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*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 9 (view)

What catches your eye... Posted: 7/21/2009 2:01:29 PM
I look at the pictures....If I'm not physically attracted to you I don't see the point in taking anything further.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 46 (view)

Is he cheating or not. Posted: 7/15/2009 4:48:27 PM
Go with your gut feeling its almost always right.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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When are you most happiest? Posted: 7/15/2009 3:59:16 PM
I'm happiest when I see a smile on the people's faces that I help everyday at work, and when I see my honey boys (son) expression when I make surprise visits to nanas

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 10 (view)

Do all guys have problems making plans? Posted: 7/15/2009 3:45:21 PM
Never once did I say anything about expecting him to plan something I'm a big girl and can do that on my own in fact there have been a number of occasions when I invited him to do something with me ie: movie/dinner at my place or his or even out, a night out on the town, concerts, camping adventures etc and he has declined. I'm not one of those girls that expects the man to pay for everything either I work for my money and have no problem paying for myself. I have even tryed the last minute activities, and adventures route only to get the same response of " maybe we'll see". UGG I should just listen to the gut feeling that maybe he's just not as into me as he says he is. I just wish he could be honest about it.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 17 (view)

HELP AM I A FOOL!?? Posted: 7/15/2009 3:30:15 PM
Only a month and he is telling you he loves you I would run for the hills if I were you!

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 45 (view)

SO confused- Help Posted: 7/15/2009 3:04:20 PM
You said: "How can someone I was positive loved me, completely cut me out like that? Is it really possible for a guy to lie to someone like that? For months...? What's the point of that?" Of course a person has the ability to lie to someone the "like that". I can't tell you why he cut you out completely, but I can tell you you should be glad that it ended early and not 5 years down the road when a marriage or a child was involved. It may be hard but you need to move on maybe its best to not have a friendship with this person at least not right now........salt on a fresh wound hurts give it sometime and you might just change your outlook on wanting to be friends.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Do all guys have problems making plans? Posted: 7/15/2009 2:49:38 PM
I have been dating someone casually for several months now.We see eachother maybe twice a week. When we are together he tells me how much he has missed me and recently he has even asked me to consider moving with him in January 2010. He works a lot and I have no problems with that, what my problem is is that he will not make plans with me !not for dinner ,not for drinks, not for anything! What is up with this? I have voiced that I have a problem with this but he tells me the same thing " I just don't make plans". I'm about ready to say F U C K I T and tell him I'm over it. How am I going to get to know someone if they are not making an effort to spend time with me? Its almost like he says one thing but is thinking another and I only say this because his actions speak louder then his words. It's rather frustrating! so, my question guys is what would make a man behave in the manner? Could he just be playing games? Keep in mind that he is 35 years old.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 90 (view)

How important is money? Posted: 7/7/2009 1:28:35 PM
I would wait and see if going through a very rough time financially is a pattern for them or if really is a rough time financially. Going through a rough time time financially is understandable its when they show a pattern of going through "a very rough time financially" That would raise a red flag for me. Times are tough and there are all too many freeloaders walking around looking for a hand out these days.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Being financially stable Posted: 5/7/2009 5:19:45 PM
The thing is he is not trying to better his situation financially. He always talks about how he wants a family and such but his GF says no way not until he can bring something to the table other then credibility, personality or character. She has a job and pays for everything when they go out its always been this way even when he had a job. When asked where his money is going since he doesn't pay rent have to buy food or pay for any utilities he only has an excuse. There are plenty of people who are having a hard time and would jump at the opportunity he has right now living rent/ bill free to get some money saved up and get their life back on track . Guess he lacks drive.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Being financially stable Posted: 5/7/2009 4:21:47 PM
Sweetie having a disability is much much more different then being unemployed and not trying.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Being financially stable Posted: 5/7/2009 4:10:27 PM
Would you be with someone if they were 28 years old and not financially stable always lived pay check to pay check , moved back home with mom and dad because he could, and has been living off unemployment for the past 4 months only having tried getting a job 5 or 6 times since he has been unemployed? I have tried to help with a budget for a friend of mine but he is just not interested in bettering his life financially and his GF who is a dear friend of mine is going to leave him because of this. would you stay if you were in her position?

