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benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 20 (view)

Marital Commitment Issues... but not what u think Posted: 2/1/2008 9:28:03 PM
My question would be how commited is he to you if he doesnt mind seeing you with another guy or if the other kind of threesome how do you think you will feel seeing him with another girl. If he is that commited to you and your relationship there shouldn't be any need to bring a third party into the equation.

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 140 (view)

How many are in relationships made possible by POF, and how long as it been Posted: 7/8/2007 4:33:47 AM
Just an update. My guy and I got engaged in Montreal in April and wedding planned for August next year.. Thanks POF. Good Luck to all

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 22 (view)

How should an Old-fashioned woman treat a man? Posted: 10/18/2006 2:53:50 PM
I greet him at the door in french maid outfit, hand him a cold beer and show him what I am not wearing under my skirt lol

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 123 (view)

Sex on a First Date - Does it Kill a Potential Relationship? Posted: 10/18/2006 2:48:09 PM
I guess I have been on both sides of this fence. I dated people and had done the deed on the first date and with the exception of one year long relationship nothing much came of it. About six and a half months ago I went out on a POF date and had a chance encounter with another guy. He walked up to me and asked me out while my date was in the washroom. We went out together the next evening on a 6 hour first date and a month and a half later moved in together. We never actually slept together for almost the first month and now have been happily ensconced with each other since. I waited six years for this one and it has all been worth the wait..Stay tuned lol.

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 108 (view)

How many are in relationships made possible by POF, and how long as it been Posted: 7/3/2006 10:58:21 AM
Sorry this has taken so long but wanted to add my input. I was on this site from September through to the end of March..I was on a POF date and a man walked right up and said I would love to get to know you and gave me his business card..I was thinking "player" but boy was he confident.Its been just over 3 months now and and we have spent barely a day apart. We moved in together just over a month ago and no regrets yet lol for our rashness.. Finally after waiting almost 6 years I have met my match..Thanks POF and to all the friends I made here and best of luck to all..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 71 (view)

One should not ask for a kiss? Posted: 3/29/2006 9:50:07 PM
I like when the guy leans over and says "I just have to do this, you've been driving me nuts all night"

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 32 (view)

How do you know if its love or lust? Posted: 3/28/2006 3:07:54 PM
I think the old saying goes difference between love and lust is spitting or swallowing

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 58 (view)

One should not ask for a kiss? Posted: 3/28/2006 3:04:10 PM
BB...any Niagara stops on the Summer kissing tour? Just asking lol!!

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

One should not ask for a kiss? Posted: 3/26/2006 5:49:19 PM
" I won't have to ask,I'll see it in your eyes,and when I'm ready I wanna grab a handful of your hair and get down to business with a carnal, devouring kiss that curls your toes and starts a hot rush through your body.... "" Where do I sign up????????

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 312 (view)

Older women, not wanting to date men their age. Posted: 3/25/2006 6:46:35 PM
" I would date men my own age IF 1) they were interested in women over 35 2) they were in decent physical condition 3) we had interests in common In 4 years....hasn't been any of those " Bravo " who the fox" There are those rare exceptions. but I wont mention them so as not stroke thier egos any further lol..but I am sure if they see this post will add in their two cents!!

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 62 (view)

Sex fav question for men and women Posted: 3/25/2006 6:23:55 PM
"Lets try both...omg think I am in love

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 60 (view)

Sex fav question for men and women Posted: 3/25/2006 6:12:40 PM
I can't decide which I like best...wild orchid is right on the money but scratching bb's abs with long red fingernails...hmmmmmmmmm!!! definitely food for thought

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

Man over 40…still attractive to younger women or not ? Posted: 3/24/2006 7:56:08 PM
BB..you are such an attention hound.. Personally I love men of all ages..but early forties when they look like bb lol sigh

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 37 (view)

If your partner does nothing for your birthday..... Posted: 3/24/2006 3:14:42 PM
flowers at variety store on way home $5.00 card at the Dollar Store $1.00 That he thought of it on his own...Priceless

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Being Stood up Posted: 3/20/2006 5:37:40 PM
Not just guys that do the standing up anni..I have heard from innumerable guys that girls are just as culpable of the crime. I would love to have a tread where one could list the ignorant a$$holes that make a practice of this so as not to waste more peoples time and money, oh well such is life..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 29 (view)

AUTO GRILL: Toronto May 2,2006 DOWNTOWN ECLECTIC GROOVE MARTINI MINGLE Posted: 3/19/2006 4:35:08 AM
Sounds like a great party..Always nice to have an opportunity to dress in something other then jeans..Although I dont have that opportunity often either lol.

