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Octobersixty3

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Why do so many people here feel they're qualified to give advice? [CLOSED Thread] Posted: 1/31/2009 9:50:27 AM
Troll Thread Contents Removed Definition of a Troll Here Acceptable Use & Posting Rules .. I fully expect the Forum Mafia to delete my thread, because : A- I'm not a member of the "forum clique" that runs things around here B- they're losers C- the truth hurts D- they don't want a fresh or opposing point of view E - Troll - Forum Participation Revoked

Octobersixty3

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What's all this about opening the door for ladies business? Posted: 1/30/2009 1:03:19 AM
I ALWAYS open the door for the woman in my life. It's a sign of respect towards her. Can't imagine why a woman would NOT want a guy to open doors for her..

Octobersixty3

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ladies, does it piss you off Posted: 1/29/2009 5:30:14 AM
As well as I know myself and what it takes to get me off, the best "handjobs" of my life have been administered by women I was in a relationship with...I may be able to find a means to an end better than anyone else, but as for the teasing and the pleasure, someone else will do it everytime..It's like the old addage that you can't tickle yourself!

Octobersixty3

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Sex Massage Posted: 1/28/2009 8:16:39 AM
Here we go again...The woman who has no control over her appetite calling someone else a "loser"- [she spelled it wrong] too funny! You're so perfect that you cannot even control your appetite, but a guy who gets masturbatory massages is a loser? Look in the mirror darling, if you can find one big enough to reflect all of you

Octobersixty3

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What name do you call it? Posted: 1/23/2009 9:07:22 AM
Call mine "Gilligan"- cause he's usually getting everyone in a mess and always getting hit on the head..

Octobersixty3

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Do you guys think this is fair? Posted: 1/23/2009 12:54:07 AM
Sorry, but if you've felt the need to break up with this guy 5 TIMES, it should tell you something...He's not the one for you, time to move on... No one, women in particular, should stay with someone that does not do it for them on ANY level of a relationship. Stop settling for less than you want and deserve....

Octobersixty3

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 1/17/2009 12:17:54 PM
If I'm in ,what I am to believe is a monogamous relationship, ANY contact with a person's genitals, other than my partners is cheating. PERIOD.

Octobersixty3

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Is there anything more overrated when it comes to sex than Blow jobs? Posted: 1/14/2009 3:51:56 AM
Guess it never occured to you, that you may simply be "wired differently?" Some guys really get off on anal sex, for me it does nothing.. I'm not taking any shots at you personally but it appears you are in the vast minority on this subject. I've had a few GREAT blow jobs, many good ones, some average ones and some bad ones...But to say that blow jobs in general are overrated is inaccurate in my opinion..It's all about the woman and how concerned she is with giving a good one. I don't assume that the way I performed oral sex on my last girlfriend is going to get my the same results with the next girlfriend... Best summed up this way, communicate to her what you like and remind her that you're not telling her how to give a BJ, you're telling her how to give YOU a BJ.. If she's interested in pleasing you, she'll have no problems learning what you like and doing it accordingly.

Octobersixty3

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complimented or offended Posted: 1/8/2009 8:37:06 AM
Some of the women here are unbelievable! I am not saying that staring for no good reason is acceptable, but when a person dresses in a fashion that is obviously meant to draw attention to themselves, they should accept the fact that men [visual creatures that we are] are going to stare. If I walked down Main street USA with my schlong hanging out, I'd expect people to stare... Don't want people staring, don't draw attention to yourself... All actions come with reactions and in most cases consequences.. Fact of life, accept it

Octobersixty3

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Being open sexually does not make you a SLUT Posted: 1/3/2009 7:28:11 AM
I could not agree with the OP any more...It's about time society allows women to express themselves sexually as opposed to REPRESSING them sexually... Never understood the double standard..A guy who's open sexually is a STUD, a woman who is, is a WHORE... You go girl !