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Are there any karaoke junkies here? Posted: 4/7/2009 11:39:21 AM
Go check out meetup.com there are lots of groups that go and karaoke

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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New Serious Member Feature. Posted: 3/26/2009 1:59:26 PM
I honestly think its retarded that one is considered a serious dater if they pay money................GAY!

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 103 (view)

What do you bring to the table!! Posted: 3/26/2009 1:53:22 PM
Being single I have to bring EVERYTHING to the table Life is not that hard if you know how to play the game.

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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How do I make the dreams go away? Posted: 2/4/2009 4:44:52 PM
If you are sick of following your dreams. Just ask them where they're goin', and hook up with them later

*~misskris~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Dating in las Vegas Posted: 12/9/2008 11:36:54 AM
Share your dating experiences good, bad and the in between........I guess I should go first. I have met a few people and have been noticing a trend here in vegas its very right here right now. And its hard to find genuine people who are not fake!

*~MisskriS~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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What's your sex score? Posted: 11/18/2008 3:01:14 PM
I GOT A BIG FAT ZERO I GUESS THAT MAKES ME A DIRTY BIRDY

*~MisskriS~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Getting to know people Posted: 11/6/2008 3:13:40 PM
Its hard to meet people who are not flakes out here in vegas.

*~MisskriS~*

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Im not even sure what to call this! Intense? Posted: 11/4/2008 1:02:33 PM
Have you ever been in love? Its the most wonderful yet horrible thing isn't it? It makes you blind to almost everything and it makes you so vulnerable. It opens your heart and it means that someone can either get inside and hold your heart gently or hold it carelessly . If you have ever been hurt bad enough you tend to build up defenses you build up a whole suit of armor so that nothing can hurt you, then all it takes is one person, no different from anyother person to wander into your life. Friendship turns into a longing glance which turns in to a kiss which then turns into your huge defence built to guard you heart crumbling. Then you lose all control and your heart is in that persons hands. love takes hostages and when that person is careless with anothers heart it turns into hurt and eats you from the insede out leaving you crying in the darkness. Its almost like a splinter of glass working its way in. It hurts not just in the imagination nor the mind but it hurts in the soul a real gets inside you and rips you apart pain. The moral of my rant is love means pain no matter how hard you try to avoid it it will find you. It dosn't matter where or how you hide your heart its waiting for that right time when it can find a way in!

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 150 (view)

Why do you have sex? Posted: 10/29/2008 4:22:19 PM
a) It feels great b) For the endorphins that are released during orgasm c) The close feeling of being intimate with someone

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 40 (view)

Guys Have You Contemplated or Had a Vastectomey Posted: 10/23/2008 4:26:01 PM
It is WRONG of you to "ecstatically play along" you should be honest! only being 85-90% sure you dont want kids is not reason to get a vasectomy you should be 100%

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Issues with gf Posted: 10/23/2008 3:52:26 PM
she seems like she is not ready for a relationship it might be best to just move on your so young you should be single and experience life. your only a teen once

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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My Ex G/f left, Was I wrong for letting her leave? Posted: 10/23/2008 3:46:10 PM
I think you did the right thing. In no way should she have had her name put on the house especially if you and her were not married and she was not making any kind of payments to help you with the mortgage. Keep your head up even though it hurts just think she might have had something up her sleeve if she got so ticked off about your decision.

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Help! My daughter wants to get married! Posted: 10/16/2008 10:14:57 AM
You should support her and let her figure things out for herself. life is one huge lesson and you can never learn unless you make mistakes.

