just don't give a fecal matter if they give you a loan or not, guess what? You will get the loan. So when you meet a new woman the best way to act is like you just don't give a rats butt if they like you or go out with you.....................if you don't care, they will WANT to go out with you, but if you show weakness or fear, they are like dogs, because they can smell your fear, and they enjoy making you afraid. Fear no one living or dead Puck um if they can't take a joke!

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Why are you single? Posted: 6/18/2006 10:11:22 AM
I am single because I don't want to settle. I want to feel excitment in my heart. I want it all, so I may be single the rest of my life.......................but better to be single than miserable!

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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What would you make someone you're seeing for a birthday dinner? Posted: 6/18/2006 10:08:52 AM
What I would make and what you should or would make are probably different but just the same: I would cook mexican salad because I like it and it is simple. Cook hamburger meat on a skillet (one package) Mix in Ranch style beans let simmer for awhile (time isn't that important, just bring the beans to a boil with the meat that you already cooked) Make a regular salad with whatever you like in it. I just put lettice, a little onion in it, like I said what ever you like. When it is time to serve , just let him put some salad in his plate and then scoop some of the meat and ranch style beans over it (piping hot). Then sprinkle your favorite cheese over the top of it. I like to drink milk with it. Your idea of putting some meat on the grill is a good idea for the fourth of July. You could make hamburger patties and then let everyone fix their own hamburger. I think that is a good idea for anyone even someone with diabeties. Good luck

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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As a man, what are the 3 most important things that you look for in a woman as a potential mate? Posted: 6/18/2006 10:01:24 AM
Height,Weight,Job,non-smoking,kids?,desire to make me happy,level of education,family, ability to count to three LOL

buccaneer38

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What Would You Do? Posted: 6/18/2006 9:55:47 AM
Life is hard, and then you die. If you aren't getting what you need from the relationship, then naturally it is your option to discontinue it, but if everything else is good, why throw a good person in the garbage. Find ways to be with him and make him happy. Visit him at work if that is an option.................

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Sunday Dates? Posted: 6/18/2006 9:50:02 AM
I date when I am off work. I work in a hospital so my life revolves around work. Sunday is just like any other day to me. Father's day date? My Father is dead, so I bet he wouldn't care if I went out and had some fun on that day. Not all of us are lucky enough to have a father to go visit. Tracy (buccaneer38)

buccaneer38

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guys/gals: let's help each other out: our lessons learned for better dating/relating Posted: 6/14/2006 10:11:06 PM
I wasn't refering to you indigo rose, I was talking about uneducated posters, sorry you misunderstood? I still think listening to your own heart is the best modality to treat lessons to be learned.

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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guys/gals: let's help each other out: our lessons learned for better dating/relating Posted: 6/14/2006 9:43:13 PM
Oh indogo, I didn't know you were trying to be funny.............hard to tell, sorry........... I would say listen to the heart not old/unfunny/uneducated posters....................

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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guys/gals: let's help each other out: our lessons learned for better dating/relating Posted: 6/14/2006 6:25:43 PM
Indigo ridiculous: drunk men or women will prevaricate,steal, dance naked, try to jump over moving cars.................................guess what? They will lie just as quick as when they are sober, but not nearly as effectively. I buy you books and send you to school and indogo, what do you do? You eat the covers.....................

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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How do you break the ICE? Posted: 6/14/2006 6:09:02 PM
Nothing is 100%, but I would say that 80% of the time, comedy works best. If you would have been a woman and you asked "How do you break the ICE?", I would have said with an ice pick and then added LOL If they think you are cute, handsome or whatever, even if they don't think you were that funny, they will "act" like what you said slayed them, so they will laugh and laugh. Here is something that works well. Buy a dog collar and then go to a busy park. Walk all over the park dragging the collar, but not too fast and periodically walk up to some cute lady and say "wanna pet my puppy"? She will think you need a mommy and probably help you back to the hospital. You can also use the same dog leash, with dog collar and walk all over the park with tears in your eyes and ask every beautiful woman you run into if she has seen your puppy and be ready to describe the most beautiful little puppy known to man/woman. She will probably help you search for hours and hours and then take you home to pet her kitty. You must be able to cry on demand though to win at that game. Try it before you decide you can't cry on demand or describe the most beautiful puppy in the world.

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Women Like Tall Posted: 6/10/2006 12:58:03 AM
Ah, that is just BS: It is all about MONEY! You can : have a gut the size of a overstuffed pillow have worts all over your nose have a comb over be 4'11" tall have "man boobies" without a bra shave your legs have thin arms wear your pants so low that you have a plumber butt wear ten pounds of gold chains around your neck wear "leisure suits" have false teeth leak after you pee pick your nose spit when you talk have saliva constantly running out the side of your mouth drag one foot have a hump on your back have a hearing problem use a walker talk with a lisp As long as your wallets fat , women will dig you, I promise!

