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-Super/Brazen-

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Introducing The Okanagan Restaurant Event - November 29th 2009 @ 5:30pm Posted: 11/22/2009 3:11:00 PM
Odd but about 4 people have had troubles signing up so they've emailed me privately. Soooo we have approx 17 for dinner and a whole lot more joining us for the jam! Oh and if you're a musician, anyone can play, just need to bring your instrument and you can sign up. You'd definitely have a large following to cheer you on.

-Super/Brazen-

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Introducing The Okanagan Restaurant Event - November 29th 2009 @ 5:30pm Posted: 11/21/2009 3:21:52 PM
For the dinner reservations, if I could know by Wednesday that would be appreciated. As for the jam, I'm going to reserve the top section for us, so there's no need to worry, people can just show up. So far there are a ton of people that will be coming so it should be fun.

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 11/20/2009 5:11:54 PM
Ok sign ups are available! http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13439813.aspx So I sent out a mass email with this event, and unfortunately it spammed 956 Albertans that have attended previous events of mine. I'm expecting a lot of wtf emails. lol As for Big White... well I haven't skied in 15 years, so I imagine it will be like starting over. I'd help teach you, but perhaps a dashing gentleman can come to your rescue instead. {insert toque wearing knight in shining armour icon here}

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 11/19/2009 9:52:48 PM
^^ I was beginning to think that as well, but it's all sorted now! I just hope there's enough exposure to give us a good turn out. If anything, it'll be a great way to meet and plan some upcoming events. Sounds like Flamesbabe has some great ideas, so we'll see. But I was thinking, with Big White now open, we should plan a ski trip! I haven't skied in years, boy that would be fun.

-Super/Brazen-

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Introducing The Okanagan Restaurant Event - November 29th 2009 @ 5:30pm Posted: 11/19/2009 1:28:05 PM
Afterwards we will be attending the Sunday night Blues Jam at the Blue Gator in Kelowna, so if you can't join us for dinner, please feel free come to the jam, it starts at 8:30pm and runs to about midnight!!! Here is the address: The Blue Gator 441 Lawrence Avenue Kelowna

-Super/Brazen-

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Introducing The Okanagan Restaurant Event - November 29th 2009 @ 5:30pm Posted: 11/19/2009 1:27:13 PM
There are many fabulous restaurants and wineries located around the Okanagan so let's get together at a different venue once a month, to enjoy great food and even better conversation. Where: The Old Vines Restaurant Located at the Quails Gate Estate Winery 3303 Boucherie Road Kelowna, BC 250-769-2501 When: November 29th 2009 @ 5:30pm - reservations are under the name Brazen. To help, there will be a FISH on the table. Approx Cost: Appetizers ($9-22) Dinner Entree ($26-35) - does not include beverages or alcohol. Cohost: Mon Cherie Old Vines Restaurant is a meeting place for fresh local ingredients. Our selection of dishes enhances the light, fresh and fruitful style of Quails' Gate wines. Our wines are terroir specific and so is our cuisine. Our menu is a constantly evolving reflection of our focus to serve the best and freshest that the Okanagan's local artisans and west coast markets can provide. We are dedicated to providing you with the ultimate food and wine experience in the Okanagan Valley, all in a spectacularly beautiful setting. Here is their website to see a copy of the menu and wine list. www.quailsgate.com Please sign up so I can get an approximate number of how many people will be attending. Thanks everyone. Hope to see you there!

-Super/Brazen-

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The fuzzy line between real life and POF Posted: 11/14/2009 2:30:49 PM
^^^ OMG I'm soooo happy you're back! Yay! I have a friend who HATES being recognized from POF, in fact she tends to avoid people she recognizes out and about. Could be though because she's rejected them and doesn't want the real life confrontation.

-Super/Brazen-

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The fuzzy line between real life and POF Posted: 11/14/2009 12:24:08 AM
I get recognized all the time, and it doesn't bother me at all. It's kinda flattering to have someone notice you enough to cause some type of recognition. lol But really, I usually smile/laugh and have a chat with them. It's a great way to meet people so I don't understand why someone would feel awkward about it. It's not like the old days, when you would be totally embarrassed to be seen on a dating site, let alone have your life open to scrutiny online. POF and Facebook have really done wonders for that sort of thing.

