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Thread: How do I know if Im good in bed?
r90sboxer
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How do I know if Im good in bed?
Posted: 10/30/2011 7:45:52 AM
And again it seems the simplest of answers escapes the masses........
"Good" is a relative term [and for some of you that need to be told this is not referring to doing the cousin at the reception] and therefore is only useful to the person rating you and that's on their terms [unless there has been a scoring manual devised in the last 100 years or so].......
You CANNOT ever know if YOU are good in bed.....YOU can be TOLD you are good in bed but that is up to others standards.YOU can TELL someone else he/she is good in bed but then again,that's only YOUR opinion......
r90sboxer
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anyone have experience with L arginine as an erection aid
Posted: 10/28/2011 1:02:35 PM
L-Arginine is the Sh&t it's a vaso dialator very good for the heart. The number one reason I take it is a pre-workout supplement, it dialates the blood vessels gives you a good pump much safer that creatine or other caffene stimulated ones whitch constrics the arteries, and yes it helps with erection too. much safer than viagra.
That far behind and still trying to catch up???
r90sboxer
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Swallowing - Do' & Don'ts
Posted: 10/28/2011 12:57:04 PM
Kinkykik: What I don't get is the fascination w/deepthoart, feeling is in the tip. you're exactly right.....I prefer a woman to stay at the tip I put my hands behind my pillow and I'm fine.
Just a hint....2 year old threads are..........two years old.........
r90sboxer
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What to do when your libido goes out the window
Posted: 10/28/2011 12:46:01 PM
Just out of curiosity....
Why is everyone so inclined to use the word "STRESS"....?
Stress is walking point thru a rice paddy and having Charlie shooting at you...
Everything else is just day to day living with what we have to deal with and we need to get over it because it's the same for all of us......
r90sboxer
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Need opinion please!!!
Posted: 10/28/2011 12:37:23 PM
He has so many reasons why he says no to sex, he is like a girl. If he feels bloated after eating, bad mood, argument, etc.
Wonder how much flak there would have been had it been a "male" saying the above....?dap
r90sboxer
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Oprah's trip to the Bunny Ranch
Posted: 10/28/2011 10:16:48 AM
I live in Carson city, Nv I don't go near the place. and yeah just keep them out in the sagebrush away from schools and churches. Seen a couple of the girls in town, that Air force amy is a schitzo. real head case.
Just a question but......
what was it that possessed you to bring up a [thankfully] dead thread from over two years ago?
Got an "Oprah" thing going on?????
r90sboxer
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Corvette over 'Love'
Posted: 10/28/2011 9:33:53 AM
Wow.......Lifetime Network comes to the POF site....
r90sboxer
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SEX CHAT LINES
Posted: 10/15/2011 10:52:24 AM
We are married both Bisexual and we are still on POF looking for threesomes.
How can you possibly have any type of questions?????
r90sboxer
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Kinky Question
Posted: 10/2/2011 1:34:51 PM
oh my gosh! I think it is all disgusitng! Urinating if for elimanating waste and should only be done while on a toilet, alone! Unless you are traveling and use it outside or in a urinal. Sex is supposed to be beautiful and enjoyable. If you are not comfotable with anything, say NO! It is your choice
Guessing this statement probably leans toward the thinking that oral [after all...it is called a pie-hole by some so eating is its primary function] and anal sex are not on the menu and maybe even.......well....on a woman doesn't urine and newborn children escape from the same general area??
r90sboxer
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He turned down a BJ
Posted: 10/2/2011 9:17:50 AM
Was this "with" or "without" dentures?
r90sboxer
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has anyone actually participated in a threesome?
Posted: 9/24/2011 9:12:57 AM
OK...OK...OK...
Somebody has to ask...
If you're having sex with a pregnant woman aren't you already having a threesome[based on some religions tenets]? And then isn't it pedophilia as well?
r90sboxer
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Small Balls:/
Posted: 9/24/2011 9:09:36 AM
So I made out with this guy a few weeks ago and his balls were like so small! And you know how when you're softly grabbing them you can feel the two balls inside the sack? Well his balls didn't feel like that, they felt like they weren't complete balls, if that makes sense. Should I be concerned for his health?
More than likely...he knows this already [can ya figure this one out?] and also more than likely...he was very greatful that you made your aquaintance with his...
Not your need to worry unless you already have some kind of long-term plans for them....and only you know that!
r90sboxer
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Does anyone else NOT like to get come on themselves?
Posted: 9/16/2011 1:31:15 PM
I'm weird about this;
Yes....you are......
So...when you discovered this you were doing what.......??
r90sboxer
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Why do I attract women that are already in a relationship ?