Octobersixty3

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Sex Scenes... Posted: 12/31/2008 5:45:03 AM
What a pig...Not the OP, but the one forum regular who insists on offering advice to everyone else but obviously has no control over her own life, nor appetite

Octobersixty3

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Is oral sex cheating? Posted: 12/21/2008 5:20:49 AM
Anything sexual that you wouldn't normally do in the presence of your partner-and that you know they wouldn't approve of- is cheating. PERIOD

Octobersixty3

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Question for the guys Posted: 12/19/2008 1:27:47 PM
REAL REAL REAL Fake breasts do not "look" right do not feel right do not "move" right... I'd rather be with a woman with SMALL NATURAL breasts than fake ones any day. And, yes I have dated women with small breasts, large breasts, fake breasts... Ladies, I for one think it's VERY SEXY when a woman's breasts sag a bit The fake breast look of skin stretched to the breaking point is NO appeal to me. Not to mention that often they look disproportionate to the body [ because the woman decides to go too large for her frame] or look like half grapefruits stuck on opposite sides of the chest with a huge gap in between. Believe me unless you're willing to pay TOP DOLLAR you will get results similar to these. Any surgeon who will do it for less than $5,000-[cost depending on where in the country you live] will probably not do a very good job. Also there are health concerns connected with implants as they age... I see no reason for the breast implants unless it's in the case of reconstructive surgery or to help a woman with self esteem issues- and even in that case, the woman should realize that she is MUCH more than the size of her breasts [as men should about obsessing about the size of their small penis] Women, learn to love your breasts !!!!!!!!!!

Octobersixty3

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I am a man and I refuse to shave my pubic hair. Posted: 12/17/2008 2:37:10 AM
How in the world does shaving your pubic hair make you "less" of a man? Men who groom are not as masculine? I'm willing to bet that there are many men who groom who could kick your a**, if you want to get into a pissing contest bro...Give it a rest, tkae a deep breath and relax..If you don't want to groom , DON'T- just don't start calling those who choose to of their own free will, less masculine. If trimming the pubes and shaving the scrotum will increase the frequency my lady visits "the boys" I'm all for it. I groom as stated because I like it, not because any woman has demanded it of me, yet still I would take her preference into consideration as most women have taken mine. Sounds to me the issue here is not about grooming habits but your bitterness towards the opposite sex.. Best of luck resolving that so you can go on and once again bask in the joy of making love to a woman !

Octobersixty3

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How long for cunnilingus? Posted: 12/15/2008 2:39:21 PM
There are ways to do it which will not cause you the discomfort you describe... To answer your question, oral sex should be performed on your woman for as long as she desires...I personally cannot get enough of it..

Octobersixty3

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Msg: 76 (view)

Is this dating site to find love or sex????????? Posted: 12/15/2008 2:32:20 PM
As sad as it is, there are many here [mostly the guys] looking for just casual sex. Keep your chin up, there are some genuine guys here who are hoping to find a woman with whom they can have a lifetime of one night stands with...

Octobersixty3

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LAST SEX EVER..B4 U DIE Posted: 12/15/2008 1:37:58 PM
If I'm in a relationship at the time, it's my partner, lover, best friend [all the same person], if I'm not- it's Diane Lane ! {Must Love Dogs, Under The Tuscan Sun}

Octobersixty3

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Q about sex w/girl on top and guy going soft Posted: 12/15/2008 1:35:46 PM
Wish I could help you with this...I love when a woman is on top, among many other positions. Each different position changes the angle of penetration and therefore [for me atleast] the stimulation and sensation..I love this position because you can have eye contact kiss easily, and also have access to her breasts with your hands or mouth and her tushy..Who doesn't love to squeeze a tushy as she slowly rides you?

Octobersixty3

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How long is too long to wait before having sex while dating... Posted: 12/15/2008 1:31:13 PM
For me it's a matter of specific cases. I've dated women for months before becoming intimate, and on ONE occasion slept with a gal on our fisrt date. However in that particular instance I ended up in a monogamous relationship with that gal for 3 1/2 years....When it feels right for BOTH of you is the best time as far as I'm concerned. Don't believe there's any sort of formula or rule..