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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extramartial affair having a girl friend Posted: 6/10/2006 12:15:17 AM
Yes, it is absolutely wrong. If you need to be loved or whatever by someone other than your wife, then get a "freakin" divorce.

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Deal Breaker? Posted: 6/10/2006 12:07:27 AM
I think that if two people are only about themselves, they should never get married. Love, means concilliation, consession, the giving of yourself unselfessly. How about an Ipod? You can both get one and fill them with the stuff you like and just use one side of the ear phones (the side she isn't on, so you can hear traffic and hear her if she talks to you going down the freeway). Top three groups on the same stage: The Rolling Stones All four of the Beatles (you said alive or dead) Aerosmith (naturally)

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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tell me....is it wrong? Posted: 6/10/2006 12:01:33 AM
Yes, it is absolutely wrong! If you are just looking to chat, then go to a site that isn't about romance.......................WTF

buccaneer38

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Ladies Look and Learn Posted: 6/9/2006 11:59:48 PM
Yup, you screwed up big time! I hope you learned a big lesson!

buccaneer38

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He has been married 4 times.........a danger sign or what... Posted: 6/9/2006 11:56:19 PM
Danger Will Robinson, Danger, Danger Danger! Run for your life, Danger, Danger!

buccaneer38

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It just died Posted: 6/9/2006 11:33:33 PM
Melonaide...............hummmmmmmmmmm, so all he was doing was sneaking around trying to HELP the relationship, so you dumped him for that? MY GOD! So he was sneaking around to HELP the relationship............maybe a thank you would have been in order instead of "see ya".................looks like you were looking for a reason to leave him. That is like saying he just made too much money and I coudn't figure out a way to spend it all! Or, he was just trying to do everything right and I couldn't stand for that! Or maybe he was just way too sexy for a plain ordinary girl like me! So if a guy is trying too hard, it is time to dump him? Way too weird for me.

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Smoking Prefer not to say Posted: 6/6/2006 2:22:50 AM
I agree: If you smoke, don't you think we can smell you when you drive up? There is a "haze" that follows you around that everyone can see so just tell the truth why don't ya? You think you can hide it until you put that nasty tongue in our mouths? That is the point when we will run screaming from your blue haze, so just tell us about all the carbon monoxide you breath everyday................don't try and fake us out with "prefer not to say"..............................duh

buccaneer38

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meeting someone and you find out they are someone hard and kinda low life Posted: 6/6/2006 2:19:35 AM
Sad, but oh so true..........

buccaneer38

Joined: 9/15/2005

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Long nails....Turn on or turn off? Posted: 6/6/2006 2:15:09 AM
If a woman has those fake nails, yuck and double yuck! First off they can't do anything with them and second off they are unsanitary. There have been so many articles in medical journals about the microrganisms that are under those fake nails. A woman with fake nails is just giving that filth to everyone she touches. What do I think about long fingernails and the women that have them.........gross! They should be real and of normal length. Who needs a woman that wears all that crap-O-la anyway. I want a woman that can actually use her hands for something and won't gross me out if she hands me an apple or something. Tracy (buccaneer38)

buccaneer38

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Hand Signals Posted: 6/4/2006 3:49:31 PM
Very good horselady, may I use that? I like hand signals or any signals for that matter..................just give me a sign...............I'm looking for a sign..........................and don't let it be a "stop" sign. A "yield" sign.....................now that is a good sign.

buccaneer38

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When good friends go bad... Posted: 6/4/2006 3:08:30 PM
Well "newintown", you will find that almost everything in life costs money. I am thinking that a fifty dollar lesson is really cheap as far as lessons go. In my life, I have paid for many lessons and some were worth it and others were not worth it. I had one lesson that a RN lady I dated gave me that cost $128,000.00 and yes, just to make sure you don't think I accidently put too many zero's in it .............I did say one hundred and twenty eight thousand dollars! I thought she must be a good person since she went to college and became a registered nurse, but boy was I NOT right. She turned out to be an RN with a criminal past and a criminal mind. Lucky me huh, so fifty bucks? That was a very cheap lesson, where do I sign up LOL I had to edit my post because I read the above poster say that the Bible says that no relationship should be given up on? I bet Nicole would like to go back and buy a ticket to anywhere instead of being where she was the night ole O.J. slit her throat! I would run from anyone that steals from me and as far as being uncomfortable if we accidently ran into each other in town or something........................Here is something from the Bible revenge is mine saith the lord, but in my Bible it is : Enjoy your revenge Tracy LOL

buccaneer38

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Hand Signals Posted: 6/2/2006 3:01:18 AM
I see dead people, but I guess that is off topic huh? Hand signals? Well, I am always hoping for one or two, like the one for come here big boy, thats a good hand signal but the best one would have to be the one that was already mentioned (I don't want to mention it again, since it was kind of on the naughty side). I like that word, don't you? naughty................

