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Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 159 (view)

Great Contemporary [Sorta] Lies Posted: 9/12/2008 8:30:40 PM
1. God is Dead. 2. Arbeit macht frei. 3. People are our most important resource. 4. Men are commitment-phobic. 5. Women need men like a fish needs a bicycle.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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For the men who masterbate often .... Posted: 9/12/2008 8:22:52 PM
I agree with post #2 -- Same elements, different focus. WHO THE HECK TIMES IT? Michael Phelps, for one.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Question about volume Posted: 9/12/2008 8:15:58 PM
GeekNow, perhaps the most important thing to remember: women have a network like that spider tumor thingee in John Malley's head in "Phenomenon." If you do one of them wrong, your name will be passed around faster than Lula Mae's phone number in the men's room of a West Texas bar 'n grill.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 84 (view)

Andropause... The Male Menopause... Posted: 9/12/2008 8:08:50 PM
Perhaps it should be renamed: Glandropause...for those who wear the label with pride.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 27 (view)

Ratio of older men to older women: the gap is narrowing Posted: 9/12/2008 8:07:10 PM
That's interesting...but I'm STILL not interested.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 70 (view)

Why Don't Guys Answer Questions? Posted: 9/12/2008 8:03:04 PM
A man's natural hormone that causes him to avoid interrogations by unqualified interrogators.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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mulitple profiles Posted: 9/12/2008 8:00:18 PM
I have one for each day of the week, for each day I am banished as the result of some wuss not embracing my brand of insanity. ... and Some people refuse to adhere to the rules and continue with insults - Don't forget to CLOSE the door after yourself.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 22 (view)

Emails are read righht away, but reply takes day??? Posted: 9/12/2008 7:59:15 PM
I do this...so sue me.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Men who are cut off from their feelings Posted: 9/12/2008 7:58:27 PM
sometimes a woman will NOT wait around for you to decide how you're feeling. being patient with someone while you're in an agony of anxiety, waiting for the verdict of how someone feels about an issue, is difficult. Some women can't/ wont wait. Depending on the seriousness or the urgency of the issue. As a keen observer of the power of motivation and inspiration, if there's something to stick around for, she (and he) will wait. Otherwise...next!

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 34 (view)

Men who are cut off from their feelings Posted: 9/11/2008 2:31:58 PM
^^^^^^ That was excellent. You do like men, right? I think you have hit something REALLY REALLY huge there. And no woman in her...uh...right mind is ever going to give you a hint that you've hit on something so deeply rooted (like a Freudian silicone implant). Here's one for women: Why do you need men? Come up with some earnest replies, because I'll bet you you'll have as much difficulty explaining the need as men struggle to explain why we need women--and making babies is your mulligan; you can't use that rationale. Discuss, dahlinks.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 187 (view)

Can men talk about feminism? Posted: 9/11/2008 2:13:04 PM
I think men are beginning to realize that it IS all just talk, and therefore just prefer not to get involved (in a losing proposition/situation).

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 140 (view)

Is courting dead? Posted: 9/11/2008 2:11:11 PM
Why would any man want to be in a relationship where he isn't desired equally? DING! DING! DING! DING! DING! LADIES AND GENTLEMEN WE HAVE A WINNER!!! The winner of the endless streams of forum threads which go something like: 1. Why are guys commitment-phobic? 2. Why do men like Asian women? Is it because they are placid and submissive? 3. If there are so many men who aren't getting married (to women), why is it I have such difficulty finding just one? 4. Why do guys send me emails and after I answer, he stops emailing me? 5. And on and on ad nauseum.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 77 (view)

Joe Biden calls for prosecution of George Bush (maybe) Posted: 9/11/2008 2:06:46 PM
A Bit Nomadic wrote: My personal HOPE is that he'll be indicted for murder in an American court, and he might be (happily). I'd love to see that...as an American who believes in American justice. It may come to pass that the only court system that believes in American justice may be a Belgian, Dutch, German, etc., court. I think there is a better chance that Bush and Darth Cheney face a war crimes tribunal--tribunal! ya gotta love that GITMO irony right there--than a Congressional inquiry or, less likely, a criminal indictment. How odd that we may need to look overseas for any display of courage...perhaps a really, really good clue as to the degree of corruption, nepotism, and cronyism that plague and choke nearly every office of our government.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 194 (view)

Emotiona/Physicial closeness Posted: 9/9/2008 5:32:44 PM
I truly enjoyed the brief, yet intense repartee between Renaissance and LaJaconde. Gives me hope that ye olde man-woman attraction thingee still hasn't been boiled down into that old, familiar Anglo-Saxon game of power and control...just nice words, sincerely felt. Thanks you two...now, get a room.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 44 (view)

Why Don't guys understand Just Friends Posted: 9/8/2008 5:13:09 PM
"Just Friends" = "Just Listen to My Whining."

