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baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

Msg: 257 (view)

Women only seeking Christian men Posted: 9/20/2009 12:44:04 AM
You better believe that it happens, OP. Derailing thread now... I pretty much met my dream girl in university, but her prerequisites for a boyfriend are that he be of Asian descent and Roman Catholic. I could only ever meet one of those two prerequisites. Even if I found a way to make it work with her, I'd go crazy dealing with her family looking down at me for "tainting their bloodline". ...k done. Keep in mind that the world is a very big place. For every amazing girl you meet there are realistically many more with similar qualities. Prejudice is a fact of life. It's something you'll have to deal with. We'll always be judged by the colour of our skin and our beliefs. Wars are fought over these things. As for myself I have a wavering interest in religion as a whole. God is God as far as I'm concerned, so I don't buy into the notion that one religion is the "one true path to enlightenment". I'm perfectly happy with Christians who wish to educate others upon their own free will. Evangelical Christians (or evangelists for any other religion) drive me insane.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Microsoft Expects 10 Years Lifecycle for Xbox 360. Posted: 8/9/2009 6:06:41 PM
I think.... ...nay, I sincerely hope that the Xbox360 will live on for ten years in the same capacity that the Playstation 2 did. When Microsoft and Nintendo released their next-gen consoles (the 360 and Wii) they immediately abandoned their old platforms, and stopped giving out new licenses to permit development on the platform (existing titles were OK, which is why there were a trickle of titles for both post-360/wii). Sony did not do this. They rebranded their PS2 as the "budget" console when they released their PS3. Up until recently, there were still quite a few games being released on the PS2. Simply put... they lowered the price, changed the target market, and continued to sell the same system. They had planned to push the EyeToy once again, but this never came to fruition. If Microsoft goes this route, then Project Natal will extend the 360's life in the same way. It'll become a budget console targeted for families and children.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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AGP still lives on? Posted: 8/9/2009 6:02:08 PM
They're just trying to make an extra buck. An AGP card is an unnecessary upgrade. The bandwidth of AGP8x can still suffice in many situations, but any card running in a machine with an AGP slot will be bottlenecked by the CPU. It's like buying a car that can go 220km/h and only driving it at 100km/h.... wait, what?

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Does anyone think that Windows 7 = another Vista upgrade? Posted: 8/9/2009 5:59:22 PM
Windows 7 is essentially what Windows Vista should have been in the first place. If you have an older computer then I can understand why you'd want to stick with XP, but if your machine can run Vista then it will undoubtedly run Windows 7 much faster than it does Windows Vista or even Windows XP. Give linux a shot though. You'll love it... especially if you're the type that does all of their computing through their web browser. Fedora Core is my Linux distro of choice, but Ubuntu is by far the best version for the linux newbie. They even have a Windows-based installer that will allow you to install the OS from within Windows (note that there are some limitations and performance issues using Wubi)

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Should you lie....? Posted: 8/9/2009 5:53:40 PM
YES. Believe it or not... gasp people lie. It's one of those sad realizations you'll come to over time. The best thing you can do is try to be honest where it counts. In this case, it might have made sense to lie. There's really no need for you to divulge into your past. What happened has happened, and you can't undo it. He really has no need to know that you were a cutter... if you felt the need to tell him at some point in your life then hey that's fine. The other option, not lying, will result in him coming to several conclusions about you and pegging you as an emotionally unstable person... and while that might have been true in the past, it may not necessarily be the case today. It would be wrong to give up a chance of love because of a false pre-judgement.

baultista

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Slept with 83 people Posted: 8/9/2009 5:51:33 PM
Maybe she's reformed? I don't know... ...either way, that amount of experience should come in handy.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Are you really ready for dating? Posted: 8/9/2009 5:50:53 PM
OP: That sounds like a flat out lie to me.

baultista

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How do you take rejection? Posted: 6/2/2009 9:33:29 PM
1) It hurts, because you're being rejected before the person even has a chance to get to know you. I get mad for a while, but eventually I get over it. 2) It's not nearly as bad. I know that she's taken the chance to get to know me and she just doesn't feel anything. I can accept that, and it's not nearly as hard to shake off.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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How many people have actually went on a date using this site? Posted: 3/10/2009 2:17:32 PM
Nothing. I played a few random games of message tag over four months before moving back to my old city (work term ended) and no longer really needing the site.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Dad always told me, The woman chooses the man. Posted: 11/8/2008 12:39:22 AM
I've been told that, as you get older, the roles sort of reverse. I'm in uni now so the guys usually chase the girls... most of the older single people I talk to insist that it's the other way around for them now.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Why do so few men take part in yoga.? Posted: 10/16/2008 9:10:09 AM
Yoga is fine.... I just find yoga classes to be really annoying, so I do it at home in my makeshift gym room AKA the place where we store all of the gimmicky junk equipment my parents bought when I wasn't living here.