-Super/Brazen-

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So, you're gonna get married.... Posted: 11/12/2009 3:25:36 AM
Thanks for the congrats, we got engaged just this past Valentine's Day. ---- Excellent suggestions Anti-Elvis! Thanks. So I was busy on you tube today and came across some great songs. Yngwie Malmsteen - Dreaming (Tell Me) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QanzLP3q-K0 Great song and nice lyrics. Hammer Fall - Hearts on Fire http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k25X8RAjJ00 A bit faster, not for the first song, but definitely worth playing at the wedding!

-Super/Brazen-

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So, you're gonna get married.... Posted: 11/11/2009 3:53:22 PM
This thread is a God send. We were just talking last week about what we're going to play at our wedding and we both agreed we didn't want the regular mushy stuff. I love Etta James, but that song is so overdone for weddings. We want something unique but to find a Heavy Metal/Blues song with epic lyrics, to fit both of us, is no easy task. Our song is Turbo Lover - Judas Priest, however I'm not sure that's an appropriate wedding song... then again we're having a Glamorous Gothic wedding on Friday the 13th... so hmmm. Don Felder - All of you is a good choice. I'll definitely keep a close eye on this thread, it's giving me great ideas.

-Super/Brazen-

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Jaws and other behaviour-altering movies. Posted: 11/9/2009 5:02:17 PM
^^ You're thinking of The Omen. Also a good movie. I too saw Alfred Hitchcock's The Birds and am a little fearful of birds in groups to this day. lol I also was terrified of basements as a kid because of watching Nightmare on Elm Street. I avoided our laundry room in the dark for years. lol

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 11/5/2009 8:37:02 PM
It was deleted with no explanation. So I've emailed BigFish because I've gotten no response from The Event Moderator. Hopefully he can help us soon, otherwise we might have to forgo the event altogether.

-Super/Brazen-

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Dating Advice Posted: 11/5/2009 6:19:06 AM
If you want the unvarnished truth and maybe it's just my experience(s), if a person is sincerely looking to meet a sincere someone, don't count on this website... Man what is with all the bitter Calgarians??! I met many sincere people, who were seriously looking for something meaningful, but sometimes you just don't hit it off. Then again that's anecdotal and apparently not worth anything. Personally I think people's attitudes play a huge part in if they're successful, not only with dating, but life in general. When it's piss poor, people tend to pick up on that. Don't lose hope, it's disheartening to watch.

-Super/Brazen-

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Dating Advice Posted: 11/4/2009 8:05:58 PM
Anti-Elvis, I don't have a hate on for you, just your anti-POF stance. It's a bit hypocritical with your continued membership. However I posted in another thread of yours, and didn't attack you, so methinks you're being a drama queen. Ok I agree with Daisy, your profile is looking great now. I don't get how some people can just casually talk to others either, I'm far too reserved for that I suppose. This is why when I went out, I would bring someone friendlier and it would break that awkwardness for me.

-Super/Brazen-

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Dating Advice Posted: 11/3/2009 10:13:43 PM
It's unlikely you'll find the person of your dreams on here that will LAST..but so what. Really? I guess it's all in your attitude. I personally know of hmmm 5 POF marriages and many others who have been together long term that met on this site. Let's not forget the testimonials of tens of thousands of people all over the world. But I guess because it hasn't worked for YOU, it's worthless. msjustagirl I met someone here, granted it took me a couple years of going on alot of dates to the point I gave up, but it IS possible to meet a quality man here. There is someone for everyone and if you know what you want, are clear in your profile and stick to your ideals, then it'll pay off. My advice is to get out to the events. Most of the successful relationships I know of, started over an Ethnic dinner or even out POF Bowling. Have faith and be positive.

-Super/Brazen-

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Where are you going for your winter vacation? Posted: 11/3/2009 5:00:27 PM
This year for winter vacation I'm going to...............move! Finally found a place and traded in my landlord! No more crazy neighbors..... No more sewer backups.........(I hope) No more gang banger wannabee neighbors.... Where are you moving to Patent? We opted to get away from winter permanently and moved to the Okanagan. But... we're coming back to Edmonton for Christmas, so it'll be odd to go TO a place that's cold, instead of the other way around this year. But we are thinking Vegas in Jan. I haven't been there yet.