Posted: 9/16/2011 1:23:40 PM
No I am not looking for a long term relationship but it is more to do with eventually a big angry boyfriend is going to find out I have been shagging his girlfriend and not be happy.
Wow....pretty presumptive on your part....taking for granted that you have "already" been doing the girlfriend and the boy somehow finds out....
If she's "doing" you isn't there already some kind of problem to begin with?
Or is your "charismatic personality" that bewitching??
r90sboxer
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bi oral problem
Posted: 9/16/2011 1:18:34 PM
I think BJ's are still considered a sexual activity...
Wasn't this just a few years ago an issue in some guys presidency??
r90sboxer
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I cant get her ORGASM!
Posted: 9/9/2011 2:55:37 AM
Although, I have little experience prior, but I truly believe that I am a great lover and I believe that she just cant ***
True......vinyl does seem to have that problem.
r90sboxer
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Unemployed Living at Home With Parents...
Posted: 9/7/2011 7:59:32 PM
i don't have a proplem with him liveing with his parents. most people or age do. the proplem i would have is him not haveing a job. i mean how can you date if you don't have any money. and no girl wants to date a guy who you have to buy the drinks for :(
Please....just an attempt at "spell-check".....and a few upper case letters can't hurt.
r90sboxer
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Is losing 50% placement to your estranged spouse a reason to ask them not to divorce you?
Posted: 9/6/2011 9:12:59 PM
Is this reason enough to ask him not continue with the divorce process and come back?
A lot depends on why you are apart to begin with......
If either one of you drinks to excess,does crack,smokes in bed and beats the other senseless on weekends would that question even exist?
Just curious.....how old is the child and does he/she have an opinion?Is the child his or did he adopt yours?
r90sboxer
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Unemployed Living at Home With Parents...
Posted: 9/6/2011 9:04:38 PM
So here’s the real questions. Do you know what a hedge fund is?
Guessing that anyone capable of actually reading a website......probably does.
Kinda like......you!
r90sboxer
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ex sex
Posted: 9/6/2011 8:52:30 PM
I just recently had ex sex.
Aw c'mon.......give us the details.
Certainly you didn't just wake up one morning and decide to call the ex and ask if it would be OK to just soil some sheets one afternoon....
Was it a chance meeting at the DMV....together at the same funeral.....a party where both of you were too drunk to recognize the other...the grocers and those "melons" just looked that good....what put you in those circumstances?
r90sboxer
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Erection problems @ age 50?
Posted: 9/5/2011 4:44:03 PM
Hoping issues of incontinence don't surface at the same time.
r90sboxer
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is the grass greeneer?
Posted: 9/5/2011 4:19:07 PM
Seeing as how most of do not know all the circumstances of these "downgrades".....let's look at another possible answer.
The grass is browner on the other side of the fence.It looks good because he might be thinking....."Huummhhh,lot less maintenance to that yard."
There is a point there....
r90sboxer
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Why is my ex girlfriend behaving like this?
Posted: 9/5/2011 4:07:04 PM
im not calling her...
Go to a thesaurus [a book which gives you options for words] and look up "calling".
Make a list of all the words it tells you are similar to "calling".....
And don't do any of them!
She's behaving like she is because she is an ex.......and probably by choice.
r90sboxer
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walking a thin line
Posted: 9/5/2011 3:56:50 PM
I'm 23, and people my age are no experts at dating and in fact do things quite differently because we rely so heavily on technology.
At what age does "expert" status kick in? And who is on the panel that determines said status?
And maybe it's time persons your age realize that "technology" might just suck......a lot!!
r90sboxer
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On POF under false pretence
Posted: 9/5/2011 3:50:52 PM
Funny how that one key on the keyboard can make so many things so much easier to understand.......
"Shift"......it puts letters in upper case.........starts sentences.....gives "I" a completely clear definition compared to "i".....
r90sboxer
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Concealed weapon on a first date?
Posted: 8/31/2011 8:57:45 PM
Each one of them successfully passed a written and physical assessment.
And so has every doctor,lawyer,builder,teacher.They all met minimum state standards to do what they do...
And every bridge you drive under or on was built by the lowest bidder...gonna quit driving anytime soon?
And as for the person who visits Illinois....they are the only state without any form of carry laws be it concealed or open.Seems like 49 other states have figured it out...
If only one could make it illegal to be STOOOOOPID....do the persons licensed to carry guns have to take an IQ test?!
At least spell it correctly.....you have too many "O's"......
r90sboxer
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Concealed weapon on a first date?