Octobersixty3

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need more sex Posted: 12/12/2008 1:55:19 PM
The hint that usually works for me is that we're in the same room together.. A woman that needs MORE sex? I think I'm in love...

Octobersixty3

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How often do you men lie to just get sex? Posted: 12/12/2008 6:00:19 AM
No one is going to believe me, but the answer is NEVER. I was raised to respect women. If a woman chooses to have sex with me, I feel honored. What good has ever come from lying, intentionally deceiving another human being?

Octobersixty3

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men disapproving of toys as addition in lovemaking Posted: 12/12/2008 5:08:07 AM
How would the women out there feel if the man they were with pulled out a rubber vagina and started to have sex with that instead of her? Just as men can de-sensitize themselves by masturbating too frequently, women can do the same thing. It can get to the point that ONLY that toy can provide you with orgasm. How about BOTH sexes COMMUNICATING with each other better as to what "does it for them?"

Octobersixty3

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Nipples Posted: 12/12/2008 4:03:13 AM
For me, a woman licking or sucking her own nipples does NOTHING.... I'd much prefer to be doing that for her... Now if she wants to lick my nipples...It's all good

Octobersixty3

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Best position for BBw Posted: 12/5/2008 1:59:06 PM
Pea brained and moronic? My IQ has been tested at 148. Been invited to take a mensa test...What's your IQ sweetheart? You're right though, find a man that's accepting of you as the fat tub of lard you are....I suppose you'd allow a crack addict to continue on their way as well? not healthy By the way, I didn't start the name calling the "BBW's" here have... Truth hurts doesn't it.... It's not my fault you ladies can't control your own appetites... Let's please continue this, because every contradictory response to me proves my point....You're FAT, you know it, and deep down inside you hate yourself because of it. Instead of rectifying the situation though [which would take an effort other than sitting on the sofa eating Bon-Bons], you come up with terms to make your condition acceptable. " Big Beautiful Woman" too funny. Rather a person who lacks the minimal amount of self respect to prevent their body from morphing into what it's become. Hateful words? I prefer the term "tough love", trying to spur people into becoming the best version of the person they can be.

Octobersixty3

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Best position for BBw Posted: 12/5/2008 10:55:39 AM
One other thing...Most heavier women I've "known" seem to retain more of an odor in the pubic region. Could that be because the area is not ventilated well enough because of the fat rubbing against itself? Look, fact is- cellulite is the body's way of saying "my skin is having problems stretching to the proportion that is being asked of it". YEAH-that's beautiful !! Let's cut the politically correct crap and call it what it IS FAT, plain and simple- not big beautiful

Octobersixty3

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Best position for BBw Posted: 12/5/2008 10:51:43 AM
I'll take that bet on who's blood pressure is lower- and who's healthier. Can you even WALK a mile without becoming winded, let alone RUN a mile, non-stop? Keep telling yourself it's a good thing to be medically obese...Look up the definition of that term. You'll find more people fall into that category than you think. As for you're other attempts at insulting me, they're as futile as your attempt to see your feet as you stand on the scale.. Never had a woman bruise up my body with their bones... Little sausage, don't think so... 8 1/2" long, by a girth of 5 1/4" and most big women couldn't feel a liter bottle inside them, I'd imagine. Actually I have had discussions with several women who were at one time FAT, but lost weight, and they all admit sex is better when you're in better shape.....Remember, the first step is admitting you have a problem- which will never happen as long as you continue to vehemently defend your obesity as some sort of a good thing.

Octobersixty3

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Best position for BBw Posted: 12/5/2008 3:39:15 AM
Best position should be in the gym, away from the refrigerator... BBW, too funny as well as a contradiction in terms...And all you "fatties" who will be upset by this post, keep telling yourself that being overweight is HEALTHY too as you deal with high blood pressure, diabetes, hypertension....

Octobersixty3

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do guys like the smell of a woman's natural vagina? Posted: 12/4/2008 12:46:12 AM
Absolutely ! But let's be serious, there has to be some sort of hygiene involved...

Octobersixty3

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nip touching -what are you thinking??? Posted: 12/4/2008 12:44:47 AM
Hey Keep N It Reel, So how big are YOUR nipples?