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 11/3/2009 4:17:01 PM
Ooooo we have a winner! The Old Vines Restaurant is happy to accommodate us so I've posted an event thread. Once it's moved, please sign up if you'd like to join us! http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts13365701.aspx I'm thinking next month German, I hear there's a great restaurant in Peachland we should check out.

-Super/Brazen-

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Odd quirks Posted: 11/3/2009 4:27:46 AM
This one makes my fiance and kids laugh but I refuse to eat square burgers. It's just something about a pre-made square patty that I can't fathom, yet I'll eat an Uncle Burger, no problem. So no, I do not eat at Wendy's. I also can't stand too much sauce on food. You know when they ask for sauce at Edo? I go "no sauce no sauce!" I also don't like BBQ sauce on burgers or too much spaghetti sauce on pasta. Why do people drown their food?! Ugh. I too don't like talking on the phone, so when we got a house in a remote area with minimal cell phone coverage and no land lines I was A-OK with that! No telemarketers, no people calling at dinner time, no wrong numbers at 3:00am. It's bliss. Pisses my Mother off to no end but then again, that's ok too.

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 10/27/2009 8:18:29 PM
Anyone frequent the Blues Jam on Sundays? I've been a few times and just this last Sunday there was some realllllly talented musicians. Also, instead of coffee I'm thinking a monthly food and wine club. Once a month we check out a restaurant in the Okanagan then possibly go for some drinks afterwards. If anyone has any ideas for our first dining experience, email me, I'm open to suggestions.

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 10/13/2009 11:35:57 PM
Both Mon Cherie and I are very experienced at hosting events so as soon as we scope out a few venues and get to know Kelowna better, we'll post something. For now, I'm going to concentrate on the more informal weekly coffee meet. Start small and see what kind of response I get! Details to come soon.

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 10/8/2009 7:48:41 PM
We have a swimming pool, but it's a little too nippy out for that now! lol Anyways, my son's friend's father works at The Castle, if you'd like I can inquire if they have anything already planned for that night. I was contemplating going to Seattle for Halloween but staying closer to home might be an option too. This morning I was actually thinking about a weekly coffee meet on Pandosy. I've noticed there are some great cafes along there.

-Super/Brazen-

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Favorites and last 5 forum posts Posted: 8/27/2009 10:38:00 AM
I think removing the number of favourites might help open communication for those that really put stake into them. Then again, those that are insecure about messaging people will still find an excuse not to contact someone based on something else they find intimidating. As for the last 5 forum posts, well yeah that burns my britches but POF will do what they want, regardless of what the consensus is. No amount of pleading, complaining, arguing will bring it back so we might as well accept that it's gone. Now apparently the rumour is that the forum will be gone for non paying members soon so we'll have to wait and see what happens.

-Super/Brazen-

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Westbank/ West Kelowna Fire Posted: 8/2/2009 12:06:45 PM
Well we've been evacuated again due to the Terrace Mountain Fire spreading quite rapidly and jumping containment. The fire is now estimated at 7025 hectares. Right now we're fortunate enough to be housed in a chalet at Silver Star while others had to sleep in cars and camp out in gymnasiums as there are no accommodations available because of the long weekend. Most of my friends and family want me to move back to Alberta, but no way! This is a risk you take when you move to paradise. At least I'm becoming a pro at packing.

-Super/Brazen-

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Mchael Jackson Posted: 7/24/2009 11:03:05 AM
Great post explorer! But if you've been here long enough, you'd know you should save your breath if you're looking for an AHHA moment from Trubble. He's too set in his ways and no amount of reasoning with him is going to help. Besides, he loves the controversy too much to let it go, which makes the threads he's in very entertaining.

-Super/Brazen-

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Westbank/ West Kelowna Fire Posted: 7/24/2009 10:44:20 AM
^^ Seriously, how is THAT helping people? I find it self-serving and overly pretentious but hey, knock yourself out if that's YOUR thing. Personally, reading his posts makes me want to shove a finger down my throat. Just spoke with Forestry this morning, they're still working on the Terrace Mountain Fire and have many resources at their disposal, but if the news is correct, the 6 amphibious aircraft from Alberta are just sitting at the airport until they're called upon. Ahhh gotta love politics.