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 38 (view)

What made you end your relationship? Posted: 10/8/2008 2:05:48 PM
He would not communicate on a regular basis with me and when he did i was attacked with all the things that bothered him . He also thought sending pictures of his dick to X fuck friends when we were still together was just innocent flirting! gosh i cant believe i put up with that sh*it!

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 66 (view)

Not attracted Posted: 10/1/2008 10:17:07 AM
If you love him but your not in love with him then you should end the relationship. you stated that you "cant stand him" then why be unhappy?

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Watch out for this MAN Posted: 9/18/2008 4:57:26 PM
BAHAHAHAHAHAHA OMG that guy is a tard. I would have called him back and arranged a meeting just so i could kick him in the teeth

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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emotional squared circle - do you experience that too? Posted: 9/16/2008 9:44:32 AM
Yeah my Xboyfriend!

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 53 (view)

Boyfriend Cheated, Denied It, Gave me an STD Posted: 9/11/2008 2:12:33 PM
I am so sorry to hear about this happening to you.This guy sounds like a dirty douche bag. and what he did to you is something I hope for your sake you would never forgive him for. If he trys to ask you to forgive him Tell him NO WAY........ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER and who knows HE COULD GIVE YOU SOMETHING THAT WOULD ENDANGER YOUR LIFE AGAIN!

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Get togethers - Circle of friends Posted: 9/10/2008 12:06:40 PM
Kevininlasvegas how would i go about finding meet ups for singles the forms are quiet here .

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Do you help out people with signs at the end of EXIT RAMPS begging for money? Posted: 9/9/2008 2:51:52 PM
I use to give money until i moved to las vegas now i give em a good tip STOP GAMBLING AND BUYING ALCOHOL/DRUGS AND GET A F-ING JOB! i know its harsh but if you lived here you would understand. I do give food though along with my advise

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 79 (view)

Why do men snoop in kitchens? Posted: 9/9/2008 2:18:15 PM
Alot of people hide money in their kitchens...(i saw that on that show it takes a theif)

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 113 (view)

She does not stick her butt out during doggy style.... Posted: 9/9/2008 2:13:27 PM
HAHAHA did you have a club in one hand too

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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What do you NOT like about sex? Posted: 9/9/2008 2:09:30 PM
When it lasts only a few seconds or when im still horney even after an hour of great sex......maybe i should have my sex drive checked out......

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Get togethers - Circle of friends Posted: 9/9/2008 11:33:05 AM
Any get togethers this week?

~*SweetAsASin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Not sure if I should stay or not in this relationship. Posted: 8/31/2008 1:37:54 PM
if you have talked to her about these things that are bothering you and she has made no attempt to improve then you should break up with her it will not be worth it in the long run.

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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When someone tells you they love you..... Posted: 8/29/2008 10:42:11 AM
So i had a little chat with him yesterday and i told him i do not want him to say that he loves me anymore and that it makes me really uncomfortable. he replyed that he was not in love with me but he loved me.I still dont understand how he could. i also told him that if he continues this i will not answer his calls. boy he did not like that very much and he got mad at me. so i said F!@# it and i told him to never contact me again and hung up the phone. so far i have gotten 11 text messages and 24 missed phone calls half were from a blocked number. and 12 voice messages saying how sorry he was and he will never do it again. im over it im just not going to talk to again

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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When someone tells you they love you..... Posted: 8/28/2008 5:22:36 PM
So this guy is telling me he loves me and we have not even met we have been talking for maybe 3 weeks. To me that is a red flag of desperation. I told him it makes me uncomfortable but he still does it. he seems to be a little controlling too. what would be a nice way to say that im not intrested because of these things. should i just not answer his calls/emails anymore?