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 56 (view)

Guys - which would you prefer? Posted: 9/8/2008 5:08:53 PM
Sign me up for #2...this town is ground zero for anal-retentives. ENOUGH! Oh, she must tolerate my musical excursions, and therefore there may be MORE messes than even you have suggested. There's always work for a person to do; intimacy and connection are rare.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 25 (view)

why do guys lead you on? Posted: 9/7/2008 2:05:35 PM
Yep, Msg 23, that sure was a classy response.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 128 (view)

Men who avoid attractive women?? Posted: 9/7/2008 1:54:50 PM
That's true. If she doesn't have a scowl reminiscent of the Wicked Witch of the West...or even East...we only got to see her tootsie curlin' up...then perhaps it's worth testing the waters.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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At What Point Is A Guy In A Relationship In His Mind Or Does He Really Know? Posted: 9/6/2008 6:38:48 PM
Yeah..."relationship." Whatever happened to the good ol' emotion-laden term "affair?" "Relationship" sounds so, so....sanitary, like those paper things you put on toilets that have absolutely no affect other than to cause the impression you are putting up a germ barrier against what are in effect harmless, toilet ring germs...that's "relationship."

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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why do guys lead you on? Posted: 9/6/2008 6:33:57 PM
It's funny, isn't it? No matter how humorous, if I said that about women, I'd be so booted. However, you're entitled.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 112 (view)

Men who avoid attractive women?? Posted: 9/6/2008 6:31:26 PM
So, I don't bother asking anymore--that would just clue 'em in that I'm interested in admiring them Do other guys feel the same way as I do? Perhaps. Yeppers. Look: the smartest thing we could do would be to ignore them. However, who said men do the "smart" thing where women are concerned? It's hopeless: women are insane and men are stupid--it's a perpetually lethal combination.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 51 (view)

Why do men stay in dud marriages??? Posted: 9/6/2008 6:14:07 PM
^^^^^ Just another slow Saturday, with nothing better to do than to hijack the threads if there aren't enough men around...and, as always, LOVE the dew.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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why do guys lead you on? Posted: 9/6/2008 6:12:04 PM
After reading scores of posts like yours, OP, this seems to be a POF M.O. for both sexes. I'd just consider it cheap theater...sit back and enjoy the popcorn.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 49 (view)

Why do men stay in dud marriages??? Posted: 9/6/2008 5:50:00 PM
^^^^ After separation and divorce I stayed in those places, the places that might have fit your description for vagrants, losers and the like. It's one of those things, just one of those things people go through as they bust out of a cell-less prison on their way to reclaiming their souls.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 42 (view)

Why do guys talk like they want a relationship... Posted: 9/6/2008 11:01:48 AM
Too many men say it because of an apparent conditioning to "please" women...the other part of the quotient of "engaging in sex."

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Is Any Lay A Good Lay? Posted: 9/6/2008 10:56:53 AM
Yup, like a Yorkshire terrier in heat, humpa bumpa dumpa, Googs. After having a numder of sexual incounters, I've come to the conclusion that the best sex happens when you are with someone you believe to be out of your league. Someone you feel you do not deserve. Weather it's because they are younger, better looking, rich or famous. Not so good sex is when you are with someone you feel is unworthy of you. Stop by later for my psychotherapist Dieter's business card. He'd find you...interrrrresting [a la Mike Myers in his schtick "Sprockets"]

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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One Rule For Men and One Rule For Women Posted: 9/6/2008 10:43:37 AM
Geez this scata gets old. Further, I thought this was ask a guy??? I guess men answer in Ask A Girl, but we all know that once they do they must walk around for the rest of the day with their giblets sticking our their unzipped flies.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Men who are cut off from their feelings Posted: 9/5/2008 6:48:19 PM
Just as POF asks you to do a frikkin' search before beginning a thread, it would be nice if you would cite some sources to the myths you parrot. At one time or another all men have fallen silent, for one reason or another--most likely to think something through before marching up the hill to death.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Why would someone remove you and then say you are insecure Posted: 9/5/2008 6:44:30 PM
Please delete me, let me go... [deleted of own accord]

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Have You Ever Thought Seriously About Asking A Woman To Marry You But Did Not Go Through With It? Posted: 9/5/2008 6:36:46 PM
Because, Nao, I have never seen this is real life. I have never--in my circle of friends/acquaintances--seen the guy get screwed by the courts. I see BOTH sides screwed by the circumstance, as I already said--BOTH sides suffer economically. Then you and your friends have been very fortunate, indeed. I have known a dozen or so men--okay, perhaps not statistically valid, I'll admit--who have been put out of commission financially, emotionally, psychologically for many, many years...just as others know women and/or men who've endured the same or similar. However, because you took the time to respond to me, I'll provide my feeling about this once more: it's not the man nor woman who's the problem. The problem becomes when they hand the part of the power to their pursuit of happiness to a dispassionate, often-fascist, willfully obtuse government and federal agencies from Hell. And I'm not going to go any further with this because it irritates somebody who's got the right ear of The Entity of Power here.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 28 (view)

Makeover? Would you do it for a girl? Posted: 9/5/2008 6:32:18 PM
I'm up for a sleepover, but a makeover? Meh...I'll pass.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 73 (view)

Is courting dead? Posted: 9/5/2008 6:30:47 PM
I consider myself blessed with what I have; adding one more person into the mix will either water or down or stress it out too much. It's a fine balance, y'know.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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We're the grown ups - where do we turn? Posted: 9/5/2008 6:29:09 PM
Although I do get some kind of bizarre pleasure hanging with y'all, I much prefer my company. With one exception: my music budz are still my music budz and we still can kick up some great jazz, blues or rock jams every other Saturday.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Is courting dead? Posted: 9/5/2008 6:24:28 PM
It does seem to be dying so come on guys give it some life back and revive the darn thing Uh...in this post-Feminist world...you first. I don't remember signing up to keep a sinking ship afloat. there are lots of women who still appreciate it, as you can tell by this thread. Haven't we learned by now that what people say and what people do can be distinctly different?

