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The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

Msg: 85 (view)

How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 11/27/2006 11:49:55 PM
I'm not satisfied until she cums at least once or twice from oral. There is no need to rush a good thing.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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offended by this Posted: 11/27/2006 11:41:28 PM
Honestly I forget peoples real names all the time when I only talk to them on MSN. Unless your MSN name is your real name I wouldn't feel to offended.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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A Sexy Look For A Guy Posted: 11/27/2006 11:36:07 PM
Dude, you just have to be yourself. Try just wearing what you like. When it comes down to it the quality ladies are looking for a lot more than a guy with good fashion sense.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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How do we keep a relationship in a happy place? Posted: 10/25/2006 10:55:40 PM
There is no easy answer to this question but if both people come to the relationship with their lives in order, a good sense of self, and the ability to keep themselves happy then things will definitely be getting started in the right direction.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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So what do you go out to do by yourself? Posted: 10/18/2006 7:41:26 PM
I like to kick back and read, cook a nice meal, watch my fish, play guitar, meditate. I just go with what feel is going to be the most interesting at the time.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/17/2006 9:14:49 PM
cierakae check it out again and let me know if it looks any better. If not could you be specific about where you would break for a paragraph or the type of spacing I should use.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/17/2006 9:09:01 PM
"After reading your original profile, I'd be extremely skeptical as to which one represents the "real" you. Your original profile did not get very many positive reactions. Then, suddenly, a decent one appears as part of some "project." It's not the least bit convincing to me." Good thing I'm not trying to convice you. Anyways, people are free to make their own assumptions about me but that's all that they will be. "Didn't see the first one, like the content of the second one. A suggestion, break it up a bit. Use paragraphs and spaces, it is so much easier to read, and then if need be refer back to. Look at my profile for an example. I may have overused the process, but it is easier to read. Good Luck!" Thanks for the tips I'll get right on it!

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/16/2006 11:44:55 PM
You ask who would invent a whole new persona as a research project. Well, obviously it would take somebody that really wanted see all possible angles and whether or not they had any validity or not. If you have any doubts about the real me just look at the previous profile review that I received quite a long time ago. I think it will shed enough light on the subject to clarify things.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/16/2006 11:10:41 PM
Like I said before this was all just a very interesting research project for me. You never know what might work until you try it out. I would love additional advice from anybody that has something to say.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/16/2006 9:48:03 PM
Possible unpleasant aspects about my personality? Do share! Also, my profile is updated again so feel free to read away!

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/16/2006 9:07:06 PM
Well, everybody's points are well taken. This has been a very interesting research project for me. I've never had a profile quite like this until 2 or 3 days ago. It has been interesting trying to argue from the stand point of the type of person that would write that type of profile. Thanks for your time and feel free to check out my profile again and give me your thoughts and comments on The-Real-Thing!

