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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: what is he really saying?  frozen peaches Joined: 7/19/2008 Msg: 44 (view)   what is he really saying? Posted: 8/29/2008 2:10:10 AM Sorry you got hit with that one. it does hurt..ALOT...been there..Just move on. He doesn't know what he wants and and was using you to fill a gap in time. Find someone who "really" cares about you. This guy doesn't. Sorry.  frozen peaches Joined: 7/19/2008 Msg: 17 (view)   Auberge's Posted: 8/9/2008 4:40:20 AM Thank you everyone for the information. I do care very much for this man, and know if he were able it may have worked. Either way he's still a great guy and I want the best for him. So, I will take ya'lls advise and do some research! Thanks Again!  frozen peaches Joined: 7/19/2008 Msg: 1 (view)   Auberge's Posted: 8/8/2008 5:08:26 AM Hi.. I Dated a guy with Auberge's... Kinda a personality disorder, can't go out where there are crowds, and can't handle people much. dated for 3 mos, told everyone I was awesome and the "one" then one day he decides he can't handle a relationship. End of relationship! No real explanation just DONE..Now I'm the " jaded" sort, and of course figured there was someone else. ( I didn't ask) but am sure there wasn't. We are still friends, but it's kind of strained. I felt like the bomb dropped. Don't get me wrong, not heartbroken, just disappointed that all the plans we'd made were null and void. Super nice guy, just lost. Any one have any advise on how to deal with this. I know this one is done, just wondering if there was a way I should have handled it better.  frozen peaches Joined: 7/19/2008 Msg: 576 (view)   Ever date someone with BPD? (Borderline Personality Disorder) Posted: 8/8/2008 4:55:07 AM Dated a guy with Auberge's... Kinda a personality disorder, can't go out where there are crowds, and can't handle people much. dated for 3 mos, told everyone I was awesome and the "one" then one day he decides he can't handle a relationship as it involved to many people! End of relationship! Now I'm the " jaded" sort, and of course figured there was someone else. ( I didn't ask) but am sure there wasn't. We are still friends, but it's kind of strained. So, I guess my advice would be... a day at time, if you care about the person, hang in there, if it's to much.. get out!  Frozen Peaches Joined: 7/19/2008 Msg: 17 (view)   Heya, question for the ladies Posted: 7/28/2008 1:22:33 PM Sounds to me like she had 2 of you on the goat the same time. Just waiting for one to give the "I love you" speech. No loss to you my friend, if she's that fickle you wouldn't want her anyway! I figure you're the lucky one!   Show ALL Forums