buccaneer38

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What professions are a turn off? Posted: 6/2/2006 2:56:43 AM
I like white peoples trash myself, they throw out some really good stuff sometimes. Lots of times I find half a pizza or half a sandwich.................Once or four times I found a almost full bottle of the expensive water in a bottle (I forget the name of it, but it is real fancy and all). It comes in a blue bottle that makes the water look even better. Anyway, let me think what professions turn me off, hummmmmmmmmm, maybe profession garbage people, cause they get in my way when I am dumpster diving. They actually get mad at me for digging through peoples garbage? Heck, they threw it away didn't they, so finders keepers..........right?

buccaneer38

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Hand Signals Posted: 6/1/2006 7:46:24 PM
I wish I could see which profile he is talking about..............I would like a thrill too!

buccaneer38

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why do men lie Posted: 6/1/2006 7:10:06 PM
When I saw the heading "why do men lie", my first thought was, why do women lie? Hell, why does anyone lie? It is a goofy question, but I will go for it. Men and women lie (prevaricate) because they don't have any morals. It is a good sign to leave a person alone forever and ever if they lie to you because it is a sign (from God?) that they aren't to be trusted! My thinking is maybe he read some of your writings and he is a english teacher and he saw that you don't use capitals and your syntax is very poor. So, he began lying to you, so that you would think he didn't have any morals, so you would take the first click back to nosyntax.com (just playing with you)

buccaneer38

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Would you go to a restaurant and eat alone? Posted: 6/1/2006 6:35:32 PM
I like myself and I enjoy my company so I would not have any problem going anywhere by myself and I do regularly. Tracy (buccaneer38)

buccaneer38

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What professions are a turn off? Posted: 6/1/2006 6:34:17 PM
I don't have any certain job titles that I wouldn't go out with. I am more about the person and how they act in public.

buccaneer38

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Doesn't anybody feel bad after a one night stand? Posted: 5/31/2006 8:17:38 PM
I see no evil, hear no evil, and speak no evil LOL I ............don't..................think .................I ..............want.............to ............tell...........................the ..............world.........................if....................I .............have..............................been................naughty............................ok, I have.....................and maybe initially I felt guilty.....................but dang, life is short.................and it was fun......................................, but......................I wouldn't.................make............a ....................habit .............out............of.......it!

buccaneer38

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What does Don't want kids really mean ? Posted: 5/31/2006 7:44:00 PM
I think it could mean either they don't want to propagate or they don't want your kiddo's, however; it can also mean that they just don't like anyones kids. Best thing? Ask, because each individual woman thinks differently. You can't ask a group of women a question and expect that the answer you get will fit all women. If it is important enough for you to write this thread over, then it is important enough for you to ask each woman that you are interested in or appears interested in you.

buccaneer38

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What happened to the desire? Posted: 5/31/2006 12:13:16 AM
How freakin sad that is...................dang

buccaneer38

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Why does it seem like women (more than men) really can't decide what they want? Posted: 5/30/2006 11:53:14 PM
Women always know what they want: Before you marry them they want what you want After you marry them they want what they can get After the divorce they want all you ever had and all you will ever make.

buccaneer38

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Why do people look more attractive close-up? Posted: 5/30/2006 11:50:38 PM
My God, almost every woman that I have ever gone out with look much better from a distance (like the song). The closer they get to me..................the farther away I wish I was to them........................lol

buccaneer38

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Dating Yourself Posted: 5/30/2006 11:44:11 PM
I went out with myself once and I was out having such a good time and then a terrible thing happened and even now it is hard to talk about....................I was walking past one of those hugh picture windows and the sun was shinning just a certain way on the window and then ..........................then it happened .............I saw myself cheating on me. I have to admit, he was near perfect. I cried almost seconds..................

buccaneer38

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The IQ in relationships Posted: 5/30/2006 11:25:37 PM
There are lots of ways to tell how smart or educated someone is..............communication, maybe? Ask them about their education Ask them about their knowledge about this or that........... And then if you are like a few on here, when they write you back you can pick away at what they say or how they say it and their syntax etc. You just have to be observant, thats all. Buccaneer38

buccaneer38

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text message Posted: 5/30/2006 9:11:03 PM
It is always good to check up on the people you are with. Don't just automatically trust them, or you will be the loser for sure. Tracy

buccaneer38

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Speaking in the 3rd Person Posted: 5/30/2006 6:50:26 PM
Be vewy vewy quiet, Twacy is hunting wabbits

buccaneer38

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What would you do??????? Posted: 5/29/2006 3:20:29 AM
Absolutely NOT! I would tell her to bite my bum! Tracy (buccaneer38)

buccaneer38

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How long is too LOng Posted: 5/28/2006 12:03:32 AM
So Americanangle, you have been talking to a sweet man for tw0 "mouths"? I bet that was a trick.....................oh you mean two months!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How far away is he from you? Distance is the key factor in my minds eye. If he lives a long way away (like a thousand miles or more)then two mouths (I mean months) isn't too bad, but if he lives thirty minutes away, dump the dude!

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