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/16/2006 1:57:54 PM
RobinKynd obviously a person can be any number of those types of combinations but that is not what I'm looking for. I am being very black and white when I'm stating what I am looking for and that's because I know what I want. I don't judge people like you assume I do. I am more than willing to give anybody a chance but if there is no attraction and they are not what I'm looking for then why would I "love" them? Rune3 I am asking for help to find what I want but also I want to find out what the type of women that I would like to be with are attracted to. I completely understand that things change all the time in peoples lives and that you most likely will still love somebody if the situation changes. Heck, I've even been in that situation before. You are definitely right about me wanting to find an emotional connection but what I have found in my dating life to this point is emotional connections with people that weren't mature, happy, well adjusted people. Don't get me wrong, I have dated some really awesome girls but there was always something that just didn't click for me. Back to the subject of change for a moment here. Like I said I know people do change and that is expected but looking back at the list of qualities that I'm searching for I realized that most of them are very base level human qualities that aren't usually subject to drastic change. Also, I constantly look at myself with a very critical eye. In fact I'm my own worst critic. That's part of the reason that I am trying to ask for help in the area of my life. We have a few hypocrites here when it comes to being judgmental. What I am looking for is creative and constructive criticism. Please refrain from posting broad statements like "you're pretty judgmental and you won't get your straight answer until you stop being so" and "if you don't want black and white answers don't pigeon hole people". Instead try and give me some examples of things that I could be doing to change my situation. Thanks again for your time.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/16/2006 10:01:18 AM
I'd like to thank everybody for taking the time to check out my profile so far and comment. Let me just say a couple things here in response to what some of you have posted. Rune3 I think your comment wasn't very well thought out because the only time that I said "I want" anything was in the beginning of my post here when I said I want to figure out women. AREALANGEL obviously you are one of the people that my list of expectations is meant to disqualify. I don't mean for that to be an attack on you but honestly if you don't tell people what you are looking for then how will you ever find it? Also, the whole reality show thing really made me laugh. Successful/attractive women are always judging guys. In fact, women in general have this idea stuck in there head that they are going to be the one to choose their partner. I don't believe that there is anything wrong with a guy knowing what he wants and then going out and choosing who he wants to be with. Robinkynd I agree that successful and attractive are relative terms but a little common sense goes along way. I should have specified that when I said successful and attractive I meant by today's standards. In fact, lets be even more specific. When I say successful, I mean somebody that has found their path in life and is achieving the goals that they set for them self, somebody that has a career or is working towards a career, somebody that is stable and in control of their life, somebody that has a social life that they enjoy and last but definitely not least somebody that is secure and happy in life. When I say attractive, I mean somebody that is healthy, active, in shape, that takes care of them self physically and mentally, somebody that is sure of them self and that knows and feels the fact that they are beautiful (inside and out). Fortunately the world is not as black and white as you make it out to be when you say "there's only happy and unhappy". Anyways, thanks again for taking time to give me your thoughts and opinions so far. I look forward to hearing more.

The-Real-Thing

Joined: 9/18/2005

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I'd like some opinions. Posted: 10/15/2006 10:21:40 PM
I have come to a point in my life where I really want to figure out women so that I can eventually find somebody really special to be with. I would like any and all women especially the ones that consider themselves "high-class" and/or "attractive" to look at my profile and send me some messages about what you do and don't like about it. I'd also like to hear your opinion about what I could change or include on my profile to more successfully attracted quality women. Also, I'm always looking for new people to teach me things and I would really like to become friends with some very successful and attractive women so that I can pick there brains, find out how they tick, and maybe even get a hand with my search for that special somebody.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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No more Mr. Niceguy! Posted: 7/30/2006 2:06:31 AM
I just don't see the problem with being nice if that's who you are. Although the saying "treat'm mean keep'm keen" comes to mind when I think about this subject. Who honestly knows what women want except for maybe other women.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Is trust something that is EARNED? Posted: 6/5/2006 1:39:38 AM
Trust is definitly something that is earned. When you first meet somebody you can think of their earned trust level as zero which for all intesive purposes is pretty good. As you get to know things about their past those things can affect the level of trust you afford the by looking at what kind of person they were. Then as time goes by you will go through different situations with that person which will either build more trust in the person or take the trust away. One thing to remember is that if your trust level drops below zero because of something you do to break another persons trust, it is definitly harder to get back on the plus side of things that it is to gain more trust when you are at zero or higher. This is all just my philosophy on trust though.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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MEN ARE MULTIORGASMIC Posted: 6/5/2006 1:31:36 AM
Tantric sex is amazing and for guys to master having more than one orgasm with out shooting their load isn't as hard as people say it is. There is books about that kinda stuff these days that totally open up the possibilities for more people to experience that kinda stuff.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Friends with a sexual past? Posted: 12/18/2005 11:18:30 PM
So, here's the thing. I'm in a new relationship and I was wondering what most people thought was normal when it comes to friends of the opposite sex and more specifically friends with a sexual back ground. Should you be expected to give up those friends? If so, why? If not, why not? How would you feel about knowing that your girlfriend/boyfriend kept up with friends, casual lovers, and/or ex's?

