Is there such a thing to guys? Are there women you won't date or message because you think they are too good-looking and/or too fit for you?

I have turned down talking to guys because they are too good-looking for me and one said that he can't get a date at all because women are put off by how fit he is. I feel I have a pretty firm grasp on what I look like, and I don't want to date someone that is really hot or has abs harder than the walls in my house.

Well women are NOT going to want some butt-ugly guy like me approaching her in the first place therefore its a 100% guranteed rejection for me. And women hate being approached anyways.

Approaching women, why should I?.

I was home at her place few days ago and I couldnt help myself sneaking a little bit.. And what i saw shocked me!

She obviously has a thing for gaymen... and i mean that they really did everything on these pics and videos as well!

I know a lot of people looks at porn these days as if its not cheating but according to me its psychological cheating and I wouldnt even consider looking at porn when i have my lovely girlfriend! Why would i want to see something that doesnt even show the real sexlife and just patronizes women? No thank you!


Opinions people?

You should only write to the people that have profiles that appeal to you. If there is not enough in the profile to spark your interest, then don't bother

honestly, i think you can keep your profiles empty, and if you have a "pleasing" picture, your inbox would be loaded. 90% of the guys who message me doesn't read my profile....then all of a sudden they get shocked when i tell them i have a bf...lol!

I just saw this profile and nearly died laughing. The woman only had her picture and under interests it said "shopping and gambling." She had been added as a favorite 16 times. WTF!!!

Guys are not demanding and the lower quality will respond to anything.

I often read that men are lookng for sweet kind caring giving woman. I have posted a photo that demonstrates just that, innocent. I am contacted by men looking for sex or who are married of they ask me for more photos. What are you looking for really? I am a sweet, kind generous woman and would love to meet someone looking for just that. Who knows?

So, you had a great date. She's cuter than her pictures. She didn't fart at dinner. You had great conversation all night. You are into her...so you go for the kiss...then you go for more...and she doesn't stop you. You guys had great sex. So, will you call her again? For something more than Sex? Would you consider having a relationship with her?

A acquaintance of mine married a big girl, 230 lbs. one day I asked him why... He explained it to me this way…” he married a big girl because he would never have to worry about her cheating on him because most men don’t date big girls and that no one would want her.
Is there any truth to this…

"And something else. Atheists also base their beliefs in some theories. You well know what those theories are, and "theory" is not my choice of word. They are mentioned as such."

This is kind of funny. EVERYTHING is a theory. I can't speak for other atheists or agnostics, but the whole point from my perspective is the rejection of placing absolute faith in one theory over all others, especially when it lacks empirical evidence. Quantum physics and relativity are theories, yes. So is the notion that the earth rests on the back of a giant turtle. There are significant differences between these theories though. Quantum physics and relativity are strongly supported by logic, empirical evidence, predictive capability, and coherence with other strongly supported theories. Gloming onto the term "theory" is silly and betrays and utter lack of knowledge of the sciences. It's a qualitative issue.

"Do Atheists have a moral obligation to spread their kind of truth?"

Again, I can't speak for others, but I only feel a need to remind people to keep their facts straight and be logical. Other than that, I don't care what people believe.

"Wouldn't that make Atheism, a form of religion just as well?"

A religion, no. "Religion" has a standard of meaning that involves belief in a supreme being, but strong Atheism is a faith, as to claim with utter certainty that God doesn't exist is a faith based position. It can not be proved or disproved. I, personally, reject such absolute statements, which is why I fall into the category of either weak Atheism, or strong Agnosticism. I find the notion both superfluous and tantamount to believing in the tooth fairy, but I would not claim with utter certainty that there may not be some truth to it. In the same regard, it's possible there may be some truth to the tooth fairy. Probable, hardly, but possible.