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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need break up advice Posted: 8/28/2008 5:18:22 PM
Dont answer her calls, emails, if she comes to your house tell her you will call the cops if she dosent go away. you need to not talk to her anymore and get a TRO if you have to. dont feel bad she is just trying to manupliate you

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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I need imput Posted: 6/27/2008 11:21:25 AM
WOW so much negativity form this post. By the way i talked with my BFF who by the way DallasFlier moved to nevada with me and she is doing the right thing by cutting chris off compleatly she also said that she talked with her current man and told him all about the night her and chris hung out. you people make her out to be this women that uses men but really you are jumping to judge and i was in no way ok with what she did and i told her that.

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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I need imput Posted: 6/26/2008 5:11:09 PM
no she did not spend the night they hung out for a few hours they did not do the dirty but she did say they kissed

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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now he is telling her that he will never find another girl like her Posted: 6/26/2008 5:02:30 PM
A few nights ago my best friend saw a guy that she dated a few years ago (we will call him chris) they ended up hanging out all night she told me that the feelings she had for him are still there and that he said the same and now she is questioning her current relationship which is serious. chris and my bff stoped dating because she went back to an x boyfriend. last year when she told chris that she could not see him anymore he told her that he was in love with her but she still dumped him but they stayed friends. after her relationship with her X ended for a second time she droped hints to chris that she wanted to give a relationship a try but the impression she got was that thats not what he wanted. but now he is telling her that he will never find another girl like her and he wants her to move back to california (she lives in nevada now) so they can have a relationship .she asked me for my advise and i really dont know what to say to her so thats why im here any imput would be great

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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What’s the best way to tell a married woman no? Posted: 6/17/2008 10:42:48 AM
Tell her straight out theres no other way .

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Parents getting involved in relationships Posted: 6/13/2008 3:03:49 PM
YOU SHOULD MOVE OUT!!!!!! then your parents cant give you $hit about who you date its not their choice and who are they to judge by saying "you can do so much better" if you ask me thats just F U C K E D UP of them for even saying that they should be happy for you!

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Anyone got back with their EX before?? Posted: 6/13/2008 2:56:56 PM
Yeah I have and it didnt work out. The second time around was just like the first time around execpt the excitment of a new relationship was not there. If you ask me its not worth it an X is an X for a reason.

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 135 (view)

24m goin on date with 17f Posted: 5/30/2008 4:50:12 PM
Remember she is still considered a minor

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 30 (view)

GEMINI'S..........what was your experience? Posted: 5/30/2008 4:48:25 PM
POSITIVE .........and from my experience great in bed

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

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Why do so many people seem to hate cops? Posted: 5/30/2008 4:42:54 PM
Because most cops are****ads with their heads stuck up their a$$

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 44 (view)

Are Breast Implants Lying? Posted: 5/30/2008 4:39:53 PM
I use to work for a plastic surgon so i can spot fake tits from across the room. OT: No i dont think its lying

~*sweetasasin*~

Joined: 9/20/2005

Msg: 71 (view)

What does you car say about........ Posted: 5/30/2008 4:37:01 PM
For the most part this is me. I am not a pack rat and no i dont have energy bars and emergency flares in the back of my ride...lol The car: A fully loaded SUV What the car says about its owner: More often than not, an SUV driver is an organized person who might even be a bit of a paranoid pack-rat, Dr. Orbuch says. “AN SUV driver probably has everything from freeze-dried energy bars to emergency flares in the truck space,” she explains. The 4-wheel-drive tells you that this person wants to be prepared for both emergencies and for spontaneous adventures—a bit of a paradox, isn’t it? Dr. Orbuch notes that this person enjoys control and likes to be at the top of his or her game, whether it be sports, work, family, or trivia and ultimately is a motivated, energetic, and passionate person. What the car says about its owner’s love style: “An SUV driver likely prefers his or her partners to also be organized, although it’s doubtful you can meet their standards in that department,” says Dr. Orbuch. She notes that the driver probably won’t mesh well with partners who lack a zest for life: “This person is looking for someone with a sense of adventure and even a bit of unpredictability—but chances are, he or she will have an extra toothbrush for you in case you forget yours!”

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