Octobersixty3

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i don't get it Posted: 12/3/2008 1:36:46 AM
Count me as one who loves to perform oral on my woman. As a matter of fact, if I had to choose just ONE sexual activity to engage in for the rest of my life, performing oral on her would be it, hands down !

Octobersixty3

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to many dates at once Posted: 12/2/2008 4:42:51 AM
Another example of a so-called adult who is so ignorant that they do not know the difference between to/too/two... What's next "than" when it should be "then" ? I went to the store, THEN to my girlfriends... I'd rather have a bottle in front of me THAN a frontal lobotamy ! THEN in refernce to a sequence in time. THAN in regards to a preference of one thing over another Illiteracy in America !!!!! The worst part is these supid people get a vote that counts just as much as an intelligent person's.......

Octobersixty3

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Friends with and EX!!!! Posted: 12/2/2008 4:36:02 AM
Unbelievable ! Did you actually graduate from high school? This must be a joke post, NO ONE can possibly own a high school diploma and mangle the english language the way you did...Sad, very sad.

Octobersixty3

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womens labia (vagina lips) Posted: 12/2/2008 4:26:32 AM
I personally like them big enough to be noticed and sucked on, but not soooo big that they hang half way down to her knees...

Octobersixty3

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Starting to get turned off with shaved women Posted: 11/29/2008 8:38:35 AM
Personally I love it when a woman shaves. Totally clean shaven is the best. I think it 's visually more appealing as well as providing easier access to her vaginal area. Think of it this way..How many women would perform oral sex on their man if the shaft of his penis was covered with hair?

Octobersixty3

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Nude Resort ...Did I cross the line ? Posted: 11/7/2008 8:59:48 AM
Why is everyone so damned uptight about being nude? Forums about nude photos online, nude resorts...Why is it such a big deal? My guess is that most people who have a problem with nudity have issues with their appearance, or buried psychological issues at work..It's JUST a nude body, breasts/vaginas, penis and testicles, get over it ! I've posed nude AND those photos have been posted online for several years now. Hasn't negatively affected my life at all, never costed me a job or prevented me from getting one I want. I look damn good naked and have no problem with it. It's simply not an issue for me..Those who attempt to make me feel guilty or shamed by that are the ones with the issues...

Octobersixty3

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Best position for vaginal orgasm ? Posted: 11/7/2008 8:54:01 AM
This is what's wrong with these forums....No one reads the posts thoroughly. I HAVE ASKED HER. She's NEVER HAD one that way, so how would she know "what works best for her"? And for the morons who insist on taking a serious subject and denegrating an entire gender of women with their reply about "give her your credit card and let her shop online"...You're not nearly as funny or amusing as you think. Keep the asinine replies to yourself please. And YES, I have become accustomed to the woman I'm with to have an orgasm EVERY time we have sex from BOTH oral and intercourse. Guess there are some men here who are jealous of that fact and women who obviously have not been with men [like me] that make it the #1 priority to satisfy the WOMAN and not themselves...

Octobersixty3

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Best position for vaginal orgasm ? Posted: 11/5/2008 10:09:36 PM
Really Einstein? [PLF4YOU]- Ever consider I've done that and she's simply a woman who has never been able to climax from penetration with any guy, but has no problems orally....You're so helpful- try keeping opinions that aren't constructive to yourself

Octobersixty3

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Best position for vaginal orgasm ? Posted: 11/5/2008 9:58:07 PM
We all know women can have clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms. Anyone have any suggestions for the best intercourse positions to maximize clitoral stimulation to facilitate a vaginal orgasm? I'd like a woman I'm with to have orgasms both ways, from oral and from intercourse EVERY time.

Octobersixty3

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how can you tell when you've had good sex ? Posted: 10/29/2008 3:58:24 AM
I know I've just had good sex when I stay hard after climaxing and "jump right back in" so to speak, for more fun....