Posted: 8/30/2011 3:57:52 PM
If it's THAT scary out there why carry a mere pistol? a riot gun (8-shot automatic 12-gauge shotgun, "street-sweeper" machine-pistol, Uzi, or full auto M-16 etc, would be more appropriate. heck, why not an M-60 belt-fed machine gun (7.62 mm) (can get cheap now) or a SAW (5.56 belt-fed full auto with 200-round "mag")
A lot like teaching a child the word "why"....obviously has too much time for Google....
r90sboxer
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Exclusivity, monogamy or more fishing?
Posted: 8/29/2011 11:08:14 PM
The problem that is bothering me is: I still see him log on on POF and although I am not sure if he's seeing other women or chatting with them, I do have a feeling he is, because why would you go online and spend time on here if you are not looking for anything.
Huh...???
If you see a friend of yours on a diet in the ice-cream shop......it means you were at the ice-cream shop as well......
r90sboxer
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Jerry Springer and Transsexuals
Posted: 8/29/2011 7:50:25 PM
People should be happy to be born with the sexual part they were born with. God does not make mistakes
Wow.....so this was all done on purpose........man,Adam and Eve really fouled the waters for all of us....
r90sboxer
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CCW on first date?
Posted: 8/29/2011 7:40:04 PM
Blimey only in the USA!
Not wanting to generalize...too much......but the above coming from a resident of an area [broadly the UK] generally known to have released the Lockerbie bomber because they felt "sorry" for his poor health and.... someone....anyone.... please tell me that all those IRA guys really didn't carry guns and it was all just a hoax....something for the CNN folks to make a buck off of....
r90sboxer
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Concealed weapon on a first date?
Posted: 8/29/2011 7:26:32 PM
I don't think anyone who would want to should be allowed to - the simple desire means he or she is too crazy to be trusted with one.
Sheesh....guessing you don't get the difference between immigrants and "illegal immigrants" either....
That's why there are laws on who gets guns and where they can be legally carried and the folks who are competent are allowed to....LEGALLY....
And the idea that several million folks are just too crazy......wow.....that's...that's...that's just a crazy statement.Ooooops!!
r90sboxer
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The numbers game......
Posted: 8/28/2011 1:02:11 PM
If you ask a question.......hummhh...
Let's see now...you walk up to a woman/man and very bluntly ask...."May I kiss your genitals?"
There are only two answers...yes or no....but the odds increase the more people you ask to go one way or the other with the question....
Yes...it's a numbers game but all closed-end questions that are asked are a 50/50 proposition.No emotion...just math.
r90sboxer
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Thinking about breaking up
Posted: 8/28/2011 12:27:08 PM
It would be very easy to take emotion out of this issue just by going about it in a math oriented direction...
You had a good [seemingly] two weeks with him and the total useful/working weeks seems to be six by your description.
Breaking that down it seems 1/3rd the time has been a positive.....fair?
Let's now pretend that you marry/move in/whatever with this boy and we have to extrapolate the numbers to reflect something in real life [for some anyway] that could occur.You manage to live long and procreate [hoping not] and both die together in bed on Christmas Eve in about 60 years......
That being said...you have had 20 good years and 40 not good years.......do you think you would really enter any kind of relationship if that's what you had to look forward to?
Just a thought but by the time most folks have reached their 20's....most habits are in place,change is not likely to happen on a wholesale level and what you see is often what you get?
And if you've known him a year.....he's had smelly clothes on before.
r90sboxer
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what kind of messages do you send?
Posted: 8/27/2011 9:55:15 AM
Having men comment in Ask a Girl is a good thing.
How??
Again my apology but the obvious still is the obvious...
r90sboxer
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Pondering between a Preputioplasty & Circumcision
Posted: 8/27/2011 9:51:25 AM
Just a thought.....but if "enhancement" products actually worked.......don't you think the Fed's and the FDA would be regulating and taxing them as a "drug" and we'd not be seeing all those ridiculous commercials on late night television??
r90sboxer
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what kind of messages do you send?
Posted: 8/27/2011 9:36:59 AM
Take off another point for wasting one of your 21 limited replies complaining about something that is allowed here and you can not prevent. If you specify only women can reply they delete your thread btw...
True...but the site itself could arrange it that only the proper gender answered [much like who can/cannot contact] and actually keep the category in the sense of what it is supposed to be.......but that may be a little too much like........
I apologize for answering on this "Ask a Girl" topic but the obvious was just too,well,obvious!
r90sboxer
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confused
Posted: 8/17/2011 2:52:07 AM
little confused w/this dating stuff. if you say you want to get to know a person first your a tease. if you ive in and have sex your a slut to some ppl. what's wrong w/getting to know someone first?