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Review me! Posted: 11/23/2005 1:37:57 AM
Just want some feed back. I have re-written it a couple times. Not sure if I am happy with stuff I come up with.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Best way to ask... Posted: 11/14/2005 6:53:06 PM
I wouldnt ever go up to a guy eating alone and ask to join him, but I must admit if a guy came up to me and did that I would think he was extremely confident and secure in himself and that would be enticing, but on the other hand he could also come across as desperate and creepy, theres a fine line between the two. But I say kudos to you, even if you had no connection, you took a risk and thats a great thing. The difference between coming across as confident vs desperate and creepy probably completely depends on what the guy looks like! I'm willing to bet that a guy that looks like Tom Cruise and is a total creep would still get the confident lable where as a guy that looks like me and is a totally down to earth and just wants to chat would instantly get the creep lable. I think that's why I have reservations about approaching women that I don't know in those types of situations. Anybody else have thoughts on this?

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Best way to ask... Posted: 11/14/2005 1:06:17 AM
Wow, great show of confidence. I don't know what it is but I don't know if I would ever have it in me to just approach some complete stranger like that. Also if she was exceptionally attractive I think that might make it even harder. I would say that your method was just fine. If you look at the situation, you did get to sit and eat with her and find out if you were at all compatible.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Long Hair On Guys? Posted: 11/14/2005 1:00:01 AM
Hey it aint fair that women can grow it long or crop it in a pixie cut, but we cant... For sure! But it's not that we can't do what we want it's that alot of chicks just arent into it. Ya there are chicks out there that dig it but they are probably close to 1% of all of the girls out there and of that 1% you will find that only maybe 10% are actually interested in the same stuff as you. The odds are just stacked against us long haired guys.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Closure? Posted: 11/7/2005 8:08:16 PM
Don't talk about the ex when you're dating other ladies. You ain't going to get closure if you do that. And you're going to piss off the ladies. DUH! LOL thanks for the tip.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Closure? Posted: 11/7/2005 8:06:29 PM
I think I kinda came accross wrong in my first post. I have lots of self respect and I still speak with my ex on a friendly level. I have no desire to get back together with her because the relationship was tried and tested and did not work out for either of us in the long run. I'm just looking for to have some actual activities suggested that will help me feel better while I am adjusting to being single again. The reason that I have been really having trouble being on my own lately because I was sick with the flu and stuck at home for a while and just as I was getting over the flu I was diagnosed with a pretty bad case of tendonitis in my wrists. So now I am stuck at home again, I can't work, I can't play guitar (which was really helping me cope with the whole being on my own thing), and because I can't play guitar right now my band practices have not been happening which means I'm not getting to hang out with my friends. Anyways, I hope that clears up the question a bit.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Closure? Posted: 11/7/2005 7:35:17 PM
Well, here is the thing, I have been single for a couple months. I'm fresh out of a two year relationship and I can't seem to come to a feeling of closure. I loved my ex and I was pretty happy being with her but I guess she wasn't happy with the amount of time we had together, the quality of the time spent, and my over all attension level to her. At least that was sort of what was alluded to during the split. I gave the relationship my best shot and I think thats why I'm having trouble just being on my own. I guess it's the whole not knowing how being myself and loving competely could have failed? Does anybody have ideas on how to move on and finaly feel like I have got some closure?

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Long Hair On Guys? Posted: 11/6/2005 11:59:20 PM
It's to bad that young ladies these days are so quick to judge based on appearance. I think alot of girls miss out on great guys because they jump to conclusions too quickly based on their first experience (ie: appearance, interests, etc). I guess being yourself isn't quite what our generation has built it up to be but I wouldn't trade the real me in for anybody or anything.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Long Hair On Guys? Posted: 11/6/2005 6:55:15 PM
I was just wondering what women think about guys with long hair? In my experience having long hair is a bit of a negative attribute in the eyes of most women. Your thoughts?