Octobersixty3

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Was your best sex ever with your best sexual partner ever? Posted: 10/14/2008 7:41:13 AM
Heptone, Sounds like YOU need the new hobby- if all you have to do with your time is post asinine replies to legitimate forum posts....

Octobersixty3

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Was your best sex ever with your best sexual partner ever? Posted: 10/14/2008 6:56:44 AM
We've all hadthat one incredible sexual experience, to say ONE specific sexual encounter that was mind-blowing.. How many people out there will say that the one MIND BLOWING encounter of their sexual lives was with the person who was, over time, the best partner they had sexually? Or was that one incredible encounter a one time deal with a person who WASN'T the best you've had over a period of time?

Octobersixty3

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Im theEX.. Why lie about a girlfriend? Posted: 10/9/2008 3:58:01 AM
You said you're the EX, right? Then be the EX, have NOTHING to do with him, no emails [block him] no phone calls [caller id]- stop being a participant to his crap. Completely and Totally remove him from your life- sounds like he is an ass, but you're a part of this situation because you continue to allow yourself to be..

Octobersixty3

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Nipple colour Posted: 10/9/2008 3:49:27 AM
I prefer the nipples to be slightly darker than the skin tone of her breasts..Just to show the distinction between the two- If you put a gun to my throat and made me choose, slightly darker, but not TOO dark, would be my favorite

Octobersixty3

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oral sex and swallowing cum and why they wont do it Posted: 10/8/2008 2:48:00 PM
I think this question should be a mandatory part of all profiles here on POF..to let a guy know what he's getting, lol Lots of beautiful women here, but I don't think I could deal with some of the sexually repressed ones. I do anything my partner asks to bring her pleasure sexually. period.

Octobersixty3

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Do you think it's degrading... Posted: 10/8/2008 2:37:04 PM
I don't think it's degrading at all, as loong as she's ok with it. If she had said "no way" and you still do it, that's degrading and disrespectful. Most of the women I have been with have been willing recipients. If I date a squirter, she can return the favor... Personally I think it's hot

Octobersixty3

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birthday blow job Posted: 10/8/2008 2:27:05 PM
Do it !!!!! That is sooo hot, wish a gal would surprise me for my birthday like that, which is this Friday, by the way, lol

Octobersixty3

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Unusual Compliments Posted: 10/5/2008 1:57:26 PM
I was told I have the "best" balls ... I have no idea what criteria was used in making that assessment...

octobersixty3

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girlfriend flashing at parties Posted: 10/1/2008 4:35:12 PM
How nice are her boobs? lol She is who she is- my advice is you either accept it WITHOUT compromising who YOU are, or find someone else better suited to yourself. Sound like you wish she were a bit more reserved/conservative. Even if you got her to "tone it down", if that's not who she really is, she'll end up resenting you for it down the line...

octobersixty3

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Naked Pictures on The Internet? Ok or Not Ok? Posted: 10/1/2008 4:25:41 PM
I personally don't see anything wrong with it. There are several websites for posting of nude photos which actually pay prize money to winning contributors, based on votes from people who visit the website and vote. Yes, I've submitted and won. I'm a photographer though and nude photography is an art form in itself. Guess I'm different, I see NOTHING wrong with nudity and am quite happy with my nude appearance. As for whether or not my partner agrees, well- when I did post those photos I was single. If I were to do it again while in a relationship, I'd at the very least let her know I was planning on doing it and hopefully receive her blessing. If she is of the mind set that posting the photos was somehow wrong or "dirty" she's probably not the right person for me. I'm a bit more openminded. Also, I would like to add that under NO circumstances would I ever post photos of someone other than myself on the internet without their written consent/permission.

Octobersixty3

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HOW TO LOOK GOOD NAKED Posted: 9/30/2008 11:42:55 AM
I suggest to any that are self conscious about their nude appearance to visit a legitimate photographer and do a nude session. I used to be shy, but after posing nude on several occasions became MUCH more comfortable. On a side note, I feel an average woman who is truly comfortable with her nude appearance is MUCH sexier than a "perfect 10" with hangups about her body. As for the second question, NO- I don't think society will ever accept ALL body types as attractive.

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