-Super/Brazen-

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Westbank/ West Kelowna Fire Posted: 7/23/2009 4:39:55 PM
^^^ I'm not a religious person, but I am spiritual and your preaching in this thread is really not helping people. ________________________________ Well the latest for us of course is the evacuation order that came today. We're staying in a hotel in Vernon and look at it as an opportunity to explore this region and spend time together as a family. We got out the important things and really all we can do is wait at this point.

-Super/Brazen-

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Westbank/ West Kelowna Fire Posted: 7/22/2009 3:56:37 PM
For residents in the Fintry area, we've now been put on evacuation alert so please let anyone you know that's in that area this latest development because I'm finding now that the other two fires are more manageable, reporting on the Terrace Mountain Fire is spotty at best.

-Super/Brazen-

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Westbank/ West Kelowna Fire Posted: 7/19/2009 1:29:41 PM
Hey Belgarion! Wow it HAS been a long time! Yeah when we moved here looking for a new adventure, this is not what I had in mind. lol I'm amazed that most people around here are living life as per usual. I'm wondering if they think it won't affect them or they're hardened by this being a regular occurrence. I knew forest fires were a risk when we moved but this is a bit too close for comfort! Eek.

-Super/Brazen-

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Westbank/ West Kelowna Fire Posted: 7/19/2009 12:35:16 PM
I'm near Fintry on Westside Road and am concerned about our loss of power should the Rose Valley Fire hit the power station. The Terrace Mountain fire has also spread overnight and although they say no structures are threatened as of yet, our exit to Kelowna is now cut off due to smoke and road closures so we're going to evacuate to Vernon later this afternoon as a precaution. Thanks for the map, it's quite helpful for friends and family members that are unfamiliar with the area.

-Super/Brazen-

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Breast reduction! Posted: 7/17/2009 9:13:53 PM
My cousin recently had it done and has nothing but good things to say about it. I thought about it when I was younger and every now and then I consider it, but fortunately I don't have any back pain and well I don't think Hubby would be too thrilled if I went through with it.

-Super/Brazen-

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johns looking for sex on this site Posted: 7/17/2009 9:08:50 PM
Of course it was solicitation, there was a conversation where he offered her money in exchange for sex and regardless of whether you or anyone else thinks he was joking, he committed an offence. What, just because it wasn't in person means it's not? Actually it being in writing really doesn't bode well for him. Regardless, it's a moot point as the police are not going to do a damn thing about it, but she felt violated and had every right to report it to the authorities so lambasting her for it isn't very supportive. Sorry you had to go through that OP, next time report him to BigFish as well. He'll have his IP banned and although that may not deter him from making another account, reporting him to the police might.

-Super/Brazen-

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johns looking for sex on this site Posted: 7/17/2009 1:01:53 PM
Actually Janalta was he did was a criminal offence. Money for sex isn't necessarily illegal, it's the solicitation of said offer that is illegal and although the police aren't going to do anything about it, perhaps that will scare him straight.

-Super/Brazen-

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Is there an ideal way to die? Posted: 7/16/2009 9:42:43 PM
Gives new meaning to the term "Death By Chocolate". ~groan I'm hoping to go out in my sleep or on some overdose of medication when I'm old and wrinkly but the way the man rides a Harley, I'm bound to go out young, over some cliff here in BC.

-Super/Brazen-

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Need to vent about a recent date.. Posted: 7/16/2009 12:32:22 PM
I'm coming from the standpoint where I've been in this situation. I went out on a few dates with people, it was very casual, just an opportunity to get to know someone and there was one guy that was pretty fabulous but he was also very pushy. To be clear, I don't believe that one person should be stuck footing the bill, so I had invested just as much of my time and money as the other person, so when I met someone else and after a couple dates with him, realized that I didn't want to see anyone else, I let the other guy go. Was he crushed? I doubt it, he seemed like he was seeing other people even though I was upfront about it. I don't feel bad about going with male #2, because at the time I wasn't looking for anything serious, but when you meet that person that just gets you, how can you tell him, oh I'm sorry, this other person had 'dibs'?! Perhaps that's why some women only date one person at a time, but I had done that for more years than I care to admit and it wasn't working. But when you play the field, is you have to take the responsibility of ultimately hurt someone's feelings and in this instance it was the OP. He can either take it like a man and move on or he can vent here all he likes and see where that gets him.