The same thing that's wrong with a little proof reading and punctuation....people are becoming too lazy.....
r90sboxer
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Tongue ring?
Posted: 8/15/2011 12:23:02 PM
And of course folks in my profession "love" them.....
It keeps us busy with all the restorative work and treatment associated with all oral jewelry...
r90sboxer
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Should I give my phone number
Posted: 8/15/2011 12:04:09 PM
I just find it strange that she could be from California and her English be somewhat broken.
Obviously never spoke to anyone from Brooklyn or Jersey.....
r90sboxer
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Messaging those who viewed you......
Posted: 8/15/2011 11:56:39 AM
oh, thank you... now i know what that makes me...
*sheesh*
Not my words but yours as your on-line name.......Divine Bovine..........
Wasn't that just asking for conflict?
r90sboxer
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Very Interested but the guy is taking it way too slow
Posted: 8/15/2011 8:35:25 AM
OP - I hate to tell you this, but most scammers hang out on Christian Dating sites. If he's refusing to move things along to the next level, it might be because he's hiding something from you
I'm guessing on it being a wife and two girlfriends that he already has trouble juggling...and then there is the Shetland pony at the farm.......
r90sboxer
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I think she likes me
Posted: 8/15/2011 8:32:24 AM
Or maybe....she's just a rude woman to begin with and hates to be left out.......
r90sboxer
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Occasionally smoke and no drugs...
Posted: 8/15/2011 8:30:33 AM
As for the pot smokers, that should become evident once you get to know them. No one in their right mind is going to admit to doing anything illegal on a public website. And if you think having a screen ID provides you any real privacy, get over it. It doesn't.
Funny....the profile side of the site asks that question directly and a great many people answer "Yes" to it.....huuuummhhh???????
r90sboxer
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I slept with him -- Now what?
Posted: 8/2/2011 12:32:50 AM
He suggested we move to his bedroom and I went in with the intention of ONLY teasing him.
Really just a bit curious how much brown stuff would fly if a guy had said this..........
r90sboxer
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advice and tricks please: TONUGE RINGS
Posted: 7/30/2011 1:09:42 AM
Well...let's just remember that in a few years[probably less] your dentist and hygienist will be doing a lot of restorative work for you and with the amount of damage you might be doing....start saving now.....
or take it out now and save a lot of aggravation for your self.....
r90sboxer
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premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 7/30/2011 1:02:57 AM
Some answers may depend on who has to do the laundry...
r90sboxer
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Take your time or crash and burn
Posted: 7/30/2011 12:27:23 AM
I am 6o yrears old, been single for 10 years after a thirty-one year marriage. The first thing that i began to realize in my newly found single life, is how amazingly quick men/women wanted to match up..hook up..and hitch up. some, within just a matter of weeks after meeting were ready to do the ceremony and grab their luggage and move on in. . Now, i do get just as lonely as anyone, it comes with the territory of life after divorce,..but diving right back into a serious relationship and getting married can ruin what really could be a real love that begins with discovering who the person really is, how beautiful they can be, and to share thoughts, feelings, and eventually lives. And, it it is not meant to be, then that is something that is found out by dating and friendship. (or non-friendship) . .anyone, man or woman, who sails into you quickly, always slams the door on their way out just as fast as they came in. ...Am i wrong on this ? or are you ready for the ring??
Did you read what you wrote in your post on being in a "played" situation???
r90sboxer
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Ending the Charade
Posted: 7/27/2011 8:54:35 AM
A "Government Employee" [and my apologies to the 98% of you that do work your asses off] talking about being a "workin"[g] man......with a 9th grade GED....OK.........I guess.....
Thats where it is now. Im fairly confident Ive lost this girl. Because if i had her id know. She could be on the fence still, but more likely she doesnt want to tell me she isnt choosing me. BUT, she hasn't officially told me yet.
But more on topic.........what would you consider something "official"?Do you really need a "Dear John" greeting card form Hallmark or don't you trust yourself enough to realize that it is not going to get any better than it is......?
r90sboxer
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Family connections
Posted: 7/26/2011 10:02:50 AM
Aren't you glad you don't live where the family still does decide for you whom you marry.......
Wonder how dowries would work today in a 1st World Country.....?
r90sboxer
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Ending the Charade
Posted: 7/26/2011 9:45:24 AM
Na,its not like they,cause they know its a two way street and what they're doing is wrong. I aint gonna play stupied hs games.
Maybe "High School" might not be a bad thing....spelling and punctuation are both taught there.....
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