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Standards Too High? Posted: 10/31/2005 10:56:53 PM
I guess the whole reason that I have high expectations is not because I want to hook up with somebody EXACTLY like me but more because I want to find somebody that is an equal and that is at about the same stage of developement as I am so that we can grow together and I don't have to feel like I'm being held back by them.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Standards Too High? Posted: 10/30/2005 11:01:56 PM
SusieDee, that's a really good point. Personally my list includes only qualities which I possess. I am looking for my equal. The Yin to my Yang.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Standards Too High? Posted: 10/30/2005 10:43:32 PM
If I were to find the perfect girl and we fell in love there would be no way that I could walk away from her if she was the victim of a physical disability or an illness. Once you love somebody you love them and I think that being with the people that you love through hard times and sorrow is just part of the package deal. Life doesn't always deal you a great hand but as long as you have a great person to hold that hand with you then you will do just fine.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Standards Too High? Posted: 10/30/2005 9:58:05 PM
Well, here's the thing. Do you think it is possible to have standards so high that you'll never find what your looking for? I personally have pretty high standards but being alone doesn't really bother me because I know that when the right person comes into my life I am ready for them rather being attached to somebody that is leaching the life out of me. Do you think it's to much to ask for somebody to meet up 100% with you list of wants? Personally I look for a girl that is trustworthy, honest, loyal, passionate, creative, physically attractive (to me at least), spiritual, a good communicator, independant, and has some hopes, ambitions, and a sense of direction in her life. Is all that stuff too much to ask? Heck the list might even be longer but that's the main stuff. What are your thoughts?

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Used to be Christian... now against it. Posted: 10/30/2005 12:06:48 AM
Meet God your own way on your own terms. You don't need religion to be spiritual and have a relationship with the Absolute. Your higher self is whispering in your mind all the time just begging to be heard so that your spiritual unfoldment and developement can begin. I was a christian for most of my child hood into my late teens and then I realized that I didn't believe in the christian ideals at all. Check out Buddhism if you want (in my opinion) a much better way of looking at life and reality as it exists today. I'm not say become a buddhist but the ideals are alot easier to swallow than christianity. Check out other stuff to like Quantum Physics and Yoga Philosophy. I have found that coming to your own realization of the Truth is much more full filling than blindly following any religion.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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Ever have someone read your e-mails and don't delete them, but don't reply either?? Posted: 10/29/2005 11:18:47 PM
I'm willing to bet that most people don't reply to the people that are uninteresting to them. In my experience I have sent loads of messages to people, some longer and more creative than others but for the most part they are read and then sit and rot or just deleted with no responce. Maybe it's just me but that doesn't strike me as too out of the normal on this site unless your one of the "pretty people". LOL

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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How long do you usually wait before meeting up with somebody you meet on POF? Posted: 10/27/2005 11:00:06 PM
Ya I was thinking about that whole "laying low" thing. Sounds good. Thanks for the advice.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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How long do you usually wait before meeting up with somebody you meet on POF? Posted: 10/27/2005 10:50:05 PM
That's the thing. I've asked a few different times and I always get some sort of excuse. That's why I'm confused. I get the "Don't worry we will meet sometime" line quite a bit. I'm a very straight forward person that's why I'm asking how long people usually wait because I didn't want to jump to the wrong conclusion.

Machine13

Joined: 9/18/2005

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How long do you usually wait before meeting up with somebody you meet on POF? Posted: 10/27/2005 9:31:05 PM
Hi, I'm new here to POF and I was just wondering what the average amount of time is that people wait before meeting up in real life when they meet on POF? I have met a couple of nice girls, a few of which contacted me first. After talking for 2+ weeks I still have no serious indication that I will ever get to actually meet these people but they still seem interested in talking with me. At what do you move on? Am I wasting my time?

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