baultista

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Military. Posted: 10/16/2008 9:03:08 AM
A new you will emerge out of bootcamp... so don't let somebody get too attached to you, only for them to find out that you're a new, stronger person with different priorities and ambitions when you get back.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Is Bald Beautiful? Posted: 10/16/2008 9:01:25 AM
The look works on most people. You might find yourself a little strange looking at first... but after a while you won't be able to envision yourself with a head of hair.

baultista

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I just can't do it. Do you ever feel this way? Posted: 10/16/2008 9:00:09 AM
You need to make exercising a fun hobby. The only real difference between me now and me four years ago is my mentality. Back then, exercising was something I felt that I had to do. Now, it's something that I legitimately want to do.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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How sexy is TOO sexy.. Posted: 9/30/2008 10:00:10 PM
A slutty girl teases for the world to see.... ... a sexy girl does it for my eyes only. Sorry, but that's the best I can do to describe it. IMO casual sex is a bit of a joke... when you connect with someone on more than just a physical level there's so much more going on.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Emo Girls Posted: 9/29/2008 8:56:01 PM
I like the look...but in all honesty the ones I've met are all a little (or a lot) off-beat.

baultista

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Masturbating to porn, impotence, Viagra Posted: 9/29/2008 8:53:41 PM
Are you serious? REALLY??

baultista

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Robbed at the GAS PUMPS!!! Posted: 9/20/2008 9:04:33 AM
I saw $1.13/litre yesterday, and I thought THAT was really cheap... especially since I put $40 in @ $1.35/litre only three days earlier!!

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Would you date someone on a Special Diet ? Posted: 9/20/2008 8:47:25 AM
I have Celiac's disease so I can't eat any gluten. It would be COMPLETELY ignorant if I, or anyone else for that matter, let a "restricted" diet become an issue.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Does Anyone Else Worry About Growing Old Alone? Posted: 9/20/2008 8:42:37 AM
It occasionally flashes through my head.... until I realize that I'm not even 20 yet. My bigger "worry" is that I'm not making the most of my time as a college student... as it seems like everybody wants to go out and party while I'd still rather take it easy.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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amazing 1st date... what's too needy afterwards? Posted: 9/20/2008 8:40:20 AM
There's no cardinal rule about this. If YOU think it's excessive, then it's excessive. If you like the extra attention, then more power to 'ya!

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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girlfriend hacks into boyfriends email account Posted: 9/19/2008 2:10:24 PM
A girl that's smart enough to hack my e-mail is worth proposing to on the spot! I figure it would be more the other way around... the geeky insecure guy hacks his girlfriend's e-mail account because he suspects her of cheating? IDK...

baultista

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How often is it that they look better in person? Posted: 9/19/2008 2:08:18 PM
I don't know.... but I think I look a bit better than I do in my profile picture.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Exercises you like vs. Exercises you dis-like Posted: 9/17/2008 7:50:19 PM
Exercises I like: jogging, running, sprinting, skating, playing hockey, biking, swimming, squats, pushups, chin-ups, lats pulldown, seated row Exercises I dislike: Military press, bench press, situps, crunches...

