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Posted In Forum: All Forums Alabama Alaska Alberta Arizona Arkansas Art/Music Ask A Girl Ask A Guy Australia British Columbia Broken Hearts California Colorado Connecticut Dating & Love Advice Dating Experiences Dating Sites Delaware District Of Columbia Event Hosts forum Florida Georgia Hawaii Health & Fitness Humor Idaho Illinois Indiana Introductions Iowa Kansas Kentucky Louisiana Maine Manitoba Maryland Massachusetts Michigan Minnesota Mississippi Missouri Montana Nebraska Nevada New Brunswick New Hampshire New Jersey New Mexico New York Newfoundland News/Current Events North Carolina North Dakota Nova Scotia Off Topic Ohio Oklahoma Ontario Oregon Over 30 Over 45 Pennsylvania Plentyoffish Get Togethers Plentyoffish Site/Suggestions/Help Poems And Quotes Politics Prince Edward Island Profile Reviews Quebec Recipes & Cooking Relationships Religion/Supernatural Rhode Island Saskatchewan Science/Philosophy Sex and Dating Single Parents South Carolina South Dakota Sports Stories/creative writing Technology and computers Tennessee Testimonials Texas Uk Forums Utah Vermont Virginia Volunteer Moderators Only Washington West Virginia Wisconsin Wyoming Home   login   MyForums   Show ALL Forums      Author  Thread: 2 years, and all of a sudden..  catt2006 Joined: 7/26/2008 Msg: 27 (view)   2 years, and all of a sudden.. Posted: 8/26/2008 9:19:12 PM I feel for you, but there is no way to break up with him without hurting him. If you stay in it you will grow resentment toward him and thats not fair to him either, so either way he gets hurt. And, no you're not a bad person. Our feelings are "our" feelings.  catt2006 Joined: 7/26/2008 Msg: 100 (view)   Would you open you marriage to save it? Posted: 8/26/2008 9:10:44 PM Absolutely I would not. And, that's just my personal choice. If something is going wrong in the marriage, try everything in your power to fix it. By bringing in outsiders into the marriage you run the risk of one of the marital partners developing deep feelings for the person you're bringing into the marriage. If you can't fix it, divorce court can. Just like everyone else said, "I'm not the judge" of them, but its not right for me.   Show ALL Forums