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 2176 (view)

what put a major smile on your face today? Posted: 3/18/2006 6:32:01 PM
bb I am hoping I can cheer up a friend with a story in next 5 minutes or so

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 83 (view)

drive by all the time but never been there Posted: 3/18/2006 4:03:54 PM
Sounds like fun ladies..I am just trying to figure out transport situation,,,too cold to take transit..and no DD as of yet

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 77 (view)

Anyone up for the Croc or Club 279 tonight????? Posted: 3/18/2006 2:50:57 PM
Enig..where in the bar are you guys going to being hanging and is it confirmed Croc?

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 1475 (view)

~~ St. Patty's Day POF Party ~~ Friday, March 17th ~~ Toronto~~ Posted: 3/18/2006 1:32:12 PM
Mamasan..Glad to here you are alive and well..My only casulty last night was a full package of cigarette and the marker that wouldnt wash off lol..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 53 (view)

Anyone up for the Croc or Club 279 tonight????? Posted: 3/18/2006 9:56:56 AM
Any ideas what time ladies? Hopefully will be recovered from last nights excesses in Woodbridge by later today lol

benchfluff

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Msg: 13 (view)

St. Patty's Day AFTER party thread Posted: 3/18/2006 6:53:44 AM
OOPS That was me Finally ready I stayed at Benchfluffs place I guess didn't change the names HEE HEE I need to get some sleep...

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

St. Patty's Day AFTER party thread Posted: 3/18/2006 6:49:32 AM
Ok who has the shots of the fire fighters from last night.? Post them baby. It was a nice surprise. I didn't read the threads. The calendars were great and so were they !!! LOL Can't wait for the cruise July 9th !!! Had a blast last night. It was nice to meet all of you I have forgotten some names already but not the faces. Happy belated st. patty's day!!! Off to get the car and go to bed

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 1449 (view)

~~ St. Patty's Day POF Party ~~ Friday, March 17th ~~ Toronto~~ Posted: 3/18/2006 4:12:03 AM
Rob it was lovely to meet you and the other boys and all for a worthy cause..thanks for signing my you know what lol..and I am sure mamsan will thank you too

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 94 (view)

Intimidated by contacting muscular and athletic guys .. ..Is there a need to be ?? Posted: 3/15/2006 3:46:56 PM
No need to be intimidated..Hunks need loving too..and maybe they don't get that much email..If everyone is intimidated by their looks and just adds to favorites and never get in touch they are just as much alone as you and I..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

attractive = ? Posted: 3/15/2006 3:44:09 PM
BB thats because you are attractive on the inside as well

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 191 (view)

YUK YUK'S & CROC ROCK PARTY IN TO - need in party thread? .. lol Posted: 3/13/2006 4:26:09 PM
You sexy are a true gentleman...Not the first time you have looked after me ..thanks again and another great party as usual..Hope to see all next week for St paddys

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Yuk Yuks n' Croc Pics ... Fastest Pictures in the North ... y ... lmao Posted: 3/12/2006 7:10:56 AM
Awesome pics northy and so fast..I am glad birthday girl made it through and has some for posterity lol..Thank god I manage to avoid camera this time lol..Hope all had a great time..I know I did but feet very very sore..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

When you logon is the same person always on? Posted: 3/11/2006 10:33:22 AM
I am also a bad one for leaving computer on all the time..and yes people get upset when you dont answer their IM..oops..but in my defense I know a lot of people that are logged on all the time even when they are not around.

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 541 (view)

male shirtless photos Posted: 3/10/2006 7:06:11 PM
Its only wrong Thealee if the guys you look at are younger then your children or related to you lol..Looking at agalsguy and BB ...Thats appreciation of a work of art...