-Super/Brazen-

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Need to vent about a recent date.. Posted: 7/16/2009 1:28:05 AM
I think when you run into something fabulous, what you were originally looking for goes out the window anyways. In this case, perhaps her and this other guy really hit it off. I for one am happy for her. Sheesh, it was only the third date, why should she feel any obligation to him? The fact he kept emailing her and asking for a explanation after the fact seems overly needy. If she was into him, she wouldn't have gone cold and withdrawn so he should have kept his dignity intact and just wrote her off instead of continually trying to write to her.

-Super/Brazen-

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Need to vent about a recent date.. Posted: 7/15/2009 2:30:28 PM
If this person gets this frustrated over a woman and deletes his profile, then really he isn't cut out to online date. I too would like to hear her side of the story because after 3 dates she is under no obligation to enter into a relationship with this man. It seems like he put in some effort, then EXPECTED a return and perhaps she picked up on that.

-Super/Brazen-

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Notice to vacate rental if.... Posted: 7/7/2009 7:36:04 PM
I sent an email to the Landlord & Tenant Resolution service because there's f*ck all I can do sitting here in BC, which is probably what pisses me off most. He has no right to deduct any of it, since we both signed the Outgoing Damage Report but ooooh he's going to try. I'll keep you posted what the gov't says. Let's hope this gets resolved PDQ. The man should know better than to mess with a redhead!

-Super/Brazen-

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Notice to vacate rental if.... Posted: 7/7/2009 6:47:05 PM
Well I just found out I'm in the same boat as you today Janalta. Turns out our landlord decided to deduct 1/2 months rent for July, even though he sold his house at the end of June when we moved out here to Kelowna. Prick even charged us lawn maintenance for July 1-15th. The place was immaculate when we left, so I just don't understand why people think they can get away with crap like this. Worst part is, I'm in BC now, so suing the SOB for it back will be more hassle than it's worth.

-Super/Brazen-

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What's the Virtual Point? and where did they go? Posted: 7/5/2009 9:41:11 PM
Yeah she's married to a great guy! I currently have 4040 points. For the longest time, I never used to log in, I would just post in the forum, but now that we can get a theme, I'm slowly watching them climb in anticipation.

-Super/Brazen-

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Pof Get togethers in Kelowna Posted: 7/5/2009 9:36:44 PM
Should be interesting now that BC has claimed two of Alberta's POF hosts!!!

-Super/Brazen-

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POF Lessons Posted: 7/4/2009 6:25:22 PM
Here's a POF lesson for women just looking for friends... F-R-I-E-N-D-S. Nearly all the profiles I've scanned these past few weeks are looking for a little 'something' 'something' and here I thought when I was single and looking for a MAN it was hard to weed through all the f*ck buddy profiles. Sheesh.

-Super/Brazen-

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Morbid..but what song is a must to your good-bye Posted: 7/1/2009 8:39:59 PM
Gloomy Sunday by Sarah McLachlan as I find her version is a bit more haunting than Billie Holiday's. Sunday is gloomy, My hours are slumberless Dearest the shadows I live with are numberless Little white flowers Will never awaken you Not where the black coaches Sorrow has taken you Angels have no thoughts Of ever returning you Wouldn't they be angry If I thought of joining you? Gloomy Sunday Gloomy is Sunday, With shadows I spend it all My heart and I Have decided to end it all Soon there will be candles And prayers that are said I know But let them not weep Let them know that I'm glad to go Death is no dream For in death I'm caressing you With the last breath of my soul Ill be blessing you Gloomy Sunday Dreaming, I was only dreaming I wake and I find you asleep In the deep of my heart here Darling I hope That my dream never haunted you My heart is telling you How much I wanted you Gloomy Sunday