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Why is the USA EXPORTING record amounts of oil ? Posted: 9/5/2008 6:04:36 PM
Never in history has a commodity brought massive fortunes to some and spreading its wealth of poverty to the remainder.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Why is the USA EXPORTING record amounts of oil ? Posted: 9/5/2008 4:03:28 PM
The answer could be quite easy: the more times oil passes hands the more the price per barrel increases. Who knows? Maybe what we've been pumping in our tanks recently changed hands via humongous tankerous at least twice. Living in the Era of Oz, I now believe anything and suspect everything.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Walter Reed Middle School Posted: 9/5/2008 4:01:14 PM
The privileged and anointed often lose touch with the fact they come across as sociopathic...to whom rules don't apply, just the little scum voters. I firmly believe they view us as lesser humans.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Joe Biden calls for prosecution of George Bush (maybe) Posted: 9/5/2008 3:59:23 PM
Typical politician...right on the coattails of Dennis Kucinich. Dey so big 'n bwave...and so owned by Wilmington corporations. There is no difference save "style" between the two, they just have to struggle to make it seem so, so we'll be motivated to vote for constipation.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 62 (view)

Is courting dead? Posted: 9/5/2008 3:56:10 PM
^^^^^ So are public executions...any coincidence?

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 103 (view)

Gold-digger Posted: 9/5/2008 3:54:45 PM
A sociopathic concern for self vs. another, and in particular, the possessions and potential earnings of others as viewed as the entitled property of the sociopath.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

Men who avoid attractive women?? Posted: 9/5/2008 3:51:23 PM
"1. How do you know for sure that, just because she looks attractive to you, she has a boyfriend or husband?" Meh...pass. "2. Why wouldn't a man want to take the risk and not miss a possibly wonderful woman?" For the same reason she prefers something more than a 50-50 proposition; men and women are remarkably similar. "3. Is it any wonder there are more and more people joining these sites every day?" Actually it IS a wonder, considering how miserable people are and how disgusted both sexes are with each other...yes, in general and certainly in MSNBC and its ilk.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 36 (view)

I Think I Now Know Why I Prefer Freedom Posted: 9/5/2008 3:47:47 PM
I prefer to not take the risk of meeting Mizz Hyde.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Is love dead? Posted: 9/5/2008 3:39:41 PM
I sure hope the mopy, obsessive, control-freak part of it is.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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I always feel sorry Posted: 9/5/2008 3:37:21 PM
What's the question, again?

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Introduce Yourself Here. Posted: 9/5/2008 3:27:48 PM
Yawn... Nope, some other time...like when Peter Angelos dies.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Have You Ever Thought Seriously About Asking A Woman To Marry You But Did Not Go Through With It? Posted: 9/5/2008 3:24:04 PM
Of course. Why go through the poorhouse twice? It's not the woman, it's the onerous weight of an oppressive judicial and government social paradigm that convinces one to commit the offense only once. I have noticed that there seems to be almost an aversion to even acknowledging that this leering fact may be MORE of what's driving men away from marriage than even the nastiest, most-entitledest-attituded beyatch of a skank.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 99 (view)

My boyfriend and I don't have sex. Posted: 9/5/2008 3:15:15 PM
PERFECT!!!! Now you can avoid the marriage part and just get divorced!!!! Nick, dude...you are certainly sage enough to know it's hopeless in English-speaking capitalist western countries. There is no satisfaction...eventually. In other words, women act just like men...eventually or at some point in between the beginning and end. Women attempt to shame men for a momentary boost in the impression of superiority by calling us "gay" and "flaccid/limp/can't get it up" if for some God-unknown reason we're not attracted to one in that way, and men distinguish themselves as jackasses by poking fun at women's butts and cellulite for a momentary thrill of feeling as if he's put her in her place.

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

Msg: 60 (view)

Is courting dead? Posted: 9/5/2008 3:10:10 PM
Gee...I wonder why?

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Men who avoid attractive women?? Posted: 9/5/2008 2:23:35 PM
Hell, my mom is "attractive." It's "beautiful women" you're referring to. I find it ironic that so many women have trouble with the sacred cow they've created: "communication-is-key."

Nao_Namorado

Joined: 7/23/2008

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Why do men stay in dud marriages??? Posted: 9/5/2008 2:21:42 PM
If not already answered in a variety of forms and variations, here goes: because to free oneself costs far more money on a consistent basis, with the case never being closed, than merely seeing "mental health professionals" and than on getting numb on psychotropics.

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