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I need some help or advice please!!!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: 8/16/2008 6:14:47 PM | You need to accept that this relationship is over. You got caught up in the games people sometimes play. He canceled a date for a ballgame so you ignored him; so he got back by ignoring you. So the battle begins. Most relationships never surive those games - if they do then they are damaged at best.
The best thing you can do is learn from your mistakes so you don't carry them into the next relationship you have. Someone cancels a date, tell him how you feel. If it becomes a pattern then you need to decide if you are willing to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't honor his commitments. (If in fact he made plans to be with you, communcation breakdown maybe?) Or should you expect better treatment than that? (the answer here is yes, you should)
He delivered the message early on that he wasn't interested; the lack of being available, coming over less and less. He tried to back out gently but the message wasn't received. His trip where you saw the pics with other girls - he had already told you he didn't want a relationship with you before that trip.
None of this is meant to be harsh; I have been there too. It's just time to regroup and make the decision not to make the same mistakes next time.
Good Luck; it will happen for you. | | | |
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