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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What about the personal ads on Craigslist? Posted: 9/17/2008 7:41:43 PM
Your typical female on Craigslist: Hi, So I don't normally do this kind of thing at all, but here goes. I'm 4'11, sexy and short but also BBW. By BBW I don't mean that I'm curvy... I mean that I'm about 300 pounds because I eat chips all day and write my emo poetry. OH BY THE WAY... I'm into art, tattoos, piercings, and poetry. All this really means is that I probably don't have a job and like to sit at home a lot. Most of our dates will really be us sitting in my apartment with my 15 cats and writing emo poetry, but for the sake of this post I'm going to say that I'm fun, outgoing, and friendly - despite my total social awkwardness. I say I'm not shallow, but in reality I'm expecting you to look like Brad Pitt. Your pic gets mine.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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are women willing to look past a mans flawed teeth. Posted: 9/13/2008 3:49:04 PM
I'd hate to hijack this thread.... ...but what's everyone's take on a missing front tooth? The root canal I had done on my front tooth was pretty badly fractured in a little hockey incident the other night, and I'm going to have to get the tooth extracted. Implants are frikkin expensive, and as a college student I don't really have the $$$ for it, but if it's really such a big deal I'll fork out and do it. It's one of my top teeth... the first one on the left side from the middle.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Why am I always the best friend and never the girlfriend... Posted: 9/12/2008 8:21:10 PM
At our age (assuming that you're my age, but by the sounds of it you are) this happens to guys a lot more than it does to girls... or so I've been told. I like to think it's because some peoeple are too good at being rock solid friends

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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How many guys will wait until marriage for sex? Posted: 9/11/2008 8:15:25 PM
Any girl that's worth the wait is worth marrying on the spot....

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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why is it not okay to dye my hair blue Posted: 9/9/2008 4:31:15 PM
If you really want to do it then just do it! Your parents can whine and complain about it when you do, but they can't exactly take a razor to your head when you're asleep. As long as you don't have a job it's fine.... neon blue hair is something you could probably get fired over.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Dating site or social networking? Posted: 9/9/2008 4:28:05 PM
It says "FREE DATING SITE" right at the top. If you really want to do some social networking... go on Myspace or Facebook or something... or try playing WoW! Needy nerds love WoW!

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Looking To Lose Weight - Need Advice Posted: 9/8/2008 7:21:43 PM
Change what you neat - not how much of it you eat. I eat more now than I ever did 45 pounds ago... but I'm eating a lot smarter.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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pushups Posted: 9/6/2008 7:54:26 AM
Yoga does have some minor strength-building benefits. It was probably easier for you because your muscles were moving much more freely than in the past. Looser muscles aren't as stressed during exercise, and thus can last longer.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Proving you are who you say you are Posted: 9/6/2008 7:52:01 AM
Well, the pictures I have up is actually one of me... but they're both over a year old at this point. I don't take a lot of pictures with JUST myself in them... and I don't want my family/friends showing up on here!

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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My computer stutters ! Posted: 9/3/2008 11:36:38 PM
I'd point to a bloated Windows registry, a bad/poorly connected harddrive, or possibly even some RAM issues. Other possibilities include a heavily fragmented harddrive, or some problems with your media player. Try downloading and running the VLC media player. It's a lightweight player that supports virtually any format.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Have you had any experience with this??? Posted: 9/3/2008 12:15:19 PM
Trees? From the looks of it, you're missing quite a few roots

baultista

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Do you use alternative medical practitioners and have they helped? Posted: 9/3/2008 9:07:58 AM
Ha! Well I do take the general multivitamin, and some of the others as well (B12, C, D, E, Zinc, Cal-Mag, Omega 3) I'm not too thrilled about taking Alka-Caps or some of the other "stranger" ones on the list I was given.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Water Fasting--who has done it? Posted: 9/3/2008 9:04:56 AM
I would do it for a day... but the primary purpose would be for self-discipline, or some kind of "cause". You want to do 60 days for the sole purpose of losing weight. Either get off your lazy butt and start exercising, or go see a doctor.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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What is the best running shoes for you? Posted: 9/3/2008 9:03:11 AM
I use the 1st gen Crosby RBK Cross Trainers. They're lightweight and have a sort of mesh toe top for ventilation.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Which exercises are fun and burn most calories? Posted: 9/3/2008 9:00:19 AM
Most runner's love to run. Many start up, realize they hate it, and quit it. For me, I'd rather run than lift weights or do anything else of the sort, with the exceptions of ice skating or playing hockey =) Swimming is pretty fun for me, as is cycling. I like the outdoors and I like water, so any of the above three are good. If you're a good ice skater or rollerblader, I'd have to recommend that as well. Just try not to do too much gliding. If not, jump rope is pretty fun. Yoga is extremely relaxing, and helps you improve your flexibility. I hear that Pilates is great for toning. If not, you can try aerobics classes... you have an instructor guiding the class, and some dance music to keep your spirits up. Of course, there's also dancing. Sex is also great too, but it's kind of a paradox. You need to be in good shape in the first place to be able to go long/hard enough to get any energy burning benefit out of it... but I suppose that practice makes perfect.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Do you use alternative medical practitioners and have they helped? Posted: 9/3/2008 8:54:39 AM
My parents sent me to those natural, preventative medicine doctors. You know, the ones that believe in herbal products and such. They're great for "detoxifying" your body, and it was one of them that discovered my Celiac's disease (for which I'm eternally grateful, cutting gluten changed my life)... but they will push a ton of supplements on you.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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High Blood Pressure Posted: 9/3/2008 8:51:45 AM
Reduce the amount of sodium and salt in your diet. We grow up eating foods that are far too salty, and wind up adapting our tastes to having high amounts of salt. Try to cook your meals without salt, and try to avoid foods that are high in sodium content.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Abstience Rocks! Posted: 9/3/2008 7:11:36 AM
Interesting point. I've never played golf before in my life. So will the first people that I play a round of golf with feel special that I lost my golf-virginity to them? You can substitute any number of words into that and it still makes an interesting analogy. Here's to everyone that's had their Facebook Wall-virginity stolen To the OP: That's your choice. Congratulations. I'm more of a "go with the flow" type... I could live without it if the girl wasn't interested, but if she was open to it and I was in the right mood I wouldn't say "No I can't I want to wait until I'm married".