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 535 (view)

male shirtless photos Posted: 3/10/2006 3:21:27 PM
thealee..I salute you...You are so right..His chest looks hot even with the "wife beater" as my teenager calls it..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 418 (view)

What Women should never wear on a date Posted: 3/9/2006 7:54:15 AM
Hey Vee..A girl should always wear nice undies on a date...Just in case!! Might give a) our date or b) some emergency personel a thrill ol..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 19 (view)

Sex as a bargaining chip for losing weight? Posted: 3/8/2006 6:57:08 PM
No how, no way..sex should never be a favour granted..If she is genuinely concerned about health she should encourage anything to make that a reality but withholding sex??? wrong!!!

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 75 (view)

WHY AM I NOT GETTING ANY BITES... AT ALL Posted: 3/7/2006 10:23:34 PM
I would email you TiredofBS if I didnt live in Canada

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 34 (view)

Does a kiss have significance on a first date? Posted: 3/7/2006 6:23:53 PM
Yes has significance especially when they make kissing seem like a career and make you go weak at the knees.

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 12 (view)

What are your rules for meeting someone online? Posted: 3/6/2006 7:35:02 PM
Public place Separate Vehicles Mace or equivalent lol OT..o-t-b how short should the skirt be to show we are interested in you

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 32 (view)

The straw that broke the Camel's back. Posted: 3/6/2006 7:28:08 PM
I think it was the dumping by text message on my phone after a year long relationship..He said he was seeing someone else seriously now..I guess 4 or 5 days a week and his "I love you" wasnt too serious in his mind lol..but that was definitely the straw..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 48 (view)

Who Had First Dates This Weekend? Posted: 3/5/2006 5:26:31 PM
I have sent that email in the past too lol..If you had and emergency, better offer or just were'nt that into me a simple phone call would have sufficed..lol..manners, manners,manners So people Auntie, don't have them.

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 47 (view)

Who Had First Dates This Weekend? Posted: 3/5/2006 5:23:21 PM
Shore..glad you got soooo much info on first date..Was brushing is cat a euphamism for something else lol?

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 84 (view)

Would you respect a man more if he came out and said he just wanted some ass or played head games Posted: 3/5/2006 4:45:08 PM
Well when they come right out and say it you can either say call me sometime if they are really hot, or tell them to f%&k off

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 288 (view)

Older women, not wanting to date men their age. Posted: 3/5/2006 4:42:26 PM
If you can get them 10 years younger..more power to you.."immoral" thats a little harsh lol You look great ladybug..much luck in your adventures..I too like them younger..the guys our age seem to want them younger or are ready "sometimes" for a rocking chair on the porch.. With a couple of exceptions on here who I will not name so as not to embarass them..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 30 (view)

Golf Tournament, GTA?? Posted: 3/4/2006 4:28:28 AM
Best ball is usually good when a variet of skill levels present..and then mix the teams up between experiended and non..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

Backup boyfriend Posted: 3/3/2006 10:48:04 AM
"Isnt that the guy you call when you get stood up lol?"

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 36 (view)

tummy Posted: 3/1/2006 6:50:11 PM
i want to your tummy bb

benchfluff

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Msg: 94 (view)

What I have LEARNED from INTERNET dating... Posted: 2/27/2006 5:31:27 PM
Scorpios aren't hard to deal with they are just dangerous together lol..Generally like rocket fuel..big blast but then burns out..

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 60 (view)

How long has it taken you for your broken heart to heal? Posted: 2/27/2006 4:05:41 PM
17 long months...

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 85 (view)

What I have LEARNED from INTERNET dating... Posted: 2/27/2006 3:46:54 PM
wow sexy and brainy have we dated some of the same men?

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 16 (view)

When are women the horniest before or after there period Posted: 2/26/2006 7:02:39 PM
Before, During and After...lol

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 420 (view)

kissing after oral sex Posted: 2/26/2006 4:17:17 PM
Something very erotic about tasting yourself in partners mouth...

benchfluff

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 31 (view)

build? Posted: 2/26/2006 2:26:05 PM
Ok...so I work out 6 times a week and play hockey 3 times a week and while a some women look and check out a more muscular build, they really seem to shy away from it. 1real one see previous posts on Hockey Players lol

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