-Super/Brazen-

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POF Lessons Posted: 6/25/2009 8:26:41 AM
I have had nothing but success(and by that I mean good quality, like minded people to date) insisting on a minimum of a month of steady contact by email, webcam, phone(in that order) before meeting ... I'll be damned it I am going to jeopardize my career and finances by having several coffee meets with one person to find out someone is not what they say they are! I used to spend quite a bit of time getting to know someone online, then over the telephone before I met them and sadly I wasted years of my life that way. It just doesn't work. I started to cut it down to a couple days to make sure there were not any red flags, met them in a public place to see if there was a connection and if there was, THEN I would spend the time getting to know them. As well, I stopped putting all my eggs in one basket. You'd meet someone, get to know them, date a bit and then a week, month, 3 months would go by and you would be back where you started. Again, what a waste of time. So I started meeting a small handful of men, all fully aware I was seeing other people and got to know them that way. There was no intimacy, just coffee or dinner and sure enough, I met one that was leagues ahead of everyone else I was seeing and within a month we decided to be exclusive. I believe men need to invest their time in order to respect someone and ultimately want a relationship. If a man isn't willing to spend that month getting to know you, then he's only after one thing. Every one of my girlfriends who has followed my example are either living with someone, or are married so that to me is a 100% success rate.

-Super/Brazen-

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Free Rides Posted: 6/25/2009 7:51:57 AM
But when there is no reason other than your own laziness for sucking the system's teat - I have no use for you. I'm sorry, maybe that's a little too cold for some of you but there really is a difference because needing the help and simply wanting it. I don't think that's too cold, I think you become like your environment and if you surround yourself with people like that, it will ultimately bring you down. A quote I live by: You can't help those who won't help themselves. There's been many times in the past I've tried helping out friends and but it's enabling so I stopped doing it. There are people in this world that USE. And they may seem like great people, but they will suck the life out of you if you let them.

-Super/Brazen-

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Jon & Kate.... Posted: 6/24/2009 10:42:04 PM
I have a feeling that dealing with her as an ex will be even more excrutiating than dealing with her as a wife. Yep, no doubt about that. If Jon thinks his life was hell before... HA, he's in for a rude awakening.

-Super/Brazen-

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Jon & Kate.... Posted: 6/24/2009 10:35:46 AM
^^^ I'm definitely in agreement with you. I think because you're removed from the show, your insights may be more valid. ----- Quote: We each have our own homes, our son has a fully furnished room at both houses, including all his 'toys' and he's happy. We each buy him our own clothes so he's not packing a suitcase every other weekend and it works. We're all happy. kids are resiliant, shit happens, parents break up... life goes on. to suggest keeping a house for each of the parents and essentially a house for the kids is to me, ridiculous. ------ My sentiments exactly. We maintain their rooms with clothing, toys, video games, so my fiancé's kids only have to come on the bus afterschool. As for maintaining a shared household with his ex??? HAHAHA I for one, wouldn't want to clean up after someone else's mess if they've lived in a house 2 weeks prior, which is exactly what would happen. No freakin way.

-Super/Brazen-

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Jon & Kate.... Posted: 6/23/2009 9:01:32 AM
OMG!WTF! I'm sorry but I roared with laughter reading your post. A situation I'm glad I wasn't in, but thanks for sharing. I only tune into this show occasionally and haven't seen it for quite some time until they were on American Chopper a couple weeks ago. You could just tell there was trouble in paradise... them being together just seemed forced.

-Super/Brazen-

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Free Rides Posted: 6/22/2009 11:06:57 PM
It's amazing what people will disclose on their Facebook. Personally, if I was that disgusted with them, I would cease to have them on my friend's list. You can't change people, but you can choose not to associate with them. Are parents to blame for raising children who believe they're owed something from the world? I think one of the problems is that parents try to give their children the things they lacked. But when you shelter your children from the hardships you went through in life, you rob them the sense of accomplishment if they overcame those things on their own. How can a person feel owed something, if they're made to go out and work for it? I find most parents want their children to like them, rather than doing what's necessary to make sure they turn out properly.

-Super/Brazen-

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Join Okanagan POF members for a great Sunday hike Posted: 6/21/2009 4:50:47 PM
Oooooh I'm definitely interested, I'll email you when I get settled mid July.

-Super/Brazen-

Joined: 9/17/2005

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Problem Hosting a Garage Sale Posted: 6/20/2009 7:16:27 PM
Have you ever heard of Freecycle? http://www.freecycle.org/group/CA/Alberta/Calgary I use the one in Edmonton regularly, you can post things you are offering and people will come and pick it up. If you're looking for an item, you can post you are in need, and someone usually has it. I found with us moving this week, there were many items I felt better giving away to people in need, rather than try to sell them in a garage sale.

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