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Guys; would you go back with someone who dumped you? Posted: 9/2/2008 6:45:03 PM
I have a pretty strong sense of pride, so I personally wouldn't do it. Nobody dumps me though.... and if they do, well, they just missed out on one of the best people they'll ever meet.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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The comb-over... Posted: 9/2/2008 6:42:19 PM
Back when I was an annoying teenager I used to spike my hair. I used this stuff called "Stiff *&$#" . My spikes withstood everything except my football and hockey helmet (which is why I quickly ditched the style, despite it's awesomeness). http://www.stiffhair.com/extreme7.html I used this particular product. That might be a little strong for a simple comb-over, but it's more or less guaranteed to withstand the wind. Wow, seeing that bottle sure brings back memories.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Just want to know! Posted: 9/2/2008 6:36:31 PM
OP: Have you seen a dog's reaction to a baby crying? Most of the time it drives the dog insane. It's pretty much the same thing here. I personally don't know what to do when I see a girl crying. Is making a joke a good way to change the mood, or do you just come off as insensitive? Should you sit down and console her, or will that just annoy her? Do you give her space, or does she interpret that as you ignoring her? It's really a sticky situation that many (myself included) really don't like to deal with. I'm usually a little annoyed when a girl starts crying, but I won't get extremely angry. Now if she's the type of girl that cries about EVERY LITTLE THING, then I might start to get irritated.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Could You Go Without A Computer? Posted: 9/2/2008 6:31:26 PM
Well it all depends. A lot of the stuff you've said can't be done on a computer without a decent Internet connection. I pretty much need my computer + the Internet to survive. Most of my communication is done via E-mail, IM, or voice chat (cheaper than a phone lol). I spend most of my dead time on the Internet. Most of the books I read are e-books. I watch most of my TV shows on the computer. I watch movies on the computer. I play some videogames on the computer, but mostly on that shiny white Xbox360 beside it. I do most of my assignments on my laptop, though I still take notes the old-fashioned way. I'm also studying IT and hope to become a software engineer, so my career revolves around the PC. Now that being said... I could definitely live without it, as long as I didn't have to go to school or work.

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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whats in the trunk of your car?? Posted: 9/2/2008 6:25:24 PM
My last girlfriend She's right underneath the hockey bag that's been sitting in there since the season ended in April. I wonder which one smells worse....

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Shallowness Posted: 9/1/2008 7:05:07 PM
Everybody's a little shallow. Some are just more shallow than others. I don't consider someone shallow unless the ONLY thing they can really say about someone else is either "OMG HES SO HAWT" or "OMG SHES SO HAWT"

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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Unsure about a girl, different upbringing? Posted: 9/1/2008 7:02:52 PM
I think you answered your own question. Are you really ready to deal with all of that? I mean come on there's only so much two people can take.. from the sounds of it you two just weren't meant to be!

baultista

Joined: 7/18/2008

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I'M IN LOVE WITH A LESBIAN Posted: 9/1/2008 7:00:11 PM
I say just kiss her, and see if she goes with it or pulls away.

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